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4. †ckv I †bkv - My life, My decision! 9
5. Pjyb wb‡R‡K GKUz fv‡jv `v‡gB wewµ Kwi! Sell Yourself! 12
6. Attacking your Career Crisis- K¨vwiqvi µvBwmm‡K
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21. K¨vwiqv‡ii AmyL 46
22. wek¦we`¨vj‡q covïbvi mgq Kv‡j 7wU KvR Ki‡j fv‡jv 49
23. K¨vwiqv‡ii †bŠKv 50
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25. Wªc AvDU/wmwRwcG WvDb- Problem or Challenge
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27. PvKzwii Rb¨ K‡ZvUv ˆZwi Avgv‡`i †Q‡j‡g‡qiv? 57
28. Run after your passio 59
29. PvKzwi ‡M‡j Dcvq Kx? Breaking Career vicios Cycle 61
30. `viæY K¨vwiqvi cø¨vb:The English Car Career Model 63
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Ki‡Z n‡e| jv¸K AviI 2/3 eQi| wb‡Ri Kv‡bKkbm evovI, wb‡Ri `¶Zv
evovI|

mviv c„w_ex‡Z 1 bv¤^vi `¶Zv wmwRwcG bq, Zvi bvg ÔKwgDwb‡Kkb w¯‹jmÕ ev
†hvMv‡hvM `¶Zv| `ywbqvi me mvd‡j¨i g~j inm¨ n‡jv GB †hvMv‡hvM `¶Zv|
†hvMv‡hvM `¶Zv Kx K‡i ? †Kb GwU Avm‡j `ywbqvi †miv `¶Zv?

KviY GwU ˆZwi K‡i Kv‡bKkbm, evwo‡q †`q †bUIqvwK©s|


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wec‡` gvby‡li wbwðZ mv‡cvU© †c‡Z n‡j, fv‡jv e¨emv †c‡Z n‡j me‡P‡q
¸iæZ¡c~Y© welq n‡jv †hvMv‡hvMvi `¶Zvi wmwRwcG!

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hvi h‡Zv Kv‡bKkbm, †m Z‡Zv mdj K_v Lye cwi®‹vi| wKš‘ covïbvi †P‡qI
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`¶Zv| me‡P‡q KwVb KvR †Zv AvPi‡Y e`‡j †djv - AvPiY fv‡jv bv Ki‡Z
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mgqUv‡K bó K‡iv bv cvwj‡q hvIqv gvbylwU‡K †f‡e|

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Zvi Rb¨ †Zv wKQy AR©b Ki‡Z n‡e| †f‡e †f‡e mgq bó Ki‡j †Zv n‡e bv|

†hŠe‡bi 4 eQ‡i covïbv wKsev 4 eQ‡ii fv‡jvevmvi e¨_©Zv evwK 40-50 eQ‡ii
fvM¨‡K wbqš¿Y Kivi †Kvb AwaKvi iv‡L bv|

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A_©bxwZwe` Av‡Q GB †h evsjv‡`k †_‡K cÖ‡KŠkjx‡`i 90% †`k †Q‡o P‡j hvq
MZ 40 eQi hveZ GgbB n‡”Q, Zv‡Z Kx Av‡m hvq? wK”Qy Av‡m hvq bv|

†Zvgvi †kÖôUv nq‡Zv Ab¨ wKQy‡Z Av‡Q| †Kvb iKg †gwWK¨v‡j ev ey‡q‡U ev
wek¦we`¨vj‡q †_‡K cvk K‡i nvRvi nvRvi gvbyl wgwWI‡Kvi ev wbivb›` Rxeb
hvcb Ki‡Q|

Zzwg †hUv‡Z Avb›` cvI, †Zvgvi †mivUv w`‡Z cv‡iv, †mUv‡Z Zzwg fv‡jv Ki‡eB|
fzj n‡Z cv‡i ey‡q‡U c‡o, †gwWK¨v‡j c‡o, XvKv we`¨vj‡q c‡o, fzj A‡bK
wKQy‡ZB n‡Z cv‡i|

†Kvb fy‡jiB AwaKvi †bB - †Zvgv‡K AvUwK‡q ivLvi|


†Kvb fy‡ji AwaKvi †bB - †Zvgvi AmvaviY fv‡jv gvbyl nIqvi Rb¨|
†Kvb fy‡ji AwaKvi †bB - †Zvgv‡K mviv Rxeb Nvwb Uvbvi GK †N‡qwg KvR
Kiv‡bvi|
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†Kvb fy‡ji AwaKvi †bB - GB `ywbqv‡Z †Zvgvi †kÖôUv †`qvi Ges cvIqvi evuav
nIqvi|
†Kvb fy‡ji AwaKvi †bB - †Zvgvi †miv ¯^cœ¸‡jv‡K Ac~Y© K‡i ivLvi|
†Kvb fy‡ji AwaKvi †bB - GKUv PgrKvi cwievi cvIqvi ¯^cœ †_‡K ewÂZ Kivi|
†Kvb fy‡ji AwaKvi bvB - GB Rxeb †_‡K †Zvgvi hv cvIqvi, Zv †_‡K ewÂZ
Kivi|

KviY, Zzwg GK Abb¨ gvbyl, Zzwg Rv‡bv Kxfv‡e Ny‡i `vov‡Z nq|

ïay Rvb‡Z n‡e, wb‡Ri †kÖôUv Kxfv‡e w`‡Z nq, †mB `¶Zv AR©b Kivi cÖvYcb
wØZxq jovBUv Ki‡Z n‡e| cÖ_g jovBUv (fyj covïbv ev fyj Rxebmv_x) fyj n‡Z
cv‡i, †mB jovB †_‡K Zywg Rxe‡bi Mfxi Dcjwä †c‡Z cv‡iv mevi Av‡M|

GKUv `y‡Uv fy‡ji Kvi‡Y †Zvgv‡K GKUv wØZxq jovB Ki‡Z n‡Z cv‡i| †mB
jovB‡Z Rqx n‡j Zzwg mevB‡K Qvwo‡q †h‡Zv cv‡iv|

wb‡Ri g‡Zv K‡i GKUv †Rvk jvBd wjW Kivi AwaKvi †Zvgvi Av‡Q - †mB
AwaKvi Zzwg wmwRwcG Avi fv‡jvevmvi fyj gvby‡li nv‡Z w`‡Z cv‡iv bv, †mB
AwaKvi GKvšÍ †Zvgvi|

G Rxeb †Zvgvi, Rxe‡bi ¯^cœ¸‡jv †Zvgvi| bk¦i GB `ywbqvi GKUv cÖvYešÍ †Rvk
jvBd wjW Kiv †Zvgvi AwaKvi Ges Zv m¤¢e|

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†ckv I †bkv - My life, My decision!
d‡ib A¨v‡dBqv‡m© 1 eQi PvKzwi K‡i †Q‡o w`‡jb ey‡qU cvk cÖ‡KŠkjx| KvR
Ki‡Qb †`‡ki Ab¨Zg †miv †UwjK‡gi GBP Avi Gi cÖavb wnmv‡e|

GUvB n‡jv Rxe‡bi †miv wm×všÍ| Rxeb GKUvB| †jv‡Ki Kv‡Q `vgx n‡Z wM‡q
evuP‡Z n‡e?

†`‡ki AšÍZ 10 Rb bvwg`vgx GBP Avi G·cvU© Av‡Qb hviv cÖ‡KŠkjx| NUbv
n‡jv Avgiv Zv Rvwb bv A‡b‡KB! Zv‡`i wjWviwk‡c †mBme ms¯’v¸‡jv U¨v‡j›U
nv‡›U `viæY GwM‡q Av‡Q|

GKUv mg‡q †`k Mwie wQ‡jv| gvÎ 300 Wjv‡ii †`k wQ‡jv| GLb AšÍZ Zvi
†P‡q 5 ¸Y fv‡jv AvwQ|

Zvn‡j †mB Mwiex a¨vbaviYv‡K bZzb K‡i fvevi mgq n‡q‡Q bv? `ywbqv e`‡j
hv‡”Q, Avgiv wK e`jv‡ev bv?

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Pvwc‡q †`qv fvebv¸‡jv‡K P¨v‡jÄ Ki‡Z n‡e| cwiev‡ii Mwiex `~i Ki‡Z GK
mg‡q Wv³vi, BwÄwbqvi nIqvi weKí Lye GKUv wQ‡jv bv GB †`‡k| msmvi¸‡jvI
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A‡bK fvB‡evb‡`i †jLvcovi LiP †hvMv‡Z n‡e!

Rxeb wKš‘ GKUv| Avcwb †h cwRk‡b Av‡Qb - GKevi cÖkœ Kiæb, †mUvB wK Rxe‡b
†P‡qwQ‡jb? hw` hv †P‡qwQ‡jb, ZvB n‡q‡Qb, Z‡e Avjnvg`ywjjvn|

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"†eZb A‡bK cvB, fv‡jv RvqMvq _vwK, `vgx GKUv A¨vcvU©‡g›U Av‡Q,
Avivg`vqK GKUv MvwoI Av‡Q| Av‡Q meB| wKš‘ Avwg GB Rxeb PvB wb! e¨vswKs
Avgvi †Kvbw`bB fv‡jv jv‡M wb| Avwg GLb Avwg hv Ki‡Z †P‡qwQjvg, ZvB
Ki‡Z PvB| Kxfv‡e Zv m¤¢e? "

Avwg Zv‡K m¨vwjDU RvbvB| Dwb †gvUvgywU Uª¨vK †PB‡Äi mgq Av‡Q Ggb GKUv
mg‡qB †mB †evaUv wdj K‡iwQ‡jb|
mviv `ywbqvi GiKg jvL jvL D`vniY Av‡Q| gvbyl Zvi cÖ_g K¨vwiqvi cvj‡U
wb‡q‡Q, wb‡Ri g‡Zv K‡i evuP‡Z|
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1710 Wjv‡ii †`‡k K¨vwiqvi P‡q‡m fzj n‡ZB cv‡i| Z‡e mgq _vK‡Z
e`jv‡bvI hvq! 1710 Wjv‡iB GLb A‡bK eûgyLx my‡hvM ˆZwi n‡q‡Q| 2/3
eQ‡ii GKUv †cÖcv‡iBkb wb‡j wb‡R hv †P‡qwQjvg, †hfv‡e evuP‡Z †P‡qwQjvg -
†Zgb GKUv Rxeb hvc‡bi †Póv mdj nIqvi m¤¢vebv GLb A‡bK †ewk|

A‡b¨i Kv‡Q eo nIqvi wKQy bvB| Avwg cywj‡k PvKzwi cQ›` Kwi bv, wKš‘ GGmwc
n‡q ïiæ K‡i w`jvg! Avwg nq‡Zv wk¶KZv cQ›` Kwi bv, wKš‘ KiwQ wk¶KZv!
Avwg nq‡Zv n‡Z †P‡qwQjvg A_©bxwZwe`, njvg Wv³vi!

Rxeb GKUv| †hgb †P‡qwQ, †Zgwb hvcb K‡i hv‡ev| d‡UvMÖvdvi n‡q Rxeb hvcb
K‡i PvB, ZvB n‡ev| †L‡jvqvi n‡Z PvB, ZvB n‡ev| GKUv †i‡÷Šiv›U w`‡Z PvB,
ZvB w`‡ev| Wv³vi n‡Z PvB, ZvB n‡ev|

A‡b¨i Kv‡Q eo n‡Z wM‡q me‡P‡q eo `y‡Uv welq nvwi‡q †dwj - A‡b¨i Kv‡Q eo
n‡Z wM‡q Avgiv we‡q Kwi mgv‡Ri K¬vm ey‡S! Avi 1710 Wjv‡ii †`‡k
†kÖwYfvebv c‡` c‡` wUhy³| Zvi g‡Zv K‡i Pj‡j Rxe‡b AcÖvwß A‡bK †ewk n‡e|

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gviæb K¬v‡m| hw` wbwðZ nb, hv‡K cQ›` n‡q‡Q, Zvi mv‡_B Avcbvi gb hvq,
†mLv‡bB Avjnvg`ywjjvn| mgvR Kx ej‡jv fvevi `iKvi †bB| Avcbvi fv‡jv
_vKvB me‡P‡q eo K_v!

wVK we‡qi g‡Zv †ckvi †¶‡Î AviI eo fzj Kwi| LvjvZ †evb Wv³vi, ZvB
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GBme wbgœgv‡bi wPšÍv †_‡K we‡q Avi †ckv‡K gy³ ivL‡Z n‡e|
cÖ‡Z¨‡Ki GKUv †bkv Av‡Q, fv‡jv jvMvi RvqMv Av‡Q|

†mB †bkvq †j‡M _vK‡j †mB RxebwU Avcwb hvcb Ki‡Z cvi‡eb, wVK †hgbwU
Avcwb †P‡q‡Qb|

evsjv‡`‡ki gvbyl †ewkifvM Bs‡iwR ej‡Z cv‡i bv †Kb Rv‡bb? `yB wZb gvm fzj
cÖvKwUm Ki‡j †jv‡K nvmvnvwm Ki‡e, ïay GB f‡q jvL jvL gvbyl wkL‡Z cv‡i
bv| A_P †jv‡K Kx †Nvovi wWg Kx ej‡jv, Gme †Kqvi bv K‡i ïay `yB wZb gvm
fzjfvj e‡j †h‡Z _vK‡j †mB gvbyl¸‡jvI AevK n‡Zv Zvi Bs‡iwR ï‡b|

†Zgwb Avcwb Avcbvi g‡Zv K‡i †ckv evQvB Ki‡j †jv‡K K‡qK eQi A‡bK wKQy
ej‡e| Kvb eÜ ivLyb| wb‡Ri cQ›`g‡Zv †ckvUvB †e‡Q wbb| K‡qK eQi ci
Avcbvi mvd‡j¨ †`‡L ZvivB AevK n‡e!
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"Avnv‡i, †cvjvWvi gv_v Lvivc nBqv †M‡Q, "Kx nIqvi K_v wQ‡jv, Avi nB‡jv Kx!

Avnv‡i gvBqvWv Kx weqv Ki‡jv, K‡Zv fv‡jv RvqMvq we‡q nIqvi K_v, weqv
Ki‡jv wb‡Ri g‡Zv K‡i GKUv jvdv½v †cvjv‡i!"

†mB †cvjvWvB , †mB gvBqvWvB AevK K‡i w`‡e hw` GKUz †j‡M _v‡K, †jv‡Ki
evowZ K_v BM‡bvi Kivi †KŠkj Rvbv _v‡K Avi AUzU _v‡K wb‡Ri j¶¨cv‡b|

mdj †m n‡eB| fv‡jv cwRk‡b hvIqv gv‡bB wKš‘ mvdj¨ bq! Lei †bb, Zvi
g‡bi! `ytL cy‡l Av‡Q, Ny‡gi mgq nq‡Zv ej‡e, "Avwg †Zv GB Rxeb PvB wb!"

It's my life, It's my decision- mdj nq mvnmxiv, Avi mvnmxiv KL‡bv


A‡b¨i Q‡K AvuKv Rxeb hvcb K‡i bv| Zviv wb‡Ri Rxe‡bi QK Avu‡K wb‡Ri
fv‡jvevmv, fv‡jvjvMv w`‡q| ZvB Zviv mdj nq|

†jv‡Ki K_vq Kvb bv w`‡q GB †QvÆ Rxeb‡K hvc‡bi †h evnb (†ckv) Zv wb‡Ri
g‡Zv K‡i evQvB K‡i hvcb Ki‡Z cvi‡j †mB Rxeb GK IqvI Rxeb!

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Pjyb wb‡R‡K GKUz fv‡jv `v‡gB wewµ Kwi!
Sell Yourself!
`ywbqvUv †h †ePv‡Kbvi nvUevRvi †m Avgv‡`i mvaKiv e‡j †M‡Qb cwðgviv
cyuwRev` wb‡q bvgvi eû Av‡MB|

fv‡jv Rvgv Kvco cwi wb‡R‡K †ePvi Rb¨,

wb‡R‡K †cÖ‡R›U Kwi wb‡Ri f¨vjy evwo‡q GKUz †ewk `v‡g †ePvi Rb¨|
B›UviwfD †`B wb‡R‡K †ePvi Rb¨,

covïbv K‡i ˆZwi nB, wb‡R‡K †ePvi Rb¨,

Avgiv mevB Avm‡j mviv RxebB †ePvwKwb Kwi|

hviv fv‡jv †eP‡Z cv‡i, Zv‡`i Avgiv mdj ewj| `vwi`ª¨ †_‡K †ei n‡Z n‡j MZ
40 eQi wk¶v‡K me‡P‡q ¸iæZ¡ †`qv n‡q‡Q| KviY wkw¶Z n‡j wb‡R‡K GKUz
fv‡jv `v‡g †ePv hvq|

welq `y‡Uv - GK †jLvcov Kwi wb‡R‡K †ePvi Rb¨ wKš‘ fv‡jv `v‡g †eP‡Z n‡j
fv‡jv †jLvcovB h‡_ó bq! †mB covUv Avgv‡`i †KD covq bv!

†hgb Mí Av‡Q my›`ix †g‡qiI we‡q n‡Z Kó n‡e hw` †m wb‡R‡K †cÖ‡R›U †mfv‡e
bv K‡i| AvRKvj †Q‡j‡`i Rb¨ GKB K_v| GKUv mg‡q †Q‡j‡`i UvKv _vK‡jB
n‡Zv - Kcv‡j my›`ix eD wbwðZ| UvKvIqvjvi UvK _vKzK wKsev f~wo _vKzK wKsev
eqm †ewk †nvK wKsev †g‡qi †P‡q 4 Bw †QvUB †nvK!

†eP‡Z Rvb‡j me †ePv hvq| evOvwj bvwK †XD ¸‡YI Nyl †L‡Z cv‡i| wKš‘ GKUv
RvqMvq g‡b nq wcwQ‡q Av‡Q| †eP‡Z Rvbvi †KŠk‡j GKUz wcwQ‡q Av‡Q|

AvengvbKvj †_‡K Avgv‡`i †ePvi †KŠkj¸‡jv‡Z Av‡iKUz cwieZ©b Avb‡j


fv‡jv| Av‡Mi w`‡b we‡qi Abyôv‡b weevn m¤¢ev †g‡q‡`i Dcw¯’wZ †hb
eva¨Zvg~jKB wQ‡jv| D‡Ïk¨ wKš‘ IB GKB - H †ePv‡KbvB g~j K_v|

G‡Z †`v‡li wK”Qy †bB| GUvB wewµi †KŠkj| AvRKvj †h c¨v‡KU, †gvo‡K fv‡jv
Bb‡f÷ Kiv nq, †m †Zv GKB †KŠkj|

wb‡R‡K wewµ Kiv gv‡b wb‡Ri AwR©Z `¶Zv wewµ Kiv| wewµ hLb Ki‡evB ZLb
GKUz fv‡jv `vg †c‡j Amyweav Kx!

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PvKzwi Ki‡j fv‡jv PvKzwi Ki‡ev| †`‡k fv‡jv PvKzwii Afve †bB, jvL jvL PvKzwi
Av‡Q|

wKš‘ wb‡Ri Kv‡Q †ePvi g‡Zv Kx Kx Av‡Q?

wbR‡`i _wj‡Z fv‡jv wKQy _vKv PvB, cÖ_‡g, Z‡e


_wj‡Z fv‡jv wKQy _vK‡jI fv‡jv `vg cvIqvi wbðqZv bvB|

KviY †ePvi †KŠkj bv Rvb‡j fv‡jv wRwbm wewµ n‡e bv - †hgb fv‡jv †Q‡j fv‡jv
†g‡q bvI †c‡Z cv‡i! fv‡jv †g‡q fv‡jv †Q‡j bvI †c‡Z cv‡i!

Gw`KUv Avgiv †Lqvj Kwi bv, hw` †Lqvj KiZvg, Z‡e cªwZ 1000 wmwf‡Z 950Uv
wmwf _v‡K †h¸‡jv †`L‡jB †gRvR Lvivc nq Ges wb‡qvMKZ©viv Zv Wv÷we‡b
†d‡j †`b - GgbwU n‡Zv bv! wmwf †jLv‡Z G‡Zv eo msL¨K †Kqvi‡jm †Q‡j‡g‡q
`ywbqvq Avi Av‡Q wKbv Rvwb bv| GUv cÖgvY K‡i †h, Avgv‡`i wb‡R‡`i fv‡jv `v‡g
†ePvi cÖv_wgK †KŠkjB A‡b‡KiB Rvbv †bB|

Ggb †evKv‡kÖwY cÖPzi Av‡Q, hviv cÖkœ †kvbvi Av‡MB DËi †`q, cÖkœ bv ey‡SB DËi
†`q - Gi g‡a¨ DuPz gv‡ci ej` Av‡Q hviv fzj DËi w`‡q fv‡e, "fvBfvÕ‡Z
dvUvBqv w`wQ", Rv‡b bv Avm‡j wb‡R †d‡U †M‡Q!

AwaKvsk g‡b K‡i fv‡jv `vgx cÖwZôv‡b, fv‡jv †eZ‡b PvKzwi Kivi †m Dchy³ bv!
A_P †mLv‡b Ny‡i Avm‡j eyS‡Zv, †m A‡b‡Ki †P‡qB Kv‡R fv‡jv wKš‘ GKUv
RvqMvq †eRvq Lvivc! Zv n‡jv, Iiv wb‡R‡K †eP‡Z †c‡i‡Q fv‡jv `v‡g, Zzwg
wb‡R‡K †eP‡Z cv‡iv bvB!

†eP‡Z Rvb‡j fv‡jv `vg cvIqv hvq| wb‡R‡K Avgiv eª¨vÛ evbv‡Z PvB, †Kb?
fv‡jv `vg cvIqvi Rb¨|

evsjv‡`kmn `ywbqv e‡m Av‡Q †Kbvi Rb¨ - hw` †eP‡Z cvwi, Zvn‡jB, GB Avwg
†hgb Kbwd‡WÝ †mj Kwi! Avwg e`‡j †`B Kbwd‡WÝ †j‡fj! gvkv Avjøvn& †µZv
wKš‘ evo‡QB! n‡Z PvB eª¨vÛ! Z‡e eo AskUv e¨q KiwQ Ges Ki‡ev RbKj¨v‡Y|

wb‡R‡K wewµ K‡iB Avgiv Rxeb hvcb Kwi, Z‡e GKUz †ewk `v‡g †Kb bq?

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Attacking your Career Crisis-
K¨vwiqvi µvBwmm‡K Dwo‡q w`b
µvBwmm Rxe‡b Avm‡eB| GB µvBwm‡m †KD †KD †f‡½ c‡o, ¸wo‡q hvq, nvwi‡q
hvq; †KD †KD †gvKv‡ejv K‡i|

†eªK Avc, Re †jm, Uvwg©‡bkb, †eKviZ¡, K¨vwiqvi µvBwmm, wi‡jkbwkc µvBwmm,


weevnc~e© †hŠb AvPiYRwbZ bvbv µvBwmm, wdbvwÝqvj µvBwmm - GK Rxe‡bB
eûwea Ges eûgyLx µvBwmm!

M‡o †mme gvbylB †ewk µvBwm‡m c‡o Ges Aí µvBwm‡mB †f‡½ co hviv Avm‡j
very unplanned and leads indisciplined life.

1710 Wjv‡ii GB †`‡k cøvbW gvbyl Lye †ewk _vKvi K_v bq| Ges †bBI| m¤¢eZ
97-98% gvby‡li K¨vwiqvi cøvbB †bB| weL¨vZ GKRb GBP Avi G·cvU© GKUv
†mwgbv‡i Rvwb‡qwQ‡jb wek¦¦we`¨vj‡qi m‡e©v”P 1% †Q‡j‡g‡qi K¨vwiqvi cøvb
Av‡Q! wek¦we`¨vj‡qi 99% †Q‡j‡g‡qi hw` K¨vwiqvi cøvbB bv _v‡K, Z‡e evwK
Avg RbZvi K_v bv nq bvB ejjvg|

GKUv †Rvk K¨vwiqvi jvBd wjW Ki‡Z PvB †Rvk cøvb| fv‡jv cøv‡bi Afv‡e wKsev
cøvb bv _vKvi Kvi‡Y K¨vwiqvi ïiæ Ki‡Z †hgb µvBwmm _v‡K, †Zgwb ïiæi c‡i
Av‡iK Kvwnbx| c‡` c‡` µvBwmm| ïiæ‡Z fzj n‡j evwK 30 eQi µvBwm‡m
_vKvi m¤¢vebv †ewk|

Avi cÖvB‡fU ev K‡c©v‡iU R‡e cøvb bv _vK‡j fivWywe n‡e| KviY, †hw`b †_‡K
GKRb cÖvB‡fU ev K‡c©v‡iU R‡e XzK‡e - †mw`b †_‡KB Zv‡K GKUv K_v †g‡b
ivL‡Z n‡e, "My job is totally uncertain, and I can lose my job
at any time". Avcwb h‡Zv eo cÖwZôv‡b hZ eo cwRk‡bB Re K‡ib bv †Kb,
†h †Kvb gyn~‡Z© Avcbvi Re P‡j †h‡Z cv‡i|

wKš‘ GB Uncertainty Gi g‡a¨ GKUv `viæY Beauty Av‡Q| hw` Avcwb


K¨vwiqvi cøvb Ki‡Z cv‡ib, Re g¨vwcs Ki‡Z cv‡ib, w¯‹j g¨vwcs Ki‡Z cv‡ib
Avi Kv‡bKkb g¨vwcsUvI Ki‡Z cv‡ib, GKUv Re †M‡j Avcbvi Rb¨ 10Uv Re
A‡c¶v Ki‡e| Ges wbwðZ _vKzb|

GLb K‡c©v‡i‡U `yÕ ai‡bi PvKzwi Av‡Q - GK, Avcbv‡K Lyu‡R wb‡Z n‡e Ges
`yB, Avcbv‡K Lyu‡R wb‡e|

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nvwi‡Kb w`‡q ivBU wcDcj‡`i/`ÿ gvbyl‡`i LyuR‡Z‡Q eo eo †Kv¤úvwb¸‡jv|
Zviv evwni †_‡K Ggwb Ggwb †jvK Avb‡Q bv|

wKš‘ Avcwb wK ˆZwi ? A‡bK gvbyl wb‡R‡K A‡bK w¯‹jW g‡b K‡i, †ewkifvM
†¶‡ÎB wi‡qj wd‡ì Zvi cÖgvY cvIqv hvq bv| Avm‡j †m nq‡Zv Rv‡bB bv, w¯‹j
g¨vwcsUv Kx| wKsev w`jøx KZ`~i!

