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TRUE/FALSE
1. Movies, music, and television inundate us with stories of what love is, and these stories have a
powerful impact on us.
2. If the relationship is to continue, romantic love usually develops into companionate love.
4. Never jealous, not needing reciprocity, agape love tends to happen in long episodes.
5. Higher levels of manic and ludic love styles are associated with higher psychological health, whereas
higher levels of storge and eros love styles are associated with poorer levels of psychological health.
6. Typically, infatuation quickly fades, often to be replaced with infatuation for someone else!
8. Research has shown that biological factors can influence whom we fall in love with.
9. We are more likely to be attracted and fall in love with someone whose MHC is the same as our own.
10. Our childhood attachment styles stay with us as we grow up and may influence the type of loving
relationships we form as adults.
11. Although we might want to believe that we could meet a complete stranger at a bar and fall madly in
love, the research tells us this scenario is rare.
12. If any area of research in love and intimacy has yielded straight-forward findings, it is the question of
gender differences.
13. Most long-term relationships that end do so not because the couple “fell out of love” but because,
somewhere down the line, they stopped working together on their relationship.
14. We are most jealous in a situation in which a person flirting with our partner has traits we ourselves
want (or we fantasize that they do).
15. One’s gender has been found to have a more powerful impact on love beliefs than one’s culture.
16. Individualist cultures, such as that of China or Japan, traditionally marry for reasons other than love.
17. Researchers found that love is given highest importance in Westernized nations and the lowest
importance in the less-developed Asian nations.
18. Non-White women with higher educations are less likely than are White women with lower educations
to be involved in a mixed-race relationship.
19. A study on the timing of sex in a relationship found that couples who wait to have sex in a relationship
experience better relationship outcomes.
20. Overall, cohabiting heterosexual couples have higher rates of relationship dissolution than cohabiting
same-sex couples.
MULTIPLE CHOICE
1. The all-encompassing, passionate love of romantic songs and poetry, of tearjerker movies and romance
novels is known as ____.
a. romantic love c. companionate love
b. ludus d. mania
ANS: A PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Remember
REF: 7.1 What Is Love?, Textbook
OBJ: LO1: Differentiate between romantic love and companionate love
MSC: TYPE: Easy
3. An intimate form of love that involves friendly affection and deep attachment based on a familiarity
with the loved one is known as ____.
a. storge c. companionate love
b. agape d. romantic love
ANS: C PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Remember
REF: 7.1 What Is Love?, Textbook
OBJ: LO1: Differentiate between romantic love and companionate love
MSC: TYPE: Easy
5. The prevailing model of sexual relationships and marriage in the Western world is ____.
a. mania c. romantic love
b. agape d. companionate love
ANS: C PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Understand
REF: 7.1 What Is Love?, Textbook
OBJ: LO1: Differentiate between romantic love and companionate love
MSC: TYPE: Easy
6. Passionate love, infatuation, obsessive love, and even lovesickness are terms used to refer to ____.
a. romantic love c. mania
b. compassionate love d. ludus
ANS: A PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Remember
REF: 7.1 What Is Love?, Textbook | Video - What is the difference between being in "love" and in
"lust"?, Online OBJ: LO1: Differentiate between romantic love and companionate love
MSC: TYPE: Easy
7. Lovers that speak of their immediate attraction to their lover, to his or her eyes, skin, fragrance, or
body are called ____.
a. storgic lovers c. pragmatic lovers
b. ludic lovers d. erotic lovers
ANS: D PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Understand
REF: 7.1 What Is Love?, Textbook | Video - What is the difference between being in "love" and in
"lust"?, Online OBJ: LO2: Identify and define Lee’s six styles of love
MSC: TYPE: Easy
9. Storge is a quiet, calm love that builds over time, similar to ____.
a. romantic love c. agape
b. companionate love d. mania
ANS: B PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Understand
REF: 7.1 What Is Love?, Textbook OBJ: LO2: Identify and define Lee’s six styles of love
MSC: TYPE: Easy
10. Marriage, stability, and comfort within love are the goal of ____.
a. manic lovers c. ludic lovers
b. pragmatic lovers d. storgic lovers
ANS: D PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Understand
REF: 7.1 What Is Love?, Textbook OBJ: LO2: Identify and define Lee’s six styles of love
MSC: TYPE: Easy
11. Should the relationship break up, the storgic partners would probably remain friends, a status
unthinkable to ____ who have split.
