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UNDERSTANDING
HUMAN
SEXUALITY
THIRTEENTH EDITION

JANET SHIBLEY HYDE


University of Wisconsin—Madison

JOHN D. DELAMATER
University of Wisconsin—Madison

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UNDERSTANDING HUMAN SEXUALITY, THIRTEENTH EDITION

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iii

To our family:
Peter
Elizabeth
Margaret
Laura
Luke

Author Biographies

Janet Shibley Hyde, the Helen Thompson Woolley Pro- John D. DeLamater, Conway-Bascom Professor of
fessor of Psychology and Gender & Women’s Studies at Sociology at the University of Wisconsin–Madison,
the University of Wisconsin–Madison, received her edu- received his education at the University of California,
cation at Oberlin College and the University of Califor- Santa Barbara, and the University of Michigan. He cre-
nia, Berkeley. She has taught a course in human sexuality ated the human sexuality course at the University of
since 1974, first at Bowling Green State University, then Wisconsin in 1975 and has since taught it regularly. His
at Denison University, and now at the University of Wis- current research and writing are focused on the bio-
consin. Her research interests are in gender differences logical, psychological, and social influences on sexual
and gender development in adolescence. Author of the behavior and satisfaction in later life. He has published
textbook Half the Human Experience: The Psychology of papers on the influence of marital duration, attitudes
Women, she is a past president of the Society for the Sci- about sex for elders, and illness and medications on sex-
entific Study of Sexuality and is a Fellow of the American ual expression. He co-edited the Handbook of the Sociol-
Psychological Association and the American Association ogy of Sexualities. He is the co-author of the textbook
for the Advancement of Science. She has received many Social Psychology. He is a Fellow of the Society for the
other honors, including an award for excellence in teach- Scientific Study of Sexuality and the 2002 recipient of
ing at Bowling Green State University, the Chancellor’s the Kinsey Award from the Society for Career Contri-
Award for teaching at the University of Wisconsin, and butions to Sex Research. He has received awards for
the Kinsey Award from the Society for the Scientific excellence in teaching from the Department of Sociol-
Study of Sexuality for her contributions to sex research. ogy and the University of Wisconsin and is a Fellow and
In 2000–01 she served as one of the three scientific edi- past Chair of the Teaching Academy at the University of
tors for U.S. Surgeon General David Satcher’s report Wisconsin. He regularly teaches a seminar for graduate
Promoting Sexual Health and Responsible Sexual Behav- students on teaching undergraduate courses. He is mar-
ior. She is married to John DeLamater. ried to Janet Hyde.

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Contents in Brief

CHAPTER 1 Sexuality in Perspective 1


CHAPTER 2 Theoretical Perspectives on Sexuality 22
CHAPTER 3 Sex Research 42
CHAPTER 4 Sexual Anatomy 67
CHAPTER 5 Sex Hormones, Sexual Differentiation, and the Menstrual Cycle 89
CHAPTER 6 Conception, Pregnancy, & Childbirth 115
CHAPTER 7 Contraception and Abortion 152
CHAPTER 8 Sexual Arousal 184
CHAPTER 9 Sexuality and the Life Cycle: Childhood and Adolescence 222
CHAPTER 10 Sexuality and the Life Cycle: Adulthood 244
CHAPTER 11 Attraction, Love, and Communication 271
CHAPTER 12 Gender and Sexuality 302
CHAPTER 13 Sexual Orientation: Gay, Straight, or Bi? 323
CHAPTER 14 Variations in Sexual Behavior 350
CHAPTER 15 Sexual Coercion 378
CHAPTER 16 Sex for Sale 399
CHAPTER 17 Sexual Disorders and Sex Therapy 429
CHAPTER 18 Sexually Transmitted Infections 452
CHAPTER 19 Ethics, Religion, and Sexuality 474
CHAPTER 20 Sex and the Law 499
EPILOGUE Looking to the Future: Sexuality Education 526
McGraw-Hill Education Psychology’s APA
Documentation Style Guide

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Contents

Author Biographies iii Psychological Theories 26


Psychoanalytic Theory • Learning
Preface xii Theory • Social Exchange
Theory • Cognitive Theory
CHAPTER 1
A Sexually Diverse World: Learning
Sexuality in Perspective 1 Theory and Sexual Orientation
in a Non-Western Society 32
Sex and Gender 2
Critical Theories 34
The History of Understanding Sexuality: Religion Feminist Theory • Queer Theory
and Science 3
Religion • Science Sociological Perspectives 35
Symbolic Interaction Theory
The Media 6 • Sexual Scripts • Sexual Fields
Cross-Cultural Perspectives on Sexuality 7 • Social Institutions
Variations in Sexual Techniques Critical Thinking Skill 40
• Masturbation • Premarital and
Extramarital Sex • Sex with Same- Summary 40
Gender Partners • Standards of Suggestions for Further Reading 41
Attractiveness • Social-Class and Ethnic-
Group Variations in the United States • The
Significance of Cross-Cultural Studies CHAPTER 3
A Sexually Diverse World: Sexuality Sex Research 42
in Two Societies 9
Measuring Sex 43
A Sexually Diverse World: Sex in China 14 Self-Reports • Behavioral
Cross-Species Perspectives on Sexuality 17 Measures • Implicit Measures • Biological
Masturbation • Same-Gender Sexual Measures
Behavior • Sexual Signaling Issues in Sex Research 45
Human Uniqueness • The Nonsexual Uses Sampling • Accuracy of
of Sexual Behavior Measurement • Extraneous Factors • Ethical
The Sexual Health Perspective 19 Issues
Critical Thinking Skill 20 The Major Sex Surveys 50
The Kinsey Report • The NHSLS • The
Summary 21
NSSHB • Sexual Behavior in Britain
Suggestions for Further Reading 21 and Australia • A Survey of Latino
Women • Magazine Surveys
CHAPTER 2 Milestones in Sex Research:
Theoretical Perspectives on Alfred C. Kinsey 52
Sexuality 22 Studies of Special Populations 55
Web-Based Surveys 55
Evolutionary Perspectives 23
Sociobiology • Evolutionary Psychology Media Content Analysis 56

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Qualitative Methods 57 Differentiation • Homologous Organs


Milestones in Sex Research: • Atypical Prenatal Gender Differentiation
Masters and Johnson: The Physiology Milestones in Sex Research:
of Sexual Response 58 Endocrine Disrupters 95
Experiments 60 Sexual Differentiation during Puberty 99
Changes in Girls • Changes in
Meta-Analysis 61
Boys • Changes in Behavior
Statistical Concepts 62
A Sexually Diverse World: The Debate over
Average • Variability • Average
the Treatment of Intersex Individuals 100
versus Normal • Incidence versus
Frequency • Correlation The Menstrual Cycle 106
Biology of the Menstrual Cycle • Menstrual
Critical Thinking Skill 64–65
Problems • Psychological Aspects
Summary 65 of the Menstrual Cycle • Cycles in Men
Suggestions for Further Reading 66 Critical Thinking Skill 113
Summary 113
Suggestions for Further Reading 114
CHAPTER 4
Sexual Anatomy 67
CHAPTER 6
Female Sexual Organs 68 Conception, Pregnancy, &
External Organs • Internal Organs
• The Breasts Childbirth 115
A Sexually Diverse World: Conception 116
Female Genital Cutting 72 Sperm Meets Egg: The Incredible
Male Sexual Organs 77 Journey • Improving the Chances of
External Organs • Internal Organs Conception: Making a Baby

Cancer of the Sex Organs 82 First Person: Planning a Pregnancy? 117


Breast Cancer • Cancer of the Cervix, Development of the Conceptus 119
Endometrium, and Ovaries • Cancer The Embryo and Its Support Systems • Fetal
of the Prostate • Cancer of the Testes Development
First Person: The Pelvic Exam 82 Pregnancy 122
First Person: Testicular Examination 86 The Stages of Pregnancy • Sex during
Pregnancy • Nutrition during Pregnancy
Critical Thinking Skill 87
• Effects of Substances Taken during Pregnancy
Summary 88
Birth 131
Suggestions for Further Reading 88 The Beginning of Labor • The
Stages of Labor • Cesarean Section
(C-Section) • Childbirth Options
CHAPTER 5 After the Baby Is Born: The Postpartum
Sex Hormones, Sexual Differentiation, Period 136
Physical Changes • Psychological Changes
and the Menstrual Cycle 89 • Attachment to the Baby • Sex during Postpartum
Sex Hormones 90 Breast-Feeding 138
Sex Hormone Systems in Males • Sex Biological Mechanisms • Physical and Mental
Hormone Systems in Females Health
Prenatal Sexual Differentiation 93 Problem Pregnancies 140
Sex Chromosomes • Gonads • Prenatal Ectopic Pregnancy • Pseudocyesis
Hormones and the Genitals • Descent (False Pregnancy) • Pregnancy-Induced
of the Testes and Ovaries • Brain Hypertension • Viral Illness during Pregnancy

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• Birth Defects • Rh Incompatibility Critical Thinking Skill 182