µvBwmm Avm‡eB, Zv‡K †gvKv‡ejvi Rb¨ Av‡M †_‡KB ˆZwi _vK‡Z n‡e| wb‡R‡K
cÖwZw`b kvwYZ Ki‡Z n‡e|

µvBwmm Avm‡e, wKš‘ µvBwmm cvwj‡qI hv‡e - hw` Avcwb wb‡R‡K ˆZwi K‡i
_v‡Kb, Ges cÖwZw`b wb‡R‡K Av‡Mi w`‡bi Zyjbvq GKUy n‡jI mg„× K‡ib|
A‡bK w¯‹jm evwZj n‡q †M‡Q, Ges bZyb bZyb w¯‹jm jvM‡Z‡Q, cÖwZwbqZ|
†m¸‡jvi mv‡_ Avc‡WU _vKv PvB|

µvBwmm‡K Avcwb ZLbB µvBwm‡m †d‡j w`‡Z cvi‡eb - hLb Av‡M †_‡K ax‡i
ax‡i wb‡R‡K ˆZwi Ki‡Z _vK‡eb| Lvwj em wKQyB Rv‡b bv, Avwg me Rvwb - GB
K‡i jvL jvL PvKywiRxex wb‡R‡`i Rxe‡b ïay msKUB ˆZwi Ki‡Q, wb‡R‡`i‡K
ˆZwi K‡i bvB|

Rxe‡bi msKUI ZvB - †eªK Avc n‡Z cv‡i, n‡Z cv‡i wW‡fvm©, NU‡Z cv‡i bvbv
`yN©Ubv,eq‡d«Û Qy‡o †d‡j w`‡e wKsev Mvj© †d«Û Qy‡o †d‡j w`‡e, Gme Avcwb
†gvKv‡ejv K‡i GwM‡q †h‡Z cvi‡eb ZLbB -

hLb Avcbvi _vK‡e GKUv cvi‡mvbvj jvB‡di cøvb, cwiev‡ii Rb¨ `viæY GKUv
`x‡N©‡gqvw` cøvb Avi _vK‡e K¨vwiqvi cøvb| mv‡_ _vKv PvB cwi”Qbœ wi‡qj
Gw·wKDkb cøvb - cøvb Gw·wKDU Ki‡Z †M‡j KLb †Kvb mg‡q Kx Kx jvM‡e Ges
Zvi †hvMvb Kxfv‡e n‡e, Zvi Crystal Clear wPÎ|

µvBwmm †_‡K cvwj‡q Avm‡j †kl ch©šÍ †kl i¶v nq bv| Better attack
crisis with your full potentialities. GB dvB‡U AvcwbB wRZ‡eb, †n‡i
hv‡e µvBwmm|

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evsjv‡`‡ki Dbœqb n‡e we¯§qKi MwZ‡Z -
AvMvgx evsjv‡`‡ki Dbœq‡b A‡b‡KB wew¯§Z n‡e| A_P wew¯§Z nIqvi K_v bq|
Gi KviY¸‡jv -

Avgv‡`i eyw×Rxex‡`i GKUv eo Ask fxlYiKg myweavev`x n‡q †M‡Qb| †`‡ki


me wKQy‡ZB Zviv SuywK †`‡Lb| Ges Zviv †`‡LB hv‡”Qb!

A_P Gi g‡a¨B evsjv‡`k `viæYiKg GwM‡q hv‡”Q, †m K_v Zviv hw` ej‡Zb
Zvn‡j †`kUv G¸‡Zv AviI †ewk|

†Kvb myweavev`x eyw×Rxex‡K †`Ljvg bv, †`‡ki †h cÖvq 50% RbmsL¨v


ZiæY‡Mvôxi, Zv‡`i mvg‡b wekvj m¤¢vebv¸‡jv Lye mnR K‡i eywS‡q ejv, dzwU‡q
†Zvjvi `vwqZ¡Uv wb‡Z| GB myweavev`x eyw×Rxexiv Avm‡j Kx Pvq? Giv Kv‡`i
A¨vmvBb‡g›U wb‡q P‡j? Zviv wK †`‡L bv, Avgv‡`i ZiæY‡`i g‡a¨ wK wekvj
†Rvqvi G‡m‡Q?

wRwcG dvBf wb‡q fvebvi wKQyB †Zgb †bB| Av‡Mi wk¶v c×wZ‡Z G‡`‡k
`ye„©Ëvqb n‡q‡Q me‡P‡q †ewk| †`‡ki †ewkifvM wek¦we`¨vjq¸‡jv eÜ K‡i w`‡j
wnmve wbKv‡k jvfB n‡e †ewk| GLvb †_‡K GKUv †jvfx ‡kÖwY †ei n‡”Q, Zv‡`i
†ewkifvMB †ei n‡qB †NvZ †NvZ K‡i Ny‡li mÜvb K‡i| †`‡ki hZ Awbqg, hZ
`yb©xwZ, hZ Ae¨e¯’vcbv G meB Gme D”P wkw¶Ziv K‡i hv‡”Q|

wRwcG dvBf hviv †c‡q‡Q, Zviv mg‡qi cÖ‡qvRb †gUv‡e evsjv‡`‡ki| GK wekvj
msL¨vK ZiæYiv e¨emvq †b‡g c‡o‡Q| Zviv †`kUv‡K cvj‡U w`‡eB| Gme ZiæYiv
we‡k¦i me©‡kl Avc‡WU ivL‡Q, eûgyLx wPšÍvi mgv‡ek NUv‡”Q Zv‡`i wPšÍvavivq|
Ges fxlYiKg `~i`k©x GKUv `viæY ZiæY‡kÖwYI evsjv‡`‡k ‰Zwi n‡q‡Q|

Zv‡`i MwZ cwiYZ n‡”Q MwZkw³‡Z| †mB MwZkw³‡Z cy‡iv A_©bxwZ‡Z `viæY
†gv‡g›Uvg wb‡q Avm‡Q| A_©bxwZ‡Z GKUv †gv‡g›Uvg Avmv wKš‘ ïiæ n‡q †M‡Q|

†mB †gv‡g›Uvg †`L‡Q bv - Avgv‡`i myweavev`x eyw×Rxexiv| Zviv ïay nZvkvi K_v
e‡j †M‡Q, e‡j hv‡e| GB myweavev`xiv wb‡Riv †hgb †`L‡Q bv, Ab¨‡`i †`Lvi
`„wó‡KI AÜ K‡i ivL‡Z Pvq bvbv ai‡Yi nZvkvi †jLv wj‡L, SyuwKi †jLv wj‡L|

†KD wek¦vm KiæK Avi bv KiæK,


GK we¯§qKi DbœwZi c‡_ evsjv‡`k|

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AvMvgxi evsjv‡`k -
hv‡eb bvwK gvIqvq cÙvi AwiwRbvj Nªv‡Yi Bwjk †L‡Z? Zvi Av‡M `y‡Uv K_v e‡j
†bB

cÙv‡mZyi `yB cvi| `yB cv‡i nvRvi nvRvi cwi‡ekevÜe e¨emv cÖwZôvb, Pvi
†jB‡bi iv¯Ív w`‡q P‡j‡Q XvKv-Lyjbv-XvKv, Lyjbv-PÆMÖvg-Lyjbv c‡_ †U«‡bi ci
†U«b, ev‡mi ci evm, U«v‡Ki ci U«vK! gvby‡li mv‡_ mv‡_ cY¨ cwien‡bi wekvj
en‡ii Avmv hvIqv!

cÙvi Gcv‡i gywÝMÄ bv‡g GKUv †Rjv Av‡Q| †mB †Rjvi gvbyl¸‡jvi GKUv
AmvaviY ¸Y Av‡Q| †mUv n‡jv G‡`i i‡³ gvs‡m e¨emv| mviv †`‡ki gvbyl hLb
g‡a¨cÖv‡P¨ †`Šwo‡q‡Q, ZLb Giv †M‡Qb Rvcvb! wm‡jU †hgb jÛb ey‡S, gywÝMÄ
ey‡S Rvcvb! Avi nVvZ K‡i evsjv‡`‡ki Av‡iKUv †Rjvi gvbyl abx n‡q‡Q, Zvi
bvg kwiqZcyi, †iwg‡U‡Ý Dc‡P cov GKwU †Rjv - cy‡iv BUvwji Avbv‡P Kvbv‡P
Avcwb kwiqZcy‡ii †jvKRb cv‡eb|

cÙvi `yB cv‡iB GLb abx †jv‡Ki cÖPyi mgvMg| cÙv‡mZzi cÖ‡Z¨KUv my‡hvM‡K
Kv‡R jvMv‡bvi Rb¨ ˆZwi Ges KvRI ïiæ n‡q †M‡Q!

GB gyn~‡Z© evsjv‡`‡k wek¦we`¨vj‡qi cvk Kiv jvL jvL A`¶ †Q‡j‡g‡q‡`i †P‡q
gywÝMÄ, wmivRMÄ, †bvqvLvwj, PÆMÖv‡gi g‡Zv GjvKvi gvbyl †`‡ki A‡bK †ewk
`iKvi - hv‡`i i³ gvs‡m e¨emv KvR K‡i Ges e¨emv Zviv `viæY ey‡S|

wbðq Avcwb gvIqv †M‡Qb| gvIqvi Bwjk bv †L‡q _vK‡j `ywbqvi †miv wKQy
Avcwb wgm K‡i‡Qb| †h‡Z †h‡Z `ycv‡i cÖPyi we¯ÍxY© RvqMv †`‡L‡Qb wbðq?

IUv Av‡iKUv XvKv n‡e| GKUv wekvj m¤¢vebv| fvi‡Zi me‡P‡q eo wi‡qj
A¨v‡÷‡Ui †jvKRb G‡mwQ‡jv †mB bZyb XvKv ˆZwi Ki‡Z| Zv‡`i `iKvi †bB|
AvgivB Ki‡ev|

cÙv †mZzi wekvj m¤¢vebv hviv AvMvg eyS‡Z‡Q, Zviv wKš‘ 100 wK‡jvwgUvi †e‡M
†`Šo ïiæ K‡i w`‡q‡Q| †K miKv‡ii `vjvj Avi †m miKv‡ii `vjvj bv, Gme
wnmv‡ei mgq e¨emvqx‡`i †bB| Avgv‡`i e¨emvqx‡`i GKUv eo Ask †mB my‡hvM
cy‡iv Kv‡R jvMv‡bvi Rb¨ w`evivwÎ KvR K‡i hv‡”Qb|

I n¨vu, GKUv eo Gqvi‡cvU© hw` nq, †Kgb nq? KY©dyjx bw`i Dci w`‡q hLb †cøb
bv‡g, `viæY jv‡M, ZvB bv! mgqUv †ewk `~‡i bq, †cøb j¨vwÛs Kivi mgq g‡b n‡e

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Av‡¯Í Av‡¯Í cÙvq †b‡g hv‡”Qb!

ï‡b‡Qb wbðq, g‡nkLvwj‡Z me wg‡j jvL †KvwU UvKvi cvIqvi cøv›U n‡Z hv‡”Q!
†`‡ki bvbv RvqMvq we`y¨‡Zi wekvj Av‡qvRb Pj‡Q - wekvjfv‡e| GK mgq
1500 †gMvIqvU wb‡q P‡jwQ! GLb Uv‡M©U bvwK 60,000 †gMvIqvU! ï‡bB gv_v
Ny‡i hvq!

G‡Zv we`y¨r Kv‡`i Rb¨? AvMvgx evsjv‡`‡ki e¨emvi Rb¨| AvMvgxi evsjv‡`k
e¨emvi evsjv‡`k|

I n¨vu, GLb cvi K¨vwcUv K‡Zv? gvÎ 1710 Wjvi! LyeB Kg! Ab¨ †`‡ki 40,000
Wjvi wKsev 50,000 Wjvi! Zvi gv‡b Avgiv cywU gvQI bv! Z‡e wPšÍvi wKQy †bB,
gvÎ K‡qK eQi Av‡MI wQ‡jv gvÎ 300 Wjvi! †mB K_v g‡b K‡i j¾v cvIqvi
wKQyB bvB!

GB Avq 3000 Wjvi n‡e, Lye †ewk †`wi †bB| 1610 Wjv‡iB C‡`i evRvi 3 jvL
†KvwU UvKv! ev‡RU 5 jvL †KvwU UvKv! wKš‘ 3000 Wjvi n‡j C‡`i evRvi wKš‘ 6
jvL †KvwU UvKv n‡e bv, n‡e 15 jvL †KvwU UvKvi g‡Zv!

PÆMÖv‡gi Pvi †jb Kx Kx my‡hvM ˆZwi Ki‡Q? I n¨vu, XvKv LyjbvI bvwK Pvi †jb
n‡Z hv‡”Q? PÆMÖvg XvKv G·‡cÖm I‡q Kxfv‡e e`‡j w`‡e A_©bxwZ‡K? Pvi †j‡bi
†ij n‡j Kx wecøe NU‡e? XvKvi †g‡U«v‡ij g‡b n‡”Q n‡qB hv‡e! Avi cÖhyw³i
weKvk bv nq bvB ejjvg, GK wekvj wecøe Ki‡eB Avgv‡`i ZiæYiv, ax‡i ax‡i
Zviv K‡i hv‡”Q, †Ui cv‡eb, Avi K‡qK eQ‡ii g‡a¨B|

cy‡iv †`kUv‡Z †g‡Uªv‡ijmn Avi wekvj wekvj †gMv cÖ‡R± Pj‡Q - GKUv mgq
fveZvg, G¸‡jv K_vi K_v! GLb †`LwQ, bv †Zv -
NUbv †Zv N‡U hv‡”Q G‡K G‡K!

Gevi GB cÖ‡R±¸‡jv‡K GKUvi mv‡_ Av‡iKUv Kv‡b± Kiæb (†hgb w÷f Rem
e‡j‡Qb, Connecting the dots), hw` GB me cÖ‡R±¸‡jv KZ eûwea my‡hvM
m„wó Ki‡e Ges Ki‡Q , Ges Zvi mv‡_ hw` G¸‡jvi AvšÍ:m¤úK© eyS‡Z cv‡ib,
Avcwb AevK n‡eb evsjv‡`‡ki m¤¢vebv †`‡L| Ab¨ †`‡ki †jvKRb wKš‘ wVKB
eyS‡Z‡Q|

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Avgvi Kv‡Q GB gyn~‡Z© Avcwb AvIqvgxjxM bv weGbwc bv †Kvb `‡ji Zv we‡eP¨
bq | Avgvi Kv‡Q Avcwb GK wecyj m¤¢vebvi gvbyl| cÖwZw`b h‡Zv Awf‡hvM GB
†`‡ki weiæ‡× Avgiv Kwi, Zvi mgvavb †Kv_vq?

Zvi mgvavb †Zv Avcwb| †K †Kvb `‡ji GBme wec`RbK dvu‡`i wPšÍv bv K‡i,
wb‡R‡`i GB my‡hvM †_‡K †hb ewÂZ bv Kwi|

AvMvgx 10 eQ‡ii Rb¨ GBme ZK©, KzZK© ev` w`‡q †h wekvj m¤¢vebv nv‡Zi Kv‡Q
G‡m‡Q, Zv‡K Kv‡R jvMvB (AvIqvgxjxM, weGbwc Gme ZK© K‡i Avgv‡`i
AvgRbZvi Avm‡j †Kvb jvf Av‡Q? gb‡K GKevi wR‡Ám Kiæb †Zv)|

AvMvgx 10 eQ‡ii evsjv‡`k - e¨emvi Rb¨ †miv `kK, †kÖô mgq| wek¦we`¨vjq
†_‡K cvk K‡i gvÜvZv Avg‡ji ïayB PvKzwii wPšÍv bv K‡i e¨emvi wPšÍvI Kiæb|
mgq wKš‘ PvKywii bv, mgqUv e¨emvi|

e¨emvi G‡Zv my‡hvM evsjv‡`‡ki BwZnv‡m KL‡bv wQ‡jv bv, AvMvgx 15-20 eQi
ci ¶y`ª e¨emv‡qi G‡Zv my‡hvM nq‡Zv _vK‡e bv| mgqUv GLbB| GK
gnvmwܶ‡Y Avgiv AvwQ| Ggb my‡hvM GKeviB Av‡m|

†mB my‡hvMUv Kv‡R jvMvB, †`kUv‡K e`jvB|

Ò †hvMv‡hvM - KwgDwb‡Kk‡bi GB †jL‡Ki mv‡_ †hvMv‡hvM evuavnxb! Db¥y³| Zvi †dvb


bv¤^vi 01730 715316, Ges 01554 356729| †dmey‡K Zvi mv‡_ mn‡RB †hvMv‡hvM
Ki‡Z cv‡ib www.facebook.com/betterlifebettercare (LvRv wbRvg DwÏb)

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GB AvBwW‡Z|

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Avcbvi bvf©Uv KZUv Strong?
e‡mi mv‡_ Sv‡gjv Pj‡Q? 99% †¶‡ÎB GB Sv‡gjv Pj‡Q| GwU wK ïay
evsjv‡`‡k? wek¦e¨vcx GwU P‡j| Avi GwU P‡j e‡jB AmvaviY me cÖ‡dkbvj ˆZwi
nq| KviY, Struggles are gift and those make your nerve stronger.
fv‡jvevmvi gvbylwU Avcbvi R‡ei Rb¨ Pvc w`‡”Q? Av‡iK RvqMvq we‡qi K_v
ej‡Q! bv nq wg_¨vB ej‡Q| GB Pvc Avcbv‡K GwM‡q w`‡e eû`~i| KviY,
Struggles are gift and those make your nerve stronger.

Avcbvi PvKzwi LvIqvi Rb¨ †Kvb MÖæc ev wUg †Póv Ki‡Q| ejyb, Avjnvg`ywjjøvn|
GUv Ggb GK c_, Rxe‡b Dc‡i DV‡Z n‡j GBme c_ Avcbv‡K cvwo w`‡ZB
n‡e| GB c_¸‡jv cvwo †`qvi AwfÁZv¸‡jvB Avcbvi Rxe‡bi †miv m¤ú`| hLb
Dc‡i hv‡eb, ZLb GB c_¸‡jvi AwfÁZv Avcbv‡K c_ †`Lv‡e| me mgq ejyb,
Avjnvg`ywjjvn| KviY, Struggles are gift and those make your
nerve stronger.

mgm¨v hLb Av‡m, ZLb GKmv‡_ bvwK A‡bK¸‡jv Av‡m| ejyb, Avjnvg`ywjjøvn|
AvR‡Ki `ywbqv‡Z Avcbv‡K wU‡K _vK‡Z n‡j GKmv‡_ A‡bK mgm¨vi mgvavb
Kivi †hvM¨Zv _vK‡ZB n‡e, †mUv hw` bv cv‡ib, Avcbvi †Kvb RvqMv †bB| †Zv
GKmv‡_ A‡bK¸‡jv mgm¨v‡K †gvKv‡ejv Kiv wkL‡eb Kxfv‡e? IB †h, hLb
A‡bK¸‡jv mgm¨v GKmv‡_ nvwRi nq, †Ljyb †m¸‡jv wb‡q| g‡b g‡b G¸‡jv‡Z
Avkxe©v` fveyb| KviY, Struggles are gift and those make your
nerve stronger.

e¨emv ïiæ K‡i `vuov Kiv‡Z cvi‡Qb bv| Avjøvn‡K jvL jvL ïKwiqv Rvbvb| ejyb
Avjnvg`ywjjvn| GKUv e¨emv `vuo Kiv‡bv †h KZ `yM©g wMwi KvšÍvi giæ cvwo w`‡Z
nq, †m K_v Rvb‡eb Kxfv‡e? †m †Zv cÖwZw`b wkL‡Z n‡e| ïiæ‡Z h‡Zv KwVb c_
cvwo w`‡eb, Z‡ZvB `viæY n‡q DV‡eb Avcwb| e¨emvq jm! I‡K, wVK Av‡Q|
cvU©bviiv wek¦vmNvZKZv K‡i‡Q, I‡K ejyb Avjnvg`ywjjvn| KviY, Struggles
are gift and those make your nerve stronger.

Avcbvi bvf© kw³kvjx n‡j jvf Kx?

GKUv eq‡m Avcbv‡K 15 N›Uv KvR Ki‡Z n‡e bv| K‡c©v‡iU jvB‡d A‡b‡KB
Rxe‡bi 80% w`‡q †`q| G‡`i gvivZ¥K AwfÁZvi Afve| †h KvR 3 w`‡b Kiv

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hvq, Zviv Zv 7 w`b jvMvq| †h wm×všÍ w`‡Z 10 wgwbU jvMvi K_v, A‡bK eo eo
gvbyliv Zv 3 w`‡b w`‡Z cv‡i bv| Rxe‡b AwZwi³ KvR gv‡b - Rxe‡b Avcwb jovB
K‡i‡Qb Kg, †KŠkj wk‡L‡Qb Kg, wb‡Ri eª¨vÛ ˆZwi Ki‡Z cv‡ib wb|

GB K‡c©v‡iU jvBd ev wb‡Ri e¨emvB †nvK - Avcbvi very personal life,


family life & career life- 3wU‡KB Dc‡fvM Ki‡Z cvi‡eb, hw` bvf© ÷«sMvi
Ki‡Z cv‡ib, Rxe‡bi cÖ_g w`‡K GBme jovB‡K fv‡jv‡e‡m|

covïbv †kl nIqvi c‡i 8-10 eQi `y`©všÍ me ÷«vMj Kiæb, Gi c‡i Avcbv‡K
wb‡Ri Rxeb, d¨vwgwj Rxeb e›`wK w`‡Z n‡e bv Kg©Rxe‡bi Kv‡Q|

GB evsjv‡`‡k A‡b‡Ki cÖPyi †eZb Av‡Q, cwRkb Av‡Q, wKš‘ Re Zv‡`i Rxe‡bi
me ï‡l wb‡”Q| wb‡Ri GKvšÍ wKQy PvIqv cvIqv Av‡Q, kL Av‡Q, Av‡Q cwiev‡ii
Rb¨ Kgc‡¶ 50% mgq †`qvi Acwinvh©Zv|

A‡b‡KB cvi‡Q bv! KviY GKUvB, cÖ_g w`‡Ki mnR Rxe‡bi Nvwb Uvb‡Q
A‡b‡KB| cÖ_g w`‡Ki Struggle ¸j‡Z 99% †f‡½ ¸wo‡q hvq, wcwQ‡q hvq
Ges AvMvgx w`b¸‡jvi AviI †fvMvwšÍ wbwðZ K‡i wb‡R‡K ˆZwi bv K‡i,
jovB¸‡jv BwZevPK wnmv‡e bv †`‡L|

GBme P¨v‡jĸ‡jv Avm‡jB Rxe‡bi GK cig m¤ú`| GB P¨v‡jĸ‡jv cik


cv_i| GB cikcv_i¸‡jvi †Qvuqv wb‡Z n‡e|

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¯^cœc~i‡Yi e¨vKIqvW© wjs‡KR ˆZwi KiwQ wK Avgiv?
e¨w³MZ ¯^cœc~i‡Yi Rb¨ wKsev †`‡ki ¯^cœc~i‡Yi Rb¨ KZ¸‡jv e¨vKIqvW©
wjs‡KR jv‡M| G eQ‡ii ïiæ‡Z GK ZiæY cÖ‡KŠkjx e¨emvqx I Zvi ÷vd‡`i
mv‡_ K_v ej‡Z wM‡qwQjvg| GB Ziæ‡Yi GLb Uvb© Ifvi 20 †KvwU UvKv| AvMvgx
eQi Dwb 50 †KvwU Ki‡Z Pvb| cÖkœ n‡jv, GwU m¤¢e wKbv Ges m¤¢e n‡j Kxfv‡e?
P¨v‡jÄ Kx Kx ?