a. erotic lovers c. storgic lovers
b. manic lovers d. ludic lovers
ANS: A PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Analyze
REF: 7.1 What Is Love?, Textbook OBJ: LO2: Identify and define Lee’s six styles of love
MSC: TYPE: Difficult
14. Noel tends to wonder why all his relationships ultimately fail. He is likely a(n) ____.
a. storgic lover c. storgic lover
b. erotic lover d. manic lover
ANS: D PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Apply
REF: 7.1 What Is Love?, Textbook OBJ: LO2: Identify and define Lee’s six styles of love
MSC: TYPE: Medium
15. Michelle wants a deep, lasting love but believes the best way to get it is to assess their own qualities
and make the best “deal” in the romantic marketplace. She is likely a(n) ____.
a. pragmatic lover c. ludic lover
b. manic lover d. erotic lover
ANS: A PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Apply
REF: 7.1 What Is Love?, Textbook OBJ: LO2: Identify and define Lee’s six styles of love
MSC: TYPE: Medium
16. Manik’s lover was faced with a distressing choice between him and another man, and so he gracefully
bowed out. This is an example of ____.
a. storge c. agape
b. ludus d. pragma
ANS: C PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Apply
REF: 7.1 What Is Love?, Textbook OBJ: LO2: Identify and define Lee’s six styles of love
MSC: TYPE: Medium
17. According to Sternberg’s Triangular Theory of Love, passion alone leads to ____.
a. fatuous love c. nonlove
b. infatuation d. liking
ANS: B PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Understand
REF: 7.1 What Is Love?, Textbook
OBJ: LO3: Identify Sternberg’s three building blocks of love and describe some of the ways in which
they can be combined to form different types of love MSC: TYPE: Easy
18. According to Sternberg’s Triangular Theory of Love, empty love involves ____.
a. commitment and passion c. commitment only
b. commitment and intimacy d. intimacy only
ANS: C PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Understand
REF: 7.1 What Is Love?, Textbook
OBJ: LO3: Identify Sternberg’s three building blocks of love and describe some of the ways in which
they can be combined to form different types of love MSC: TYPE: Easy
19. According to Sternberg’s Triangular Theory of Love, passion and intimacy lead to ____.
a. fatuous love c. companionate love
b. consummate love d. romantic love
ANS: D PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Analyze
REF: 7.1 What Is Love?, Textbook
OBJ: LO3: Identify Sternberg’s three building blocks of love and describe some of the ways in which
they can be combined to form different types of love MSC: TYPE: Difficult
20. According to Sternberg, the element that identifies romantic forms of love is ____.
a. passion c. friendship
b. intimacy d. commitment
ANS: A PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Understand
REF: 7.1 What Is Love?, Textbook
OBJ: LO3: Identify Sternberg’s three building blocks of love and describe some of the ways in which
they can be combined to form different types of love MSC: TYPE: Medium
21. According to Sternberg, the emotional investment one has in a relationship, which includes such things
as the desire to support and help the other, happiness, mutual understanding, emotional support, and
communication, is known as ____.
a. friendship c. passion
b. commitment d. intimacy
ANS: D PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Understand
REF: 7.1 What Is Love?, Textbook | Video - The Secret to Staying in Love, Online
OBJ: LO3: Identify Sternberg’s three building blocks of love and describe some of the ways in which
they can be combined to form different types of love MSC: TYPE: Medium
22. Physiological arousal and a sexual desire for another person is known as ____.
a. passion c. commitment
b. intimacy d. infatuation
ANS: D PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Remember
REF: 7.1 What Is Love?, Textbook | Video - What is the difference between being in "love" and in
"lust"?, Online
OBJ: LO3: Identify Sternberg’s three building blocks of love and describe some of the ways in which
they can be combined to form different types of love MSC: TYPE: Medium
23. According to Sternberg’s Triangular Theory of Love, all three elements of passion commitment, and
intimacy are in balance in ____.
a. romantic love c. fatuous love
b. consummate love d. empty love
ANS: B PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Remember
REF: 7.1 What Is Love?, Textbook
OBJ: LO3: Identify Sternberg’s three building blocks of love and describe some of the ways in which
they can be combined to form different types of love MSC: TYPE: Medium
24. Jason had anxious/ambivalent attachments with his caregivers. He often has a ____.
a. negative view of others as an adult and tends to have a difficult time with trust
b. negative view of others as an adult and is uncomfortable with intimacy
c. positive view of himself and others
d. fairly easy time trusting and establishing intimate relationships
ANS: A PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Apply
REF: 7.1 What Is Love?, Textbook
OBJ: LO3: Identify Sternberg’s three building blocks of love and describe some of the ways in which