• Miscarriage (Spontaneous Summary 182
Abortion) • Preterm Birth
Suggestions for Further Reading 183
Infertility 143
Causes of Infertility • Psychological Aspects
of Infertility • Treatment of Infertility CHAPTER 8
Assisted Reproductive Technologies 145 Sexual Arousal 184
Artificial Insemination • Sperm Banks • Embryo
Transfer • Test-Tube Babies • GIFT • Gender The Sexual Response Cycle 185
Selection • Prenatal Genetic Diagnosis Excitement • Orgasm • Resolution • More
on Women’s Orgasms
Critical Thinking Skill 149
Other Models of Sexual Response 191
Summary 150 Kaplan’s Triphasic Model • The Sexual
Suggestions for Further Reading 151 Excitation-Inhibition Model • Emotion
and Arousal
First Person: William Masters
CHAPTER 7 and Virginia Johnson 192
Contraception and Abortion 152 Neural and Hormonal Bases of Arousal 194
The Brain, the Spinal Cord, and Sex • Brain
Hormonal Methods 153 Control of Sexual Response • Hormones
The Combination Pill • Other Kinds and Sex • Sex Offenders—Castration
of Pills • The Patch • The Vaginal or Incarceration?
Ring • Depo-Provera Injections • Emergency
Contraception A Sexually Diverse World: Sexuality
and Disability 197
First Person: Margaret Sanger—Birth
Control Pioneer 156 Milestones in Sex Research: Mapping the
Sexual Brain 202
LARC 159 Pheromones 205
Implants • IUDs
Sexual Techniques 207
Condoms 161 Erogenous Zones • One-Person Sex • Two-
The Male Condom • The Female Condom Person Sex • Aphrodisiacs • Exceptional Sex
Diaphragms, FemCap, and the Sponge 164 First Person: The Protestant Ethic:
The Diaphragm • FemCap • The Sponge Sex as Work 218
Spermicides 166 First Person: A Personal Growth Exercise—
Getting to Know Your Own Body 219
Withdrawal 168
Critical Thinking Skill 220
Fertility Awareness (Rhythm) Methods 169
Summary 220
Sterilization 171
Male Sterilization • Female Sterilization Suggestions for Further Reading 221

Psychological Aspects: Attitudes toward


Contraception 173
Milestones in Sex Research: History of the CHAPTER 9
Development of Sophisticated Methods
of Contraception 174 Sexuality and the Life Cycle:
Abortion 175
Childhood and Adolescence 222
Abortion Procedures • Psychological Data Sources 223
Aspects • Men and Abortion
Infancy and the Preschool Years (Birth to
A Sexually Diverse World: Abortion in 4 Years) 224
Cross-Cultural Perspective 178 Attachment • Self-Stimulation • Child–
New Advances in Contraception 180 Child Encounters • Sexual Knowledge and
Male Methods • Female Methods Interests • Knowledge about Gender

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Childhood (5 to 11 Years) 226 CHAPTER 11


Masturbation • Heterosexual
Behavior • Same-Gender Sexual Attraction, Love, and
Behavior • Sex Knowledge and Communication 271
Interests • The Sexualization of Children
Attraction 272
Adolescence (12 to 18 Years) 228
The Girl Next Door • Birds of a Feather
Masturbation • Same-Gender Sexual
• Physical Attractiveness • The Interpersonal
Behavior • Heterosexual Behavior • Too
Marketplace • From the Laboratory to Real
Early Sex • Romantic Relationships • Internet
Life • Attraction Online • Explaining Our
Use, Risk, and Sexting
Preferences
Milestones in Sex Research: The Impact of
the Media on Adolescent Sexuality 230 Intimacy 278
Defining Intimacy • Intimacy and Self-
Milestones in Sex Research: Teen Disclosure • Measuring Intimacy
Pregnancy and Parenthood 234
Theories of Love 280
The College Years 239
Triangular Theory of Love • Attachment
Masturbation • Patterns of Heterosexual
Theory of Love • Love as a
Behavior • Casual Sex • Same-Gender
Story • Passionate and Companionate
Sexual Behavior
Love • The Biology of Love
How Sexuality Aids in Development 241
Milestones in Sex Research: Jealousy 286
Critical Thinking Skill 242
Research on Love 287
Summary 242
Measuring Love • Love and
Suggestions for Further Reading 243 Adrenaline • Cross-Cultural Research
Communication 291
CHAPTER 10 Communication and Relationships • Being
Sexuality and the Life Cycle: an Effective Communicator • Fighting
Adulthood 244 Fair • Checking Out Sexy
Signals • Relationship Education
Sex and the Single Person 245 A Sexually Diverse World: Gender
Sexual Unfolding • The Never Married Differences in Communication 294
• Being Single
First Person: How Solid Is Your
Cohabitation 249 Relationship? 298
Marital Relationships 250 Critical Thinking Skill 300
Marital Sexuality • Sexual Patterns in Marriage
Summary 300
• Sex and the Two-Career Family • Keeping
Your Mate Suggestions for Further Reading 301
Nonmonogamous Relationships 256
Extra-Relationship Sex • Attitudes toward
Extramarital Sex • Internet Infidelity • Equity CHAPTER 12
and Extramarital Sex • Evolution and Gender and Sexuality 302
Extramarital Sex • Open Nonmonogamous
Relationships • Consequences of Gender Roles and Stereotypes 303
Nonmonogamous Relationships Gender Roles and Ethnicity • Socialization
Post-Relationship Sex 261 Psychological Gender Differences 307
Sex in Later Life 262
Gender Differences in Sexuality 308
Physical Changes in Women • Physical
Masturbation • Attitudes about Casual
Changes in Men • Attitudes about Sex and the
Sex • Use of Pornography • Arousal to
Elderly • Sexual Behavior
Erotica • Orgasm Consistency • Sex Drive
Critical Thinking Skill 269
Why the Differences? 310
Summary 269 Are the Differences Bogus? • Biological
Suggestions for Further Reading 270 Factors • Cultural Factors • Other Factors

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A Sexually Diverse World: Male Sexuality 313 First Person: Sexual Fluidity
and Questioning 346
Beyond the Young Adults 314
Critical Thinking Skill 347
Transgender 315
The Experiences of Trans People Summary 348
• Sexual Orientation and Transgender Suggestions for Further Reading 349
Identity • Trans Health • The Medical and
Surgical Transition Process • What Causes
Gender Variance? CHAPTER 14
Milestones in Sex Research: Measuring Variations in Sexual Behavior 350
Anti-Trans Prejudice 317
Critical Thinking Skill 321 When Is Sexual Behavior Abnormal? 351
Defining Abnormal • The Normal–Abnormal
Summary 321
Continuum
Suggestions for Further Reading 322
Fetishism 352
Why Do People Develop Fetishes?
CHAPTER 13 First Person: A Case History
of a Shoe Fetishist 353
Sexual Orientation: Gay, Straight,
Cross-Dressing 354
or Bi? 323
Sadism and Masochism 356
Attitudes toward Gays and Lesbians 324 Definitions • Sadomasochistic
Attitudes • Gays and Lesbians as a Behavior • Causes of
Minority Group Sadomasochism • Bondage and
Milestones in Sex Research: Discipline • Dominance and Submission
Does Gaydar Exist? 326 Milestones in Sex Research:
Life Experiences of LGBs 328 Sexual Addictions? 358
LGB Development • Lesbian, Gay, and Voyeurism and Exhibitionism 361
Bisexual Communities • Gay and Lesbian Voyeurism • Exhibitionism
Relationships • Lesbian and Gay Families Hypersexuality and Asexuality 363
Milestones in Sex Research: The Ethics of Hypersexuality • Asexuality
Sex Research: The Tearoom Trade 332 Cybersex Use and Abuse 366
First Person: A Gay Couple: Lee and Bob 333 Other Sexual Variations 368
How Many People Are Gay, Straight, or Bi? 334 Asphyxiophilia • Zoophilia • Other Variations
Sexual Orientation and Mental Health 336 Prevention of Sexual Variations 370
Sin and the Medical Model • Research Treatment of Sexual Variations 371
Evidence • Can Sexual Orientation Be Medical Treatments • Cognitive–Behavioral
Changed by Therapy? Therapies • Skills Training • AA-Type
Why Do People Become Gay 12-Step Programs • What Works?
or Heterosexual? 338 Critical Thinking Skill 375
Biological Theories • Learning Theory
Summary 376
• Sociological Theory • The Bottom Line
Suggestions for Further Reading 377
Differences between Gay Men and Lesbians 341
Sexual Orientation in Multicultural
Perspective 342 CHAPTER 15
A Sexually Diverse World: Ritualized Sexual Coercion 378
Homosexuality in Melanesia 343
Bisexuality 344 Rape 379
Stereotypes and Prejudice • Bisexual The Impact of Rape • Date Rape • Marital
Development • Mostly Heterosexuals Rape • Causes of Rape • The Role of
• Concluding Reflections Alcohol in Sexual Assault • Rapists

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• Men as Victims of Rape • Prison First Person: A Case of Female


