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Must Know’Sexrets’
We often say that sex disappears after marriage. A loss of sexual activity can happen to anyone.
A natural response you may have heard may sound like “No sex? Meh… It happens to everyone
after marriage”. Everything is in your hands and just as you work out your wedding routine, you
have control over your sexual life. With just a bit of effort, you can get that spark of passion that
starts fading away.
SEXercise More!
Sex quality depends on your body shape and overall health. No one wants to have sex when they
feel fatigue or have back pain, or can hardly take themselves to the kitchen. If you want to keep
your sex drive high, you should keep fit. Physical exercises will boost your energy. Stretching is
ideal before trying new positions. Jogging will help you control your breath. Work-out with your
partner – the very sight of your sweaty bodies and stretchy pants will raise the heat, and keep
your training going in the bedroom.
Ever Sexted?
Yes, you don’t have to be a teen to sext. Though you may think it’s a silly thing to do, statistics
shows that almost one-third of married people have sent sexy messages or emails. Why don’t
you try it with your significant other? Your hubby will be pleasantly surprised if you send a
risky photo of you followed by an intriguing message. However, don’t cross the line in sexting.
Do not sext while at work as it can put you or your spouse in an awkward situation. Do not cross
the boundary – you know each other’s preferences and morals. Finally, do not save your sexts…
just in case.
Be Initiative
Usually, married couples do not have sex – or have sex rarely when each of the partners is
waiting for the other one to start. Each day something can be an excuse – bad weather, bad
feelings, hard day at work, too late, friends invited for dinner… Remember that 42% of married
men want their partner to initiate more. So you don’t have to be shy or hesitant. Initiate sex. Let
your husband know he is hot and you want him in the spur of the moment. That feeling turns
them on more than anything else.
Sexperiment
To make your sex better, you should not be afraid of sexperiments. Not everything will work for
you, but you will make your sexual life more various and full of excitement. Try to role play so
that you can forget that you’ve been married for years and get excited with your new selves.
Experiment with positions and locations. Watch erotic videos together to get some ideas for
positions. Also, don’t forget the good old quickies. Men are usually turned on by the element of
spontaneity. Quick sex in unpredictable spots? Sounds like an adventure!