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INTRODUCTION:
WELCOME, BROTHER. THIS CHEAT SHEET IS A COMPANION TO OUR
MASTERCLASS, DESIGNED TO ASSIST YOU IN HONORING AND CREATING A SAFE
SPACE WHERE YOU AND YOUR PARTNER CAN BOTH THRIVE IN THE
RELATIONSHIP. IN THIS WORKSHEET, YOU WILL DISCOVER THE THREE CORE
ELEMENTS, AND THE BENEFITS AND CHALLENGES OF THE ONE PRACTICE THAT
WILL SUPPORT YOU IN FOSTERING SAFETY IN THE RELATIONSHIP.
TRUSTWORTHY CONSISTENCY
DEMONSTRATING PREDICTABLE, DEPENDABLE ACTIONS
AND REACTIONS OVER TIME, THEREBY BUILDING A
FOUNDATION OF TRUST.TRUST IS THE BACKBONE OF
ANY INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP. WITHOUT CONSISTENT
TRUSTWORTHINESS, INTIMACY CAN'T THRIVE.
EMOTIONAL AVAILABILITY
BEING PRESENT AND OPEN TO SHARE AND RECEIVE
EMOTIONS WITHOUT RESERVATION OR JUDGMENT.FOR
DEEP CONNECTION, PARTNERS NEED TO FEEL THEY CAN
SHARE THEIR INNERMOST FEELINGS AND BE MET WITH
UNDERSTANDING.
ASSERTIVE PRESENCE
CLEARLY COMMUNICATING ONE'S NEEDS, DESIRES, AND
BOUNDARIES WITHOUT BEING AGGRESSIVE OR
PASSIVE.ENSURES MUTUAL RESPECT AND
UNDERSTANDING IN THE RELATIONSHIP, REPLACING
AMBIGUITY WITH TRANSPARENCY.
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RELATIONSHIP CHECK-INS
WHAT IT'S ABOUT:
THE "RELATIONSHIP CHECK-IN" IS A DEDICATED TIME
EACH WEEK, BEST IF KEPT CONSISTENT, WHERE
PARTNERS INTENTIONALLY CREATE A SAFE SPACE. THIS
IS THE MOMENT TO COMMUNICATE NEEDS, EXPRESS
DESIRES, SET BOUNDARIES, AND SHARE FEELINGS
ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP'S DYNAMICS..
TOP 5 BENEFITS:
1. DEEPENED INTIMACY: AS PARTNERS SHARE OPENLY, THEY
FOSTER A BOND THAT GOES BEYOND THE SURFACE.
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CHALLENGES
REMEMBER
FOR MANY, THIS EXERCISE MIGHT BE TOUGH. LISTENING TO YOUR
PARTNER DISCUSS SENSITIVE TOPICS COULD AWAKEN STRONG
REACTIONS WITHIN YOU. HOWEVER, IT'S CRUCIAL TO VIEW THIS
NOT JUST AS A MEANS TO ENHANCE YOUR INTIMACY, BUT ALSO AS
AN OPPORTUNITY TO CULTIVATE SELF-AWARENESS. TUNE INTO
WHAT'S UNFOLDING WITHIN YOUR MIND, BODY, SOUL, AND
HEART..
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FEAR, LOVES, AND DESIRES -
DEEP DIVE CONNECTION
PRACTICE
SETTING:
ROLES:
GUIDELINES:
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FEAR, LOVES, AND DESIRES -
DEEP DIVE CONNECTION
PRACTICE
TRAINING:
FOR EACH OF THE SECTION FEAR, LOVES AND DESIRES, THIS IS HOW YOU
WILL GO ABOUT:
AFTER EACH RESPONSE, PARTNER A SAYS “THANK YOU” AND REPEATS THE
QUESTION. PARTNER B ANSWERS UNTIL A NATURAL STOP, EVEN IF PARTNER B
NO LONGER FINDS AND ANSWER, THEY CAN CLOSE THEIR EYES AND FEEL THE
QUESTION, USUALLY A NEW ANSWER WILL COME UP.
ALLOCATE 2-3 MINUTES FOR THIS. ONCE THE TIMER STOPS, SWITCH ROLES
AND REPEAT THE QUESTION: "WHAT ARE YOU AFRAID OF?" UNTIL THE TIMER
STOPS.
REMEMBER, THE POWER OF "FEAR, LOVES, AND DESIRES" COMES FROM ITS
SIMPLICITY, REPETITION, AND THE DEPTH OF CONNECTION IT CULTIVATES.
ENJOY THE JOURNEY INTO EACH OTHER'S HEARTS.
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