Rape • Ethnicity and Rape • Preventing Rape Orgasmic Disorder 433
First Person: A Date-Rape Victim Tells What Causes Sexual Disorders? 434
Her Story 380 Physical Causes • Drugs • Psychological
First Person: How Can Friends Help Causes • Combined Cognitive and
a Rape Victim? 382 Physiological Factors • Interpersonal
Factors • A New View of Women’s Sexual
Milestones in Sex Research: Fraternity
Gang Rape 385 Problems and Their Causes

Child Sexual Abuse 389 Therapies for Sexual Disorders 442


Patterns of Child Sexual Abuse • Impact on Behavior Therapy • Cognitive–Behavioral
the Victim • The Offenders Therapy • Couple Therapy • Sex Therapy
Online • Specific Treatments for Specific
Milestones in Sex Research: False Memory Problems • Biomedical Therapies
Syndrome? Recovered Memory? 392
First Person: A Case of Low
Sexual Harassment 394 Sexual Desire 444
Sexual Harassment at Work • Sexual Harassment
in Education: An A for a Lay • Doctor–Patient Sex Evaluating Sex Therapy 448
Critical Thinking Skill 397 Some Practical Information 449
Avoiding Sexual Disorders • Choosing a Sex
Summary 397
Therapist
Suggestions for Further Reading 398
Critical Thinking Skill 450
Summary 451
CHAPTER 16
Suggestions for Further Reading 451
Sex for Sale 399
Prostitution 400
Venues for Sex Work • The Role of Third Parties CHAPTER 18
• Sex Trafficking • The Career of a Sex Sexually Transmitted Infections 452
Worker • Sex Workers’ Well-Being • The
Role of Early Abuse • Customers • Male Sex Chlamydia 453
Workers • Sex Tourism Symptoms • Treatment • Prevention?
First Person: Working Their Way HPV 454
Through College 405 Diagnosis • Treatment • Vaccine
Pornography 410
Genital Herpes 455
Terms • Overview • The Porn Industry • The
Symptoms • Treatment • Long-Term
Producers • The Consumers • The Effects of
Consequences • Psychological Aspects:
Exposure • Issues Related to Pornography
Coping with Herpes
First Person: Behind the Scenes: Making
X-Rated Videos 416 HIV Infection and AIDS 457
An Epidemic? • Transmission • The
First Person: “Nicole”: A Victim Virus • The Disease • Diagnosis
of Child Pornography 418
• Treatment • Women, Children, Ethnic
Critical Thinking Skill 427 Minorities, and AIDS • Psychological
Summary 427 Considerations in AIDS • Recent Progress in
AIDS Research
Suggestions for Further Reading 428
A Sexually Diverse World:
AIDS in Thailand 458
CHAPTER 17
Gonorrhea 464
Sexual Disorders and Sex Symptoms • Diagnosis • Treatment
Therapy 429 First Person: Safer Sex in
the AIDS Era 465
Kinds of Sexual Disorders 430
Desire Disorders • Arousal Disorders Syphilis 467
• Orgasmic Disorders • Pain Disorders Symptoms • Diagnosis • Treatment

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Hepatitis B 468 Discriminatory Laws Related to Sexuality 507


Trichomoniasis 469 Orientation and Gender Identity • Same-Sex
Marriage
Pubic Lice 469
Sex-Law Enforcement 509
Preventing STIs 469
Trends in Sex-Law Reform 510
First Person: Cool Lines about Safer Sex 470 Efforts at Sex-Law Reform • Right to
Other Genital Infections 471 Privacy • Equal Protection • Victimless
Candida • Prostatitis Crimes • The Problem of Obscenity and
Pornography • The Controversy over
Critical Thinking Skill 472
Reproductive Freedom • Ethnicity and
Summary 472 Sex Laws
Suggestions for Further Reading 473 Sex and the Law in the Future 520
Sex-Law Reform and Backlash • The
Legal Challenge of Assisted Reproductive
CHAPTER 19 Technologies
Ethics, Religion, and Sexuality 474 Critical Thinking Skill 524
Summary 525
Basic Concepts 475
Suggestions for Further Reading 525
Sexuality in Great Ethical Traditions 476
Classical Greek Philosophy • Judaism
• Christianity • Humanism EPILOGUE
Sexuality in Other Major Religions 481 Looking to the Future:
Islam • Hinduism • Buddhism Sexuality Education 526
A Sexually Diverse World: Dissent over Sexual
In the Home, in the School,
Ethics in the Roman Catholic Church 482
or Somewhere Else? 526
Contemporary Issues in Sexual Ethics 485
Standards for Sexuality Education 528
Sex Outside Marriage • Contraception
• Abortion • Homosexuality • HIV What to Teach at Different Ages 528
and AIDS Children’s Sexual Knowledge • Children’s
Sexual Interests
A Sexually Diverse World: Religious
Position Statements on Abortion: The Curriculum 530
Pro-life versus Pro-choice 490 Abstinence-Only Programs • The Politics of
Technology and Sexual Ethics 494 Sexuality Education • HIV and AIDS Risk
Education • Comprehensive, Theoretically
Toward an Ethics of Human Sexuality 495 Based Programs
Critical Thinking Skill 496 A Sampling from a Comprehensive
Summary 497 Sexuality Education Curriculum 532
Suggestions for Further Reading 498 The Teacher 534
Condom Distribution 535
Effective Multicultural Sexuality Education 535
CHAPTER 20
Sex and the Law 499
Bibliography B-1
Why Are There Sex Laws? 500 Glossary G-1
What Kinds of Sex Laws Are There? 501
Crimes of Exploitation and
Index I-1
Force • Criminal Consensual Acts • Crimes Directory of Resources DR-1
against Good Taste • Crimes against
Reproduction • Criminal Commercial Sex McGraw-Hill Education
A Sexually Diverse World: Universal Psychology’s APA Documentation
Sexual Rights 504 Style Guide

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Preface
Hyde and DeLamater—Continuing
a research-based tradition in sexuality

S
ince its conception, Understanding Human Sexu- RESULT: With empirically based feedback at the para-
ality has achieved distinction and success by fol- graph and even sentence level, the authors developed the
lowing the science of human sexuality. The first of new edition using precise student data to pinpoint con-
the modern sexuality textbooks, Understanding Human cepts that caused students to struggle.
Sexuality introduced this topic to students through the
science that has uncovered what we know about the field. LearnSmart is an
Groundbreaking when it first appeared, this research- adaptive learning
based tradition continues to result in a contemporary, program designed to help students learn faster, study
balanced introduction to human sexuality in an integrated smarter, and retain more knowledge for greater success.
learning system that engages students in learning the con- Distinguishing what students know from what they
tent of the course, about others, and about themselves. don’t, and focusing on concepts they are most likely to
forget, LearnSmart continuously adapts to each student’s
Better Data, Smarter Revision, needs by building an individual learning path. Millions
Improved Results of students have answered over a billion questions in
LearnSmart since 2009, making it the most widely used
Students helped inform the revision strategy:
and intelligent adaptive study tool that’s proven to
STEP 1. Over the course of three years, data points show-
strengthen memory recall, keep students in class, and
ing concepts that caused students the most difficulty were
boost grades.
anonymously collected from McGraw-Hill Connect® for
Human Sexuality’s LearnSmart® adaptive learning system.
STEP 2. The authors were provided with data from Fueled by Learn-
LearnSmart that graphically illustrated “hot spots” in the Smart, SmartBook
text affecting student learning (see image below). is the first and only adaptive reading experience
STEP 3. The authors used the heat map data to refine currently available.
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ties were created for use in Connect for Human Sexual- ing experience by highlighting the most impactful concepts
ity to further support student success. a student needs to learn at that moment in time. This ensures
that every minute spent with SmartBook is returned to the
student as the most value-added minute possible.
Make It Informed. Real-time reports quickly identify
the concepts that require more attention from individual
students—or the entire class.

Personalized Grading, on the Go,


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Connect Insight® is a one-of-a-kind visual analytics
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PREFACE xiii

■ Make it intuitive. Instructors receive instant, at-a-


glance views of student performance matched with
Following the Science
student activity. Students receive at-a-glance views of
their own performance and how they are doing com- to Understand Oneself and Others
pared to the rest of the class. To understand human sexuality fully, one must recog-
■ Make it dynamic. Connect Insight puts real-time nize his or her own sexuality as well as the diversity of
analytics in instructors’ and students’ hands, so they others’ sexuality. We provide support for student under-
can take action early and keep struggling students standing of personal sexuality in several ways:
from falling behind. ■ To reflect current thinking in the field, we have made