1| GKUv eo Sv‡gjv n‡jv, GUv‡K ev¯Íevqb Ki‡Z wKQy gvbyl jvM‡e| gv‡K©‡U
†UvUvwj KvR Rvbv `ÿ gvbyl Kg| hv‡K cv‡”Q Zv‡K a‡iB gv‡K©wUs ev †mj‡m
awi‡q w`‡”Q! Ges G‡`i AvPiYMZ `¶Zvi wekvj NvUwZ i‡q‡Q (A_P GwU 1
bv¤^vi `¶Zv Ges _vK‡ZB n‡e)| †`‡k `¶ gv‡K©wUqvi Avi †mjm G·cvU© hv
`iKvi Zvi 10% GLb †bB| cÖ‡qvR‡bi 90% †bB|

`¶ gvby‡li Kx fqsKi msKU GLb evsjv‡`‡k, Zv hviv Rv‡bb Zviv nv‡o nv‡o
†Ui cv‡”Qb|

2| evsjv‡`‡ki wewfbœ DuPy ch©v‡qi K‡c©v‡iU Ges †emiKvwi †hme Kg©KZ©v Av‡Qb,
Zv‡`i m¤¢eZ 90% self made. GUv Av‡iKUv eo wec`| AvR‡Ki `ywbqvq
†V‡K †V‡K †kLvi mgq †bB, hv 1 eQ‡i †kLv hvq Zv †V‡K †V‡K wkL‡Z 15 eQi
cvi n‡q hvq Ges Zv‡ZI bvbv ai‡Yi NvUwZ _v‡K| Avgv‡`i nvB †cÖvdvB‡ji
†hme Kg©KZ©v Av‡Qb, Zv‡`i bvbv ai‡Yi NvUwZ Av‡Q| †`‡ki GKwU eo
cÖwZôv‡bi WvB‡i±i‡`i B‡gBj †`Lvi my‡hvM n‡q‡Q| eySjvg, GiKg WvB‡i±i
evsjv‡`‡k eû Av‡Q hviv wVKfv‡e B‡gBj wjL‡Z cv‡ib bv, Ges †mB bv cvivUv
†mB Kg©KZ©v‡`i AviI A‡bKwKQz bv cvivi ms‡KZ †`q|

GLb Avgiv Kx Ki‡ev? eo GKUv cÖwZôv‡bi eÜy wRGg‡K (ey‡qU/Kw¤úDUvi


mvqvÝ) Rvbvjvg, †`v‡¯Ív, GK eo cÖwZôv‡bi WvB‡i±i‡`i †Zv GB Ae¯’v! eÜy
ej‡jv, cy‡iv evsjv‡`‡ki GKB Ae¯’v!!

Avgiv hv Rvwb bv, Avgv‡`i e¨emvqxiv Zv A‡bK Av‡MB Rv‡bb| wKš‘ Zviv nZvk
n‡q mnR mgvav‡b P‡j hv‡”Qb we‡`wk wb‡q Avm‡Qb| Zviv Avgv‡`i wek¦we`¨vj‡qi
cÖWv‡±i Dci Lye GKUv fimv Ki‡Z cvi‡Qb bv| Avgiv †h wecyj wewb‡qv‡M
wek¦we`¨vj‡q¸‡jv cyl‡ZwQ, †mLvb †_‡K Pvwn`vi Zyjbvq LyeB Kg cvIqv hv‡”Q|

†`‡ki e¨emv †hfv‡e evo‡Q, `¶ †jvK Zvi av‡i Kv‡QI †bB| Avi wewmGm
†UvUvwj Kzovj †g‡i w`‡”Q GB †`‡ki `¶ †jvK ˆZwii †¶‡Î| mvg‡b †h AviI
wec` m‡›`n †bB|
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cÖ‡Z¨K †`‡ki GK GKUv mgqKvj _v‡K| †hgb evsjv‡`‡ki GLb e¨emvi
mgqKvj| GwU AviI 12-15 eQi ch©šÍ mevi Rb¨B A‡bKUv Aeva _vK‡e|
Zvic‡i Mv‡g©›U‡m GLb †hgb †Qv‡Uv Avi gvSvwiiv eo Mv‡g©›U‡mi `vc‡U nvwi‡q
hv‡”Q, A‡bK †QvU e¨emvI nq‡Zv 2030 Gi w`‡K Kg‡Z _vK‡e|

wKš‘ nv‡Z †Zv AviI 12-15 eQi Av‡Q| GB e¨emvB †Zv Avgv‡`i cvi K¨vwcUv
BbKvg 1710 Wjvi †_‡K 3000 Wjv‡i wb‡q hv‡e| Zvi mnR gv‡b Avgv‡`i Avq
wظY evo‡e|

PvKzwi w`‡q †Kvbw`b Avq ev‡o bv, evo‡eI bv †`‡ki| Avq ev‡o e¨emv evo‡j|
†mB e¨emvB Avm‡j PvKzwii †eZ‡bi †hvMvb †`q|

e¨emvi GB gnvmy‡hv‡Mi GB mgq Avgiv †hUv mvdvi KiwQ Zv n‡jv `¶ gvby‡li


GK wec`RbK msKU| Zvigv‡b Dbœq‡bi Rb¨ †h wecyj cÖWv± Avmvi K_v wQ‡jv
kÖgevRv‡i, †mUv w`‡Z Avgv‡`i wek¦we`¨vjq¸‡jv Pig e¨_©|

ZeyI †_‡g †bB evsjv‡`‡k| GB Pig mxgve×Zv †g‡b wb‡qB hZUv m¤¢e †`Šov‡”Q
evsjv‡`‡ki ZiæYiv| GLb j¶ j¶ ZiæY PvKzwii cvkvcvwk bvbv †Qv‡Uv gvSvwi
e¨emvq wewb‡qvM Ki‡Q Ges nvRvi nvRvi ZiæY e¨emv‡q †b‡gI c‡o‡Q|

Avgv‡`i GLb Avm‡j `iKvi ïay `¶ gvbyl| †h KvRwU 2 NÈvq Kiv hvq, †mUvi
Rb¨ GL‡bv Avgiv 2/3 w`b jvMvB| `¶Zvi Ggb KiæY `kv _vK‡j cÖwZ‡hvwMZvq
wU‡K _vKv hvq bv|

e¨vKIqvW© wjs‡K‡Ri cÖwZôvb ˆZwi †hgb evsjv‡`‡ki GK wecyj m¤¢vebv Ges


GKB mv‡_ Avmj e¨vKIqvW© wjs‡KR n‡jv gvbe m¤ú`!

`ªæZ e¨vKIqvW© wjs‡K‡Ri e¨emv cÖwZôv‡bi KvVv‡gv ˆZwi Kiv hvq wKš‘ gvbe
m¤ú`?

AviI 25 eQi Av‡M cøvb Kiv _vK‡j GLb msKU n‡Zv bv| wKš‘ GLbI wK Avgiv
KiwQ Zv?

[e¨vKIqvW© wjs‡KR GLb Avgiv mevB eywS| †`‡ki eo Mv‡g©›Um¸‡jvi A‡bK wKQy
jv‡M| aiæb wRcvi Avi †evZvg jvM‡e| Zviv cv‡e †Kv_vq? †`‡kB hw` _v‡K Z‡e
Zviv gvSvwi ev †Qv‡Uv cÖwZôvb †_‡K wb‡e| mv`vgvUv K_vq G¸‡jvB e¨vKIqvW©
wjs‡KR, Avmj e¨vKIqvW© wjs‡KR Avm‡j gvbe m¤ú`]

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Rxe‡b Ignore †Kb Ki‡eb?
K‡qKw`b Av‡M `ycyi 12Uvq †dvb †cjvg! fxlY e¨¯Í, Zvic‡iI kvqjv Avcv e‡j
K_v! GKUv eo cÖwZôv‡bi †WcywU wW‡i±i!

kvqjv Avcvt fvB, Avgvi †cÖmvi †e‡o †M‡Q!


Avwgt Kx e‡jb Avcv, Kx nB‡Q?
kvqjv Avcvt Avgvi KwjM Avgv‡K Hello Shaila e‡j‡Q, Av‡M me mgq ej‡Zv
kvqjv Avcv! GLb kvqjv, kvqjv K‡i!
GË e‡ov mvnm! AvR `ycyi ch©šÍ GKUyI KvR Ki‡Z cvwi bvB, eyw× †`b, †Kg‡b Gi
GKUv hyZmB Reve w`‡ev! Gi Reve bv w`‡Z cvi‡j Avgvi kvwšÍ bvB!
VvÛv gv_vq ejjvg, Kx Ki‡Z Pvb? Zv‡KI mv‡qg mv‡ne ej‡Z Pvb? Zv‡Z Svj wgU‡e?

True Professional iv Avm‡j Kx K‡i? ignore K‡i Gi ai‡bi QvZvbvZv welq|


Avcv‡K ejjvg, Never lower your level! Lye DuPy gv‡ci cÖ‡dkbvjiv GUv
K‡i _v‡Kb| Zviv Zv‡`i AvPi‡Y KL‡bv Zv‡`i †j‡f‡j †_‡K bv‡gb bv| A‡b¨iv
AvµgY Ki‡j, Zv‡KI AvµgY Kivi g‡Zv AwZ wbPy gvbwmKZvi gvbyl †Kvbw`b
G¸‡Z cv‡i bv, fv‡jv _v‡K bv| AZtci Avcv wdiwZ †dv‡b Rvbv‡jb, wZwb Gevi
KvR Ki‡Z cvi‡Qb!

cÖwZ wbqZB Avgv‡`i A‡bK‡KB cÖwZwnsmv, †`‡L Qvo‡ev - GB ai‡bi wPc


†g›UvwjwU‡Z †c‡q e‡m Ges GB ai‡bi wPc †g›UvwjwUi gvbyliv †Kvbw`b GB
AvZ¥NvZx Af¨vm †_‡K †ei n‡Z cv‡i bv|

GB †h G‡Zv eo GKUv †`k, †hLv‡b AvšÍR©vwZK gv‡bi 2000 g¨v‡bRvi cvIqv


hv‡”Q bv| Ab¨vb¨ c`¸‡jv †Zv ev`B w`jvg|
KviYUv Kx?
Awdm cwjwU· mviv `ywbqv‡Z Av‡Q| wKš‘ evsjv‡`‡ki g‡Zv G‡Zv wbgœ‡kÖwYi Awdm
cwjwU· `ywbqvi Avi †Kv_vI †bB| Gi djvdj evsjv‡`k GLb cv‡”Q| wb‡R‡`i ˆZwi
bv K‡i eQ‡ii ci eQi `yB UvKv Pvi UvKv (GKUv `yBUv cÖ‡gvkb Avi 8/10 nvRvi UvKvi
†eZb evov‡bvi Rb¨ †h cwigvY †Ljv †L‡j! †m ejvi g‡Zv bq) wbgœ‡kÖwYi gvbwmKZvi
Rb¨B Avgiv wcwQ‡q AvwQ| Avgv‡`i `„wó fqven †QvU|
Av‡i †MBg †Lj‡j eo †MBg †L‡jv| wmBI nI, wmGdI nI! mviv `ywbqvi fvi‡Zi
200 wmGdI idZvwb K‡i †h cwigvY UvKv Avq K‡i, Avgiv jvL jvL kÖwgK
idZvwb K‡i †mUv Avq Ki‡Z cvwi bv|
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GB wbgœ`„wói Rb¨ Avgv‡`i Re gv‡K©‡U Avgiv Pigfv‡e Abychy³| Avgv‡`i eo
eo cwRk‡b emv‡j Avgiv †h wbgœ gv‡bi †bvsiv cwjwU· Ki‡ev, Zv‡Z e¨emvqx‡`i
jvj evwZ R¡j‡Z mgq jvM‡e bv| K‡c©v‡i‡Ui †h AvšÍR©vwZK †Ljv Av‡Q, †hLv‡b
fviZ `viæYfv‡e GwM‡q Av‡Q - †mLv‡b †Ljvi g‡Zv mvg_¨©evb †L‡jvqvi Avgv‡`i
nv‡Z †Mvbvi g‡ZvI bvB| Avgv‡`i e¨emvqxiv GUv fv‡jvB Rv‡b|

¯^cœ †`L‡j eo †`‡Lv, †MBg †Lj‡j eo †MBg| AvjZy dvjyZ `yB Pvi UvKvi, `yB
Pvi nvRvi UvKvi Bbwµ‡g›U, Avi GKUv `yBUv cÖ‡gvk‡bi Rb¨ †h Avgiv hZ wb‡P
bvgv hvq, bvg‡Z cvwi|

†ei n‡Z n‡e GLvb †_‡K|

Rxe‡bi j¶¨ hv‡`i wVK Av‡Q, Zviv †Kvbw`bI †Qv‡Uv welq wb‡q nvU© A¨vUvK
NUv‡e bv, †cÖmvi evov‡e bv, †bvsiv MÖæc cwjwU· Ki‡e bv|

¯^cœ¸‡jvB †Zv †Qv‡Uv! Zviv †Zv AvjZz dvjyZ welq wb‡q Sv‡gjv cvKv‡e, wb‡Riv
co‡e, GB K‡i K‡i Rxeb KvUv‡e|

A_P GKUz Ignore K‡i Rxe‡bi j‡¶¨i w`‡j QyU‡j evsjv‡`‡ki †Kvbw`bB 10
jvL we‡`wk Avb‡Z n‡Zv bv, †`‡k `¶ †jv‡Ki fqven `ywf©¶ Pj‡Q - GB `ywf©¶
Avm‡Zv bv|

Rxe‡bi j¶¨ hv‡`i AUzU _v‡K, Zviv A‡nZzK welq¸‡jv‡K Ignore K‡i‡Z
Rv‡b|

Rxe‡b fv‡jv _vK‡Z n‡j Ignore Ki‡Z Rvb‡Z n‡e,


nvU© my¯’ ivL‡Z n‡j Ignore Ki‡Z Rvb‡Z n‡e,
eøvW †cÖmvi wVK ivL‡Z n‡j Ignore Ki‡Z Rvb‡Z n‡e,

Avi n¨vu,
GB bk¦i Rxe‡bi mgq †ewk bv| GB mg‡q `viæY GKUv Avb›`gq Rxeb wb‡Ri
g‡Zv K‡i KvUv‡Z PvB‡j, wb‡Ri mywbw`©ó j‡¶¨ †cŠuQv‡Z n‡j, Ignore Ki‡Z
Rvb‡ZB n‡e, hZ e¨_© gvbyl Gi AwaKvskB Rxe‡bi mgqUv eÇ AKv‡R e¨q K‡i,
†Qv‡Uv †Qv‡Uv wel‡q react K‡i, †Qv‡Uv wel‡qi g‡a¨B ZK© weZ‡K©i g‡a¨, LvBqv
jvgy, †`BLv jgy - Gi g‡a¨B KvwU‡q †`q|

GivB GKw`b - RvBMv †`‡L mgq bvB| K”Qc wVKB me Ignore K‡i j‡¶¨ cv‡b
†cŠu‡Q †M‡Q| Avi hviv Ignore Ki‡Z cv‡i bvB, GKUv wbivb›`gq Rxeb Zv‡`i
Rb¨ Zviv wb‡RivB wbwðZ K‡i|
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Please, Take care of your daily talks!
h‡Zvevi ej‡eb, "Avgvi ev”PvUv fxlY †gavex wKš‘ co‡Z Pvq bv", Z‡Zvevi
Avcwb ev”PvUv‡K bv covi w`‡K †V‡j w`‡”Qb|

hviv me mgq e‡jb "wKQy fv‡jv jv‡M bv", Zviv GK wec`RbK †RjLvbvq ew›`
n‡q hvb| h‡Zvevi Avcwb ej‡eb Z‡Zvevi fv‡jv bv jvMvi †RjLvbvq _vKvi
mgqKvj Avcbvi `xN© n‡e|

h‡Zvevi ej‡eb, "Avgvi mgm¨v †KD ey‡S bv"- Avcbvi mgm¨v †KD eyS‡e bv|
h‡Zv †ewk ej‡eb, Z‡ZvB dvu‡` co‡eb| mevB fve‡e, Iiv mgm¨v hLb †KD ey‡S
bv, Avgvi eyS‡Z hvIqvi `iKvi Kx!

h‡Zvevi ej‡eb, "Avgvi Øviv wKQy n‡e bv", Z‡Zvevi nIqvi m¤¢vebv‡K Avcwb
MjvwU‡c gvi‡Qb| Avcwb Avi †ei n‡Z cvi‡eb bv|

h‡Zvevi fve‡eb, "Avgv‡K g‡b nq †KD cQ›` K‡i bv", Z‡Zvevi Avcwb GKv
nIqvi w`‡K GwM‡q hv‡eb Ges AcQ‡›`i gvby‡l cwiYZ n‡eb|

h‡Zvevi ej‡eb, "‡Zvgvi mv‡_ Avm‡j Avgvi hvq bv", Avm‡jB GKw`b hv‡e bv!
eÜb `ye©j n‡Z n‡Z cvwbi ev‡®úi g‡Zv D‡o hv‡e|

hviv evi evi 'mgm¨v' kãwU D”PviY K‡ib, mgm¨v Zv‡`i Z‡ZvB Rwo‡q a‡i| Avwg
mgm¨vq c‡owQ, AvwQ, Gme bv e‡j ejyb bv - I am facing challenges!
†`L‡eb †RjLvbv †_‡K ZvovZvwo †ewi‡q co‡eb|

j¶ j¶ gvbyl Gfv‡eB nZvkvi K_v e‡j wb‡R‡`i e¨_©Zvi †RjLvbvq ew›` K‡i
†d‡j Ges †mLvb †_‡K Avi Lvjvm cvq bv| wb‡RB wb‡Ri †Rjwbev‡mi mgqKvj
evwo‡q †`q!

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ZiæYiv †hfv‡e e`jv‡”Q †`kUv-
wVK Av‡Q, gvbwQ nvRv‡iv mgm¨v Av‡Q Avgv‡`i GB †`‡k| wKš‘ †g‡Ni Avov‡j
†``xc¨gvb m~h©Uv‡K wK †`LwQ?

ûg, `viæY GK m~‡h©v`q NU‡Q evsjv‡`‡k| 71 Gi c‡i Gevi Dbœq‡bi GK `viæY


m~h© DV‡Q evsjv‡`‡ki| jvj mey‡Ri GB †`‡k ZiæYiv GK wekvj wecøe NUv‡Z
hv‡”Q| Zvi bvg Dbœq‡bi wecøe|

†`‡ki eo GK B-Kgv‡m©i KY©avi, eq‡m LyeB ZiæY - bvg ej‡j mevB wPb‡eb|
Zvi †dvb †c‡q AevK njvg| Kx `viæY KwgDwb‡Kkb| †Kvb GK wel‡q A‡b‡Ki
Dci wei³ n‡q Ibv‡KI GKUv K‡g›U K‡iwQjvg| Zvi K_vq `viæY gy» n‡q
†Mjvg| KwgDwb‡Kk‡bi gvbyl wnmv‡e ej‡Z cvwi, GB ZiæYiv eû`~i hv‡e|
†Lqvj Ki‡j †`L‡eb eo eo Bb‡f÷ ev Bb‡f÷i wb‡q hviv evsjv‡`‡k †ek eo
D‡`¨vM wb‡q‡Q cÖvq mevB ZiæY|

†`‡ki GK eo †Kv¤úvwbi g¨v‡bRvi G‡mwQ‡jb K‡qKw`b Av‡M| Avgvi wKQy


mvwf©m wb‡Z Pvb| wKš‘ Dwb †f‡½ w`‡Z PvB‡jb| ejjvg Avcbvi 1 gv‡mi Mvwoi
Li‡Pi †P‡q Kg †P‡qwQ| Dwb PvKzwii cvkvcvwk wZbwU D‡`¨v‡M wewb‡qvM Ki‡Qb!
MíUv wKš‘ GLv‡bB bq| PvKzwii cvkvcvwk e¨emv‡q wewb‡qvM Ki‡Qb Ggb
ZiæY‡`i msL¨vUv Kgc‡¶ 10 jvL n‡e!

Giv Kx Ki‡Q? Kx Ki‡e? GivI Rv‡b †`‡k nvRv‡iv mgm¨v Av‡Q| Iiv ïay GKUv
KvR Ki‡Q, mgm¨vUvi mgvav‡b †b‡g c‡o‡Q|

nvRv‡iv mgm¨vi mgvavb wKš‘ IBLv‡bB - K_v bv e‡j Kv‡R †b‡g cov| Iiv ZvB
Ki‡Q| Lei wbb bv Avcbvi cv‡ki Kwj‡Mi - †`L‡eb Z‡j Z‡j †mI wewb‡qvM
Ki‡Q!

B`vbxs G ai‡bi ZiæY‡`i †KD †KD Avgvi Kv‡Q Avm‡Qb bvbv mvwf©m wb‡Z|
Avwg ïay I‡`i `y‡Pv‡L ZvwK‡q _vwK - †`wL Avi ïwb|

GB XvKv kn‡i Avgv‡K Lyu‡R †ei K‡i wVK wVK Avgvi Awdm ch©šÍ †h D‡`¨v³v
†cŠ‡Q hvq, Avwg wVK Kx mvwf©mUv Zv‡`i w`‡Z cvi‡ev -eû bvwg`vgxivI _vK‡Z
wVK Avgvi Kv‡QB Av‡m, Avwg eyS‡Z cvwi Giv Zv‡`i †Kvb cÖ‡qvR‡b Kvi Kv‡Q
†M‡j me‡P‡q Avmj mvwf©mwU cv‡e, Zv †R‡b †M‡Q|

Avi Zv hLb GB eq‡mB †R‡b †M‡Q, †K †VKv‡e GB ZiæY D‡`¨v³v‡`i?

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AvMvgx 10 eQ‡ii g‡a¨B GB ZiæY D‡`¨v³iv †`‡k GK bZzb wecøe NUv‡eB, †mUv
wbwðZ|

†mB wecø‡ei bvg - Dbœq‡bi wecøe| nZvkvi Mí w`‡q †dmeyK mqjve bv K‡i
GBme ZiæY‡`i mv‡_ K_v ej‡j, Zv‡`i †Pv‡L ZvKv‡j - †mB wecøeUv ¯úó †`Lv
hv‡e|
njd K‡i ej‡Z cvwi, GB ZiæY‡`i h‡ZvB Avcwb wW-Rym †Rbv‡ikb e‡jb, Giv
Avm‡j ¯^vaxbZvi †h ¯^cœ - †mB ¯^cœ‡K ev¯Íevq‡bi wi‡qj †Rbv‡ikb|

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cv_©K¨Uv ¯^‡cœ I mvn‡m
fvi‡Zi †Q‡j‡g‡qiv hLb we‡k¦i eo eo †Kv¤úvwbi wmBI nIqvi ¯^cœ †`L‡Q,
fviZxqiv ¯^cœ ïayB wK †`L‡Q? ev¯ÍevqbI Ki‡Q!

Sundar Pichai, CEO of Google


Satya Nadella, CEO of Microso
Shantanu Narayen, CEO of Adobe
Francisco DÕSouza, CEO of Cognizant
Rajeev Suri, CEO of Nokia
Sanjay Kumar Jha, CEO of Globalfoundries
Dinesh Paliwal, chairman and CEO of Harman Internationa
George Kurien, CEO of NetApp
Indra Nooyi, chairperson and CEO of PepsiCo
Ajay Banga, president and CEO of MasterCard
Piyush Gupta, CEO of DBS Group
Ivan Manuel Menezes, CEO of Diageo
Rakesh Kapoor, CEO of Reckitt Benckis

Ges AviI `viæY Z_¨ n‡jv

fvi‡Zi me‡P‡q †gavex, D”P †eZbavix ZiæY‡`i 35% PvKzwi †Q‡o w`‡”Q! †Kb?
K‡c©v‡iUiv GB †gavex ZiæY‡`i †eZb wظY, wZb¸Y evwo‡qI ivL‡Z cvi‡Q bv|

KviY,
IB ZiæYiv ey‡S †M‡Q Zviv †h †eZb cvq, wb‡Ri wewb‡qv‡M †gav LvUv‡j Zviv Gi †P‡q
A‡bK †ewk Avq Ki‡Z cvi‡e Ges A‡b¨i ¯^cœ bq, wb‡Ri ¯^cœ ev¯Íevqb Ki‡Z cvi‡e|
†Zv evsjv‡`‡ki †Q‡j‡g‡qiv Kx fve‡Q, Kx Ki‡Q Ges Kx n‡”Q ?

ZLb Avgv‡`i jvL jvL †Q‡j‡g‡qiv fve‡Q, miKvwi e¨vs‡Ki wmwbqi Awdmvi n‡Z
cvi‡jI Rxeb ab¨ (hw`I Rv‡b bv e¨vswKs Zvi Avm‡jB fv‡jv jvM‡e wK jvM‡e bv)|
mviv †`‡k mevB‡K miKvwi PvKzwii fz‡Z †c‡q‡Q| GwU Lye wec‡`i K_v|
Dbœqbkxj evsjv‡`‡k GLb PvB wekvj †emiKvwiLv‡Zi Rb¨ wecyj `ÿ †Q‡j‡g‡q
Avi ZiæY e¨emvqx|

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mevB PvB‡jI †Zv miKvwi PvKzwi cv‡e 2%-3%| evwK 97% nq †emiKvwi PvKzwi
Ki‡Z n‡e A_ev e¨emv Ki‡Z n‡e| 4/5 eQi miKvwi PvKzwii †cQ‡b †`Šov‡Z
†`Šov‡Z jvL jvL †Q‡j‡g‡q `yK~jB nvivq| †emiKvwi PvKzwii Rb¨ G‡`i eo
AskUv †UvUvwj AvbwdU n‡q c‡o|

miKvwi ev †emiKvwi PvKzwiRxex‡`i †eZ‡bi Drm wKš‘ GK - UvKvi Drm wKš‘


e¨emvqx‡`i †`qv U¨v· Ges Zv‡`i e¨emvi K‡c©v‡iU U¨v·, cY¨ Avbv †bqvi ïé
†_‡KB Av‡m|

†Zv ZiæY eqm †_‡K e¨emvi w`‡K †Kb hvw”Q bv Avkvbyiƒc nv‡i? fvi‡Z hv‡”Q
Ges AvMvgx 20/30 eQ‡i †h eo A_©‰bwZK mv¤ªvR¨ n‡e fviZ, Zvi g~j PvwjKv
kw³ n‡e GB DuPy †eZ‡bi PvKzwi †Q‡o †`qv ZiæY D‡`¨v³iv|

†Zv Avgiv wK cvwi bv?