they can be combined to form different types of love MSC: TYPE: Medium
25. Our first teachers of love and intimacy are our ____.
a. grade school friends c. schoolteachers
b. first lovers d. parents or the adults who raised us
ANS: D PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Understand
REF: 7.1 What Is Love?, Textbook
OBJ: LO3: Identify Sternberg’s three building blocks of love and describe some of the ways in which
they can be combined to form different types of love MSC: TYPE: Medium
26. A set of behaviors that we use to forge close relationships throughout our lives is known as ____.
a. a field of eligibles c. stalking
b. an intimacy repertoire d. a role repertoire
ANS: B PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Understand
REF: 7.1 What Is Love?, Textbook
OBJ: LO3: Identify Sternberg’s three building blocks of love and describe some of the ways in which
they can be combined to form different types of love MSC: TYPE: Easy
27. Many factors have been found to be associated with the ability to find romantic love in adolescence,
such as marital status of the parents, the quality of the parental relationship, and ____.
a. comfort with one’s body c. epinephrine levels
b. academic achievement d. athletic skills
ANS: A PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Understand
REF: 7.1 What Is Love?, Textbook
OBJ: LO3: Identify Sternberg’s three building blocks of love and describe some of the ways in which
they can be combined to form different types of love MSC: TYPE: Medium
28. Neuroscientists have found that men and women who gamble have increased ____ when they are
winning.
a. dopamine c. norepinephrine
b. GABA d. serotonin
ANS: A PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Understand
REF: 7.2 Why Do We Love?, Textbook | Reading - Love: It's All In Your Head, Online
OBJ: LO4: Explain how Schachter and Singer’s experiment using epinephrine with students provided
valuable information on the relationship between physiological arousal and love
MSC: TYPE: Medium
29. Dr. Lim suggests that we love because another person reinforces positive feelings in ourselves—they
make us feel good. She is likely a ____.
a. neuroscientist c. behavioral reinforcement theorist
b. cognitive theorist d. evolutionary theorist
ANS: C PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Apply
REF: 7.2 Why Do We Love?, Textbook
OBJ: LO5: Summarize the behavioral reinforcement theory of love
MSC: TYPE: Medium
30. Lott and Lott found that children who were rewarded continually by their teachers came to like their
classmates more than children who were not equally rewarded. This research supports the ____.
a. behavioral reinforcement theory of love
b. cognitive theory of love
c. evolutionary theory of love
d. three styles of attachment
ANS: A PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Apply
REF: 7.2 Why Do We Love?, Textbook
OBJ: LO5: Summarize the behavioral reinforcement theory of love
MSC: TYPE: Medium
31. Studies have found that when we think certain people like us, we’re more likely to be attracted to
them. This research supports the ____.
a. behavioral reinforcement theory of love
b. three styles of attachment
c. evolutionary theory of love
d. cognitive theory of love
ANS: D PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Apply
REF: 7.2 Why Do We Love?, Textbook OBJ: LO6: Summarize the cognitive theory of love
MSC: TYPE: Medium
32. Love develops through a series of mutually reinforcing activities according to the ____.
a. behavioral reinforcement theory of love
b. evolutionary theory of love
c. three styles of attachment
d. cognitive theory of love
ANS: A PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Evaluate
REF: 7.2 Why Do We Love?, Textbook
OBJ: LO5: Summarize the behavioral reinforcement theory of love
MSC: TYPE: Difficult
33. The paradox that the less people are paid for a task, the more they tend to like it, is the underlying
basis of the ____.
a. behavioral reinforcement theory c. evolutionary theory of love
b. cognitive theory of love d. attachment styles
ANS: B PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Understand
REF: 7.2 Why Do We Love?, Textbook OBJ: LO6: Summarize the cognitive theory of love
MSC: TYPE: Medium
35. Love developed as the human form of three basic instincts: the need to be protected from outside
threats, the instinct of the parent to protect the child, and the sexual drive, according to the ____.
a. attachment styles
b. behavioral reinforcement theory of love
c. evolutionary theory of love
d. cognitive theory of love
ANS: C PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Understand
REF: 7.2 Why Do We Love?, Textbook OBJ: LO7: Summarize the evolutionary theory of love
MSC: TYPE: Medium
36. Love creates the union that maximizes each partner’s chance of passing on their genes to the next
generation, according to the ____.