■ Make it mobile. Connect Insight is available on- the chapters as “trans-friendly” as possible.
demand wherever, and whenever, it’s needed. ■ To reflect the breathtaking pace of social change and

law, we include the 2015 U.S. Supreme Court ruling


establishing same-sex marriage nationwide.
■ Practical information needed for everyday living, such

as information about sexual anatomy, contraception,


and sexually transmitted infections, and for dealing
Following the Science to with problems in sexual functioning, such as early
Understand Human Sexuality ejaculation or inability to have an orgasm.
■ Appreciation of the fabulous diversity of human sexu-
Understanding Human Sexuality is grounded in science
ality along many dimensions, including age, sexual
and the research that informs science. This foundation,
orientation and identity, ethnicity within the United
drawn from several perspectives, is reflected by us, as
States (a multiethnic perspective), and culture around
the authors. Janet’s background is in psychology and
the world (a multicultural perspective) through exam-
biology. John’s is in sociology. We bring these different
ples in the text.
perspectives to our introduction to human sexuality. The
All of the above information is supported by research so
importance we place on science comes from the desire
that students feel confident in what they are learning and
to provide students with an understanding of human
in applying it to their lives (see image below).
sexuality based on the best available research and also
on what we see and do as researchers ourselves. Janet’s
research has explored psychological gender differences 95

and similarities, focusing on gender and sexuality as Milestones in Sex Research


well as topics such as sexuality in dual-earner couples. Endocrine Disrupters

John’s research has investigated the influences of the M


ale Florida panthers have low sperm counts and Environmental Protection Agency to develop a program to
the same levels of estradiol as females. Frogs are detect endocrine disrupters, but progress has been very slow.
born hermaphroditic, with mixed male and Meanwhile, a carefully controlled study shows that

person’s history and current relationships on sexual female organs. Male turtledoves display reduced court-
ship and nesting behaviors. A preschool girl begins grow-
pregnant women with high exposure to phthalates (found in
plastics) and hairspray are more likely to give birth to baby
ing pubic hair. These cases and dozens of others have boys with hypospadias, a condition in which the urethral
expression, and the relative importance of illnesses and appeared in the news in the last decade. Are they unre-
lated bizarre occurrences, or is there a common link?
opening is not at the tip of the penis, but somewhere else
along it (see Figure 5). Studies in both the United States and

medications on sexuality in later life.


Scientists believe that underlying all these troubling cases Denmark show that breast development in girls is occur-
is the phenomenon of endocrine disrupters, which are ring one year earlier now than it did a few decades ago
chemicals found in the environment (Aksglaede et al., 2009). The pesticide residues in fruits and

The quality of sex research is highly variable, Can chemicals in our


that affect the endocrine
system as well as bio-
vegetables have been linked to lower sperm counts in men
(Chiu et al., 2015). And on a Chippewa Indian reservation
environment affect logical functioning and in a part of Ontario that is heavily populated with chemical
to put it mildly. Some journalists think they are sex sexual development? behavior of animals,
including humans. Evi-
manufacturing plants, only 35 percent of the babies born
today are boys. According to an official statement by the

researchers if they have interviewed 10 people and


dence of the effects of endocrine Endocrine Society, “The evidence for adverse reproduc-
disrupters (also called endocrine disrupting chemicals, or tive outcomes (infertility,
EDCs) comes both from studies of animals in the wild and cancers, malformations) Endocrine disrupters: Chemicals

written a book about it! Too often we see equal weight from carefully controlled laboratory experiments.
What chemicals are the culprits? Some are pesticides
from endocrine disrupt- in the environment that affect the
ing chemicals is strong” endocrine system and the biological
such as atrazine and DDT, used by farmers and others to kill (Diamanti-Kandarakis & functioning and behavior of animals,
given to an article from the local newspaper and a ref- unwanted insects and weeds. Bisphenol A (BPA) is used
in making plastics such as baby bottles. PCBs, which were
Gore, 2009).
including humans.

ereed journal article from the New England Journal of banned from production in the United States in 1976, were
used in making products such as paints, plastics, and print-
ing ink. Some have a half-life of over 1,000 years and thus

Medicine or the Journal of Sex Research—and those are still abundant in the environment despite being banned.
Fracking (hydraulic fracturing to extract oil from the

few readers who are motivated enough have to do a lot


earth) involves the use of fracking chemicals, 35 percent

of detective work to find the real source for a statement.


Thinking Critically about Sexuality
of which are endocrine disrupters (Alcid & Miller, 2014).
These chemicals have been linked to infertility, miscar-
riage, birth defects, and cancers of the reproductive organs.
How do these chemicals exert their effects on sexual biol-
ogy and behavior? All of them affect the endocrine system
One of our responsibilities as authors is to sift through Critical thinking is a well-developed area of psychologi-
and, specifically, the sex hormone system. Many have mul-
tiple effects. Atrazine, for example, affects both estrogen and

available studies and present only those of the best cal research with proven methods for teaching it. We
testosterone and inhibits their binding to estrogen receptors
and androgen receptors. It also depresses the LH surge that
causes ovulation, described later in this chapter in the dis-

quality and the greatest relevance to this course. We are not experts in critical thinking, so we consulted with
cussion of the menstrual cycle. The insecticide DDT affects
estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone by mimicking estro-

one of the nation’s experts, Dr. Diane Halpern, former


gen and binding to estrogen receptors, as well as by altering
are thrilled to observe that the quality of sex research the metabolism of both progesterone and testosterone. PCBs
are both anti-estrogens and anti-androgens. These chemicals

improves every decade. president of the American Psychological Association


are in the food we eat and the water and milk that we drink.
Why should we care about a few hermaphroditic frogs
or preschoolers with pubic hair? Scientists see these cases
Figure 5 An example of hypospadia, in which the
as examples of the proverbial canary in the mine shaft—that
urethral opening is not at the tip of the penis.
is, they are small signs that something terribly dangerous
is happening. The European Union is taking steps to regu- © Wikimedia
late these chemicals, but we have seen little action on the
issue in the United States. In 1996, Congress directed the

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scholars and commentators in their fields. Learning Out- ■ New section added, “Critical Theories.” Two
comes, an Issue Summary, and an Issue Introduction set theories new to the book introduced: feminist theory
the stage for each debate topic. Following each issue is and queer theory.
the Exploring the Issue section with Critical Thinking and ■ Section “Sociological Perspectives” substantially
Reflection questions, Is There Common Ground? com- revised. The order of presentation of the theories
mentary, Additional Resources, and Internet References all revised: begins with symbolic interaction (emphasis
designed to stimulate and challenge the student’s thinking on communication), then script theory (emphasis on
and to further explore the topic. Customize this title via interaction), then field theory (emphasis on social
McGraw-Hill Create at http://create.mheducation.com. context), and social institutions discussed last. Now
organized from the most specific social influences to
the most general.
■ Added summary of “field theory,” a new perspective.
Chapter Changes in the Deleted discussion of Reiss’s macro-theory of the
Thirteenth Edition social regulation of sexuality.
In our not entirely objective opinion, there is no more
exciting course to teach or to take than human sexuality. Chapter 3: Sex Research
One thing that makes it so exciting is the fantastic pace of ■ A new section explains meta-analysis in a way that all
change that we see nearly every week in scientific knowl- students can understand.
edge, social attitudes, laws, current events, and countless ■ Subsection on ethical issues updated with new
other facets of our lives involving sex. Today we have research showing no harm and some benefits to peo-
hookups and same-sex marriage. Every year, advances ple who participate in sex research.
are made in the prevention and treatment of AIDS. New ■ The newest British (Natsal) and Australian (ASHR)
methods of contraception are developed and made avail- surveys have been added.
able. Viagra bursts on the scene, transforming the sexual ■ New survey of Latino women.
experience for thousands of men and their partners, and we
wonder what can be done to help women with sexual disor-
ders. Much has changed in the new edition of this textbook Chapter 4: Sexual Anatomy
as well. Chapter-by-chapter revisions are listed below. ■ Box on “Female Genital Cutting” updated.
■ New data indicating that drugs used to treat breast
cancer can also prevent it.
Overall
An overall goal for this revision was to make the narrative
more “trans friendly,” that is, to make it a comfortable Chapter 5: Sex Hormones, Sexual
book for transgender individuals to read and study, with a Differentiation, and the Menstrual Cycle
strong section, in the Gender chapter, on the transgender ■ New study of epigenetic changes in the brain during
experience, those who have a genderqueer identity, and prenatal sexual differentiation.
those who seek gender reassignment. ■ The recently discovered hormone kisspeptin and its
role in puberty are introduced.
■ Ages for milestones in pubertal development updated.
Chapter 1: Sexuality in Perspective
■ The concept of microaggressions is introduced in the ■ Subsection on menstrual cycle fluctuations in mood
context of ethnic minorities, with extensions to sexual completely rewritten to focus on a recent excellent
minorities. study.
■ The concept of intersectionality is explained with the
example of the intersection of gender and ethnicity.
Chapter 6: Conception, Pregnancy,
& Childbirth
Chapter 2: Theoretical Perspectives ■ Statistics updated throughout chapter.
on Sexuality ■ Updated coverage of psychological changes in fathers
Last third of the chapter substantially reorganized and during pregnancy based on new comprehensive
expanded: research review.

