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Wnslruct Criticism. Simply: ,,' An Dd"'l.siv " DCR Nsi 'E Find Tak
Wnslruct Criticism. Simply: ,,' An Dd"'l.siv " DCR Nsi 'E Find Tak
Whal dot'S it ,,'~an tu IJe dd"'l.Siv~" A dcr~nsi>'e I, ader is une whu find~
it difficull I" tak~ dire<;ti"n, eUrre<!tlon, advice, fIr wnslructive criticism.
The individual may get upset and angry, but it is more Ihan likely that he
will simply explaJn and justiry his IJehavior with ratiunalizations, excuses,
and reasons , Whal he eannot do is say, "I an, wrong and need to make a
COIT<'Cllon. -
V", a uader, the problem ""id, ocinll dde""h'c is Ihat nothing can
change if tlw preSt'nl C"Ul"le i~ a lways d~rended, ",'en Ih"ugh il is ,n"ving
the trader in Ihe wrong direcW>II ,
• V,,'" ~ m o~t irnl''' 'Ulnl ,cJ ll(.ion ~hil'S wilt ~" rrcr. The I",,-,ple y"u
work anri Ii"e wilh n<>ed to lie alM to tell you when "u"wthing is wrong
or if ",,,neth ing is bothering the,,,. Iflhey cannot get you to hear them
l>ecause you are defending the stalus <lUO, they will e,·entually Slop try-
ing. Wh"n Ihey stop trying, they wiU shut you "uL F"r a trader, the ,ita!
linN< "r commullicati"" and 8UPJ"'" ..-ill ..-lIhe, and die.
When yo" admit Ihat yuu ha\'(' mad<" a miswkc " f tloa! Y"U nred
lu in'pro>'e a situation, II,,· p<-"-'Ple whu broughl you ttw prubl{'", will
imme<\iately stop their {'riti eL<"" aflack, or presentation , You ha,'e ad·
dres.'H!d Ihe .."""plaint and ""w e\'e,yone is on the !<alne teanL The
words, -You are right!- mend fencO'S, build support and tean, SPirit,
and lead to compromise .
• Yo" r Iradin g will no t imp","c, Nu traMr should """"iMr ]umsdf
incapable uf leaming U' improving, To fail 10 irrrprove meanS thai yo"