A‡b‡KB †h UvKv †eZb cvb, GKUz mvnm K‡i †mB kÖgUv wb‡Ri cÖwZôv‡b w`‡j
Zvi †P‡q eû¸Y Avq Ki‡Z cv‡ib|

Avgiv hLb ey‡qU †_‡K cvk Kwi, Zvi 90% we‡`‡k hvIqvi c‡iI Avgiv hviv
†_‡K hvB Zv‡`i †ewkifvMB PvKzwi K‡i ga¨ eq‡m †cŠ‡Q †MwQ|

Gi g‡a¨ hviv e¨emv ïiæ K‡iwQ‡jv ïiæ †_‡KB mvnm K‡i, AvR Zv‡`i 1 gv‡mi
Avq Avgv‡`i 15/16 eQ‡ii †eZ‡bi †P‡qI †ewk!

Avgv‡`i mv‡_ I‡`i cv_©K¨ †Kv_vq wQ‡jv?

cÖ_g cv_©K¨Uv ¯^‡cœ Avi wØZxq cv_©K¨Uv n‡jv ¯^‡cœi †cQ‡b †`Šov‡bvi mvnm
wQ‡jv|

¯^cœ †`Lv Avi †mB ¯^‡cœi †cQ‡b †`Šov‡bvi mvnm Av‡Q Ggb ZiæY gvbyl¸‡jv
A‡bK †ewk `iKvi|

80% gvbyl PvKzwi Ki‡e, Zv‡`i †eZb †`qvi Rb¨, †`k GwM‡q †bqvi Rb¨ e¨emv
n‡”Q g~j PvwjKv kw³|

20% ZiæY †gavex D‡`¨v³v KB? nvB †cBW Avgv‡`i †Q‡j‡g‡qiv GKUv `vwg
A¨vcvU©‡g›U Avi Mvwo Avi †Q‡j‡g‡q‡`i Bswjk wgwWqv‡g cov‡Z cvi‡jB wekvj
mvdj¨|

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Giv A‡bK †ewk wKQy Kivi mvg_¨© iv‡L| `iKvi ïay fvi‡Zi IB ZiæY‡`i g‡Zv
DuPz †eZ‡bi PvKzwi Qvovi mvnmUv| mevi bq, 35% Gi †mB mvnmUv _vK‡jB †`k
e`‡j hv‡e|

†`k e`jv‡e PvKzwi w`‡q bq, e¨emvqx‡`i w`‡q| Zv‡`i mv‡cvU© †`qvB n‡”Q
miKvwi †emiKvwi PvKzwiRxex, gš¿Yvj‡qi `vwqZ¡|

GK GKUv †`‡ki Dbœq‡bi GK GK ch©v‡q GKUv wekvj my‡hvM Av‡m| 45 eQi


c‡i evsjv‡`k GLb †h ch©v‡q `vuwo‡q‡Q -

mgqUv †QvU, gvSvwi, eo D‡`¨v‡Mi|

GB mg‡q Avgv‡`i ïay ¯^cœ †`Lv‡bvi gvby‡li †hgb eÇ Afve, ¯^cœ †`Lvi
gvby‡liI Afve c‡o‡Q †`kUv‡Z|

djvdj?

1| me miKvwi Kg©KZ©v Kg©Pvwi‡`i †eZb 54 nvRvi †KvwU UvKv (2016 mv‡j


wQ‡jv 24 nvRvi †KvwU UvKv)| Avi 8-10 jvL we‡`wk‡`i e¨emvqxiv †eZb w`‡”Q
70 nvRvi †KvwU UvKv!

2| †`‡ki K‡qKkZ cÖwZôv‡bi wmBI fviZxq! Avi Avgiv †mLv‡b Zv‡`i Aax‡b
†`Šov‡`Šwo Kwi|

3| fviZxq‡`i 100 wmBI mviv `ywbqv †_‡K hv Avq K‡i, Avgiv jvL jvL kÖwgK
cvwV‡qI †mB UvKv cvB bv|

Avgiv K‡e we‡k¦i †miv cÖwZôvb¸‡jvi wmBI ˆZwi Ki‡ev? AšÍZ †`‡k wmBI gv‡b
nvRvi `‡kK DuPz †eZ‡b e‡m _vKv we‡`wk‡`i RvqMvUv wb‡Z cvi‡ev?

K‡e cvi‡ev?

¯^cœ †`Lv‡bvi gvbyl †hgb PvB, ¯^cœ †`Lvi ZiæY ZiæYxI PvB; `ywbqvi eo eo
cÖwZôv‡bi wmBI n‡e Avgv‡`i ZiæY ZiæYxiv AvMvgx 1 `k‡Ki g‡a¨B|

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Af¨v‡mi dvu`
Awd‡m wKQy gvbyl †`‡L‡Qb? hviv me mgq e‡j †eovq, Kv‡Ri Pv‡c Zviv fZ©v n‡q
hv‡”Qb| Avm‡j Pig dvuwKevR| Giv Kv‡`i dvuwK †`q Rv‡bb? wb‡R‡K| eÇ
†evKv GB gvbyl¸‡jv| wKš‘ †KD e‡j bv, GB †Q‡j ev GB †g‡q, †Zvgvi Af¨vm
wKš‘ †Zvgvi K¨vwiqv‡i me©bvk e‡q Avb‡e| GB dvuwKevRiv dvuwK w`‡Z w`‡Z
g~j¨evb mg‡q hLb Zvi ˆZwi nIqvi K_v, †mB mgqUv bó K‡i †d‡j| Zvici
eqmUv 35 cvi n‡jB nZvkv Zv‡`i wN‡i †d‡j KviY †Zj w`‡qI ZLb PvKzwi
evuPv‡bv hvq bv, ms¯’vq n‡q c‡o evwZj gvj!

wKQy gvbyl fxlY e¨¯Í| MZ 15 eQi Av‡M †h eÜywU e‡jwQ‡jv, Ò†`v‡¯Ív, A‡bK e¨¯Í
AvwQ, wd« n‡qB †Zv‡K †dvb w`‡evÓ| †mB gvbylwU AvRI e¨¯Í, AvMvgx 15 eQ‡i
c‡iI GKB K_v ej‡e -Ò†`v‡¯Ív, A‡bK e¨¯Í AvwQ, wd« n‡qB †Zv‡K †dvb w`‡evÓ|
Avcbvi Pvicv‡kB Ggb e¨¯Í gvbyl cv‡eb| hviv g„Zz¨i Av‡Mi w`b ch©¯Í e¨¯ÍZvi
K_v e‡j| mvgvb¨ KvR‡KI Giv wekvj g‡b K‡i| Kv‡Ri †KŠkj Rv‡b bv| †KD
Zv‡`i e‡jI †`q bv Av”Qv, GB †h e¨¯Í, e¨¯Í Avi e¨¯ÍZvi †`vnvB w`‡”Qv, GB
`ywbqvq Zzwg Qvov wK Avi †KD KvR K‡i bv? msmvi Pvjvq bv! fv‡jvevwmev‡i
†gv‡i GKUzKz †` Aemi - GB Aemi Zviv cvqB bv| N‡i evwn‡i eÇ AwcÖq n‡q
c‡o GB gvbyl¸‡jv|

wKQy gvbyl me mgq ZK© K‡i hvq| ZK© Ki‡Z Ki‡Z GKUv mgq Zv Af¨vm n‡q
hvq, Avi †mB Af¨vm †_‡K †ei n‡Z cv‡i bv| Avi Avgiv GLb Ggb e¨¯Í †h
A‡b¨‡K wb‡q fvebvi mgq †bB| wKš‘ †h gvbylwU Z‡K©i wec`RbK AmyLUv‡K e‡q
†eov‡”Q, †m wKš‘ eÇ Amy¯’| Zvi wPwKrmv `iKvi| GB Z‡K©i Kvi‡Y †m mevi
Kv‡Q AwcÖq n‡q D‡V| Zvi RMZUv †Qv‡Uv n‡q D‡V| bvbvwea †fvMvwšÍ Zvi Rxe‡b
Avm‡ZB _v‡K| Avi †m mvdvi Ki‡ZB _v‡K| Zvici Blame & Excuse Gi
dvu‡` Nyi‡ZB _v‡K|

fv‡jv wKQyi g‡a¨I ÎywU Lyu‡R †eovq wKQy gvbyl| Kó †b‡eb bv, ïay Rvb‡eb †mB
gvbyl¸‡jv fxlYiKg nZvkvMÖ¯Í| Ges Zv‡`i‡K †mB K_vUv †KD e‡jI bv| d‡j
†`vl Lyu‡R †eov‡bv Zvi Af¨vm n‡q hvq|

wKQy gvbyl Av‡Q meRvšÍv kg‡ki| `ywbqvi Ggb †Kvb welq bvB hv †m Rv‡b bv,
Ges wec‡`i RvqMv n‡jv, †m g‡b K‡i †m †hUv Rv‡b, †mUvB mwZ¨| Avi †mLv‡bB
Zvi GwM‡q hvIqvi `iRvUv eÜ n‡q hvq|

wKQy gvbyl Av‡Q ïay gvbyl‡K Kó w`‡q †eovq| K_v w`‡q Kó †`q, AvPiY w`‡q Kó

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†`q Ges Kó bv w`‡q †m _vK‡Z cv‡i bv, Zv †h Af¨vm n‡q †M‡Q! GB ai‡bi
gvbyl¸‡jv †h KZ Awfkvc Kyovq GK Rxe‡b †m wb‡RI Rv‡b bv| wKš‘ GKUv welq
wbwðZ, GB Kó¸‡jv eû¸Y n‡q Zvi Rxe‡b wd‡i Avm‡e| wKš‘ †KD †Zv Zv‡K
e‡j bv, †KD †Zv Zv‡K Rvbvq bv †mB †c‡i‡Ki MíUv! gvbyl Kó †`qvi c‡i ¶gv
PvB‡jI ¶ZUv i‡q hvq|

A_ev aiæb bv wKQy gvbyl Av‡Q, gvbyl‡K cÖKv‡k¨ Acgvb K‡i Avb›` cvq| G GK
weK…Z Avb›`, †mB gvbylUvi gw¯Í‡®‹i †h cÖ‡mmi, †mUvi †cÖvMÖv‡gB Gii _v‡K|
†KD †Kvb fzj Ki‡j Zv‡K Avov‡j †W‡K e‡j w`‡Z nq, GUv †Kvb ZË¡K_v bq,
GUv eva¨evaKZv, GUv f`ªZv|

wKQy gvbyl Av‡Q DcKvi K‡i Avevi SvuUvI gv‡i| GK`gB `iKvi †bB GBme
DcKvi Kivi| KviY SvuUv gviv‡Z †h ¶wZ nq, †h ¶Z m„wó nq, Zv eû¸Y ¶wZKi
†mB DcKv‡ii BwZevPK d‡ji Zzjbvq| GB gvbyl¸‡jv Rv‡b bv, †bv nvg© cwjwm
ej‡Z wKQy Av‡Q hvi mnR gv‡b n‡jv, Avwg †Zvgvi DcKvi Ki‡Z bv cvi‡jI ¶wZ
Ki‡ev bv|

wKQy gvbyl Avcbvi K_v ïb‡ZB Pvq bv| ïay e‡jB hvq| hviv A‡b¨i K_v g‡bv‡hvM
w`‡q ï‡b bv, G‡`i Rxe‡b fz‡ji †kl †bB| Ávb Zv‡`i mxgve× n‡q _v‡K, KviY
A‡b¨i KvQ †_‡K Giv wKQyB wb‡Z cv‡i bv|

wKQy gvbyl hviv Rxe‡b cÖwZkÖæwZ †h ivL‡Z nq †mB Rv‡b bv| cÖwZkÖæwZ fv½v Av‡iK
ai‡bi gvbyl| cÖwZkÖæwZ fv½‡Z fv½‡Z Zv‡`i Af¨vm n‡q hvq| †mLv‡b †_‡K Avi
†ei n‡Z cv‡i bv|

wKQy gvbyl Av‡Q, me mgq fziæ KuyP‡K _v‡K| `ywbqvi me wKQy‡ZB Giv wei³| GB
c¨uvPvgy‡Li gvbyl¸‡jv eÇ `ytwL| nvRvi gvby‡li fx‡oI Giv eÇ GKv| G‡`i
†`‡L Ab¨ gvbyliv wei³ nq| gvbyl‡K wei³ K‡i Rxe‡b wKQy cvIqv hvq bv| ZvB
GB gvbyl¸‡jvi Rxe‡bi cvIqvi LvZvUv Avm‡j k~b¨B †_‡K hvq|

hv‡`i K_v ejwQ, ej‡ev Giv Avgv‡`i N‡i Av‡Q, evwn‡i Av‡Q, me©Î Av‡Q| GB
gvbyl¸‡jvB GBme Af¨v‡mi Kvi‡Y mgm¨vq RR©wiZ _v‡K| bvbv ai‡bi Sv‡gjv
†cvnv‡Z _v‡K| Giv me‡P‡q †h g~j¨evb m¤ú` nvivq Zv n‡jv eÜy| G‡`i Avm‡j
Avmj eÜz Kg _v‡K, wec‡` G‡`i cv‡k mwZ¨Kvi mgvavb †`qvi g‡Zv eyw× †`qvi
gvbyl Kg _v‡K|

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GivB e‡j A‡b¨iv Zv‡K wnsmv K‡i, em Zv‡K GwM‡q hvIqvi my‡hvM w`‡”Q bv,
†KD Zv‡K eyS‡Z Pvq bv, `ywbqv‡Z †KD myLx bv, A‡b¨iv UvKv w`‡q PvKzwi †c‡q‡Q,
em‡K †Zj w`‡q cÖ‡gvkb †c‡q‡Q!

Giv Avm‡j wb‡Ri Kv‡Q Avi _v‡K bv, evwni wb‡qB e¨¯Í _v‡K| A‡b¨iv Kx Ki‡jv,
†Kb Ki‡jv, †K Kxfv‡e PvKzwi/cÖ‡gvkb †c‡jv, ciPP©vi GK fqven dvu‡` c‡o
_v‡K|

GB dvu` Zv‡`i GwM‡q hvIqvi iv¯Ív‡K KvbvMwj evwb‡q †`q| GwM‡q hvIqvi me
iv¯Ív¸‡jv Giv wb‡RivB eÜ K‡i †`q|

GBme Kz Af¨v‡mi dvu` †_‡K gyw³ Acwinvh©| A_P †h gvbylwU me mgq nvwmLywk
_v‡K, wb‡Ri KvR wb‡q mgq †ewk †`q, A‡b¨i mv‡_ KzZK© K‡i bv, A‡b¨i K_v
gb w`‡q ï‡b, †KD mgm¨vq co‡j ü`q w`‡q mgvavb Kivi †Póv K‡i, †KD
cÖ‡gvkb †c‡j Zv‡K ¯^vMZ Rvbvq, wim‡c± Ki‡Z Rv‡b, †KD hyw³‡Z nvi‡Z em‡j
Zv‡K nvwi‡q ˆckvwPK Avb›` †bq bv, K_vi gv‡S Safe Exit/my‡hvM K‡i w`‡q
Zvi gvb evuPvq|

Zviv me‡P‡q fv‡jv Rv‡b Kz Af¨v‡mi dvu` Avm‡j me‡P‡q gnvme©bvk K‡i
wb‡Ri|

GB Af¨vm¸‡jv bv _vK‡j GwM‡q hvIqvi `iRv¸‡jv †Lvjv _v‡K| wec‡` mvnvh¨


G‡m c‡o, PvKzwi GKUv †M‡j wZbUvi Advi Av‡m, Rxeb‡K Dc‡fvM Kivi mgq
_v‡K, Amxg †bqvg‡Z f‡i _v‡K Zvi ü`q|

†Zv GwM‡q hvIqvi Avi fv‡jv _vKvi `iRv¸‡jv †Lvjv ivL‡eb bv eÜ ivL‡eb?

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÷vU© Avc: Fashion or Passion?
mviv †`‡k GKUv nvIqv †j‡M‡Q| †mB nvIqvq Avevi evZvm †`qvi †jvKI Av‡Q|
GB nvIqvi bvg ÷vU© Avc| bZyb †Kvb AvBwWqv wb‡q e¨emv ïiæ! GB gyn~‡Z© XvKvq
hviv PvKzwi Ki‡Q, Zv‡`i eo GKUv Ask †Mvc‡b †Mvc‡b K‡qRb wg‡j e¨emv
Ki‡Q! GKUz `vov‡jB PvKzwi †Q‡o w`‡e| fvi‡Z 35% Uc †cBW Bqvs
cÖ‡dkbvjiv PvKzwi Qvo‡Q, wb‡RivB weR‡bm ïiæ Ki‡Q| wKš‘ evsjv‡`‡k Avm‡j
Kx n‡”Q? wb‡Ri wKQy K_v e‡j Gi `iKvi Avi A`iKvi wb‡q wKQy ej‡ev|

†kl PvKzwi KiZvg †mf `¨ wPj‡W«‡b| †ek eo ms¯’v Ges Avgvi Kv‡Ri
†cvU©‡dvwjI †ek eo I fvwi wQ‡jv| Kv‡Ri mvdj¨ wQ‡jv `viæY| mviv `ywbqvq GB
ms¯’vi 25-30 nvRvi ÷vdiv †h I‡qemvBUwU e¨envi K‡i (onenet), †mB
bvgwUI Avgvi †`qv Ges Avgvi †`qv †mB bvgwU 130 †`‡k wecyj cÖwZ‡hvwMZv
K‡i Rqx n‡qwQ‡jv| GQvov PviwU ms¯’v GK nIqvi c‡i GKK eª¨v‡Û mevB‡K wb‡q
Avmv, wecyj cvewj‡Kk‡bi †`Lvïbv Kiv, `yBwU `viæY †÷vwi eyK †h `y‡Uv GLbI
Nyi‡Q †`‡k †`‡k, Avi me‡P‡q eo K_v, AviI A‡bK wKQy †giæ`Ð DuPz K‡i GB
Exciting Caree Dc‡fvM K‡i PvKzwi †_‡K wPiw`‡bi Rb¨ we`vq †bB|

cÖ¯ÍwZ `yÕeQi Av‡M †_‡KB wb‡Z _vwK| Ges GKUv AvBwU dvg© †`B K‡qKRb
wg‡j| PvKzwiRxe‡b cÖPzi gvby‡li mv‡_ mym¤úK© M‡o D‡V Ges Zviv bvbv Kvi‡YB
Avgvi wec‡` cv‡k wQ‡jb| Zv‡`iB Kj¨v‡Y Avwg GKUv eo KvRI †c‡q †Mjvg!
GB KvR hviv w`‡qwQ‡jb Ges mnvqZv K‡iwQ‡jb, `yc¶B gb †_‡K PvB‡Zb Avwg
†hb e¨emvwU‡Z GwM‡q †h‡Z cvwi| Zv‡`i AvcÖvY †Póv m‡Ë¡I Avwg AvBwU
e¨emv‡Z Pigfv‡e †dBj Kwi| Uvbv 18 gv‡mi Pig cwikÖg, wecyj Pvc (cÖavbZ
mgqgZ KvR w`‡Z bv cviv) Avgvi kvixwiK Ges Avw_©K GKUv eo wech©‡qi g‡a¨
†d‡j †`q|

Avgvi Kv‡bKk‡bi †Kvb Afve wQ‡jv bv, Avgv‡K KvR †`qvi gvby‡li Afve wQ‡jv
bv, Zvic‡iI e¨emvUv `vuo Kiv‡Z cvwi wb| wecyj Avw_©K Avi kvixwiK ¶wZB bq,
Avgv‡K †hUv me‡P‡q cxov w`‡q‡Q, Zv n‡jv Avgvi Dci hviv Mfxi wek¦vm
†i‡LwQ‡jb, hviv Avgvi g½‡ji Rb¨ AviI A‡bK KvR ˆZwi K‡i †i‡LwQ‡jb,
Avwg Zv‡`i †mB wek¦vmUv ivL‡Z cvwi wb| wbtm‡›`‡n AvBwU Lv‡Z wecyj fwel¨r
Av‡Q| wKš‘ Avwg †Kb †mB my‡hvM wb‡Z cvijvg bv?
DËiUv Lye mnR| me e¨emv mevi Rb¨ bq! AšÍZ 7wU eo ai‡bi fzj K‡iwQ| Gi
g‡a¨ me‡P‡q wec`RbK fzjwU wQ‡jv wiµzU‡g›U| 3 gv‡mi KvR 18 gvm ch©šÍ †U‡b

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wb‡q †M‡Q| Avi GB KvR Uvb‡Z wM‡q GK`g dZzi n‡q †M‡Q Avgvi †Kv¤úvwb|
wb‡qvMK„Ziv †h †Zgb wKQyB Rv‡b bv, †mUv eyS‡Z eyS‡Z K‡qK gvm P‡j hvq|
†`‡k AvBwU Lv‡Z cÖPzi Avm‡j Pig A`¶ †jvK Av‡Q| `¶ †jv‡Ki fqven msKU|

hv Ki‡ZB n‡e -

cÖ_gZ - Avcwb wK ûRy‡M bvg‡Qb bvwK Avm‡jB †mB e¨emvUv Ki‡Z Pvb? †mUv
wbwðZ n‡q bvgyb| fv‡jv bv jvM‡j PvKzwii Nvwb †hgb Uvbv DwPZ bq, e¨emvi Nvwb
UvbvI wVK bq| †h e¨emv †ev‡Sb bv, Rv‡bb bv †mLv‡bB bvg‡j IB †kqvi
gv‡K©‡Ui g‡Zv aiv LvIqv wbwðZ|

wØZxqZ - bZzb e¨emv‡q Avcbv‡K me‡P‡q `¶ †jvK Lyu‡R wb‡Z n‡e| wewb‡qvMUv
GLv‡bB Kiv fv‡jv| hw` GLv‡b fzj K‡ib, `vov‡bvi cÖ_g kZ©B †kl n‡q hv‡e|
wiµzU‡g‡›U Kv‡iv Lvjv‡Zv fvB, Zvj‡Zv fvB G¸‡jv GK`gB ev` w`‡Z n‡e|

Z…ZxqZ - wUg| wU‡gi g‡a¨ hw` evZvm LvIqv Avi K_v ejvi †jvK †ewk _v‡K,
†mB e¨emv `vov‡bvi cÖkœB Av‡m bv|

90% ÷vU© Avc e¨_© n‡”Q| cÖavb KviY - Dc‡ii 3wU|


Zvn‡j Avgvi meB wK jm n‡jv?

wecyj jm K‡i wk‡LwQ| †kLvUv w`jvg| Avcbviv †hb Avgvi g‡Zv j‡m bv c‡ob|
†mB wk¶v †_‡K AviI GKUv ÷vU© Avc Avwg ïiæ K‡iwQ Zvi wewb‡qvM Av‡Mi
†P‡qI †ewk| 3 eQ‡ii Av‡M †eªK B‡f‡b Avmvi m¤¢vebv †bB| GLv‡b UvKv hv‡”Q
cÖPzi| wKš‘ GB ÷vU© Av‡c Avwg †hB Avb›` cvB, †mUvi Kv‡Q UvKv wKQyB bv| Ges
wVK 18 gv‡mi gv_vq ey‡SwQ wb‡Ri gb Uv‡b Ggb e¨emv ïiæ Ki‡j, GwU Avcwb
`ªæZ eyS‡Z cvi‡eb| Ges †mLv‡b GwM‡q hvIqvi m¤¢vebv †ewk|

mnR K‡i ej‡j

90% ÷vU© Avc †Kb †dBj K‡i, †mUvi w`‡K bv ZvwK‡q ej‡Z cvwi,
10% †Kb mdj nq? KviY, †mwU Zv‡`i Passion.

10% mdj nq †h Kvi‡Y, Avcbv‡KI ZvB Ki‡Z n‡e| Avcwb mdj n‡eb| KviY
10% n‡jv wms‡ni g‡Zv, D‡Ïk¨ Rv‡b Avi Rv‡b D‡Ïk¨ Kxfv‡e AR©b Ki‡Z nq|

Business is not a fashion, it’s a passion.

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Rxe‡b †Kb eÜy PvB?
coZvg PÆMÖvg Mfvb©‡g›U nvB¯‹y‡j (wPUvMvs K‡j‡Ri wecix‡Z)| Avgv‡`i GK
e¨vP wmwbqi wQ‡jb Zywnb fvB| Uvbv dv÷© wQ‡jb| gv wQ‡jb PÆMÖv‡gi me‡P‡q
bvgx ¯‹y‡ji †nWwg‡÷«m|

†mB Avw›U †Q‡j‡K Kv‡iv mv‡_ wgk‡Z w`‡Zb bv| Zywnb fvB, K¬vm bvB‡b †iRvë
Lvivc Kivi c‡i Zv‡K †h cwigvY †g›Uvj UP©vi Kiv nq, Zv GL‡bv fyj‡Z cvwi
bvB| †mB Am¤¢e fv‡jv Zywnb fvB, hvi GmGmwm‡Z †evW©÷¨vÛ Kivi K_v, †c‡jb
†U‡bUz‡b dv÷© wWwfkb, Zvici, UP©vi Av‡iv evo‡jv|

Zywnb fvB, Zvici? Zvici `yeQi c‡i †`‡LwQ ïwK‡q nvo wRiwR‡i n‡q †M‡Qb,
Ibv‡K †kKj w`‡q †eu‡a ivLv n‡q‡Q| Gfv‡eB GKgvÎ †Q‡jwU‡K †kl K‡i †`qv
nq| †KvwU †KvwU UvKvi m¤ú` Zv‡`i| Kx n‡jv †kl ch©šÍ?