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■ Revised discussion of effects of alcohol consump- Chapter 10: Sexuality and the Life Cycle:
tion during pregnancy, more clearly distinguishing Adulthood
fetal alcohol spectrum disorder and fetal alcohol ■ Substantially revised.
syndrome. ■ Changed terminology throughout. Wherever it
■ Revised and expanded coverage of effects of mari- made sense, changed “marital” to “long-term com-
juana use during pregnancy, and association between mitted,” making coverage more inclusive of cohab-
marijuana use and infertility. iting relationships. Also, changed “extramarital” to
■ New coverage of occupational exposure to solvents “extra-relationship,” since recent research shows
prenatally on child behavioral outcomes. that daters, cohabiters (of both sexes), and mar-
ried persons “cheat.” Revised headings and text as
appropriate in light of these changes. Also added
Chapter 7: Contraception and Abortion studies showing similarity of processes across
■ The category of LARC (long-acting reversible con- couple-types.
traceptives, i.e., IUDs and implants) is introduced and ■ Expanded discussion of use of electronic apps
made more prominent, given emphasis on its use by like Grindr and Tinder in meeting people, and cell
family-planning professionals. phones in initiating, maintaining, and terminating
■ New methods such as Ella and Skyla have been added. relationships.
■ New data on women denied abortions. ■ Introduced topic of influences on why people “cheat.”
Describe results of three recent studies.
■ Introduced topic of consequences of nonmonogamous
Chapter 8: Sexual Arousal relationships. Discuss research on impact on participant’s
■ Box on “Sexuality and Disability” completely rewrit-
mental health, relationship, and termination/divorce.
ten with updated research and concepts.
■ Completely rewritten discussion of menopause—
■ Subsection on brain imaging studies rewritten for
symptoms, treatments, and current guidelines for
greater clarity and accessibility.
hormonal therapy. Added discussion of variations in
symptoms and treatment preferences of women in dif-
Chapter 9: Sexuality and the Life Cycle: ferent racial/ethnic groups.
Childhood and Adolescence ■ Updated statistics on relationship statuses, differences
■ Statistics on frequencies of behaviors at various ages by age, gender, race/ethnicity throughout.
updated throughout the chapter.
■ Brief discussions added to improve trans coverage. Chapter 11: Attraction, Love,
■ In childhood, the concept of cross-gender behavior is and Communication
introduced, with the statement that it often does not ■ Added recent research on where couples (heterosexual
persist into adolescence. and same-sex) met that includes recent data on the
role of the Internet.
■ In adolescence, added discussion of the development
of gender identity, expanding the concept to include ■ Added recent research on role of physical attractive-
gender-variant identities. Also a discussion of the ness and its relative importance to men and women in
events that intensify concern with identity. selecting mates.
■ Expanded discussion of first intercourse and influ- ■ Added recent cross-cultural research testing hypoth-
ences on whether it is a positive or a negative experi- eses from sexual strategies theory on mating prefer-
ence. Added new research showing that a positive ences on men and women.
experience leads to improved sexual relationships up ■ New subsection on relationship education programs,
to seven years later. evaluations of their effectiveness, and their applica-
■ Significant expansion of coverage of casual sex in col- tions to military couples.
lege. Introduced “fuck buddies” and “booty calls” as
types of casual sex, and distinguished between them Chapter 12: Gender and Sexuality
and “friends with benefits.” Also expanded coverage ■ The term “gender binary” is introduced.
of role of alcohol and of mental health outcomes of ■ The entire section on transgender was rewritten from
engaging in casual sex. scratch. It recognizes people whose identity falls

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outside the gender binary. It considers transgender Chapter 15: Sexual Coercion
health and the possibility of medical interventions for ■ New subsection on the role of alcohol in sexual
gender reassignment for some individuals. Revisions assault.
were made in consultation with a trans research expert ■ Statistics updated throughout.
and a genderqueer individual.
■ Updated to DSM-5 terminology and concepts.
■ Clearer evidence that the vomeronasal organ, for sens- Chapter 16: Sex for Sale
ing pheromones, is not functional in humans, but the
■ Added original data from the Urban Institute’s
human nose still has cells with pheromone receptors, detailed report on the underground commercial sex
and genes coding for these receptors have recently economy in the United States.
been identified. ■ Added commentary to emphasize the intersections of
social class and race with the venues of sex work—for
example, that call girls are often well educated and
Chapter 13: Sexual Orientation: Gay,
middle class and cater to wealthy white men.
Straight, or Bi?
■ New boxed insert, Milestones in Sex Research: “Does ■ Greater emphasis on the role of cell phones and apps
Gaydar Exist?” in commercial sex work.
■ New statistics on attitudes about homosexuality ■ Expanded discussion of strip clubs as a venue, and
around the world. discussion of the fact that some cater to women, some
to lesbians.
■ Evidence on the resilience of LGBs added.
■ Expanded discussion and research base for entry into
■ New hypothesis added about epigenetic factors in pre-
the career of a sex worker.
natal development contributing to sexual orientation.
■ New box: First Person: “Working Their Way Through
■ New data on bisexuality.
College.” A discussion of student involvement in
■ Research on “mostly heterosexuals” added.
commercial sex work, drawing on three recently
published studies and accounts written by students
Chapter 14: Variations in Sexual Behavior employed as sex workers.
■ Revised throughout to make language and discussion ■ Expanded discussion of male sex workers and the
consistent with the DSM-5. Changed several defini- venues in which they work, and their clients.
tions and key terms. Reframed discussion of research ■ New outline of content to make a more cohesive flow
to bring it into line with revised DSM-5 criteria. of topics.
■ Added new research on “kink” communities and the ■ “Pornography” replaced in numerous places with
variations in practices. “X-rated materials,” “these materials.”
■ Substantial revision of Milestones in Sex Research ■ The former subsection “Types of Pornography” is
box, “Sexual Addictions?” Added research on the use now “The Porn Industry”; it includes an updated dis-
of the term in legal cases. cussion of porn on the Web. Included new data com-
■ In light of new DSM-5 criteria, revised discussion of paring student stereotypes of film stars with actual
types and treatment of “hypersexuality.” data from actors/actresses.
■ Substantial revision of subsection on “Asexuality.” ■ New subsection: “The Producers.” Discussion of pro-
■ More nuanced discussion of pornography use and types/ ducers for each of several types of material. Added
categories of misuse—compulsive versus addictive. new data on characteristics of actors/actresses in films/
DVDs/Web clips. Discussion of pathways into the
■ Substantial revision of the entire section “Treat-
industry to parallel discussion of pathways into com-
ment of Sexual Variations.” Discussion made con-
mercial sex work in the first half of the chapter.
sistent with DSM-5 distinction between paraphilias
and paraphilic disorders. Added new research ■ The former subsection “The Customers” is now “The
on effectiveness of various forms of treatment, Consumers,” with updated material.
emphasizing that each works with only some ■ The former subsection “Effects of Pornography” is
types of problems/offenders. Added new research now “Effects of Exposure.” Broader coverage than
on effectiveness of AA/12-step type treatment previous editions. Added new data from studies on
programs. effects of exposure for various age and gender groups.

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Added studies of effects on behavior of exposure of ■ Added discussion of laws governing discrimination
men who have sex with men to images of unprotected against transgender persons.
anal intercourse. ■ Changed references to “gay marriage” to “same-sex
■ The former subsection “What Is the Solution?” is now marriage” throughout chapter.
“Issues Related to Pornography.” Recast discussion of ■ Revised discussion of history of laws, court deci-
feminist criticisms to issues raised by various groups. sions regarding same-sex marriage to make it cur-
Added discussion of porn addiction. rent, including the 2015 Supreme Court decision.
Added discussion of changes in public opinion;
assessment of claims of damage to children based
Chapter 17: Sexual Disorders on research.
and Sex Therapy ■ Major revision of subsection, “The Controversy over
■ Updated to DSM-5 terminology and concepts, while Reproductive Freedom.”
noting controversies over DSM-5. ■ Updated organization of discussion of opponents’

■ Introduced the concept that Viagra and similar drugs strategies.


are PDE5 inhibitors and linked this to the mechanism ■ Added court rulings on some of the recent laws.

through which they work. Discussion of erection


■ Added relevant research assessing claims about
drugs thoroughly updated.
harms associated with abortion.
■ New discussion of developments about flibanserin,
■ Added discussion of laws banning abortion after 20
the so-called “pink Viagra.”
weeks, relevant research.
■ Updates on which treatments are effective for which
■ Updated statistics on violence and disruption
disorders.
directed at clinics.

Chapter 18: Sexually Transmitted Looking to the Future: Sexuality


Infections Education
■ Statistics updated throughout. ■ Systematically revised to incorporate the material
■ Entire section on HIV/AIDS rewritten to streamline developed by the Future of Sex Education (FoSE), a
and update it. Reflects new view of HIV infection collaboration of SIECUS and several other health edu-
as a manageable long-term disease, in view of new cation groups. Generally this replaces material that was
developments in ART, treatment as prevention, and derived from SIECUS materials published in 2004.
preexposure prophylaxis. Includes new CDC criteria ■ Section “The Teacher”: Discussion of the FoSE

for stages. National Standards for Teacher Preparation added.


■ New HPV vaccine, Gardasil 9, protects against nine ■ Discussion of congressional funding for sex educa-

HPV types. tion in the schools updated to 2015.