a. evolutionary theory of love c. attachment styles
b. cognitive theory of love d. behavioral reinforcement theory of love
ANS: A PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Analyze
REF: 7.2 Why Do We Love?, Textbook OBJ: LO7: Summarize the evolutionary theory of love
MSC: TYPE: Difficult
40. Research has found that a child’s attachment style is established by the age of ____.
a. 3 months old c. 9 months old
b. 9 months old d. 12 months old
ANS: C PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Remember
REF: 7.2 Why Do We Love?, Textbook | Animation - Attachment Styles, Online
OBJ: LO8: Identify and briefly describe the three styles of attachment formed by infants
MSC: TYPE: Medium
41. Rachael had an avoidant attachment with her caregivers, and as an adult, often has a ____.
a. positive view of herself and others
b. negative view of others as an adult and tends to have a difficult time with trust
c. negative view of others as an adult and is uncomfortable with intimacy
d. fairly easy time trusting and establishing intimate relationships
ANS: C PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Apply
REF: 7.2 Why Do We Love?, Textbook | Animation - Attachment Styles, Online
OBJ: LO8: Identify and briefly describe the three styles of attachment formed by infants
MSC: TYPE: Medium
42. Infants that tolerate caregivers being out of their sight because they believe the caregiver will respond
if they cry out or need care are called ____.
a. avoidant infants c. anxious/ambivalent infants
b. ambivalent infants d. secure infants
ANS: D PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Understand
REF: 7.2 Why Do We Love?, Textbook | Animation - Attachment Styles, Online
OBJ: LO8: Identify and briefly describe the three styles of attachment formed by infants
MSC: TYPE: Medium
44. Infants that panic when the caregiver leaves them are ____.
a. anxious/ambivalent infants c. avoidant infants
b. secure infants d. inconsistent infants
ANS: A PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Apply
REF: 7.2 Why Do We Love?, Textbook | Animation - Attachment Styles, Online
OBJ: LO8: Identify and briefly describe the three styles of attachment formed by infants
MSC: TYPE: Medium
45. Caregivers who are uncomfortable with hugging and holding infants raise ____.
a. secure infants c. anxious infants
b. avoidant infants d. ambivalent infants
ANS: B PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Understand
REF: 7.2 Why Do We Love?, Textbook | Animation - Attachment Styles, Online
OBJ: LO8: Identify and briefly describe the three styles of attachment formed by infants
MSC: TYPE: Medium
46. Caregivers who tend to force separation on the child at an early age raise ____.
a. secure infants c. ambivalent infants
b. anxious infants d. avoidant infants
ANS: D PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Apply
REF: 7.2 Why Do We Love?, Textbook | Animation - Attachment Styles, Online
OBJ: LO8: Identify and briefly describe the three styles of attachment formed by infants
MSC: TYPE: Medium
48. Adults who have a fairly easy time trusting and establishing loving relationships had a(n) ____.
a. secure attachment in childhood
b. anxious/ambivalent attachment in childhood
c. avoidant attachment in childhood
d. inconsistent attachment in childhood
ANS: A PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Apply
REF: 7.2 Why Do We Love?, Textbook
OBJ: LO8: Identify and briefly describe the three styles of attachment formed by infants
MSC: TYPE: Medium
49. Ariel tends to have a difficult time with trust. He most likely had a(n) ____.
a. anxious/ambivalent attachment c. avoidant attachment
b. secure attachment d. inconsistent attachment
ANS: A PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Apply
REF: 7.2 Why Do We Love?, Textbook | Animation - Attachment Styles, Online
OBJ: LO8: Identify and briefly describe the three styles of attachment formed by infants
MSC: TYPE: Medium
50. Chuck is uncomfortable with intimacy. He most likely had a(n) ____.
a. avoidant attachment c. ambivalent attachment
b. anxious attachment d. secure attachment
ANS: A PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Apply
REF: 7.2 Why Do We Love?, Textbook | Animation - Attachment Styles, Online
OBJ: LO8: Identify and briefly describe the three styles of attachment formed by infants
MSC: TYPE: Medium
51. Researchers talk about the field of eligibles to help explain ____.
a. why we tend to fall in love with people who we think have positive traits
b. the type of loving relationships we form as adults
c. why we fall madly in love
d. why we are surrounded by hundreds of people but are attracted to only a handful of them
ANS: D PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Evaluate
REF: 7.3 Attraction, Textbook
OBJ: LO9: Identify three reasons why we are initially attracted to some people and not others
MSC: TYPE: Difficult
52. The group of people from which it is socially acceptable to choose an intimate partner is called ____.
a. cohabitation c. the socioeconomic group
b. an arranged marriage d. the field of eligibles
ANS: D PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Remember
REF: 7.3 Attraction, Textbook
OBJ: LO9: Identify three reasons why we are initially attracted to some people and not others
MSC: TYPE: Easy
53. An elongated neck is viewed as physically attractive in the Longneck tribe of ____.
a. Vietnam c. Laos
b. Thailand d. Indonesia
ANS: B PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Remember
REF: 7.3 Attraction, Textbook
OBJ: LO9: Identify three reasons why we are initially attracted to some people and not others
MSC: TYPE: Medium
54. The “matching hypothesis” claims that people are drawn to others with similar levels of ____.
a. intelligence c. kindness
b. attractiveness d. a sense of humor
ANS: B PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Remember
REF: 7.3 Attraction, Textbook | Video - Love Science, Online
OBJ: LO9: Identify three reasons why we are initially attracted to some people and not others
MSC: TYPE: Medium
55. When considering a romantic partner, both men and women may be willing to compromise on some
qualities they are looking for in a partner, but not on ____.