Rvwn‡`i eÜyiv mevB ey‡qU, †gwW‡Kj †_‡K cvk K‡i‡Q, wKš‘ I Avi covïbv
Ki‡Z cv‡i wb| Lye fv‡jv K‡j‡R co‡jI B›UviwgwW‡qU cvk K‡iwb| mviv¶Y
Bswjk b‡fj cov, wm‡bgv †`LvB Zvi KvR ¸‡Yi g‡a¨ ïay `yBUv, Bs‡iwR ej‡j
eySv hvq bv †m †`wk bv we‡`wk Avi gvby‡li mv‡_ †hvMv‡hv‡Mi Amxg ¶gZv| GB
K‡i K‡i eqmUv 28 n‡q †M‡Q| we‡q Kiv `iKvi! †g‡q w`‡e †K?

bv, †Qv‡Uv‡ejvi GK eÜy GKUv Mvwo †ePv‡Kbvi †Kv¤úvwb‡Z †mj‡m KvR w`‡q
w`‡jv| we‡qUv †hb Ki‡Z cv‡i! gvÎ 5 eQ‡iB †mB †Q‡jwU‡K †Kv¤úvwb 44 jvL
UvKvi eª¨vÛ MvwoB bq, †eZb evwo‡q †`q 8 ¸Y| IB †h KwgDwb‡Kkb w¯‹jm
IUvi Rb¨ †Zv ey‡q‡U, †gwW‡K‡ji mvwU©wd‡KU jv‡M bv, IUvB n‡”Q Zvi mvd‡j¨i
PvweKvwV| †QvÆ GKUv ïiæ eÜyi †QvÆ GKUz nvZ evwo‡q †`qv, †Kv_vq wb‡q †M‡jv
Zv‡K!

Uvbv 18 eQi e¨emv K‡i nVvZ wech©q AvwZK ingv‡bi| ga¨ eq‡m GB µvBwmm
†h KxiKg fqven µvBwmm Zv A‡b‡KB Rv‡bb, nvU© A¨vUvK †Zv GB eq‡mB nq!
ZvB bv! mgm¨v †bB GB wech©‡q nvZ evwo‡q w`‡jb wek¦we`¨vj‡qi iæg‡gU †bvgvb
ingvb!

ivRbxwZ‡Z Rwo‡q GK eQi wcwQ‡q c‡o mncvwV‡`i Zyjbvq gÄy fvB| ey‡q‡U
wcwQ‡q _vKv GK fxlY gvbwmK hš¿Yv, wKš‘ gÄy fvB‡K cÖwZw`b wRwc Awdm †_‡K
m½ w`‡Zb ZviB iæg‡gU AvRv`| †f‡½ ¸wo‡q hvIqv gÄy fvB‡K AviI wech©q
†_‡K evuwP‡q †`q AvRv`| AvRv‡`i †mB cÖwZw`‡bi m½ bv †c‡j ey‡qU †_‡K
nq‡Zv cvk KivB n‡Zv bv AvR‡Ki mdj e¨emvqx gÄy fvB‡qi|
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Avm‡j eÜy‡`i Lye `iKvi| wech©‡q me‡P‡q †ewk `iKvi eÜy‡`i| eÜyi m½, eÜyi
fv‡jvevmv, eÜyi nvZ evwo‡q †`qv †h KZfv‡e Rxeb‡K GwM‡q †`q, Zv Avgiv
A‡b‡KB Rvwb|

wKš‘ hv‡`i eÜy †bB? †Kb Zv‡`i eÜy _v‡K bv? †Kb Zv‡`i eÜy nq bv? KviY n‡Z
cv‡i cwiev‡ii wgk‡Z bv †`qv A_ev AviI A‡bK|

GKw`b Awd‡m wPwV †c‡jb, Avcbvi PvKzwii †gqv` Avi evo‡Q bv| Kv‡K ej‡eb,
GB GKUv PvKzwi †`wLm †Zv!! eÜy Kx ej‡e? Av‡i `~i, PvKzwi 1Uv †M‡Q 10Uv cvwe,
Pj kvqjvi evmvq Ny‡i Avwm| bv n‡j ej‡e, ev›`ieb Ny‡i Avwm! bv n‡j ej‡e,
†`v‡¯Ív, wmwfUv cvVvBqv †`!

wW‡fvm©! †eªK Avc, Dbœq‡bi mv‡_ G¸‡jv ev‡o Ges evsjv‡`‡k Zv wec`RbK
nv‡iB evo‡Q GB mg‡q g‡bvRM‡Zi †h fvOPzi P‡j, ZLb Kvi Kv‡Q hv‡eb? Kv‡K
ej‡eb? GB mg‡q me‡P‡q †ewk gvbwmK mv‡cvU© jv‡M| GKUv eÜy _vK‡j GB
wech©¯Í mg‡q Avcbv‡K †f‡½ c‡o hvIqv †_‡K i¶v Ki‡eB|

wm‡g÷v‡ii †iRvë Lvivc n‡q‡Q? wmwRwcG WvDb? A‡b‡KB Avcbv‡K Gwo‡q


hv‡e| †K _vK‡e cv‡k? IB eÜyivB|

A‡b‡K hLb e‡j Zvi †Kvb eÜy bvB, ZLb Avwg Lye fq cvB| hv‡`i eÜy bvB,
Zv‡`i KwgDwb‡Kkb Lye Lvivc n‡q hvq| Aí‡Z Zviv †f‡½ c‡o, Aí‡ZB †i‡M
hvq, †bwZevPK cÖwZwµqv †`q, KwVb cwiw¯’wZ †gvKv‡ejvi `¶Zv¸‡jv Zv‡`i
_v‡K bv| A‡bKUv †Wv‡gBb A¨v‡d‡±i g‡Zv Ae¯’v nq Zv‡`i| GKUv mgm¨v
Av‡iKUv mgm¨v wb‡q Av‡m, `yB mgm¨v ZLb wZb mgm¨v evbvq, wZb mgm¨v ZLb
Pvi mgm¨v evbvq - Zv‡`i Rxe‡bi Gfv‡e mgm¨v evo‡ZB _v‡K|

`xN© Rxe‡b A‡bKeviB Avgiv wec‡` cwo| ZLb gvbyl †Pbv hvq| wec‡` co‡j
PvgwPKvI bvwK jvw_ gv‡i| wKš‘ nvZ evwo‡q †`q †K? †m †Zv eÜy| Rxe‡bi Avb‡›`
†hgb eÜy _v‡K, wech©‡qI eÜy _v‡K|

Rxe‡bi gvbwmK, Avw_©K, ˆeevwnK, mvgvwRK me Avb›` Avi wec‡` cv‡k Av‡Q
†K? †K Avevi? PvBwQ †Zvgvi eÜyZv! Av‡Q eÜy|

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¯^‡cœi mxgvbv †hfv‡e Qvwo‡q hvq
¯^cœ GK `viæY †Ljv hv Avcwb †L‡jb, GB ¯^‡cœi †KvP Avcwb, ivBU DBs, †jdU
DBs Avcwb, Avevi wW‡dÛviI Avcwb, Avi me‡P‡q eo †hwU ¯^‡cœi ÷«vBKviI
Avcwb| B‡qm, BD Avi `¨ ÷«vBKvi!

Gi †h gRv, hviv †L‡j Ges †Mvj K‡i, ZvivB Rv‡b| evwKivI `k©K wnmv‡e gRv
cvq| Avwg †Zv Avgvi †Ljvi ÷«vBKvi, `k©K bB Ñ fve‡Z n‡e Gfv‡eB|

AvwgI †QvU GKUv ¯^cœ wb‡q `yeQi Av‡M hvÎv ïiæ K‡iwQjvg| w`b h‡Zv hv‡”Q, ¯^cœ
Z‡ZvB eo n‡”Q| Avgvi mv‡_ hviv Av‡Qb, Zv‡`i e`‡j hvIqv †`wL, GwM‡q
hvIqv Avwg †`wL, Avwg †`wL Kxfv‡e Zv‡`i g‡a¨ GK Mfxi AvZ¥wek¦vm m„wó nq,
AvZ¥wek¦v‡mi GK Av‡jvK”Q¡Uv Zv‡`i †Pv‡L gy‡L †f‡m I‡V, Zv‡`i ewW
j¨vs¸‡q‡R Zv dz‡U I‡V|
gvbyl‡K AvZ¥wek¦vmx Kivi g‡Zv GK ¯^cœ †`‡LwQ eûKvj| Ges †mB ¯^cœ wb‡q hLb
†Ljv KiwQ, †`LwQ n¨vu, Avwg cvwi| GUv GgbB `„k¨gvb †h mevB Zv †`‡L, wKQyUv
AevK nq| GB mvdj¨¸‡jv cÖwZw`b Avgvi ¯^cœ‡K eo Ki Zzj‡Q| GLb ¯^cœ †`LwQ
Ggb wKQyi, hLb KvR ïiæ K‡iwQjvg, Zv †_‡K A‡bK A‡bK eo ¯^cœ| mevi gv‡S
AvZ¥wek¦vm evwo‡q Zzj‡Z Zzj‡Z AvwgI †h n‡q †MwQ AviI AvZ¥wek¦vmx| n¨vu, Avwg
cviwQ Ges cvi‡ev! ¯^í cwim‡i †Lj‡Z †Lj‡Z m¦cœ GLb A‡bK eo gv‡V †Ljvi!
¯^cœ wb‡q Avgiv hLb †Ljv ïiæ K‡i †`B, Avgiv eyS‡Z cvwi ¯^cœ wb‡q †Lj‡Z n‡j,
KZ wKQy jv‡M| †j‡M _vKvUv mevB ewj, GUv mwZ¨| †Lj‡Z †Lj‡Z wek¦vmUv
evo‡Z _v‡K| `¶Zv evo‡Z _v‡K| hv wKQyB jv‡M, Zv Avgiv wKš‘ †Ljv bv ïiæ
Ki‡j, wbqwgZ bv †Lj‡j Rvb‡ZB cvwi bv!

†KD †KD †Ljv ïiæ K‡iB cvwj‡q hvq| fv‡e, m¤¢e bv| †m ZLb A‡b¨i ¯^cœ wbg©v‡Yi
kÖwgK wnmv‡e KvR ïiæ K‡i| wb‡Ri Rxe‡bi ¯^c‡œ K Kei w`‡q †`q GKUv eo Ask|
wKQy gvby‡li Af¨vm n‡jv nvj a‡i ivLv| Zviv cvwj‡q hvevi gvbyl bq| †Lj‡Z
†b‡g Zviv A¨vUvwKs †Ljv †Lj‡Z Pvq| Z‡e A¨vUvwKs †Ljv †Lj‡Z n‡j `¶Zvi
weKí †bB|

Avcwbi ¯^‡cœi ÷«vBKvi Avcwb, Avcwb †gwm, Avcwb †ivbvj‡`v, Avcwb †bBgvi|
GKRb †gwm †hfv‡e ˆZwi nq, †ivbvj‡`v †hfv‡e ˆZwi nq, †bBgvi †hfv‡e ˆZwi
nq, †mfv‡e ˆZwi n‡Z n‡e|

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¯^‡cœi †cQ‡b †QvUv gv‡b ¯^cœ wb‡q †Ljv, †Lj‡ZB n‡e Avcbv‡K, hZ¶Y †Mvj bv
Ki‡Z cvi‡eb| cÖwZw`b Av‡iKUz fv‡jv †Lj‡Z n‡e, cÖwZw`b †Ljvq KZUzKz
G¸‡jb †`L‡Z n‡e| we‡kølY Ki‡Z n‡e wbcyYfv‡eB| Uv‡M©‡Ui †Kv_vq Av‡Qb, Zv
Rvbv _vK‡Z n‡e|

hZB Avgiv ¯^cœ wb‡q †Lwj, ZZB †`wL wbZ¨ bZzb ¯^cœ Avi cvB †m¸‡jv‡K AvbjK
Kivi P¨v‡jÄ| AvbjK Ki‡Z Ki‡Z †`wL ¯^‡cœi gvVUv GK mg‡q eo n‡Z _v‡K|
¯^‡cœi GB ch©vqUv `viæY| hLb ¯^‡cœi gv‡Vi cwiax evo‡Z _v‡K| we¯§qKi †m
cÖkvwšÍ| gvV hZ eo n‡Z _v‡K, Avcwb Z‡Zv P¨v‡jÄ Abyfe K‡ib, Z‡ZvB
Avcbvi AvZ¥wek¦vm Mfxi n‡q D‡V, Avcwb Avi wdi‡eb bv, †Mvj w`‡qB Qvo‡eb|

Avgvi mv‡_ GLb wKQy gvbyl Av‡Qb, hviv Avm‡j †Mvj w`‡qB Qvo‡eb| cÖ‡Z¨‡KB
†h KLb Zv‡`i ¯^‡cœi mxgvbv evwo‡q wb‡q‡Qb, wb‡RI AevK nB| Avgv‡`i mv‡_
_vK‡Z _vK‡ZB GKRb GLb ¯^cœ †`L‡Qb, †`‡ki me‡P‡q eo K‡c©v‡i‡Ui wmBI
n‡eb! GB‡Zv wKQyw`b Av‡MI fve‡Zb, wRGg n‡jB Rxe‡bi ¯^cœ c~iY n‡jv!
¯^cœ¸‡jv Gfv‡eB e`‡j hvq!

Qvo‡eb bv, hZ¶Y Avcwb †Mvj bv w`‡Z cv‡ib| Avi n¨vu, ¯^‡cœi GB †Ljvi cÖwZUv
ivD‡ÛB wecyj Avb›` Av‡Q| †mB Avb›` Avm‡j Avcbvi Rb¨ A¨vbvR©vBRvi|
†m¸‡jv gy‡Vv f‡i wb‡Z n‡e| †m¸‡jv Avcbvi GwM‡q hvIqvi Ab¨Zg
A¨vKmvjv‡iBUvi|

eywoM½vi cvwb wKš‘ cwi®‹vi nIqv ïiæ K‡i‡Q, Avi Av‡Mi g‡Zv 12 N›Uv †jvW
†kwWs wKš‘ †bB| GK wecyj m¤¢vebvi †`k GLb evsjv‡`k| †`‡k A‡bK P¨v‡jÄ
Av‡Q, †mB me Le‡i †hb Avcwb wb‡Ri ¯^‡cœi K_v fz‡j bv hvb| AvIqvgxjxM,
weGbwc Gme wb‡q wKQy †jvK _v‡K _vKzK, AvcvZZ mgqUv wKšÍ ¯^cœ wb‡q †Ljvi
mgq|

Avcwb ej‡ZB cv‡ib `yb©xwZi me `iRv Rvbvjv †Lvjv GB †`‡k ¯^cœ wb‡q Kxfv‡e
†Lj‡ev| Avi Avwg ewj, ¯^‡cœi `iRv Rvbvjv¸‡jvI wKš‘ †Lvjv| ¯^cœ wb‡q †LjvUv
ïiæ K‡i w`b, †Mvj Avcwb Ki‡ebB|

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†`kUv‡Z Avi _vKv hvq bv!
G †`kUv‡Z wK gvbyl _vK‡Z cv‡i! e‡j‡Qb, †Rwib Lvb, wek¦we`¨vj‡qi wk¶K,
whwb 5 eQ‡i GKwU K¬vmI †bbwb| †eZbfvZv, we‡`kågY, KÝvj‡UwÝ, (¸Re
Av‡Q, `‡ji `vjvwj K‡iB wk¶K n‡q‡Qb!) †Kvb wKQy eÜ †bB! ïay K¬vm †bqvi
mgq cvb bv, †`kUv‡Z wK _vKv hvq e‡jb!

Gw`‡K K‡c©v‡i‡Ui †cvlv GK weÁvcb wbg©vZv †dey‡Z e‡j‡Qb, Ò†`kUv ev‡ji


†`k!Ó†`kUv †Zv ev‡ji †`kB! bv n‡j Avcbvi g‡Zv †cvlv hviv ïay weÁvcb
evwb‡qB wecyj m¤ú‡`i gvwjK n‡q‡Qb, †mB e¨e¯’vUv †Zv GB †`k K‡i w`‡Zv bv!
Av‡iK WvKmvB‡U iK÷vi e‡j‡Qb, Òevsjv‡`k BR A¨ dvwKs Kvw›U«!Ó, †`k †_‡K
UvKv Kvgvb Avi †mB UvKv w`‡qB we‡`‡k c‡o‡Qb, we‡`k Nyi‡Qb! mwi e‡j‡Qb
wZwb! GB dvwKs Kvw›U«‡Z wK gvbyl _v‡K?

Gw`‡K KvbvWv †_‡K GbwRI Kg©x wj‡L‡Qb, evsjv‡`‡k wK gvbyl _v‡K? hw`I
cÖ‡R± †_‡K cÖvq 20 †KvwU AvZ¥mvr K‡i †`k †Q‡o‡Qb Agj wek¦vm! Avm‡jB †Zv
†`kUv‡Z wK _vKv hvq?

Iw`‡K 200 †KvwU UvKv M‡gi jyUcvUKvix ej‡Q, G †`k †_‡K `yb©xwZevR‡`i
wbg©~j K‡i Qvo‡eb wZwb!

wek¦we`¨vj‡q †_‡K cvk K‡iB 8 jvL UvKv w`‡q e¨vs‡K Xz‡K c‡o‡Q Rvgvj †nv‡mb
Avi 11 jvL UvKv w`‡q Xz‡K‡Q †ivgvbv †PŠaywi| `yR‡bB mZZvi eywj AvD‡i
hv‡”Qb! †dmey‡Ki Iqv‡j Zviv mZZvi wk‡ivgwb| ZvivI Avevi B`vbxs
Bwg‡MÖk‡bi avÜv Ki‡Qb! G †`kUv‡Z bvwK _vKv hvq bv!

Gw`‡K bvixi AwaKvi wb‡q K_vevZ©v e‡jB cÖPzi m¤ú` K‡i †d‡j‡Qb, ixZv ivq|
wZwb wj‡L‡Qb, M„nKg©x‡`i †iBc ev wbh©vZb KivB hvq! G †Kvb †`v‡li bq| G
†cv÷ w`‡qB wZwb P‡j †M‡Qb †Wvbv‡ii mv‡_ cÖkvšÍ gnvmvM‡ii GK Øx‡c AeKvk
hvc‡b|

Iw`‡K fviZxq wnw›` P¨v‡bj †`L‡Z †`L‡Z fvi‡Zi †PŠÏ¸ôx D×vi Ki‡Qb mvjvg
†kL| †`kUv fviZ `L‡j K‡i †dj‡Q, Iw`‡K eD Avevi fviZxq †cuqvR Qvov
ivbœvB K‡ib bv!

wk¶vi Ae¨e¯’v wb‡q wekvj e³e¨ w`‡”Qb Rwgi wgqv| wb‡Ri †g‡q‡K ¯‹y‡j fwZ©
K‡i‡Qb eqm Kwg‡q‡Qb `yB eQi, Avi Nyl w`‡q‡Qb 7 jvL! ejyb Gi c‡iI wK
G‡`‡k _vKv hvq? e‡j‡Qb, Rwgi wgqv!
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Gw`‡K cwi‡ek wb‡q Av‡›`vjb Ki‡Qb, cÖ‡KŠkjx, Wv³vi, wk¶K‡`i GKUv MÖæc|
hv‡`i cÖZ¨‡Ki e¨emv Av‡Q| miKvi †_‡K cÖ‡R± †c‡j Pzc _v‡Kb, Avi bv †c‡j
nvDKvD! Gw`‡K Av‡iK ¯’cwZ KvR bv †c‡q wUwf‡Z Zzgyj e‡K hv‡”Qb miKvi‡K!
A_P mviv Rxeb †L‡q‡Qb Zv‡`i cv †P‡UB! ejyb GB †`kUv‡Z wK _vKv hvq?

Iw`‡K f~wg`my¨‡`i wUwf P¨v‡b‡j †`k D×vi Ki‡Qb mvsevw`K Avi eyw×Rxex
bvgavixiv ! wewfbœ `vjvj‡`i wUwf P¨v‡b‡j miMig mvsevw`K Avi eyw×Rxexiv|
hvevi mgq f~wg`my¨‡`i UvKvi LvgwU wb‡q `vuZ †Kwj‡q ej‡Qb, "fvB, Avevi
WvK‡eb Avkv Kwi! †`kUv‡Zv Gfv‡e Pj‡Z cv‡i bv! Avcbviv Av‡Qb e‡jB Avgiv
AvwQ!!"

Iw`‡K †hB we‡`‡k P‡j hvq, hvIqvi mgq e‡j hvq, ÓGB †`kUv‡Z Kx _vKv hvq?Ó
hvIqvi mgq wKš‘ ûwÛ K‡i †kl cqmvUvI wb‡q hvq| Gfv‡e eQ‡i A‰eafv‡e Zviv
wb‡q hv‡”Q K‡qK j¶ †KvwU UvKv! GB UvKv GB †`k †_‡KB g~jZ A‰eafv‡e Avq
K‡i‡Q! †mB UvKv w`‡qB we‡`‡k hv‡”Q! Zvic‡iI GB †`‡k wK _vKv hvq?

GB †`‡k Kx Av‡Q? fv‡jv ¯‹zj, K‡jR, wek¦we`¨vj‡q cov‡Z wM‡q iv‡ó«i Mwie
gvbyl¸‡jvi j¶ †KvwU UvKv e¨q nq, G‡`i g‡Zv mf¨‡`i ˆZwi Ki‡Z! ïay wK
†mLv‡bB †kl? cov‡bvi c‡i Zv‡`i Ny‡li UvKv, †eZ‡bi UvKvI RbMY‡K w`‡Z
nq!

ZvB‡Zv †`kUv †Zv LyeB Amf¨! Amf¨ bv n‡j j¶ †KvwU UvKv e¨q K‡i cov‡e,
PvKzwi w`‡e, †eZb w`‡e, Ny‡li UvKv w`‡e, e¨emv w`‡e! †Kvb mf¨ †`k wK GZUv
†`q?

GB Amf¨ †`‡k wK _vKv hvq? †gv‡UB bv!!

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†Kgb n‡e †Zvgvi wkÿv Rxe‡bi †kl 4 eQi?
dv֩ Bqvi:

OK. dv÷© Bqv‡i fwZ© n‡q‡Qv| Subject wU †Zvgvi cQ‡›`i ?

Rxe‡bi me‡P‡q ¸iæZ¡c~Y© mgqUv m¤¢eZ wek¦we`¨vj‡q fwZ©i cÖ_g eQi| †miv
wm×všÍwU GLv‡bB wVKfv‡e †bqv `iKvi|
“I don’t like geology at all. I will never do any job related with
this subject. I have no interest in this subject.” K‡qKw`b Av‡M
Avgv‡`i wU‡g K_v ej‡Z Rvnv½xibMi wek¦we`¨vj‡qi 3wU †g‡q G‡mwQ‡jv|

co‡Z †P‡q‡Qv B‡jw±«K¨vj, ey‡q‡U G‡m‡Q †KwgK¨vj, Kx Kiev? Avevi †KwgK¨vj


covi †Kvb B”QvB wQ‡jv bv, fwZ© n‡q GLb wPšÍvq Av‡Qv! hvK, †jvKRb‡K †Zvgvi
evev gv ej‡Z cvi‡e, †Q‡j ey‡q‡U c‡o!

co‡Z †P‡qwQjv B‡Kv‡bvwg·, †c‡q‡Qv BwZnvm! wKsev †P‡q‡Qv BwZnvm, †c‡q‡Qv


mgvRweÁvb! e¨m fwZ© n‡q †Mjv! gv‡b Rxe‡bi †miv mgqUv Zzwg †Zvgvi AcQ›`
w`‡qB KvUv‡bvi wm×šÍ wbjv!

Dcvq Kx?

hw` Zzwg mwZ¨B B‡jw±«K¨vj co‡Z PvI, Z‡e ZvB c‡ov| †mUv ïay ey‡q‡UB co‡Z
n‡e, Ggb †Kvb K_v †bB| Avmj K_v Zzwg hw` B‡jw±«K¨vj co‡Z PvI, Z‡e
†KwgK¨vj †Kb co‡Z hvev? Zvn‡j Avgvi eÜy B›`ªwR‡Zi K_v ewj weÁvb wefv‡e
Wvej ÷¨vÛ Kiv Zz‡Lvo †gavex B›`ªwRZ fvi‡Zi AvBAvBwU‡Z wKQyw`b c‡o fwZ©
n‡jv Xvwei B‡Kv‡bvwg‡·| AvR‡K GK wekvj eo K‡c©v‡i‡Ui cwiwPZ wdMvi GB
B›`ªwRZ| wm×všÍ n‡Z n‡e B›`ªwR‡Zi g‡Zv|

AcQ‡›`i subject covi `iKvi †bB| †Zvgvi hw` `„p B”Qv _v‡K, Z‡e 40 wU
cvewjK wek¦we`¨vjq Avi 101wU †emiKvwi wek¦we`¨vj‡qi †Kvb bv †KvbUvq Zywg
my‡hvM cvevB|

†h welqUv Zzwg co‡Z PvI bv, Zvi gv‡K©U f¨vjy Av‡Q Kx bvB, †mUv fvevi `iKvi
†bB| †mvRv ev`| †hUv co‡Z PvI, †mUvB co| Z‡e wbwðZ n‡Z n‡e, †h Avm‡jB
Zzwg †mUvB co‡Z †P‡q‡Qv|

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Gevi Avwm †m‡KÛ Bqv‡i!
†iRvë †Kgb? †iRvë †`‡LB A‡bKUv eySv hv‡e Avm‡j Zywg wVKfv‡e welq cQ›`
K‡i‡Qv wKbv| I‡K mve‡R± Lye GKUv fv‡jv jv‡M bv| No Problem. fv‡jv
jv‡M †KvbUv? Sociology c‡o †Zvgv‡K mgvRweÁvbx n‡Z n‡e,
Mathematic c‡o †mUv wb‡qB Rxeb KvUv‡Z n‡e, Physics c‡o c`v_©weÁvbx
n‡Z n‡e †K e‡j‡Q Gme fyqv K_v?
wØZxq el©Uv K¨vwiqv‡ii Rb¨ Lye ¸iæZ¡c~Y©| Zywg Wv³vwi co‡Qv, BwÄwbqvwis
co‡Qv, B‡Kv‡bvwg· co‡Qv hvB c‡ov bv †Kb, K¨vwiqv‡ii wm×všÍ Ab¨wKQy n‡Z
cv‡i| †Zvgvi K¨vwiqvi mve‡R‡±i mv‡_ †h‡Z cv‡i , A_ev bvI †h‡Z cv‡i|
mve‡R‡±i mv‡_ hw` K¨vwiqvi bv hvq, Zv‡Z wK”Qy Av‡m hvq bv|
wØZxq e‡l©B ïiæ n‡e †Zvgvi K¨vwiqvi cøvb| covïbvi dvu‡K dvu‡K GB K¨vwiqvi
cøvbUv K‡i †d‡jv| mgq bvI cy‡iv GK eQi| GB GK eQ‡i K¨vwiqv‡ii
Execution Plan UvI K‡i †d‡jv| †mUvB me‡P‡q ¸iæZ¡c~Y©| AvR‡Ki `ywbqvq
Bbdi‡gkb cvIqv KwVb bq|
B›Uvi‡b‡Ui †níI wb‡Z cv‡iv| IELTS, GRE, TOEFL, wewmGm, K‡c©v‡iU,
Higher Study, etc †KvbUv Av‡Q †Zvgvi cøv‡b? †Zvgvi K¨vwiqvi cøvb
Execute Ki‡Z hv hv Ki‡Z n‡e, Zv wj‡L †d‡jv Ges †KvbUv †Kvb mgq Kiev
Zvi UvBg cøvbUvI K‡i †d‡jv|

_vW© Bqv‡i Kx Kiv hvq?