Chapter 19: Ethics, Religion, and


Sexuality Acknowledgments
■ Pro-life and pro-choice statements of religious groups
updated. We are grateful to the many editors associated with
■ New information on religious groups performing McGraw-Hill Education who have supported the devel-
same-gender marriages. opment of this new edition: Nancy Welcher, Senior
Brand Manager; Dawn Groundwater, Lead Product
■ Ethical issues in HIV/AIDS updated, such as insur-
Developer; Sarah Colwell, Senior Product Developer;
ance coverage with the Affordable Care Act.
Nicole Bridge, Product Developer; Augustine Laferrera,
Senior Marketing Manager; and Sandy Wille, produc-
tion manager. We would also like to thank our two expert
Chapter 20: Sex and the Law reviewers: Dr. Stephanie Budge, University of Wiscon-
■ Updated discussion of laws covering discrimination sin, Madison, and Dr. Jennifer Higgins, University of
against LGB persons. Wisconsin, Madison.

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Over the course of the first 12 editions, numerous Celeste Favela, El Paso Community College
reviewers contributed to the development of Understand- Sunny Ferrero, Valencia College
ing Human Sexuality. Space limitations prevent us from
Christopher Furlow, Santa Fe College
listing all of them, but their contributions endure, as does
our gratitude to them. We are especially grateful to the Jennifer Mewes, Pima Community College
reviewers who helped shape this edition: G. G. Weix, University of Montana
Diana Baltimore, Iowa State University Niva Werts, Towson University
Darin LaMar Baskin, Houston Community College

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Are YOU Curious?
1. Do they have sex in other cultures the
same way we do in the United States?
2. Is sexual behavior similar in all social
classes in the United States?
3. Is homosexuality found in other species?
Read this chapter to find out.

1
CHAPTER

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Sexuality in Perspective

CHAPTER HIGHLIGHTS
Sex and Gender Standards of Attractiveness
Social-Class and Ethnic-Group Variations
The History of Understanding Sexuality:
in the United States
Religion and Science
The Significance of Cross-Cultural Studies
Religion
Science Cross-Species Perspectives on Sexuality
The Media Masturbation
Same-Gender Sexual Behavior
Cross-Cultural Perspectives on Sexuality Sexual Signaling
Variations in Sexual Techniques Human Uniqueness
Masturbation The Nonsexual Uses of Sexual Behavior
Premarital and Extramarital Sex
Sex with Same-Gender Partners The Sexual Health Perspective

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You’re so beautiful,” he whispered. “I want a picture of you like this with your face
flushed and your lips wet and shiny.” . . . He tore open a foil packet he’d retrieved
from his pocket. Mesmerized, she watched him sheath himself, amazed at how hard
he was. She reached out to touch him, but he moved back, made sure she was ready,
and then slid neatly inside her, so deeply she gasped. She contracted her muscles
around him, and he closed his eyes and groaned, the sound so primal, it made her
skin tingle.*
Human sexual behavior is a diverse phenomenon. It occurs in different physical
locations and social contexts, consists of a wide range of specific activities, and is
perceived differently by different people. An individual engages in sexual activity on
the basis of a complex set of motivations and organizes that activity on the basis of
numerous external factors and influences. Thus, it is unlikely that the tools and con-
cepts from any single scientific discipline will suffice to answer all or even most of the
questions one might ask about sexual behavior.†

*
Debbi Rawlins. (2003). Anything goes. New York: Harlequin Blaze.

Laumann et al. (1994).

Strikingly different though they may seem, both of the sometimes it refers to sexual behavior or reproduction. In
above quotations are talking about the same thing—sex. most cases, of course, the meaning is clear from the con-
The first quotation is from a romance novel. It is intended text. If you are filling out a job application form and one
to stimulate the reader’s fantasies and arousal. The second item says, “Sex:,” you don’t write, “I like it” or “As often
is from a scholarly book about sex. It aims to stimulate the as possible.” It is clear that your prospective employer
brain but not the genitals. From reading these two brief wants to know whether you are a male or a female. In
excerpts we can quickly see that the topic of sexuality is other cases, though, the meaning may be ambiguous. For
diverse, complex, and fascinating. example, when a book has the title Sex and Temperament
Why study sex? Most people are curious about sex, in Three Primitive Societies, what is it about? Is it about
particularly because exchanging sexual information is the sexual practices of primitive people and whether hav-
somewhat taboo in our culture, so curiosity motivates us to ing sex frequently gives them pleasant temperaments?
study sex. Sex is an important force in many people’s lives, Or is it about the kinds of personalities that males and
so there are practical reasons for wanting to learn about it. females are expected to have in those societies? Not only
Finally, most of us at various times experience problems does this use of sex create ambiguities, but it also clouds
with our sexual functioning or wish that we could function our thinking about some important issues.
better, and we hope that learning more about sex will help To remove—or at least reduce—this ambiguity, the
us. This book is designed to address all of these needs. So term sex will be used in this book in contexts referring
let’s consider various perspectives on sexuality—the effects to sexual anatomy and sexual behavior, and the term
of religion, science, and culture on our understanding of gender will be used to refer to being male or female or
sexuality, as well as the sexual health perspective. These some other gender such as trans*.
perspectives will give you a glimpse of the forest before Almost all the research that we discuss in this book has
you study the trees: sexual anatomy and physiology (the been based on scientists’ assuming the “gender binary,”
“plumbing” part), and sexual behavior (the “people” part), the idea that there are only two genders, male and female.
which are discussed in later chapters. But first we must draw This is a book about sex, not gender; it is about
an important distinction, between sex and gender. sexual behavior and the biological, psychological, and
social forces that influence it. Of course, although we are
arguing that sex and gender are conceptually different,
we would not try to argue that they are totally indepen-
Sex and Gender dent of each other. Certainly gender roles—the ways in
which males and females are expected to behave—exert
Sometimes the word sex is used a powerful influence on the way people behave sexually,
Gender: Being male, female, or some
ambiguously. In some cases it and so one chapter will be devoted to gender and its con-
other gender such as trans*.
refers to being male or female, and nections to sexuality.

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How should we define sex, aside from saying that it is dif- females, and some were half male and half female (LeVay,
ferent from gender? Many Americans count only penis-in- 1996). The gods, fearing the power of these creatures, split
vagina intercourse as sex (Peterson & Muehlenhard, 2007; them in half, and forever after each one continued to search
Sanders & Reinisch, 1999). And while nearly everyone for its missing half. Heterosexuals were thought to have
agrees that penis-in-vagina intercourse counts as sex, there resulted from the splitting of the half male, half female;
is less agreement about whether oral-genital sex counts as male homosexuals, from the splitting of the double male;
“having sex.” Some people think it does and others think and female homosexuals, from the splitting of the double
it doesn’t (Horowitz & Spicer, 2013). Our definition in female. It was through this mythology that the ancient
this textbook includes much more than that, though. Greeks understood sexual orientation and sexual desire.
A biologist might define sexual behavior as “any Fifteenth-century Christians believed that “wet dreams”
behavior that increases the likelihood of gametic union (nocturnal emissions) resulted from intercourse with tiny
[union of sperm and egg]” (Bermant & Davidson, 1974). spiritual creatures called incubi and succubi, a notion put forth
This definition emphasizes the reproductive function of in a papal bull of 1484 and a companion book, the Malleus
sex. However, medical advances such as the birth control Maleficarum (“witch’s hammer”); the person who had wet
pill have been developed that allow us to separate repro- dreams was considered guilty of sodomy (see the chapter
duction from sex. Most Americans now use sex not only “Ethics, Religion, and Sexuality”) as well as witchcraft.
for procreation but also for recreation.1 Over the centuries, Muslims have believed that sexual
The noted sex researcher Alfred Kinsey defined sex intercourse is one of the finest pleasures of life, reflecting
as behavior that leads to orgasm. Although this definition the teachings of the great prophet Muhammad. However, the
has some merits (it does not imply that sex must be asso- way that the laws of the Koran are carried out varies greatly
ciated with reproduction), it also presents some prob- from country to country (Boonstra, 2001; Ilkkaracan, 2001).
lems. If a woman has intercourse with a man but does People of different religions hold different under-
not have an orgasm, was that not sexual behavior for her? standings of human sexuality, and these religious views
To try to avoid some of these problems, sexual often have a profound impact. A detailed discussion of
behavior will be defined in this book as behavior that religion and sexuality is provided in the chapter “Ethics,
produces arousal and increases the chance of orgasm.2 Religion, and Sexuality.”