a. intelligence c. physical attractiveness
b. financial stability d. humor
ANS: C PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Analyze
REF: 7.3 Attraction, Textbook | Video - Love Science, Online
OBJ: LO9: Identify three reasons why we are initially attracted to some people and not others
MSC: TYPE: Difficult
56. The word intimacy is derived from the Latin word intimus, meaning ____.
a. companionship c. spirit
b. beauty d. “inner” or “innermost”
ANS: D PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Remember
REF: 7.4 Love and Intimate Relationships, Textbook | Reading - Developing Intimacy Skills, Online
OBJ: LO10: Differentiate between love and intimacy MSC: TYPE: Easy
57. Early researchers thought that willingness to self-disclose was itself the definition of ____.
a. intimacy c. friendship
b. passion d. commitment
ANS: A PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Remember
REF: 7.4 Love and Intimate Relationships, Textbook | Reading - Developing Intimacy Skills, Online
OBJ: LO10: Differentiate between love and intimacy MSC: TYPE: Easy
58. The process of being at ease with our positive qualities and forgiving ourselves for our faults is known
as ____.
a. receptivity c. trust
b. listening d. self-love
ANS: D PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Understand
REF: 7.4 Love and Intimate Relationships, Textbook | Reading - Developing Intimacy Skills, Online
OBJ: LO10: Differentiate between love and intimacy MSC: TYPE: Easy
60. The process of acknowledging and understanding that person’s needs, even if you don’t share them, is
known as ____.
a. trust c. respect
b. affection d. self-love
ANS: C PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Understand
REF: 7.4 Love and Intimate Relationships, Textbook | Reading - Developing Intimacy Skills, Online
OBJ: LO10: Differentiate between love and intimacy MSC: TYPE: Medium
62. An emotional reaction to a relationship that is being threatened, and one that is a common experience
in intimate relationships, is known as ____.
a. stalking c. jealousy
b. possessiveness d. dependence
ANS: C PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Remember
REF: 7.4 Love and Intimate Relationships, Textbook
OBJ: LO13: Define jealousy and possessiveness, and explain the negative impact that these emotions
can have on a relationship MSC: TYPE: Medium
63. We are most jealous in a situation in which a person flirting with our partner ____.
a. is similar to us in religion or socioeconomic group
b. is similar to us in race or ethnicity
c. had a secure attachment in childhood
d. has traits we ourselves want (or we fantasize that they do)
ANS: D PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Evaluate
REF: 7.4 Love and Intimate Relationships, Textbook
OBJ: LO13: Define jealousy and possessiveness, and explain the negative impact that these emotions
can have on a relationship MSC: TYPE: Difficult
64. A correlation has been found between self-esteem and jealousy: the lower the self-esteem, ____.
a. the more jealous a person feels and, in turn, the higher his or her insecurity
b. the less jealous a person feels and, in turn, the lower his or her insecurity
c. the more jealous a person feels and, in turn, the lower his or her insecurity
d. the less jealous a person feels and, in turn, the higher his or her insecurity
ANS: A PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Evaluate
REF: 7.4 Love and Intimate Relationships, Textbook
OBJ: LO13: Define jealousy and possessiveness, and explain the negative impact that these emotions
can have on a relationship MSC: TYPE: Difficult
67. Possessiveness indicates a problem of self-esteem and personal boundaries, and can eventually lead to
____.
a. stalking c. serial divorce
b. jealousy d. cohabitation
ANS: A PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Analyze
REF: 7.4 Love and Intimate Relationships, Textbook
OBJ: LO13: Define jealousy and possessiveness, and explain the negative impact that these emotions
can have on a relationship MSC: TYPE: Difficult
68. Relentlessly pursuing someone, shadowing him or her, or making threatening gestures or claims
toward the person when the relationship is unwanted, is known as ____.
