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Hello, my name is Davi, I'm going to tell you how I deal with conflicts according to the

situations I've experienced

What was the problem?

It was at the beginning of 2022, my conflict was with a colleague from my class, named
Victor Hugo Tavares, I had just returned from a school year totally online, I almost didn't
know anyone in my room, and I didn't know him either, so, because he was the most popular
in the room, he decided to make mean comments about my head and about my style of
study.

How did I react?

I also started making malicious comments, but about his mother, consequently leading to a
much greater conflict, but after a while I couldn't stand it anymore, and I went to complain to
the coordinator, consequently he stopped, but was very angry that I demonstrated only my
side of the story, and because he found himself a superior person inside the classroom, a
defeat for him was something embarrassing.
What would you do (would not do) today:

I would try not to curse him, especially his mother, I would try not to lower myself so much to
his level, I would try maybe not to care or try to solve it in a more diplomatic way.

What traits of your personality were visible?

With this conflict I demonstrated to be a very vindictive and angry person, in addition to
getting very easily irritated, I also showed a personality of mine where I always worry about
what others will think, a threat like this left me a little insecure about my appearance.

What are your weaknesses and strengths of a conflict?

My weaknesses are to figure out ways to destroy the other person, to be sad, to go to a fight
for no reason and my strengths are to reflect on my choices, to rethink whether I am right or
wrong and solve problems.
What can you do to improve?

I could control my anger, use my brain more and maybe review my actions to avoid conflicts
again

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