Professional Documents
Culture Documents
I. SOCIALS
Forms of Socials
A. Cocktails
1. Object or Purpose
2. Time Given
Cocktails are normally given from 1800 to 2000 Hours. However, the
time varies in different countries.
3. Requirements
a. Invitations
b. Drinks
4. Attire
a. The host and the hostess may or may not form a reception line.
They should circulate but they should be ready to meet their guests
as they come in at all times.
b. They should see to it that no guest is left alone to himself.
c. They must ensure everybody has a drink and that the canapés are
served around. If a table for canapés is provided, they must ensure
that all guests have access to it.
a. The guest must meet the hosts, and the honourees if there is one,
upon arrival.
b. He must circulate and greet as many guests as is practicable. In a
small-sized party, he must meet or greet everybody.
c. He should keep or have a ready subject of conversation.
d. Upon departure , the guest must not forget to thank and bid to the
hosts, and the honouree if there is one.
B. Formal Dinner
1. Object or Purpose
A formal dinner has the same purpose as a cocktail party except that it
is done in a more serious or formal atmosphere.
2. Time Given
3. Requirements
a. Invitations
b. What to Serve
4. Attire
C. Informal Dinner
1. Object or Purpose
2. Time Given
3. Requirements
a. Invitations
b. What to Serve
4. Attire
D. Reception
1. Object or Purpose
2. Time Given
3. Requirements
b. What to serve
4. Attire
Clothes usually worn in parties held at the same season and time of
the day may be worn. The appropriate attire is also governed by the
specific information indicated in the invitation.
Wines
The Philippines not being a wine country, the appreciation for the
French real vintage wines is not keen. The need for wine here is not as strong
as those in cold countries. However, in spite of the fact that in the Philippines,
the etiquette on its proper service is a must for the well cultivated person.
There are few simple rules easy to remember to prevent embarrassment.
Prior to Meals
During Meals
After Meals
Liqueurs are served after meals usually with coffee. It is never served
at any other time. In general, one is not obliged to serve all the above. A fine
good simple wine, usually red, can suffice .As it has previously been started,
the elaboration of the service depends on the country where an officer may
find himself.
What is Etiquette?
The left hand may be used to convey food with the fork if one has just
cut a piece of meat or fish with the knife. The continental fashion is accepted
everywhere. It is of course, entirely correct to use the right hand all the time
for conveying food. A combination of the two systems is currently acceptable.
Wiping the silver and plates with the napkin indicates poor manners.
Likewise, leaving the spoon in the cup, or looking for toothpicks, show lack of
breeding.
One must make sure his mouth is empty and his lips wiped clean
before taking any beverage. This will keep the rim of glasses and cups free
from ugly marks.
Napkins are placed on the lap by individual guests after the hostess
has taken hers. Dinner napkins are folded once (in half), while others are
spread out. At the end of the meal, the napkin must be laid to the left of the
plate. No attempt need be made to let it look neat, it should never be
refolded.
The soup spoon is filled from one side in an outwardly direction, that is,
away from the one who is eating. Convey to the mouth, the same side of the
spoon, never from the end or tip of the spoon. Again, one can easily tell
breeding in a person by just observing the manner he or she takes soup.
One should never stir up food or mix different items into the heap on
the plate. Gravy, for example, is used only for specific dishes and should not
be spread all over.
Foreign particles taken with the food (stone or gravel) are removed with
the thumb and forefinger. Same thing is done with the fish bones and other
small bones.
Wet spoons should never be used to take sugar. The butter knife is
for butter only, the salad fork, for the salad only. The hostess sees to it that
silverware is adequate for every purpose.
No guest should deliberately ask for second helpings, but make sure
there is company. The experienced hostess immediately places an individual
guest at ease by providing the company herself.
It is but proper for a guest to take a little of every item offered at the
table. The guest’s favourable reaction to the food served is some
compensation to the hostess.
When one has finished a certain course, or the meal itself, he places
the fork and the knife on the right side of the plate. The sharp side of the knife
When using a finger bowl, the fingers of one hand are dipped lightly,
followed by the other hand. They are dried on the napkin, on the lap and not
on the surface of the table. In the use of the finger bowl, it is normally served
with the fruit plate.