a. jealousy c. mania
b. stalking d. agape
ANS: B PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Remember
REF: 7.4 Love and Intimate Relationships, Textbook
OBJ: LO13: Define jealousy and possessiveness, and explain the negative impact that these emotions
can have on a relationship MSC: TYPE: Medium
69. Although Americans often equate love with happiness, the Chinese have equated love with ____.
a. contentment c. kindness
b. sadness and jealousy d. peace and calm
ANS: B PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Apply
REF: 7.4 Love and Intimate Relationships, Textbook
OBJ: LO13: Define jealousy and possessiveness, and explain the negative impact that these emotions
can have on a relationship MSC: TYPE: Medium
70. In the United States, the dating years actually begin in ____.
a. graduate school c. high school
b. middle school d. college
ANS: C PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Understand
REF: 7.5 Dating, Textbook
OBJ: LO14: Describe the two key differences in dating in traditional and contemporary American
society MSC: TYPE: Easy
71. In the 1950s, traditional heterosexual dating involved going out together to ____.
a. get together at someone’s house c. share a fountain drink
b. attend a party on campus d. check out a bar
ANS: C PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Remember
REF: 7.5 Dating, Textbook
OBJ: LO14: Describe the two key differences in dating in traditional and contemporary American
society MSC: TYPE: Medium
72. Living together in a sexual relationship when not legally married is referred to as ____.
a. cohabitation c. companionship
b. arranged marriage d. civil union
ANS: A PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Remember
REF: 7.6 Cohabitation, Textbook | Video - Living Together: Pros and Cons, Online
OBJ: LO16: Compare the advantages and disadvantages of cohabitation
MSC: TYPE: Medium
74. Whereas the median age for first marriage in the United States for men and women was 23 and 21,
respectively, in 1970, these ages increased to ____.
a. 25 for men and 23 for women by 2010
b. 28 for men and 26 for women by 2010
c. 30 for men and 28 for women by 2010
d. 32 for men and 30 for women by 2010
ANS: B PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Remember
REF: 7.6 Cohabitation, Textbook | Video - Living Together: Pros and Cons, Online
OBJ: LO18: Summarize the current trends in marital rates and three factors that affect them
MSC: TYPE: Easy
77. In arranged marriages, partners are chosen by parents, relatives, friends, and matchmakers based on the
prospective partner’s finances, family values, status, and ____.
a. kindness c. athletic skills
b. perceived compatibility d. physical appearance
ANS: B PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Understand
REF: 7.7 Heterosexual Marriage, Textbook | Reading - Arranged Marriages, Online
OBJ: LO20: Differentiate between arranged and forced marriages, and cite one country in which each
is still practiced MSC: TYPE: Medium
78. Cash or gifts for the groom, or the groom’s family at the time of the marriage, is known as a ____.
a. dowry c. offering
b. covenant d. sacrifice
ANS: A PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Remember
REF: 7.7 Heterosexual Marriage, Textbook | Reading - Arranged Marriages, Online
OBJ: LO20: Differentiate between arranged and forced marriages, and cite one country in which each
is still practiced MSC: TYPE: Medium
79. Those who cheat in intimate relationships have been found to have ____.
a. less permissive sexual values
b. more satisfaction in their intimate relationship
c. less opportunities for sex outside the relationship
d. stronger sexual interests
ANS: D PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Analyze
REF: 7.8 Marital Sex, Textbook
OBJ: LO21: Describe the current trends in U.S. marital sex and expectations of sexual exclusivity
MSC: TYPE: Difficult
80. An “ethically non-monogamous” relationship in which the partners engage in loving, sexual
relationships with more than one person at a time is known as ____.
a. serial divorce c. a civil union
b. a covenant marriage d. polyamory
ANS: D PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Understand
REF: 7.8 Marital Sex, Textbook | Reading - What is Polyamory?, Online
OBJ: LO21: Describe the current trends in U.S. marital sex and expectations of sexual exclusivity
MSC: TYPE: Easy
85. Research has found that more than 90% of extramarital affairs occur because of ____.
a. unmet emotional needs within the relationship
b. sexual desire
c. cruelty (either physical or mental) from their partner
d. alcoholism or mental illness
ANS: A PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Apply
REF: 7.8 Marital Sex, Textbook
OBJ: LO22: Identify gender differences in extramarital sexual behavior and attitudes in the United
States and other cultures MSC: TYPE: Medium
86. Extramarital sex is considered a grave transgression in Islam and, according to the Koran, is
punishable by ____.