B‡qm, GKUz g¨vwPDiW Zzwg| Gevi covi dvu‡K dvu‡K simultaneously AviI
wKQy Kv‡Ri mvg_¨© †Zvgvi n‡q‡Q| wKQy UvKv Rgv‡bv ïiæ K‡iv GB el© †_‡K|
wUDkwb †hb †bkv bv n‡q hvq, GLbKvi w`‡b wUDkwb QvovI UvKv Av‡qi AviI
A‡bK c_ Av‡Q, wd« j¨vwÝs K‡i Aek¨B m¤¢e| wKQy `¶Zv AR©b K‡iv|
wek¦we`¨vj‡qi 95% †Q‡j‡g‡q Bs‡iwR‡Z K_v ej‡Z cv‡i bv| †Zvgvi Rb¨ myeY©
my‡hvM| hvB nI bv †Kb, Bs‡iwRUv ejvUv ïiæ K‡i `vI| hv‡Z PZy_© el© †kl n‡Z
n‡Z Zzwg `viæY Bs‡iwR ejv wk‡L hvI|
Avi nu¨v, wewfbœ K¬v‡ei mwµq †g¤^vi n‡q hvI| GBP Avi K¬ve, U«v‡fwjs MÖæc,
d‡UvMÖvwdK †mvmvBwU, mvqvÝ K¬ve, Gme K¬v‡ei m`m¨ n‡q hvI| wmwf‡Z `viæY
KvR w`‡e| wKQy †Kvm© Kiv ïiæ K‡iv hv †Zvgvi K¨vwiqvi cøv‡b Av‡Q| Avi
K¨vwiqvi †hgb Ki‡Z Pvq, Zvi mv‡_ hvq Ggb †bUIqvwK©s¸‡jv M‡o Zz‡jv|
wmwbqi eo fvB †K †Kv_vq Av‡Q Lei bvI, GKevi `yevi †`Lv K‡iv| Kv‡bKkb
Avi †bUIqvwK©s n‡”Q †Zvgvi PvKzwi ev e¨emv cvIqvi GK †miv Drm!!
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†dv_© Bqvi!

IqvI! G‡K G‡K 3Uv eQi P‡j †M‡jv! `viæY| Iw`‡K wek¦we`¨vjq Qvovi N›UvUvI
evR‡Z ïiæ K‡i‡Q| GLb Zzwg AviI g¨vwPDiW| fv‡jv GKUv †d«Û mv‡K©j Av‡Q|
A¨vjvgbvB Gi wjWvi Kviv gv‡b Pvjvq Kviv, Zv‡`i mv‡_ GKUz †hvMv‡hvM K‡iv|
GKB mv‡_ covïbv Avi K¨vwiqv‡ii jovBUv Gevi Zzwg †Rv‡i‡kv‡iB ïiæ Ki‡Z
cv‡iv| Ggbfv‡e K‡iv, †hb cix¶vi †iRv‡ëi Av‡MB PvKzwi †c‡q hvI ev †Zvgvi
cøv‡b hv Av‡Q, ZvB nq|

hviv MZ 4 eQi ïayB covïbv K‡i †M‡Q, wKš‘ w¯‹j AR©b K‡i wb, †bUIqvwK©s
K‡iwb, KwgDwb‡Kkb ey‡S bvB wek¦vm K‡iv, Zzwg GwM‡q _vKev Zv‡`i †P‡q A‡bK
†ewk|

wek¦we`¨vjq KL‡bvB ïaygvÎ covïbvi Rb¨ bq| Avi mve‡R‡±B Re Ki‡Z n‡e,
Ggb gvÜvZvi Avg‡ji aviYv †hb †c‡q bv e‡m| mve‡R‡±i mv‡_ K¨vwiqvi wgj‡j
fv‡jv, bv wgj‡jI fv‡jv| cov Ae¯’v‡ZB †bUIqvwK©s, Kv‡bKkbm, AM©vbvBwRs,
wjWviwkc Gme AR©b Kiv hvq| Ges A‡b‡KB Zv Ki‡Q|

ZzwgI Zv K‡iv,
¯^‡cœi K¨vwiqvi M‡ov|
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K¨vwiqv‡ii AmyL
I need a job. I want a job. I just need a job. I want any type of
job!

†`‡ki 39wU miKvwi wek¦we`¨vjq, 93wU †emiKvwi wek¦we`¨vjq, 3wU AvšÍR©vwZK


wek¦we`¨vjq †_K cÖwZeQi †ei n‡”Q `yB jv‡Li †ewk Avi we‡k¦i wØZxq e„nËg
wek¦we`¨vjq 'RvZxq wek¦we`¨vjq' †_‡K †ei n‡”Q cÖwZeQi 5 jv‡LiI †ewk| 7 jvL
wkw¶Z‡`i GKUvB K_v - I want a job!

wk¶vRxeb †k‡l Kg©Rxeb ïiæ †Zv Ki‡ZB n‡e, Lye ¯^vfvweK| wKš‘ evsjv‡`‡k
wKQy A¯^vfvweK NUbv NU‡Q| GKw`‡K cÖPzi †eKvi Avi Ab¨w`‡K j¶ j¶ we‡`wk
PvKzwii evRvi `Lj K‡i wb‡”Q| fviZ, cvwK¯Ívb, kÖxjsKv, wdwjcvB‡bi †PvL GLb
evsjv‡`‡ki Kg©evRv‡ii w`‡K|

cwiw¯’wZ Lye cwi®‹vi| †`‡ki PvKzwi 4%-5% miKvwi PvKzwi evwK 94%-95%
PvKzwi GLb †emiKvwi Lv‡Z| AviI cwi®‹vi †h, PvKzwii Afve †bB|

PvKzwii Afve †bB A_P PvKzwi cv‡”Q bv jvL jvL evsjv‡`wk ZiæY-ZiæYx| Iw`‡K
jvL jvL we‡`wk eQ‡i cÖvq 70 nvRvi †KvwU UvKv wb‡q hv‡”Q hv evsjv‡`‡ki me
miKvix PvKzwiRxex‡`i †gvU †eZ‡bi PvB‡ZI A‡bK †ewk|

Zvn‡j M¨vcUv †Kv_vq? eQ‡i 7 jvL wkw¶Z †Q‡j‡g‡q‡Zv †ei n‡”Q! Giv †Kb
PvKzwi cv‡”Q bv, we‡`wki `Lj Kiv †jvfbxq PvKzwi¸‡jv?

University Grants Commission (UGC) KZ¸‡jv KviY e‡j‡Q Zvig‡a¨


Avgv‡`i wek¦we`¨vjq †_‡K hviv †ei n‡”Q Zv‡`i,
1| KwgDwb‡Kkb w¯‹jm Kg,
2| Bs‡iwR ej‡Z cvivi †Q‡j‡g‡q LyeB Kg,
3| hv Rv‡b, Zv Dc¯’vcb Ki‡Z cv‡i bv Ges e¨emvqxK wWwjs‡mi †hme
Dc¯’vcbv, †m¸‡jv‡ZI fxlY `ye©j|

m¤¢eZ 3wU KviYB `viæY mwZ¨| KwgDwb‡Kkb w¯‹j‡mi K_v ej‡j wek¦we`¨vjq
cvk Kiv A‡bK †Q‡j‡g‡qB AvKvk †_‡K c‡o! GUv Kx? Lvq bv Mv‡q †`q?

Av‡iKwU KviY Gi mv‡_ †hvM Kiv `iKvi, cÖwZeQi hviv †ei n‡”Q, Zv‡`i cÖvq
mevB miKvwi PvKzwii Rb¨ †mB gvÜvZvi Avg‡ji Bw_Iwcqvi ivRavbx, fvi‡Zi
ciivóªbxwZ Gme gyL¯’ Kiv ïiæ K‡i †`q Avi Aóg †kÖwYi AsK eB n‡jv

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wek¦we`¨vj‡qi cvk Kiv †Q‡j‡g‡qi me‡P‡q Riæwi eB!! miKvwi PvKzwi¸‡jv
†ZgbB Knowledge based, cÖ_‡gB GLv‡b w¯‹jm `iKvi †bB| hviv PvKzwi
cv‡e Zv‡`i‡K c‡i ˆZwi K‡i †bqv n‡e| Ges cÖwk¶YLv‡Z Zv‡`i Rb¨ wecyj
ev‡RU _v‡K|

wKš‘ †emiKvwi PvKzwi ev K‡c©v‡iU Re? †mLv‡b‡Zv Bw_Iwcqvi ivRavbxi †Kvb avi
avi‡Q bv| †mLv‡b mivmwi Skilled gvbyl Pvq| miKv‡ii g‡Zv Zv‡`i wecyj
ev‡RU †bB, †h wb‡qvM †`qvi c‡i cÖvq 30 eQi Zv‡`i av‡c av‡c ˆZwi Kiv n‡e!
K¨vwiqv‡ii wØZxq AmyLUv wVK GLv‡bB|

miKvwi PvKzwi cÖ¯‘wZ wb‡Z wM‡q 95% †Q‡j‡g‡q nZvk n‡q c‡i Ges Zviv †h‡nZz
6/7 eQiI †mB gyL¯’ K‡iB miKvwi PvKzwi cvIqvi Rb¨ †`Šov‡Z _v‡K, w¯‹j
AR©‡bi mgqB †Zv †bB| Giv cieZ©x‡Z †Nvi wec‡` c‡o| cÖ_g w`‡K hviv
K‡c©v‡i‡U Xz‡K †M‡Q, Zv‡`i av‡i Kv‡Q Zv‡`i Avi hvIqvi mgq ev my‡hvMUvI
_v‡K bv| GB wecyj msL¨vUv, ej‡Z Kó nq, Re gv‡K©‡Ui Rb¨ A‡bKUv APj gv‡j
cwiYZ nq|

Avi NUbv wVK †mLv‡bB N‡U | Avgv‡`i e¨emvqx, K‡c©v‡iUiv GB APj gvj wb‡Z
GK`gB ivwR bv| Zviv Pvq †iwW‡gW †PŠKm †ckvRxex| UvKvi †h‡nZz Afve †bB,
Zviv we‡`k †_‡K cÖPzi †PŠKm Kg©x wb‡q Av‡m| KviY APj gvj w`‡q Zviv
cÖwZ‡hvwMZvi evRvi wUK‡Z cvi‡e bv| Aí wKQy e¨wZµg ev` w`‡j Zv‡`i Avm‡jB
nvZ cv evuav|

cÖ_g me©bvkUv N‡U hvq, miKvwi PvKzwii †cQ‡b †`Šov‡Z wM‡q, wØZxq me©bvkUv
N‡U, †Kvb ai‡bi w¯‹j AR©‡bi †Póv bv K‡i, P¨v‡jÄ †bqvi mvnmUv bv wb‡q
wb‡R‡K cÖwZ‡hvwMZvi gv‡V †Ljvi Rb¨ Abychy³ cÖgvY K‡i w`‡q|

Zvn‡j K¨vwiqv‡ii cÖ_g AmyLwU Kx evsjv‡`‡ki †Q‡j‡g‡q‡`i?

cÖ_g AmyLwU n‡jv K¨vwiqvi wb‡q †Kvb ¯^cœ bv _vKv, mywbw`©ó K¨vwiqvi bv _vKv| †h
5% Zv‡`i ¯^cœ wVK K‡i cÖ¯‘wZ wb‡q G¸‡Z _v‡K, Zviv Re gv‡K©U dvwU‡q †`q,
PvKzwi Zv‡`i †cQ‡b †`Šovq|

Avi †h 95% e‡j – I want a job, I want any kind of job! Zv‡`i fxlY
AmyL| Kx Re †mUvB Rv‡b bv, gv‡b Rxe‡b †m Kx Pvq, †mUvB †Zv Rv‡b bv| †h
Zvi Rxe‡b Kx Pvq †mUvB Rv‡b bv, †m Avm‡j Zvi cÖwZôvb Zvi KvQ †_‡K Kx Pvq,
Re gv‡K©U Kx Pvq, †mUv eyS‡e Kxfv‡e!!

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G‡`‡ki j¶ j¶ †Q‡j‡g‡q gv÷vm© cvk Kivi c‡i fv‡e, †m Kx Ki‡e! ZLb †m
101 ai‡bi PvKzwi‡Z Av‡e`b Ki‡Z _v‡K| †hB mvKz©jvi cvq, Av‡e`b Ki‡ZB
_v‡K|

A_P Abv‡m© _vK‡Z _vK‡ZB Zvi K¨vwiqv‡ii Ômywbw`©óÕ cÖ¯‘ywZ †bqvi K_v wQ‡jv|
5% ZvB K‡i, Zviv wb‡R‡`i j¶¨ wVK K‡i covi mv‡_ mv‡_ K¨vwiqv‡ii †`ŠoUvI
ïiæ K‡i| evwKiv? GB †`Š‡o wcwQ‡q c‡o| Avi GKevi wcwQ‡q co‡j, hviv Av‡M
†`Šo ïiæ K‡i‡Q, Zv‡`i av‡i Kv‡Q hvIqv hvq bv|

GB †h wb‡Ri K¨vwiqv‡ii †Kvb P‡qm bvB! GKUv mg‡q MÖv‡g †g‡q‡`i †Kvb P‡qm
_vK‡Zv bv| evev gv †hLv‡bB we‡q w`‡Zv, †mLv‡bB Keyj ej‡Zv| wKš‘ PvKzwii
†ejvq? †Kvb P‡qmB bvB, wekvj As‡ki, IB Av‡Miw`‡bi we‡qi g‡Zv GKUv
n‡jB n‡jv| †m Rv‡bB bv, Zvi Kx Kiv DwPZ| †m Rv‡bB bv, wb‡Ri mv‡_ hvq
Ggb K¨vwiqv‡ii Rb¨ ˆZwi bv n‡q Ab¨ K¨vwiqv‡i †eZb hvB †nvK, Zv bi‡K
cwiYZ nq|

GB Amy‡Li wPwKrmv GKUvB - wb‡Ri K¨vwiqvi P‡qm _vK‡ZB n‡e| 101Uv


RvqMvq †`Šov‡`Šwo K‡i kw³i AcPq bv K‡i cy‡iv kw³ wb‡q GKUv j‡¶¨i w`‡K
QyU‡Z n‡e|

GKUv cvBjvg Avi Xz‡K cojvg Gi bvg K¨vwiqvi bq, Gi bvg Rxeb bq| GKUz
Av‡M †_‡K cÖ¯‘ywZ Avi †mB Abyhvqx cwikÖg Ki‡j K¨vwiqv‡ii AmyL av‡iKv‡QI
Avm‡e bv| PvKzwii †Kvb Afve †bB, hw` KwgDwb‡Kkb w¯‹jm _v‡K, Bs‡iwRUv
fv‡jv ej‡Z cv‡i, †cÖ‡R‡›Ukb †mB iKg w`‡Z cv‡i, Avi †h KvR K‡i †mUv‡Z
fv‡jvevmv _v‡K gv‡b †mB KvRwU Kivi me `¶Zv _v‡K| 5% Gi Av‡Q, evwK
95% I GB my‡hvM wb‡Z cv‡i|

†k‡l GKUv ev¯Íe D`vniY w`‡q †kl Ki‡Z PvB| Avcwb evRv‡i †M‡j Avcbvi
mvg‡_©¨i g‡a¨ wbðq †miv wRwbmwU Pvb! GKRb PvKzwi`vZvI wKš‘ Zvi mvg_¨©
Abyhvqx †miv Kg©xwU Pvq| Avcwb `¶ bv n‡j GLv‡b †KD Avcbv‡K wKb‡e bv,
wKb‡jI dzUcv‡Zi `v‡g wewµ n‡Z n‡e|

wm×všÍ Avcbvi Ñ wb‡Ri †mevi g~j¨ KZUv w`‡Z wba©viY Ki‡eb| bbeª¨vÛ Avi
eª¨v‡Ûi wRwb‡mi `vg wKš‘ A‡bK Zdvr! wb‡R‡K eª¨vÛ evbvb, mgq wKš‘ mxwgZ|

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wek¦we`¨vj‡q covïbvi mgq Kv‡j 7wU KvR Ki‡j fv‡jv -
1| Rxeb Kxfv‡e KvUv‡Z PvB Ges †mfv‡e KvUv‡Z n‡j †Kvb K¨vwiqviUv †e‡Q
wb‡Z n‡e Zv wVK K‡i †djv (‡mUv †Zvgvi mve‡R‡±i mv‡_ wgjyK ev bv wgjyK
wKQyB Av‡m hvq bv) Ges Zvi Gw·wKDkb cøvb K‡i †m Abyhvqx cÖwZw`b ˆZwi
nIqv;

2| wek¦we`¨vj‡qi wewfbœ K¬v‡ei †g¤^vi nIqv (K¨vwiqvi K¬ve, mvqvÝ K¬ve,


weGbwmwm, GBP Avi K¬ve ) - GKUv bv GKUv K¬v‡ei †g¤^vi nIqv Lye Riæwi| wmwf
wjL‡Z wM‡q GwU `viæY KvR †`q;

3| Aek¨B wewfbœ G·U«v KvwiKzjvi Gw±wfwU‡Ri mv‡_ mshy³ _vKv - †nvK bv


KweZv cvV, Mvb, `vev †Mjv, †Uwej †Uwbm †Ljv, weZK© Kiv;

4| wewfbœ †bUIqv‡K©i mv‡_ RwoZ nIqv - n‡Z cv‡i wb‡Ri †Rjvi QvÎ Kj¨vY
ms¯’v, A_ev n‡Z cv‡i d‡UvMÖvwdK †mvmvBwU, AviI A‡bK wKQy, mvwnZ¨ K¬ve A_ev
AvšÍR©vwZK †Kvb fjvw›Uqvwis ms¯’v;

5| hv‡`i B›Uvwb© Ki‡Z n‡e, nVvZ K‡i †`ŠoSvuc bv K‡i Av‡MB (1/2 eQi Av‡M)
Uv‡M©U wVK K‡i G¸‡Z n‡e, †Kvb eª¨vÛ cÖwZôv‡b B›Uvwb© Ki‡j Kv‡R jvM‡e;

6| Avi MÖæc †eu‡a Bs‡iwR K¬ve K‡i †¯úv‡Kb Bs‡iwRi Abykxjb Kiv Lye `iKvi,
GwU Re gv‡K©‡Ui Rb¨ Acwinvh©;

7| wUDkwb †nvK Avi KvR K‡i †nvK, wKQy UvKv Aek¨B Rgv‡Z n‡e - K‡qKwU
cÖwk¶Y Av‡MB wb‡q wb‡Z n‡e, Ab¨‡`i Zzjbvq GwM‡q _vK‡Z n‡j|

GwU hviv K‡i ZvivB K¨vwiqv‡ii gv‡V G‡Ki ci GK †Mvj w`‡q †eovq|

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fvB, ÒK_v Av‡QÓ!

Av”Qv e‡jv| Ògv÷vm© †Zv †kl n‡q hv‡”Q, †iRvëI fv‡jv| GLb Kx Ki‡ev,
eyS‡Z cviwQ bv!Ó XvKv wek¦we`¨vj‡qi A_©bxwZi QvÎx| Bs‡iwRi QvÎUviI GKB
K_v| cvk KiwQ, wKš‘ K¨vwiqvi †KvbUv wb‡ev eyS‡Z cviwQ bv|
A_¨©vr 17/18 eQi covïbv Kivi c‡i Ggb GK c‡q‡›U `vuwo‡q Av‡Q - iv¯ÍvUv wVK
`yB w`‡K bq, Zvi Kv‡Q eûw`‡K †M‡Q| GB eûw`K †_‡K GKUv w`K evQvB Kiv
†Zv Avm‡jB GK gnv KwVb KvR|

Av”Qv A_©bxwZUv †Kb wb‡qwQjv? Bs‡iwRUv †Kb wb‡qwQjv? K¨vwiqvi †Kvb w`‡K
wbev †m †Zv wek¦we`¨vj‡qi †XvKvi mgq wVK K‡i‡Qv| GLb Avevi cÖkœ †Kb!

Av”Qv, †Zvgvi cøvb e‡jv! ÒwewmGm Avgvi dv÷© Uv‡M©U!Ó GLv‡bI †fRvj| hLwb
ewj wewmG‡miI †Zv 26-27Uv iv¯Ív Av‡Q! †Kvb iv¯Ívq hvev wVK K‡i‡Qv! †mB
Mrevuav DËi A¨vWwgb, bv nq divb Av‡dBqvm©, A_ev cywjk! wewmGm gv‡b g‡b
nq GB 2/3UvB| K‡qK †KvwU ZiæY-ZiæYxi Kv‡Q PvKzwi gv‡bB GB wZbUv|

A_¨©vr cv wKš‘ `yB †bŠKvq bq eû †bŠKvq! †Zvgvi cv †Zv `yBUv, eû †bŠKvq Kxfv‡e
cv ivLev! Zvn‡j †Zv mviv¶Y jvdv‡Z n‡e! gv‡b Zzwg Gevi me †bŠKvq DV‡Z
PvI!! †Kvb †bŠKv †Kvb w`‡K wb‡e Zzwg Rvb‡Z PvI bv!

gv‡b †Zvgvi †bŠKv †KvbUv Zzwg Rv‡bv bv| K‡qKw`b Av‡M, gvIqv hvw”Q| †Zv
ev‡m, GK gwnjv D‡V‡Qb, Dwb hv‡eb MvwRcyi! gvSc‡_ hLb fvov wb‡Z †M‡jv,
ZLb Rvbv †M‡jv! Avgv‡`i K¨vwiqvi wKš‘ GgbB| 95% ey‡S Zvi K¨vwiqvi †hUv
`iKvi wQ‡jv, †m †mUvq †bB|

K¨vwiqv‡ii A‡bK †bŠKv Av‡Q| fyj †bŠKvq DV‡j mviv Rxeb †mB fz‡ji wKš‘ Nvwb
Uvb‡Z n‡e| Zywg wK g‡b K‡iv me A¨vWwgb `viæY Avb‡›` Av‡Q? Zywg wK g‡b K‡iv
me cÖ‡KŠkjx `viæY Av‡Q? me Wv³vi `viæY Av‡Q? wek¦we`¨vj‡qi wk¶K n‡jB me
†c‡q †Mjv?

Avi †g‡qiv? wek¦we`¨vjq cvk Kiv †g‡q‡`i m¤¢eZ 90% ivbœv N‡iB KvUv‡”Q GB
hy‡MI| AvMvgxw`‡b ¯^vgxi Ny‡li UvKv bv _vK‡j GKR‡bi Av‡q 95% cwievi
Pj‡Z cvi‡e bv| bvix‡`i Kg©ms¯’v‡b Avm‡ZB n‡e| ¯^vgxi Dci hviv wbf©ikxj

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nIqvi wPšÍv Ki‡Q, Zv‡`i †ewkifv‡Mi Rb¨B AvMvgx‡Z eo `ytmsev` Av‡Q|
GKUv Wv³vi ¯^vgx †c‡q †Mjvg! Avnv, Kx Avb›` AvKv‡k evZv‡m! †mB w`b wKš‘
†bB! Ni wKš‘ fvO‡Q wecyj, Ges Zv eû eû evo‡e|

mgvavb Kx n‡Z cv‡i?

GKUv n‡jv hviv wek¦we`¨vj‡q GLb bZzb, K¨vwiqv‡ii wPšÍvUv Av‡MB Ki‡Z n‡e -
cvk Kivi c‡i bq| `ywbqvi PvKzwii evRv‡ii Lei ivL‡Z n‡e|

AvMvgxw`‡bi †jvfbxq PvKzwii g‡a¨ Av‡Q weR‡bm †W‡fjc‡g›U g¨v‡bRvi,


†mvk¨vj wgwWqv g¨v‡bRvi, WvUv A¨vbvwj÷| †m¸‡jvI wKš‘ fv‡jv PvKzwi| GKRb
fv‡jv MÖvwd· wWRvBbv‡ii Avq wKš‘ wecyj! Kb‡U›U ivBUvi‡`i Avq ïb‡j gv_v
Ny‡i †h‡Z cv‡i A‡b‡KiB| ejwQ, †Zvgvi hv fv‡jv jv‡M, †mB PvKzwii †¶Î¸‡jv
GLb Av‡Mi †P‡q A‡bK cÖmvwiZ| Avi gv‡K©wUs Gi Re gv‡K©U evsjv‡`‡kB cy‡iv
dvuKv| GLb hv Pj‡Q Zv n‡jv a‡i a‡i wKQy †Q‡j‡g‡q‡K gv‡K©wUqvi e‡j Pvwj‡q
†`qv n‡”Q| Avm‡j gv‡K©wUqvi A‡bK eo e¨vcvi - PvKzwii wecyj m¤¢vebv Av‡Q|

Avi n¨vu, 2015-2025 evsjv‡`k wKš‘ e¨emvi ¯^Y©`kK| †PvL Kvb †Lvjv ivLv Lye
`iKvi!