Science
It was against this background of religious understand-
The History of Understanding ings of sexuality that the scientific study of sex began in
Sexuality: Religion and Science the 19th century, although, of course, religious notions
continue to influence our ideas about sexuality. In addi-
Religion tion, the groundwork for an understanding of the bio-
Throughout most of recorded history, at least until about logical aspects of sexuality had already been laid by
100 years ago, religion (and rumor) provided most of the the research of physicians and biologists. The Dutch
information that people had about sexuality. The ancient microscopist Anton van Leeuwenhoek (1632–1723)
Greeks openly acknowledged both heterosexuality and had discovered sperm swimming in human semen.
homosexuality in their society and explained the existence In 1875 Oskar Hertwig (1849–1922) first observed
of the two in a myth in which the original humans were the actual fertilization of the egg by the sperm in sea
double creatures with twice the normal number of limbs urchins, although the ovum in humans was not directly
and organs; some were double males, some were double observed until the 20th century.
A major advance in the scientific understanding of
the psychological aspects of human sexuality came with
1
Actually, even in former times sex was not always associated the work of the Viennese physician Sigmund Freud
with reproduction. For example, a man in 1850 might have (1856–1939), founder of psychiatry and psychoanalysis
fathered 10 children; using a very conservative estimate that (Figure 1a). His ideas are discussed in detail in the chap-
he engaged in sexual intercourse 1,500 times during his adult
life (once a week for the 30 years from age 20 to age 50), one
ter “Theoretical Perspectives on Sexuality.”
concludes that only 10 in 1,500 of those acts, or less than It is important to recognize the cultural context in
1 percent, resulted in reproduction. which Freud and the other early sex researchers crafted
2
This definition, though an improvement over some, still has its their research and writing. They began their work in
problems. For example, consider a woman who feels no arousal the Victorian era, the late 1800s,
at all during intercourse. According to the definition, intercourse
would not be sexual behavior for her. However, intercourse would
both in the United States and in Sexual behavior: Behavior that
generally be something we would want to classify as sexual behavior. Europe. Norms about sexuality produces arousal and increases the
chance of orgasm.
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(a) (b)

Figure 1 Two important early sex researchers. (a) Sigmund freud. (b) Henry Havelock Ellis.
(a) © AP Images; (b) © Hulton-Deutsch Collection/Corbis

oppressive (Figure 2). Historian Peter Gay characterized a series of volumes entitled Studies in the Psychology of
this repressive aspect of Victorian cultural norms as Sex beginning in 1896. Havelock Ellis was a remarkably
objective and tolerant scholar, particularly for his era. He
a devious and insincere world in which middle-class hus- believed that women, like men, are sexual creatures. A
bands slaked their lust by keeping mistresses, frequent-
sexual reformer, he believed that sexual deviations from
ing prostitutes, or molesting children, while their wives,
the norm are often harmless, and he urged society to accept
timid, dutiful, obedient, were sexually anesthetic and
poured all their capacity for love into their housekeeping them. In his desire to collect information about human sex-
and their child-rearing. (Gay, 1984, p. 6) uality rather than to make judgments about it, he can be
considered the forerunner of modern sex research.
Certainly traces of these Victorian attitudes remain with us Another important figure in 19th-century sex research
today. Yet at the same time the actual sexual behavior of was the psychiatrist Richard von Krafft-Ebing (1840–1902).
Victorians was sometimes in violation of societal norms. His special interest was “pathological” sexuality. He man-
In his history of sexuality in the Victorian era, Gay doc- aged to collect more than 200 case histories of patho-
umented the story of Mabel Loomis Todd, who, though logical individuals, which appeared in his book entitled
married, carried on a lengthy affair with Austin Dickinson, Psychopathia Sexualis. His work tended to be neither
a community leader in Amherst, Massachusetts. Many objective nor tolerant. Nonetheless, it has had a lasting
people actually knew about the “secret” affair, yet Mrs. impact. He coined the concepts of sadism, masochism, and
Loomis did not become an outcast (Gay, 1984). Doubtless, pedophilia, and the terms heterosexuality and homosexual-
this wide discrepancy between Victorian sexual norms and ity entered the English language in the 1892 translation of
actual behavior created a great deal of personal tension. his book (Oosterhuis, 2000). One of his case histories is
That tension probably propelled a good many people into presented in the chapter “Variations on Sexual Behavior.”
Dr. Freud’s office, providing data for his theory, which One other early contributor to the scientific understand-
emphasizes sexual tensions and conflict. ing of sexuality deserves mention, the German Magnus
An equally great—though not so well known—early Hirschfeld (1868–1935). He founded the first sex research
contributor to the scientific study of sex was Henry Havelock institute and administered the first large-scale sex survey,
Ellis (1859–1939; Figure 1b). A physician in Victorian obtaining data from 10,000 people on a 130-item question-
England, he compiled a vast collection of information on naire. (Unfortunately, most of the information he amassed
sexuality—including medical and anthropological find- was destroyed by the Nazis.) Hirschfeld also established
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(a)

(b)

Figure 2 devices designed to prevent masturbation. (a) The Victorian era, from which freud and Ellis emerged,
was characterized by extreme sexual repression. Here are some apparatuses that were sold to prevent onanism
(masturbation). (b) Are things so different today? Here are current devices for sale on the Web, for the same purpose.
(a) Reprinted by permission of The Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender and Reproduction, Inc., photo by Bill Dellenback;
(b) Courtesy of A.L. Enterprises

marriage counseling service, worked for legal reforms, and with Masters and Johnson’s investigations of sexual disor-
gave advice on contraception and sex problems. His special ders and the physiology of sexual response. At about the
interest, however, was homosexuality. Doubtless some of same time that the Kinsey research was being conducted,
his avant-garde approaches resulted from the fact that he some anthropologists—most notably Margaret Mead and
was himself both homosexual and a transvestite and, in fact, Bronislaw Malinowski—were beginning to collect data on
he introduced the term transvestite. His contributions as a sexual behavior in other cultures. Other, smaller investiga-
pioneer sex researcher cannot be denied (Bullough, 1994). tions also provided important information. By the 1990s we
In the 20th century, major breakthroughs in the scien- had a rich array of sex research, including major national
tific understanding of sex came with the massive surveys surveys (e.g., Laumann et al., 1994), detailed investigations
of human sexual behavior in the United States conducted of sexual disorders and sexual orientation, and studies of the
by Alfred Kinsey and his colleagues in the 1940s and biological processes underlying sexual response.

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John Money,
atypical sexual
Kinsey publishes differentiation
Magnus Hirschfeld Sexual Behavior
Freud and the and the German Kinsey in the Human Male Social psychologists
psychoanalytic sexual reform begins and Sexual Behavior and experimental
movement movement survey in the Human Female sex research fMRI studies

1900 1910 1920 1930 1940 1950 1960 1970 1980 1990 2000 2010 2020

Havelock Ellis Malinowski, Mead Masters and Johnson, Contemporary


Studies in the anthropological physiology of sex surveys
Psychology of Sex studies sexual response
and sexual Explosion of Web-based
disorders AIDS-related surveys
research

Figure 3 Milestones in the history of scientific research on sex.

The scientific study of sex has not emerged as a three types of influence (Brown, 2002; Kunkel et al., 2007).
separate, unified academic discipline like biology or The first, called cultivation, refers to the notion that people
psychology or sociology. Rather, it tends to be interdisci- begin to think that what they see on television and in other
plinary—a joint effort by biologists, psychologists, soci-
ologists, anthropologists, and physicians (see Figure 3).
This approach to understanding sexuality gives us a bet-
ter view of humans in all their sexual complexity.

The Media
In terms of potency of influence, the mass media in
America today may play the same role that religion
did in previous centuries. American adolescents spend
11 hours per day with some form of mass media (Rideout
et al., 2010). According to the American Time Use
Survey, television viewing occupies the most time of
all leisure activities, at an average of 2.8 hours per day
for those aged 15 and older (Bureau of Labor Statistics,
2014). An analysis of the 25 television programs most
frequently viewed by adolescents indicated that, in a
typical hour of viewing, adolescents were exposed to an
average of 17 instances of sexual talk or sexual behavior
(Schooler et al., 2009). References to safer sex—both
for STD (sexually transmitted disease) prevention and
pregnancy prevention—are rare. Only 2 percent of
sexual scenes portray any sexual precautions (Kunkel
et al., 2005; Figure 4).
In short, the average American’s
Cultivation: In communications views about sexuality are likely to
theory, the view that exposure to the be much more influenced by the Figure 4 Sexual portrayals in the media have become
mass media makes people think that mass media than by scientific find-
what they see there represents the much more explicit, as in this scene from Twilight.
mainstream of what really occurs.
ings. Communications theorists
believe that the media can have © Summit Entertainment/The Kobal Collection/Art Resource

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media really represents the mainstream of what happens in