a. life imprisonment c. death
b. 25 year imprisonment d. 100 lashes for both partners
ANS: D PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Remember
REF: 7.8 Marital Sex, Textbook | Reading - Extramarital Sex in Other Cultures, Online
OBJ: LO22: Identify gender differences in extramarital sexual behavior and attitudes in the United
States and other cultures MSC: TYPE: Easy
87. Adultery is tacitly accepted as a fact of life in a number of Muslim societies, such as in ____.
a. the Philippines and Pakistan c. Africa and Pakistan
b. Pakistan and Indonesia d. Africa and Indonesia
ANS: C PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Understand
REF: 7.8 Marital Sex, Textbook | Reading - Extramarital Sex in Other Cultures, Online
OBJ: LO22: Identify gender differences in extramarital sexual behavior and attitudes in the United
States and other cultures MSC: TYPE: Easy
88. In the U.S., the first state to legalize civil unions was ____.
a. Hawaii c. Maine
b. Vermont d. Colorado
ANS: B PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Remember
REF: 7.9 Same-Sex Relationships, Textbook | Reading - In Support of Same-Sex Marriage, Online
OBJ: LO23: List and describe the three legal forms of same-sex relationships in the United States
MSC: TYPE: Medium
89. A legal union of a same-sex couple, sanctioned by a civil authority, is known as a(n) ____.
a. civil union c. arranged marriage
b. covenant marriage d. cohabitation
ANS: A PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Understand
REF: 7.9 Same-Sex Relationships, Textbook | Reading - In Support of Same-Sex Marriage, Online
OBJ: LO23: List and describe the three legal forms of same-sex relationships in the United States
MSC: TYPE: Medium
90. As of 2011, same-sex marriage was legal in Massachusetts, Connecticut, Iowa, Vermont, New
Hampshire, New York, and ____.
a. Nevada c. the District of Columbia
b. Maryland d. Illinois
ANS: C PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Understand
REF: 7.9 Same-Sex Relationships, Textbook | Reading - In Support of Same-Sex Marriage, Online
OBJ: LO23: List and describe the three legal forms of same-sex relationships in the United States
MSC: TYPE: Medium
91. As of 2010, same-sex marriage was legal in Belgium, Canada, Denmark, the Netherlands, South
Africa, Spain, Norway, Sweden, Portugal, Iceland, and ____.
a. United States c. Indonesia
b. Japan d. Argentina
ANS: D PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Remember
REF: 7.9 Same-Sex Relationships, Textbook | Reading - In Support of Same-Sex Marriage, Online |
Animation - Timeline: Same-Sex Relationships Around the Globe, Online
OBJ: LO23: List and describe the three legal forms of same-sex relationships in the United States
MSC: TYPE: Medium
94. A divorce law that allows for the dissolution of a marriage without placing blame on either of the
partners is known as a ____.
a. covenant divorce c. no-fault divorce
b. serial divorce d. civil divorce
ANS: C PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Remember
REF: 7.11 Divorce, Textbook | Video - Divorce: Betrayal and Sadness, Online
OBJ: LO25: Compare cultural attitudes toward divorce in the United States and other developed
countries with those of predominantly Roman Catholic and Islamic countries
MSC: TYPE: Easy
95. A marriage that is preceded by premarital counseling and has strict rules about divorce is known as
____.
a. cohabitation c. an arranged marriage
b. a covenant marriage d. civil union
ANS: B PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Remember
REF: 7.11 Divorce, Textbook | Video - Divorce: Betrayal and Sadness, Online
OBJ: LO25: Compare cultural attitudes toward divorce in the United States and other developed
countries with those of predominantly Roman Catholic and Islamic countries
MSC: TYPE: Easy
96. In Egypt, the most common reason given for divorce is ____.
a. infidelity by the husband
b. in-law interference
c. the husband’s physical, sexual, or verbal abuse; alcoholism; mental illness
d. cruelty (either physical or mental) from their partner
ANS: A PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Remember
REF: 7.11 Divorce, Textbook | Video - Divorce: Betrayal and Sadness, Online
OBJ: LO25: Compare cultural attitudes toward divorce in the United States and other developed
countries with those of predominantly Roman Catholic and Islamic countries
MSC: TYPE: Medium
97. Among the Hindus of India, the most common reason for divorce is ____.
a. an extramarital affair of the husband
b. the husband’s physical, sexual, or verbal abuse; alcoholism; or mental illness
c. in-law interference
d. cruelty (either physical or mental) from their partner
ANS: D PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Remember
REF: 7.11 Divorce, Textbook | Video - Divorce: Betrayal and Sadness, Online
OBJ: LO25: Compare cultural attitudes toward divorce in the United States and other developed