Zzwg gvbyl GKv? GK Rxe‡b KqUv n‡Z PvI?


hv n‡Z PvI, ZvB nI| Ges Zv m¤¢e|

†mB cyi‡bv Avg‡ji †Q‡j‡g‡q‡`i g‡Zv n‡qv bv| †hgb, evev, Kx n‡Z PvI?
GwÄwbqvi n‡Z PvB| Kx GwÄwbqvi nev? Avi wKš‘ DËi bvB! †Kb GwÄwbqvi nev,
†mB DËi †Zv c‡ii K_v|

gv, Kx n‡Z PvI? Wv³vi n‡Z PvB| Kx‡mi Wv³vi nev? Avi DËi bvB! †Kb Wv³vi
n‡Z PvI? †mB Mrevuav DËi!

†K Kx n‡jv, †mwU †Zvgvi Rb¨ GK`gB ¸iæZ¡c~Y© bq| AveviI ejwQ, †mwU †Zvgvi
Rb¨ GK`gB ¸iæZ¡c~Y© bq|

K¨vwiqvi cøv‡bi Av‡M `y‡Uv cøvb Ki‡Z nq

1| Avgvi Rxe‡bi cøvb, gv‡b Avwg Avgvi RxebUv Kxfv‡e KvUv‡Z PvB (Plan for
my life),

2| Avgvi cwievi‡K Avwg Kxfv‡e †`L‡Z PvB (Plan for my family life)

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GB `y‡Uv cøv‡bi g‡a¨B Avgvi Avm‡j Kx nIqv DwPZ †mB ARvbvUv †ewi‡q co‡e|
bv, †KD Avcbv‡`i e‡j wb| mevB mgm¨vi K_v e‡j| 15 eQi Gme wb‡q KvR
K‡iwQ Avwg| Avgvi Kv‡Q mgvavbUv GLv‡bB|

Dc‡ii `y‡Uv cøvb Av‡M Ki‡Z n‡e, Zvn‡jB K¨vwiqvi cøvb †ei n‡q Avm‡e|
cÖPzi gvbyl bv ey‡SB K¨vwiqv‡i †cQ‡b QyU‡Q| 95% gvbyl 35 Gi c‡i eyS‡Z cv‡i,
nvq nvq Avwg †Zv GB Rxeb PvB wb, GB K¨vwiqvi PvB wb! Avwg †P‡qwQjvg IUv,
njvg GUv!

†divi c_ _v‡K bv, Nvwb †U‡bB Rxeb KvUv‡Z nq|

ZzwgI wK ZvB Ki‡Z PvI? cÖPzi UvKv Av‡Q wKš‘ Avb›` †bB Kv‡R? cÖvY †bB?

cÖvYnxb GKUv †evMvm K¨vwiqvi PvI (BwÄwbqvwisUvI †Zvgvi Rb¨ GKUv †evMvm
K¨vwiqvi hw` Zzwg Zv‡Z Avb›` bv cvI, wek¦we`¨vj‡qi wk¶K nIqvI GKUv
†evMvm K¨vwiqvi hw` Zv‡Z Avb›` bv cvI)?

Pvicv‡ki †K Kx n‡jv, †mB wPšÍv †S‡i †d‡jv gv_v †_‡K|

`y‡Uv cøvb K‡iv Av‡M -

Zzwg †Zvgvi Rxeb Kxfv‡e KvUv‡Z PvI GB bk¦i `ywbqvq Avi †Zvgvi d¨vwgwj wb‡q
†Zvgvi ¯^cœ Kx? Av‡M GB `y‡Uv wVK K‡iv, K¨vwiqvi †KvbUv †bqv DwPZ, DËi †c‡q
hvev|

Rxe‡bi Rb¨ K¨vwiqvi, K¨vwiqv‡ii Rb¨ Rxeb bq|


eû †bŠKvq bq, †Zvgvi †bŠKvUv wVK K‡iv|

Avi †mB †bŠKvq Rxeb KvUvI| Rxeb n‡e GK Avb›`hvÎv| Avi n¨vu, mv‡ai Rxeb
wKš‘ GKUvB|

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Rxe‡bi wRwcG K‡Zv?
nvRv‡iv åyKzwU‡K Zzwo †g‡i Dwo‡q w`‡q †h Zvi 'wb‡Ri' ¯^cœ‡K ev¯Íevqb Ki‡Z
cv‡i, Zvi Rxe‡bi wRwcG 5.

nvRv‡iv cÖ‡jvfb‡K cvk KvwU‡q †h Zvi Rxe‡bi j¶¨‡K w¯’i Ki‡Z cv‡i, Zvi
Rxe‡bi wRwcG 5.

nvRv‡iv evuav †cwi‡q †h Zvi wb‡Ri Kv‡R myL Lyu‡R cvq, Zvi Rxe‡bi wRwcG 5.
†fovi cv‡ji cÖwZ‡hvwMZv †_‡K †h wb‡R‡K `~‡i †i‡L wms‡ni g‡Zv †h Zvi j‡¶¨i
cv‡b Qy‡U hvq, Zvi Rxe‡bi wRwcG 5.

Rxe‡bi j‡¶¨i mv‡_ †h mvwU©wd‡K‡Ui m¤úK© †bB, eyK wPwZ‡q †h ej‡Z cv‡i, Zvi
Rxe‡bi wRwcG 5.

A‡b¨i j¶¨ c~iY‡K †h wb‡Ri Rxe‡bi j¶¨ g‡b K‡i bv, Zvi Rxe‡bi wRwcG 5.
†kv WvD‡bi g‡Zv A_©nxb Amy¯’Zv‡K †h `~‡i ivL‡Z cv‡i, Zvi Rxe‡bi wRwcG 5.
GKUv Z…wßgq Rxeb †h hvcb K‡i, Zvi Rxe‡bi wRwcG 5.

†h Rv‡b Rxeb GKUvB, GLv‡b `ytL, Kó Avi AcÖvwßi †e`bv wb‡q P‡j hvIqvi bvg
Rxeb bq|

Rxe‡bi gv‡b n‡jv - Avwg Rxe‡b hv PvB, ZvB nIqv - evDj n‡q Mvb †M‡q Z…wß
†c‡j †mUvB Rxeb; bvmvq wM‡q M‡elYv K‡i Z…wß †c‡j †mUvB Rxeb; ¯‹yj gv÷vi
n‡q cÖkvwšÍ Avi Z…wß †c‡j †mUvB Rxeb; Pv wewµ K‡i Z…wß †c‡j †mUvB Rxeb;
gvby‡li wPwKrmv K‡i myL †c‡j †mUvB Rxeb|

Rxe‡bi j¶¨ KL‡bv K¨vwiqvi bq - K¨vwiqvi n‡”Q Rxe‡bi evnb| Wv³vi nIqv
Rxe‡bi j¶¨ n‡Z cv‡i bv - gvby‡li †mev Kiv n‡”Q j¶¨|

cÖ‡Z¨‡Ki GKUv ¯^cœ Av‡Q| †mB ¯^‡cœi †cQ‡b QyU‡Z cvivB Rxeb| Kv‡iv K_vq
bq, KvD‡K †`Lv‡bvi Rb¨ bq, Kv‡iv mv‡_ cÖwZ‡hvwMZv Kivi Rb¨ bq, cÖ‡Z¨‡K
evuP‡e GB bk¦i `ywbqvq wb‡Ri g‡Zv K‡i Avb›` wb‡q evuP‡Z| GiKg GKUv Rxeb
hvcb †h Ki‡Z cv‡i, Zvi Rxe‡bi wRwcG 5.

mevi Rxe‡bi wmwRwcG †nvK †Mv‡ìb wRwcG - 5 in 5, Rxeb GKUvB|


Live the Life Fully.

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Wªc AvDU/wmwRwcG WvDb-
Problem or Challenge or Opportunity?
2.72 wmwRwc G wb‡q wewmGm G dv÷© nIqvi MíwU †Zv mevB Rv‡bb| Zvi Av‡M
Ab¨ wKQz †`‡L †bB|

cwÎKvq †nWjvBb G‡jv, Òkxl© mš¿vmx mv`v †m›Uzi jvk c‡o Av‡Q †ij jvB‡bÓ!
jvkUv Kvi wQ‡jv Rv‡bb? mv`v †m›Uz mv‡_ †Pnvivq wgj _vKv †mB jvkwU wQ‡jv
cÖPÛ †gavex GK ey‡qwUqv‡bi, ¯‹zj K‡j‡R Zvi †gavi K_v wQ‡jv iƒcK_vi g‡Zv|
_vK‡Zb Avnmvb Djøvn n‡j, QvÎjx‡Mi nj kvLvi mfvcwZ wQ‡jb| QvÎivRbxwZ
Zvi †iRv‡ëi eo GKUv mgm¨v K‡i| AvIqvgxjxM ZLb ÿgZvq| ZeyI †Kv_vI
Zvi PvKzwi n‡jv bv| †Uª‡bi mvg‡b Suvwc‡q c‡o AvZ¥nZ¨v K‡i †mB ey‡qwUqvb
†Q‡jwU|

†KD wK Rv‡bb hv‡`i wmwRwcG WvDb n‡q hvq, Zv‡`i ü`‡qi K_v? wKsev KZ dzj
S‡i hvq ey‡qU †_‡K, †gwWK¨vj †_‡K| GB †h ¯^‡cœi ey‡qU †mLv‡b †_‡K A‡b‡K
cvk K‡iB †e‡ov‡Z cv‡i wb A_ev †gwWK¨v‡ji Ggb Av‡Q-3/4 eQi covi c‡i
Avi fv‡jv jv‡M bv Zviv †Kgb Av‡Q? bv cv‡i KvD‡K ej‡Z, bv cvq KvD‡K
cv‡k| Rvwb bv Ges Avwg †`wL bvB †Kvb m¨vi GB Wªc AvDU‡`i cv‡k KL‡bv
`uvwo‡q‡Qb wKbv, †KD cv‡k _v‡K bv|

wbtm½Zv Zv‡`i Kz‡o Kz‡o Lvq Iw`‡K wWMÖx cvk Kiv †Q‡jwU †mvbvwj e¨vs‡Ki
g¨v‡bRvi n‡q fv‡jvB Av‡Q| Avi †h †e‡ov‡Z cvi‡jv bv ey‡qU †_‡K A_ev
†gwWK¨vj †_‡K A_ev wek¦we`¨vjq †_‡K! Zvi Ae¯’v Kx nq!

GB †h XvKv wek¦we`¨vj‡qi A_©bxwZ wefvM A_ev aiæb PUªMÖvg wek¦we`¨vj‡qi


Bs‡iwR wefvM! _vW© K¬vm †c‡q †mB †miv mve‡R‡±i K¨vwiqv‡ii Kx Ae¯’v nq,
Rvwb bv Avgiv| A_©bxwZ wefv‡Mi cÖ_g eQ‡i 120 fwZ© n‡j †kl ch©šÍ 60/65
K¬vm K‡i evwKiv KB hvq? ey‡S A_©bxwZ Zvi Rb¨ bq| GK eQi jm K‡i Ab¨
mve‡R‡± P‡j hvq| hviv †_‡K hvq, Zv‡`i g‡a¨ hviv 2/3 eQi c‡i ey‡S †h Zv‡`i
Rb¨ GB mve‡R±wU bq, ZLb Zv‡`i Kx Ae¯’v nq, †KD wK Zv‡`i Lei iv‡L?

KZ dzj †dv‡U Avi S‡i, †m K_v wK †Zvgv‡`i KL‡bv g‡b c‡o?

A_P wmwRwcG WvDb A_ev Wªc AvDU gv‡bB †Zv jvBd WvDb ev K¨vwiqvi AvDU
bq| 16/17 eQ‡ii mgq GKUv fzj wm×všÍ A_ev 3/4 eQ‡ii fzj covïbv Ki‡jB
wK evwK 50 eQi ( Mo Avqy a‡i ejjvg) auy‡K ayu‡K euvP‡Z n‡e? †K e‡j‡Q?

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GB Wªc AvDU‡`i GKUv Ask `y`©všÍ K¨vwiqvi M‡o †d‡j| †`‡ki me‡P‡q eo
eª¨v‡Ûi AwfRvZ wgwói gvwjK †Zv ey‡qU †_‡K Wªc AvDU Kiv! †`‡ki me‡P‡q eo
Bswjk wgwWqv‡gi †KvwPs †m›Uv‡ii gvwjKI Wªc AvDU| †`‡ki weL¨vZ msMxZ
wkwíI Av‡Qb Wªc AvDU| Kv‡iv bvg ejwQ bv, †`‡ki †ek K‡qKRb eo e¨emvqx
Av‡Qb, hviv Wªc AvDU ÷z‡W›U, †`‡ki A‡bK eo wi‡qj A¨v‡÷U e¨emv Pvjvb Wªc
AvDU!

Rxeb KqUv? Rxeb GKUvB| GB GK Rxe‡bi mv‡_ wmwRwcG ev Wªc AvD‡Ui


wi‡jkbUvB AvDU K‡i wb‡Ri g‡Zv K‡i evuP‡Z n‡e| AvR‡Ki `ywbqvq wb‡Ri
cQ›`g‡Zv wKQz Kivi Rb¨ eqm Avi d¨v±i bq| Rxeb †_‡K 3-5 eQi jm GB
†Zv! †mUv †h‡bv 30-50 eQi jm bv nq| GB jm PvB‡j AvcwbI †VKv‡Z
cvi‡eb|

Avcwb †h wel‡q wmwRwcG WvD‡b Av‡Qb A_ev Wªc AvDU K‡i‡Qb, †mUv Avm‡j
Avcbvi mv‡_ hvq bv, wmwRwcG WvDb Avcbv‡K †mB †g‡mR w`‡”Q, ej‡Q,ÒI‡i
Avwg †Zv †Zvi Rb¨ bB, †Zvi Rb¨ Ab¨ wKQz A‡cÿv Ki‡Q, †e‡Q †b wVKg‡Zv,
GLv‡bv mgq Av‡Q!Ó

Wªc AvDU gv‡b jvBd AvDU bq, K¨vwiqvi AvDU bq! GwU n‡e fzj K¨vwiqvi †_‡K
Avcbv‡K wdwi‡q G‡b Avcbvi Rb¨ hyrmB K¨vwiqv‡i hvÎvi bZzb w`MšÍ!

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PvKzwi Av‡Q, cÖPzi PvKzwi Ges gvgy Lvjy QvovB!
Avcwb wK wek¦vm K‡ib, evsjv‡`‡ki wewfbœ cÖwZôvb nvwi‡Kb w`‡q `¶ †jvK
LyuR‡Q? A‡bK †m±‡ii g‡a¨ GKUv †m±‡ii K_v ej‡ev|

wVK a‡i‡Qb, †mwU AvBwU †m±i| AvBwU †m±i wKš‘ Mv‡g©›Um‡K Qvwo‡q hv‡eB|
Ges Avq BbKvg wKš‘ gv kv Avjøvn, A‡bK!

†Zv K‡e hv‡e Mv‡g©›Um‡K Qvwo‡q? DËiUv n‡jv, hLb KvR cv‡i Ggb
†cÖvMÖvgvi/†W‡fjcvi Avi wm‡÷g GwÄwbqvi, AvBwU gv‡K©wUqvi cvIqv hv‡e †ek
fv‡jv msL¨vq Avi miKvi †`wk AvBwU dvg©‡K Kv‡Ri Rb¨ my‡hvM K‡i w`‡e|

wm‡÷g GwÄwbqvi ï‡b fq †c‡jb? AvBwU LvZ Kv‡Ri GKUv A™¢yZ Ges gRvi
RvqMv| wm‡÷g GwÄwbqvi †KD ey‡qU †_‡K †KwgK¨v‡j cvk Kiv, †KD Rvwei
cwimsL¨vb †_‡K cvk Kiv, †KD RMbœv‡_i B‡Kvbwg· †_‡K cvk Kiv!

Avm‡j AsKUv GKUz fv‡jv Rvb‡Z n‡e, jwRK eyS‡Z n‡e| Zvn‡j Avcwb †Kvb
wel‡q c‡o‡Qb Zv gyL¨ n‡e bv| AvcwbI n‡Z cvi‡eb AvBwUi †Kvb GKUv wel‡qi
we‡klÁ|

K_v n‡jv, Avm‡jB †cÖvMÖvg †W‡fjc Ki‡Z cv‡i, Uªvej ïU Ki‡Z cv‡i - Zv‡`i
GLb nvwi‡Kb w`‡q LyuR‡Z nq| GKUv eo Ask hLb Uªvej ïU Ki‡Z nq,
wµwUK¨vj mgm¨v, ZLwb †dBj K‡i| wKš‘ hviv cv‡i? Zv‡`i AvqUv wKš‘ ï‡b
A‡b‡KB AevK n‡eb| †`‡k, we‡`‡k cÖPzi Avq|

AvBwU Lv‡Z evsjv‡`k 50-100 wewjqb Wjvi Avq Ki‡eB| †mUv wK 10 eQi
jvM‡e? bvwK 15 eQi jvM‡e? bvwK 20 eQi?

†mUv wbf©i Ki‡Q, KZUv `¶ †cÖvMÖvgvi/†W‡fjcvi ˆZwi KiwQ, KZ `¶ AvBwU


gv‡K©wUqvi ˆZwi KiwQ, Avgv‡`i KwgDwb‡Kkb w¯‹jm KZUv evo‡Q Ges miKvi
KZUv †`wk AvBwU dvg©‡K Kv‡Ri my‡hvM K‡i w`‡”Q Zvi Dci|
So get ready. fysfvs Gi w`b †kl n‡q Avm‡Q,gvgy Lvjy QvovB PvKzwi Av‡Q -
hw` KvR Avm‡jB cv‡iv| fysfvs, PvcvevwR w`‡q AvBwU‡Z Pj‡e bv, Avm‡j †Kvb
Kv‡RB fysfvs, dvuwKevR‡`i RvqMv †bB| cwikÖg Ki‡Z n‡e, †j‡M _vK‡Z n‡e|

†h cv‡i, cvi‡e - Zvi Rb¨ PvKzwi Afve †bB, Afve n‡e bv| nvwi‡Kb w`‡q
evsjv‡`k GLb `¶ †jvK LyuR‡Q|

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PvKzwii Rb¨ K‡ZvUv ˆZwi Avgv‡`i †Q‡j‡g‡qiv?
miKvwi PvKzwiRxex‡`i †eZb eve` GeQi eivÏ 54 nvRvi †KvwU UvKv ( 2016‡Z
wQ‡jv 24 nvRvi †KvwU UvKv)| Avgv‡`i e¨emvqxiv K‡qK jvL we‡`wk‡K †eZb
†`b eQ‡i cÖvq 70 nvRvi †KvwU UvKv |

miKvwi PvKzwii msL¨v Avi evovi m¤¢vebv Kg, me wg‡j 23 jvL msL¨vwU eis
2030 Gi c‡i K‡g †h‡Z cv‡i| GLb †hgb jvL jvL wk¶K jvM‡Q, 2030 Gi
c‡i bvI jvM‡Z cv‡i|

†Zv evo‡Q †Kvb msL¨vUv? evo‡Q †emiKvwi PvKzwii msL¨v| GKUv mgm¨v †mLv‡b
Av‡Q miKvwi PvKzwii aib Avi †emiKvwi PvKzwii aib Avjv`v| †emiKvwi
PvKzwi‡Z Av‡Q P¨v‡jÄ, cÖwZwbqZ PvKzwi e`j ev PvKzwi hvIqvi †Ubkb| wewbg‡q
Av‡Q fv‡jv †eZb, mrfv‡eB †ek fv‡jvfv‡e Pjvi e¨e¯’v n‡Z cv‡i| GKUv ¯§vU©
jvBd Av‡Q †mLv‡b|

cÖwZeQi me wek¦we`¨vjq †_‡K K‡Zv †ei nq? 3/4 jvL! cÖwZeQi GmGmwm Ges
Zvi Dc‡i cvk K‡i‡Q Ggb 8/10 jvL †Q‡j‡g‡q Kg©evRv‡i Avm‡Q| miKvwi
PvKzwi KqUv n‡”Q eQ‡i?

†h cwigvY wewb‡qvM n‡”Q evsjv‡`‡k, Zv‡Z Kg©evRvi wekvj †_‡K wekvjZi


n‡”Q| †hLv‡b †`‡k cÖPzi wkw¶Z †eKvi, †mLv‡b †Kb jvL jvL we‡`wk GB †`‡k
Avb‡Z n‡”Q?

†ewkifvM †¶‡ÎB †hŠw³K Kvi‡YB Avb‡Q| †QvU GKUv D`vniY †`B - evsjv‡`‡k
nvRvi nvRvi `¶ AvBwU †W‡fjcvi `iKvi Av‡Q? GK`gB †bB| G‡Zv w`jvg
†QvU GKUv D`vniY| AvBwU‡Z Avgiv wewjqb wewjqb Wjvi Avq Ki‡Z cvwi,
Ab¨Zg cÖavb evuav, `¶ †Q‡j‡g‡qi Afve|

mevB †Zv QyU‡Q miKvwi PvKzwii †cQ‡b, Kg©evRvi ej‡Z Zviv ey‡S miKvwi PvKzwi,
cÖ¯‘wZ †bq miKvwi PvKzwii Rb¨|

Lye cwi®‹vi fvlvq †emiKvwi PvKzwi¸‡jv w¯‹jm †eBRW| †mLv‡b R‡e XzKvi Rb¨
cÖ¯‘wZUvI Avjv`v n‡Z n‡e| †Lj‡Z cvwi e‡j Ab¨ RvqMvq cvi cvIqv hvq, wKš‘
†emiKvwi PvKzwi‡Z gv‡V †L‡j †`Lv‡Z n‡e Avcwb †Lj‡Z cv‡ib, gv‡b KvRwU
cvi‡j Avcbvi †eZb n‡e, bv cvi‡j n‡e bv|

wewìs wWRvBb Ki‡Z cvi‡j Avcwb Av‡Qb, bvB‡j bvB! †cÖvMÖvg Ki‡Z cvi‡j

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Avcwb Av‡Qb, bvB‡j bvB| gv‡K©wUs G †mjm Ki‡Z cvi‡j Avcwb Av‡Qb, bvB‡j
bvB| wbw`©ó mg‡q wbw`©ó †cÖvWvKkb w`‡Z cvi‡j Avcwb Av‡Qb, bvB‡j bvB|
evqv‡ii mv‡_ †b‡Mvwm‡qkb Ki‡Z cvi‡j Avcwb Av‡Qb, bvB‡j bvB!

Zvigv‡b †Kvb †`‡ki ivRavbx †KvbUv, A_ev KqUv AsK Kq wgwb‡U mjf Ki‡jb,
†`k we‡`‡ki ivRbxwZ wb‡q wjL‡jb Gm‡ei †P‡q ¸iæZ¡c~Y© n‡jv hv wk‡L‡Qb Zv
K‡i †`Lv‡Z n‡e|

†emiKvwi PvKzwi P¨v‡jwÄs Ges `¶Zv Avi ÁvbwfwËK| GKevi PvKzwi †c‡jB
PvKzwi _vK‡e Zvi wbðqZv †bB Z‡e hw` `¶Zv mwZ¨B _v‡K, PvKzwi cÖPzi Av‡Q,
AvMvgx‡Z AviI _vK‡e|

†Q‡j‡g‡q‡`i cÖ¯‘wZ GLb 100% mgq †`q miKvwi PvKzwii Rb¨| hyM hyM a‡i
†mB Kv‡i›U A¨v‡dqvm©, MvBW! †emiKvwi PvKzwi †h wekvj evRvi Av‡Q, Zvi Rb¨I
e¨vcK cÖ¯‘wZ `iKvi|
†emiKvwi PvKzwii Rb¨ hviv wb‡R‡`i ˆZwi Ki‡e, †`k we‡`‡k PvKzwi †Kvb Afve
n‡e bv| GB evsjv‡`‡k GLb me‡P‡q eo msKU ch©vß msL¨vq `¶ †jvK Lyu‡R
cvIqv| wKš‘ cÖwZôv‡bi PvKv †Zv Avi †_‡g _vK‡e bv| we‡`wk G‡b Pvjv‡bv n‡”Q|
GB evsjv‡`‡kB hviv Rxe‡bi ïiæ‡Z ¯§vU© wQ‡jv, R‡ei Rb¨ wb‡R‡`i `¶fv‡e
ˆZwi K‡i‡Q, Zvuiv GLb we‡`wk‡`i mv‡_ mgvbZv‡j K‡c©v‡i‡U `y`©všÍ K¨vwiqvi
M‡o †d‡j‡Q| GLbKvi hviv ¯§vU© Zv‡`i Rb¨ A‡c¶v Ki‡Q Avi eo fwel¨r|

Z‡e K_v GKUvB, hv wk‡L‡Qb, Zv K‡i †`Lv‡Z n‡e| K‡i †`Lv‡Z cvi‡j, `¶Zvi
cÖgvY w`‡Z cvi‡j, †emiKvwi PvKzwi n‡e Avcbvi Rb¨ `y`©všÍ K¨vwiqvi Movi
RvqMv|

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Run after your passion,
That is your life's mission:
†dmey‡K GK eÜy PgrKvi GK cÖkœ K‡i‡Qb, ¯^cœ gv‡b Kx?