countries with those of predominantly Roman Catholic and Islamic countries
MSC: TYPE: Easy
99. In China, more than 70% of divorces are initiated by women, and the main reason given is ____.
a. an extramarital affair of the husband
b. the husband’s physical, sexual, or verbal abuse; alcoholism; or mental illness
c. cruelty (either physical or mental) from their partner
d. in-law interference
ANS: A PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Remember
REF: 7.11 Divorce, Textbook | Video - Divorce: Betrayal and Sadness, Online
OBJ: LO25: Compare cultural attitudes toward divorce in the United States and other developed
countries with those of predominantly Roman Catholic and Islamic countries
MSC: TYPE: Medium
100. The practice of divorce and remarriage, followed by divorce and remarriage, is known as ____.
a. serial divorce c. separation
b. no-fault divorce d. annulment
ANS: A PTS: 1 DIF: Bloom's: Understand
REF: 7.11 Divorce, Textbook | Video - Divorce: Betrayal and Sadness, Online
OBJ: LO26: Describe the two main types of personal problems resulting from divorce
MSC: TYPE: Medium
SHORT ANSWER
ANS:
Companionate love involves feelings of deep affection, attachment, intimacy, and ease with the
partner, as well as the development of trust, loyalty, acceptance, and a willingness to sacrifice for the
partner.
ANS:
Erotic lovers speak of their immediate attraction to their lover, to his or her eyes, skin, fragrance, or
body. Most have the picture of an ideal partner in their mind, which a real partner cannot fulfill.
3. Explain how Schachter and Singer’s experiment using epinephrine with students provided valuable
information on the relationship between physiological arousal and love
ANS:
In a famous experiment, Schachter and Singer (1962) gave students a shot of epinephrine (adrenaline),
which causes general arousal, including sweaty palms, increased heart rate, increased breathing, and so
on. Some of the students were informed of what to expect from the epinephrine; others were not.
Each group was put into a waiting room with a student who was acting happy or a student who was
acting angry. When they felt aroused, the informed students assumed they were feeling the effects of
the epinephrine. However, the uninformed students tended to believe they were feeling happy or
angry. Schachter and Singer concluded that an emotion happens when there is general physiological
arousal for whatever reason and a label is attached to it—and that label might be any emotion.
ANS:
Behavioral reinforcement theory suggests that we like people we associate with feeling good and love
people if the association is very good. Love develops through a series of mutually reinforcing
activities.
ANS:
Research on pheromones and sexual orientation has found that homosexual men and heterosexual men
respond differently to odors that are involved in sexual attraction, with homosexual men responding in
similar ways as heterosexual women (Savic et al., 2005).
ANS:
Love relationships can last many years. As time goes by, love and relationships grow and change, and
trying to maintain a sense of stability and continuity while still allowing for change and growth is
probably the single greatest challenge of long- term love relationships.
Attaining intimacy is different from loving. We can love our cat, our favorite musician, or a great
leader, but intimacy requires reciprocity—it takes two. Intimacy is a dance of two souls, each of whom
must reveal a little, risk a little, and try a lot. In some ways, therefore, true intimacy is more difficult to
achieve than true love because the emotion of love may be effortless, whereas the establishment of
intimacy always requires effort.
7. Identify at least one question related to personal values and motivations that an individual should
consider before deciding to engage in a sexual relationship.
ANS:
1. Have you clarified your values? What role does love play in your sexual decisions? How will you
reconcile these values with those you have learned from your family, friends, and religion?
2. Are you being honest with yourself? What do you really want out of this encounter? Out of this
person? Are you hoping the sexual contact will lead to something deeper, or are you in it simply for
the sex?
3. Are you being honest with your partner? Why is your partner interested in sex with you? Do his or
her expectations differ from yours? Will she or he be hurt if your relationship does not develop
further?
8. Jealousy can have a negative impact on a relationship. How can jealousy be contained?
ANS:
Jealousy can be contained by trying to improve one’s own self-image, by turning it around into a
compliment (not “she’s flirting with other guys” but “look at how lucky I am—other guys also find her
attractive”) and by trusting one’s partner. Communicating with your partner about your jealous
feelings can often help to maintain your relationship (Guerrero & Aff, 1999). Opening up and talking
about your uncertainty about the relationship or reassessing the relationship can help restore and
strengthen the relationship.
ANS:
First, the sexual revolution has changed society’s attitudes about sexuality, making casual sex more
acceptable. In addition, college women report having more negative appraisals of college men,
engaging in fewer traditional dates, and being less likely to have a college boyfriend (Uecker et al.,
2010).
ANS:
Cohabitation allows couples to learn more about each other’s habits and idiosyncrasies, share finances,
and mature in their relationship. Yet there are potential disadvantages. Parents and relatives may not
support the union, and society as a whole tends not to recognize people who live together for purposes
of health care or taxes. Also, the partners may want different things out of living together: One partner
may view it as a stronger commitment to the relationship, whereas the other sees it as a way to have a
more accessible sexual partner.