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Av”Qv ejyb, Avgiv KqRb ¯^‡cœi †cQ‡b †`ŠovB?

Avcwb Wv³vi? †mUvB †kl K_v bq!

Avm‡j Wv³vi n‡q Kx Ki‡Z †P‡qwQ‡jb? wKsev Avm‡jB Avcwb Rxe‡b Wv³vi
n‡Z †P‡qwQ‡jb wKbv? bvwK A‡b¨i ¯^‡cœi, A‡b¨i B”Qvc~iY Ki‡Z wM‡q wb‡Ri
¯^cœ‡K wm›`y‡K f‡i Zvjv †g‡i w`‡q‡Qb?

Avcwb Aa¨vcbv K‡ib, wKsev Avcwb cÖ‡KŠkjx, ¯’cwZ, wKsev GKRb e¨vsKvi,
A_ev Ab¨ wKQy|

Gme wK Avcbvi ¯^‡cœi g‡a¨ wQ‡jv?

†h RewU Ki‡Qb, †mwU wK Avm‡jB Ggb Re hv Avcbv‡K Avcbvi ¯^cœc~i‡Y wb‡q


hv‡e?

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wb‡R‡K wb‡ew`Z Ki‡Z Pvb, A_ev gvbe Kj¨v‡Yi Rb¨ Avcwb †Kvb Avwe®‹v‡ii
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Ab¨ gvbyl‡K ¶gZv †`Lv‡bvi Rb¨, †hwU LyeB wbgœgv‡bi wPšÍv) Zv‡`i ¯úk© K‡i bv|

GKevi †`Šovb bv ¯^‡cœi †cQ‡b?

Zvi Av‡M GKUz †R‡b wbb, Avcbvi ¯^cœUv Kx?

ivLyb bv gvby‡li Kv‡Q eo nIqvi ¶y`ª wPšÍv|

†`Šovb wb‡Ri ¯^‡cœi †cQ‡b| Avwg †hgb ¯^cœ †`‡LwQ, gvby‡li ¯^cœc~i‡Y Zv‡`i
cv‡k _vKv| †m Avwg †mB †QvU‡ejv †_‡K K‡i AvmwQ|

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cÖvqkB †hme PvKzwi Advi cvB, †ek †jvfbxq|

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hvq - Zvi †h Abyf~wZ, †m GK Abb¨ myL|

GB †Zv Rxeb|

fvewQ, GZ eQi wK‡mi †cQ‡b †`Šovjvg? †Kb ¯^‡cœi †cQ‡b †h †`ŠoUv Av‡M ïiæ
Kijvg bv?

Z‡e †R‡b †MwQ, Gi bvgB Rxeb|

†h Rxeb ¯^‡cœi †cQ‡b †`Šovq wb, †m wK †R‡b‡Q Rxe‡bi gv‡b?

†h Rxeb ¯^‡cœi †cQ‡b †`Šovq, ZviB bvg Rxeb|

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PvKzwi †M‡j Dcvq Kx?
Breaking Career Vicious Cycle.
evsjv‡`‡k hviv †emiKvwi Re K‡ib (Private/Corporate/MNCs) Zv‡`i
GKUv eo Ask‡K mviv K¨vwiqvi Ry‡o GB wPšÍvB Av”Qbœ K‡i iv‡L - PvKzwi †M‡j
Dcvq Kx, msmvi Pj‡e Kxfv‡e!

GUv wVK `vwi‡`ª¨i `yó P‡µi g‡ZvB (poverty vicious cycle)| K¨vwiqv‡iiI
KZ¸‡jv `yó Pµ Av‡Q| GKUv n‡jv LvIqvi AwbðqZv| A_P GB wPšÍvB Zv‡K
AviI `ywðšÍvq †d‡j ivL‡Q Ges GB `ywðšÍvB GB AwbðqZv †_‡K Zv‡K †ei n‡Z
w`‡”Q bv|

Dc‡i hvIqvi wPšÍvUv wVK K‡i ivL‡j Avi †mB Abyhvqx wb‡R‡K ˆZwi Ki‡Z
_vK‡j Avcbvi LvIqvi wPšÍvq Aw¯’i _vKvi mgq †Zv _vKvi K_v bq| †Kb
Avcbvi PvKzwi hv‡e?

K¨vwiqvi weaŸsmx GB wPšÍv †_‡K evuPvi Dcvq Kx Kx? GB `ywðšÍv Rq Ki‡j jvf
Kx?

AvR‡K ïay evsjv‡`‡ki Re gv‡K©UB eo n‡”Q? mviv `ywbqvq Avcbvi Rb¨ Re


Db¥y³| mviv `ywbqv GLb `¶ †jvK Lyu‡R ‡eovq| ev‡iv Kv‡Ri KvwR‡`i `iKvi
†bB| GK Kv‡Ri eo KvwR `iKvi|

AvR‡Ki Re gv‡K©‡U 4wU w¯‹jm Avcbvi _vK‡ZB n‡e -

1| wjWviwkc w¯‹jm
2| KwgDwb‡KBkb w¯‹jm
3| †Kvjv‡ev‡iBkb w¯‹jm
4| UvBg g¨v‡bR‡g›U w¯‹jm

GB PviwU w¯‹jm Avcbvi hw` _v‡K Z‡e PvKzwi †M‡j Lvgy Kx GB wec`RbK
K¨vwiqvi nvW©jm Avcbvi c‡_ _vK‡eB bv|

GB †jLvq ïay cÖ_gwU wb‡q Avjvc Ki‡ev| †giæ`Ðnxb †jvK‡`i ïay msmv‡iB bv,
RM‡Zi †Kv_vI GLb VvB †bB| G‡`i w`‡q wKQy nq bv| `ywbqv Pvq †giæ`Ð
‡mvRvIqvjv †jvK| †Zv eySv hv‡e Kxfv‡e, Avcwb †mB ÷«s bv‡f©i ÷«s e¨vK‡ev‡bi
gvbyl?

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1| K¨vwiqv‡i KZUv Uvd wWwmkb Avcwb wb‡q‡Qb †m PvKzwi †nvK Avi e¨emvB
†nvK, K_v †mvRv - Uvd wWwmkb ‡bqvi g‡Zv Avcbvi w¯‹jm Av‡Q wKbv,

2| hLb ÕbvÕ ejv `iKvi ZLb Kjyi ej‡`i g‡Zv me Nv‡oi Dci wb‡q‡Qb bvwK
÷«vwU‡RK¨vwj ÕbvÕ ej‡Z †c‡i‡Qb,

3| †hLv‡b wQ‡jb †mLv‡b †mLv‡b Kx Kx Bwbwk‡qwUf wb‡q‡Qb Ges †mBme


Bwbwk‡qwU‡fi mv‡_ Kxfv‡e †j‡MwQ‡jb, bvwK gvSc‡_B ms¯’v‡K wec‡` †i‡L
†K‡U c‡owQ‡jb!

n¨vu, G ai‡bi cÖ‡kœi Dˇii we‡kølY †_‡KB †evSv hv‡e Avcwb wK ÔPvKywi †M‡j
Lvgy Kx?Õ GB UvB‡ci `ye©j fxiæwP‡Ëi †jvK bvwK K¨vwiqv‡i wVK wfkb wb‡q
†b‡g‡Qb, †mB wfk‡bi c‡_ mvn‡mi mv‡_ GwM‡q hv‡”Qb ev GwM‡q hvIqvi `„p
cÖZ¨q Avcbvi Pj‡b e‡jb wm×všÍ MÖn‡Y wbZ¨B Zvi cÖKvk N‡U |

AvR‡Ki Re gv‡K©U GBme mvnmx wfkbvix gvbyl‡`i Rb¨| hyMUv‡K ejv nq Age
of Specializatio . GBP Avi - G KvR Ki‡j Zvi gv÷vi n‡Z n‡e, mvcøvB
†PB‡b KvR Ki‡j Zvi gv÷vi n‡Z n‡e, KwgDwb‡Kkb A¨vÛ eª¨vwÛs wb‡q KvR
Ki‡Z n‡j Zvi gv÷vi n‡Z n‡e, Ad‡kvi e¨vswKs wb‡q KvR Ki‡Z n‡j Zvi
gv÷vi n‡Z n‡e, ‡cÖvMÖvwgs wb‡q KvR Ki‡j ‡cÖvMÖvwgs Gi em n‡Z n‡e| gv‡b †h
†hB KvR Ki‡e, †mB Kv‡R Zvi cÖej `Lj Avi `¶Zv _vKv PvB|
K¨vwiqv‡i Dc‡i hvIqvi wPšÍvUv Av‡M ‡eªB‡bi ‡cÖvMÖvwgs G XzKv‡Z n‡e| Zvic‡i †mB
K¨vwiqv‡i †h‡Z Kx Kx jvM‡e Zv AR©b Ki‡Z n‡e| cÖ‡Z¨KwU cwRkbB bZzb wKQy
w¯‹jm wWgvÛ K‡i| †mB †mB cwRk‡b †mB w¯‹jm¸‡jv AR©b Ki‡Z n‡e; fq †c‡jb?
KvRUv KwVb bq| w¯‹jm¸‡jv mgqg‡Zv AR©b bv Ki‡j K¨vwiqv‡i wcwQ‡q †h‡ZB
n‡e, Avi PvKzwi †M‡j Dcvq Kx! GB weaŸsmx wPšÍv Avcbv‡K Z‡ZvB †c‡q em‡e
Ges K¨vwiqv‡i G¸‡ZB w`‡e bv|

GLb Re Borderless, e¨emv Borderless.

fv‡Zi wPšÍv Avcbv‡K Ki‡Z n‡e bv, hw` Avcbvi K¨vwiqvi wW«gUv‡KI
Borderless Ki‡Z cv‡ib Ges Zv AR©‡bi Rb¨ wb‡R‡K kvwYZ Ki‡ZB _v‡Kb|

wb‡Ri mv‡_ hvq, wb‡R me‡P‡q fv‡jvev‡mb Ges me‡P‡q fv‡jv cv‡ib - Ggb
K¨vwiqvi wm‡j± K‡i h‡ZvB wb‡R‡K kvwYZ Ki‡Z _vK‡eb, Z‡ZvB G¸‡Z
_vK‡eb|
mevB GwM‡q hvb, fv‡jv _vKzb| Avgv‡`i mevi mgqUv GLb GwM‡q hvIqvi|
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†hfv‡e K¨vwiqvi cø¨vb Ki‡Z cv‡ib -
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A‡bK eQi K¨vwiqv‡ii A‡bK welq wb‡q KvR K‡iwQ, K¨vwiqvi KvD‡Ýwjs K‡iwQ|
evsjv‡`‡ki †cÖ¶vc‡U DbœZ †`‡ki wnmve¸‡jv cy‡ivcywi KZUv Kv‡R jv‡M, wVK
wbwðZ bB|

`xN© 10 eQi wewfbœ wimvP© K‡i †`‡LwQ , G‡`‡k PgrKvi K¨vwiqvi Movi my‡hvM
wecyj| ïay GKUz eyw× LvuUv‡Z n‡e, †jv‡Ki K_vq bvPv hv‡e bv|

†jv‡Ki K_vq bvP‡j,


K¨vwiqvi hv‡e imvZ‡j|

Ges jv‡Lv gvby‡li K¨vwiqvi Avm‡j imvZ‡j †M‡Q - GB †jv‡Ki K_v ïb‡Z wM‡q|
Avevi GUvI mwZ¨, K¨vwiqvi wb‡q evsjv‡`‡k G·cvU© civgk©KI Lye GKUv †bB|
Avm‡j 300/400 Wjv‡ii cvi K¨vwcUvi †`‡k AvšÍR©vwZK gv‡bi K¨vwiqvwi÷
ˆZwii B”QvUv eÇ D”Pvwfjvlx|

Gi g‡a¨B cÖPyi gvbyl K¨vwiqvi wKš‘ M‡oI wb‡q‡Qb|

Avgv‡`i K¨vwiqvi g‡W‡ji PviwU avc Avcbv‡K K¨vwiqvi Mo‡Z c_ †`Lv‡i|

cÖ_g avc - K¨vwiqvi g¨vwcs

`ywbqv‡Z jvL jvL †ckv Av‡Q, †KvwU †KvwU PvKzwi Av‡Q, j¶ j¶ iK‡gi e¨emv
Av‡Q| A_P evsjv‡`‡ki K¨vwiqv‡i ej‡Z cÖvq 4 `kK ïay Wv³vi Avi GwÄwbqvi
Qvov †hb wKQyB wQ‡jv bv|

wKš‘ K¨vwiqvi gv‡bB wK Wv³vwi cov ev BwÄwbqvwis cov?

K¨vwiqvi gv‡b †Zv GB, hv Avgvi fv‡jv jv‡M Ges hv Avwg me‡P‡q fv‡jvfv‡e
Ki‡Z cvi‡ev, Zv‡K evnb K‡i Rxeb‡K hvcb Ki‡ev| hv‡Z Rxe‡bi cvZvq cvZvq
Avb›`aviv e‡n|

gvbwQ, GKUv mg‡q †`‡k my‡hvM wQ‡jv bv, wb‡Ri cQ›`g‡Zv K¨vwiqvi evQvB Ki‡Z
cviv hvq wb (A‡b‡KB wKš‘ ZL‡bv †c‡i‡Q)| wKš‘ GLb †Zv my‡hvM µgkB evo‡Q|
GB †h †emiKvwi e¨vsKmn kZ kZ ai‡bi e¨emvwqK cÖwZôvb M‡o D‡V‡Q †hLv‡b
Re Ki‡Q j¶ j¶ gvbyl, Av‡M nq‡Zv wQ‡jv bv| GLb Zv evo‡Q|
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wb‡Ri hv fv‡jv jv‡M †Zgb GKwU K¨vwiqvi evQvB‡qi PgrKvi my‡hvM GLb Av‡Q|
†Kvb †ckvwU Avm‡j Avgvi mv‡_ hvq, †mwU Avcbv‡K †ei Ki‡ZB n‡e| †KD
imvqbUv `viæY ey‡S, Zvi A_©bxwZ covi `iKvi Kx? †KD AsKUv `viæY ey‡S, †KD
d‡UvMÖvwd `viæY ey‡S, †KD R¨vwgwZ fv‡jv ey‡S, †KD c`v_©weÁvb fv‡jv ey‡S, †KD
A¨vKvD›Um `viæY ey‡S|

cÖ‡Z¨KwU gvbyl †Kvb bv †Kvb wel‡q `viæY ey‡S| †KD AsK fq cvq, wKš‘ Bs‡iwR
`viæY ey‡S, †KD Bs‡iwR fq cvq wKš‘ evsjv fv‡jv eyS‡Z cv‡i A_ev Kw¤úDUvi
†cÖvMÖvwgs fv‡jv ey‡S| cÖ_g Avwg †KvbUv fv‡jv eywS, †KvbUv‡Z Avwg
Comfortable †mUv Rvbv Lye KwVb bq, mnR|

†hUv fv‡jv eywS, Gevi Zvi Re gv‡K©U †Lqvj Kwi| Re gv‡K©U mewKQyiB Av‡Q|
aiv hvK, Avwg c`v_©weÁvb fv‡jv eywS Ges wek¦we`¨vj‡qi Aa¨vcK n‡Z PvB|
Zvn‡j Avcbv‡K K‡j‡R A_ev wek¦we`¨vj‡q c`v_©weÁvb co‡Z n‡e|

A_ev Avcwb dv‡g©wm co‡Z Pvb, ev‡qv‡Kwgwóª co‡Z Pvb, imvqb co‡Z Pvb|
cÖ‡Z¨KwU‡Z K¨vwiqvi Av‡Q|

Avevi c`v_©weÁv‡bi bvbv kvLv Av‡Q, cÖ‡Z¨KUv wel‡qi bvbv kvLv Av‡Q| †hgb
Wv³vwi cvk Kivi c‡i Avcwb bvK, bvwK †PvL, bvwK nvU© bvwK mœvqy‡Z K¨vwiqvi
Mo‡eb, ZvI wbf©i Ki‡e Avcbvi cQ‡›`i Dci| †KvbUvq UvKv †ewk, †mUv bq
Avcbvi †hUv fv‡jv jv‡M †mUv‡Z _vKzb| ûg, mvR©vwi‡Z A‡bK UvKv! wKš‘ Avcbvi
Avm‡j A‡Zv fv‡jv jv‡M bv! Zvic‡iI hv‡eb? gi‡eb|

GKUv †e‡Q wbb, †hUv‡Z Avcwb e¨yrcywËi m‡e©v”P wkL‡o hv‡eb| †K Kx ej‡jv
Avcbvi fvev `iKvi †bB| GKRb ey‡q‡U c‡o‡Q Av‡iKRb PÆMÖvg wek¦we`¨vj‡q
imvqb c‡o‡Q| fve‡Qb, K¨vwiqvi ey‡q‡Ui R‡biB fv‡jv n‡e Avi imvqb †h
c‡o‡Q ZviUv aBÂv? GK`gB bv| imvqb †h gb ‡_‡K co‡e, eyS‡e Gi cÖv‡qvwMK
wewfbœ w`K, Zvi Rb¨ wekvj K¨vwiqvi A‡c¶v Ki‡Q|

†Zv

K¨vwiqvi g¨vwcs Avcbvi cÖ_g KvR,

wb‡Ri fv‡jv jvMvi RvqMvUv †ei Kiv| ïb‡Z h‡Zv A™¢yZ jv¸K, †mUv ‡ei Kiæb|
Avcwb AbjvBb †MBgvi n‡Z Pvb? wd« j¨vÝvi n‡Z Pvb? †Kvb Amyweav †bB| fv‡jv
jvMvi Kv‡R gb †ewk e‡m| inm¨ †mLv‡bB| †mB gb emv Avcbv‡K †mB wel‡qi
Mfxi †_‡K Mfx‡i wb‡q hv‡e| Avcwb †mB wel‡q n‡q DV‡eb `¶ gywÝ!

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†hUv fv‡jv jv‡M Zv wba©vwiZ n‡q †M‡j K¨vwiqvi g¨vwcs n‡q †M‡jv| †Zv Avcbvi
fv‡jv jvMvi wel‡q `viæY n‡Z n‡j wKš‘ g‡b g‡b PvBjvg Avi n‡q †Mjvg! †mwU
wKš‘ n‡”Q bv!

mv‡_ GKUv cø¨vb PvB| fv‡jv jvMvi wel‡q `¶Zvi kx‡l© hvIqvi cøvb| imvq‡b
me‡P‡q fv‡jv covq †Kv_vq, †Kv_vq _v‡Kb †miv wk¶Kiv, †mLv‡b co‡Z n‡j
Avcbvi Kx Kx ‡hvM¨Zv jvM‡e? †mB ‡hvM¨Zv Kx Kx fv‡e AR©b Ki‡eb? AR©b
Ki‡Qb wKbv mg‡qi mv‡_ mv‡_ wb‡RB †mjd gwbUwis Kiæb| GK K‡Vvi mvabv
Ki‡Z n‡e †mB cøvb‡K Gw·wKDU Ki‡Z|

Gevi Avmyb wØZxq av‡c - Re g¨vwcs

aiv hvK Avcbvi fv‡jv jvMv wb‡q NvU‡Z wM‡q Avcwb wbwðZ n‡jb, ¸Mj Avcbvi
Rb¨ `viæY GK RvqMv n‡e, Avcbvi cQ‡›`i wel‡q| †Zv ¸M‡j hv‡eb Kxfv‡e?

K¨vwiqvi g¨vwcsUv n‡q †M‡j Gevi Rb¨ iB‡jv Re g¨vwcs|

Avcwb †h KvR K‡i Rxebhvcb Ki‡Z Pvb, †mB KvR¸‡jv †Kv_vq †Kv_vq Av‡Q|
wj‡L †djyb, bvg|

wimvP© Kiæb| †`‡k ev we‡`‡k †Kv_vq †Kv_vq Avcbvi cQ‡›`i wel‡q KvR Kivi
my‡hvM Av‡Q|

Ggb 10wU kxl© cÖwZôv‡bi bvg wj‡L †djyb| AviI mvP© Ki‡Z _vKzb| `iKvi n‡j
GB 10wU bvg‡K Avevi wifvBm Kiæb| 3wU hw` fyj nq, ev` w`‡q bZyb 3wU‡K hy³
Kiæb|

Gevi GB 10 †Kv¤úvwb‡Z Re Ki‡Z n‡j ev G‡`i mv‡_ Avcbvi e¨emv Ki‡Z


n‡j, GB ‡Kv¤úvwb¸‡jv m¤ú‡K© e¨vcK ÷vwW Kiæb| Kv‡Qi gvbyl Kviv †mLv‡b Re
K‡i, Lei wbb| n‡Z cv‡i Avcbvi m¨v‡ii †Kvb GK QvÎ A_ev GKvwaK QvÎ
†mLv‡b Re K‡i| GKUz AvaUz Lei wbb| †mLv‡b Re Ki‡Z †mB †Kv¤úvwb¸‡jv
Avm‡j Kx Kx ‡`‡L|

GUv Rvbv Lye Riæwi| cÖ‡Z¨K †Kv¤úvwbi wgkb wfkb Avjv`v, ÷«v‡UwR Avjv`v|
Zv‡`i †jvKej wb‡qvM Avm‡j †mB ÷«v‡UwR¸‡jvi Dci wbf©i K‡i| Avcwb Lei
wb‡Z _vKzb| Avc‡WU wb‡Z _vKzb| n‡Z cv‡i miKvwi †Kvb gš¿Yvjq Avcbvi
cQ›`| GKUv †e‡Q wbb| Avcwb miKv‡ii 15/20Uv wefv‡M Av‡e`b Ki‡Qb, Gi
gv‡b Avcbvi †Kvb cQ›` †bB, n‡jB n‡jv GKUv| GUv Lye cyiv‡bv Avg‡ji

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fxlYiKg Avb¯§vU© wPšÍv| AvR‡Ki w`‡b Gme Avb¯§vU© wPšÍv †Kb Ki‡eb?

Avcbvi cQ‡›`i K¨vwiqvi †hLv‡b _v‡K, Avcwb †mLv‡b hv‡eb| KviY Avcwb
evuP‡Z Pvb Avb›` wb‡q, cÖwZw`b AcQ‡›`i Kv‡R Nvwb Uvbv Avi †Uwe‡ji wbP w`‡q
wfÿz‡Ki g‡Zv Ny‡li UvKv †bqvi Rb¨ Avcbvi Rb¥ nq wb| Rxe‡b Avcwb GZUv
e¨_© n‡eb bv †h, Avcbv‡K Nyl ‡L‡q evuP‡Z n‡e, Ny‡li UvKvq mšÍv‡bi †jLvcovi
LiP †hvMv‡Z n‡e|

n‡q †M‡jv Avcbvi Re g¨vwcs|

Gevi Avmyb Z…Zxq av‡c - w¯‹jm M¨vc g¨vwcs

Avcbvi cQ‡›`i cÖwZôvb¸‡jv‡Z cQ‡›`i PvKzwi Kivi Rb¨ Avcwb A¨vKv‡WwgK¨vwj


ˆZwi n‡”Qb| wKš‘ Rv‡bb †Zv, fv‡jv cÖwZôvb¸‡jv ïay Avcbvi †iRvëB †`L‡e
bv|

mv‡_ †`L‡e Avcbvi Kx Kx w¯‹jm Av‡Q| A‡bK w¯‹jm Av‡Q †h¸‡jv Avcbv‡K
R‡e cÖ‡e‡ki Av‡MB AR©b K‡i wb‡Z n‡e Ges Ggb wKQy w¯‹jm Av‡Q hv IB
PvKzwi‡Z Acwinvh©| †m¸‡jv Avcbv‡K AR©b Ki‡Z n‡e| Avcbvi KwgDwb‡KBkb
w¯‹jm, †cÖ‡R‡›Ukb w¯‹jm, ivBwUs w¯‹jm, wjWviwkc w¯‹jm, wWwmmb †gBwKs
w¯‹jm, A¨vbvjvwUK¨vj A¨vwewjwU BZ¨vw` A‡bK w¯‹jm jvM‡e|

GLb Avcwb hLb Avcbvi cQ‡›`i cÖwZôvb¸‡jv wb‡q ÷vwW Ki‡eb, †mB ÷vwWi
gv‡b wKš‘ GBI †h Avcwb †mLv‡b Re Ki‡Z Kx Kx w¯‹jm jv‡M ZvI ÷vwW K‡i
†ei Ki‡eb Ges wb‡R †mB w¯‹jm¸‡jv AR©b K‡i wb‡eb|

Avcbvi Kx Kx w¯‹jm Av‡Q, Zvi wj÷ Kiæb Avi †mLv‡b KvR Ki‡Z n‡j Kx Kx
w¯‹jm jvM‡e, ZvI wj÷ Kiæb| Gevi M¨vc †ei Kiæb | n‡q †M‡jv Avcbvi w¯‹jm
M¨vc g¨vwcs|

Avcwb ˆZwi Avcbvi cQ‡›`i cÖwZôvb¸‡jv‡Z R‡ei Rb¨|


GB n‡jv Avcbvi 99%!

n¨vu| GL‡bv 1% i‡q ‡M‡Q!

Avgv‡`i g‡W‡ji PZy_©avc n‡jv - Kv‡bKkbm g¨vwcs

†idv‡i‡Ýi g~j¨ mviv `ywbqv‡Z| ¯‹jviwkc †c‡Z †hgb †idv‡iÝ A‡bK mgq
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