our culture (Gerbner et al., 2002). For example, college stu-
dents who watch the soaps are more likely than nonviewing
Cross-Cultural Perspectives
students to overestimate the incidence of divorce. on Sexuality
The second influence is agenda setting. News
reporters select what to report and what to ignore and, Humans are a cultural species (Heine & Norenzayan,
within the stories they report, what to emphasize. For 2006). Although some other species are capable of
example, in 1998 the media chose to highlight the sex- learning from others, humans are
ual dalliances of President Bill Clinton, suggesting to unique in the way
the public that these matters were important. In con- that cultural learn- Do they have sex in other
trast, the illicit sexual activities of President John F. ing accumulates over cultures the same way we
Kennedy were not revealed during his presidency. The time. What do anthro- do in the United States?
media in many ways tell us what the agenda is to which pologists mean by
we should pay attention. the term culture? Generally,
The third influence is social learning, a theory we will culture refers to traditional (that is, passed down from
take up in detail in the chapter “Theoretical Perspectives generation to generation) ideas and values transmit-
on Sexuality.” The contention here is that characters on ted to members of the group by symbols (such as lan-
television, in the movies, or in romance novels may serve guage). These ideas and values then serve as the basis
as models whom we imitate, perhaps without even real- for patterns of behavior observed in the group (Frayser,
izing it. Research has found, for example, that teens who 2004; Kroeber & Kluckhohn, 1963).
watch more sexy television engage in first intercourse Ethnocentrism tends to influence our understanding
earlier than do other teens (Brown, 2002). of human sexual behavior. Most of us have had experi-
The Internet is a powerful mass media influence. ence with sexuality in only one culture—the United
Computer and Internet use is spreading more rapidly than States, for example—and we tend to view our sexual
any previous technology, and 84 percent of U.S. homes behavior as the only pattern in existence, and certainly
with children have Internet access (Rideout et al., 2010). as the only “natural” pattern. But anthropologists have
Exposure to sex on the Internet is also growing rapidly. discovered that there are wide variations in sexual behav-
In one study, 28 percent of male adolescents reported ior and attitudes from one culture to the next (Figure 5).
looking at pictures of people having sex at least once a Considering these variations should help us to put our
week, compared with 3 percent for female adolescents own sexual behavior in perspective.
(Peter & Valkenburg, 2008). As we discuss in later chap- The major generalization that emerges from cross-
ters, the Internet has the potential for both positive and cultural studies is that all societies regulate sexual
negative effects on sexual health. A number of sites, such behavior in some way, though
as that for the American Social Health Association, www the exact regulations vary
Agenda setting: In communications
.iwannaknow.org, provide excellent information about greatly from one culture to the theory, the idea that the media define
sexuality and promote sexual health. At the same time, a next (DeLamater, 1987). Appar- what is important and what is not by
repeated, well-sampled study of youth between the ages ently no society has seen fit to which stories they cover.
of 10 and 17 indicated that, whereas in 2000, 19 percent leave sexuality totally unregu- Social learning: In communications
had been sexually solicited on the Internet, by 2010 the lated, perhaps fearful that social theory, the idea that the media
provide role models whom we
number had actually fallen to 9 percent (Mitchell et al., disruption would result. As imitate.
2013a). Most youth who received a solicitation responded an example, incest taboos are Culture: Traditional ideas and
by removing themselves from the situation (blocking the nearly universal: Sex is regu- values passed down from generation
solicitor, leaving the site) or by telling the solicitor to lated in that intercourse between to generation within a group
stop. Experts believe that there is greater online safety for blood relatives is prohibited and transmitted to members of
the group by symbols (such as
youth today than in the past, for a number of reasons. One (Gregersen, 1996). Most societ- language).
is that they receive more talks about online safety from ies also condemn forced sexual Ethnocentrism: The tendency to
teachers and police (Mitchell et al., 2013). relations such as rape. regard one’s own ethnic group and
In the chapters that follow, we examine the content of Beyond this generalization, culture as superior to others and to
the media on numerous sexual issues, and we consider though, regulations vary greatly believe that its customs and way of
life are the standards by which other
what the effects of exposure to this media content might from one society to the next, cultures should be judged.
have on viewers. and sexual behavior and atti- Incest taboo: A societal regulation
Let us now consider the perspectives on sexuality that tudes vary correspondingly (see prohibiting sexual interaction between
are provided by scientific observations of humans in a A Sexually Diverse World: Sex- blood relatives, such as brother and
wide variety of societies. uality in Two Societies). Let’s sister or father and daughter.

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Inflicting pain on the partner is also a part of the sexual


technique in some societies. The Apinaye woman of the Bra-
zilian highlands may bite off bits of her partner’s eyebrows,
noisily spitting them aside. Ponapean men usually tug at the
woman’s eyebrows, occasionally yanking out tufts of hair.
People of various societies bite their partners to the point of
drawing blood and leaving scars; most commonly, men and
women mutually inflict pain on each other (Frayser, 1985).
The frequency of intercourse for married couples varies
considerably from one culture to the next. The lowest fre-
quency seems to be among the Irish natives of Inis Beag
(discussed in A Sexually Diverse World: Sexuality in Two
Societies), who engage in intercourse perhaps only once or
twice a month; however, the anthropologists who studied
them were unable to determine exactly how often couples
did have sex because so much secrecy surrounds the act. At
the opposite extreme, the Mangaians (also described in A
Sexually Diverse World: Sexuality in Two Societies) have
intercourse several times a night, at least among the young.
The Santals of southern Asia copulate as often as five times
per day every day early in marriage (Gregersen, 1996).
Recent surveys of U.S. sexuality indicate that our frequency
Figure 5 Margaret Mead, an anthropologist who of intercourse is about in the middle compared with other
contributed much to the early cross-cultural study of societies (e.g., Herbenick et al., 2010).
sexuality. Very few societies encourage people to engage in sex-
ual intercourse at particular times (Frayser, 1985). Instead,
© AP Images
most groups have restrictions that forbid intercourse at
certain times or in certain situations. For example, almost
every society has a postpartum sex taboo—that is, a pro-
look at the ways in which various societies treat some hibition on sexual intercourse for a period of time after a
key areas of human sexual behavior. woman has given birth, with the taboo lasting from a few
days to more than a year (Gregersen, 1996).

Variations in Sexual Techniques


Kissing is one of the most common sexual techniques Masturbation
in our culture. It is also very common in most other Attitudes toward masturbation, or sexual self-stimulation
societies (Gregersen, 1996). There are a few societ- of the genitals, vary widely across cultures. Some societies
ies, though, in which kissing is unknown. For exam- tolerate or even encourage masturbation during childhood
ple, when the Thonga of Africa first saw Europeans and adolescence, whereas others condemn the practice at
kissing, they laughed and said, “Look at them; they any age. Almost all human societies express some disap-
eat each other’s saliva and dirt.” There is also some proval of adult masturbation, ranging from mild ridicule
variation in techniques of kissing. For example, among to severe punishment (Gregersen, 1996). However, at least
the Kwakiutl of Canada and the Trobriand Islanders, some adults in all societies appear to practice it.
kissing consists of sucking the lips and tongue of the Female masturbation certainly occurs in other societ-
partner, permitting saliva to flow from one mouth to ies. The African Azande woman uses a phallus made of a
the other. Many Americans might find such a prac- wooden root; however, if her husband catches her mastur-
tice somewhat repulsive, but other peoples find it bating, he may beat her severely. The following is a descrip-
sexually arousing. tion of the Lesu of the South Pacific, one of the few societies
Cunnilingus (mouth stimulation of the female geni- that express no disapproval of adult female masturbation:
tals) is fairly common in our society, and it occurs in A woman will masturbate if she is sexually excited and
a few other societies as well, especially in the South there is no man to satisfy her. A couple may be having
Pacific. A particularly interesting variation is reported on intercourse in the same house, or near enough for her to
the island of Ponape; the man places see them, and she may thus become aroused. She then
Masturbation: Self-stimulation of the
a fish in the woman’s vulva and then sits down and bends her right leg so that her heel presses
genitals to produce sexual arousal.
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A Sexually diverse World


Sexuality in Two Societies
Inis Beag The Mangaian boy first hears of masturbation
Inis Beag is a small island off the coast of Ireland. It is when he is about 7, and he may begin to masturbate
probably one of the most naive and sexually repressive at age 8 or 9. At around age 13 he undergoes the
societies in the world. superincision ritual (in which a slit is made on the
The people of Inis Beag seem to have no knowledge top of the penis, along its entire length). This ritual
of a number of sexual activities such as French kissing, initiates him into manhood; more important, however,
mouth stimulation of the breast, or hand stimulation of the expert who performs the superincision gives him
the partner’s penis, much less oral sex or homosexual- sexual instruction. He shows the boy how to perform
ity. Sex education is virtually nonexistent; parents do oral sex, how to kiss and suck breasts, and how to
not seem to be able to bring themselves to discuss such bring his partner to orgasm several times before he
embarrassing matters with their children, and they sim- has his own. About two weeks after the operation,
ply trust that, after marriage, nature will take its course. the boy has intercourse with an experienced woman,
Menstruation and menopause are sources of fear for which removes the superincision’s scab. She provides
the island women because they have no idea of their him with practice in various acts and positions and
physiological significance. It is commonly believed that trains him to hold back until he can have simultaneous
menopause can produce insanity; in order to ward off this orgasms with his partner.
condition, some women have retired from life in their After this, the Mangaian boy actively seeks out girls,
mid-forties, and a few have confined themselves to bed or they seek him out; soon he has coitus every night. The
until death years later. girl, who has received sexual instruction from an older
The men believe that intercourse is hard on one’s health. woman, expects demonstration of the boy’s virility as
They will desist from sex the night before they are to do a proof of his desire for her. What is valued is the ability
job that takes great energy. They do not approach women of the male to continue vigorously the in-and-out action
sexually during menstruation or for months after childbirth; of coitus over long periods of time while the female
a woman is considered dangerous to the man at these times. moves her hips “like a washing machine.” Nothing is
The islanders abhor nudity. Only babies are allowed despised more than a “dead” partner who does not move.
to bathe while nude. Adults wash only the parts of their A good man is expected to continue his actions for 15 to
bodies that extend beyond their clothing—face, neck, 30 minutes or more.
lower arms, hands, lower legs, and feet. The fear of The average “nice” girl will have three or four suc-
nudity has even cost lives. Sailors who never learned cessive boyfriends between the ages of 13 and 20; the
to swim because it involved wearing scanty clothing average boy may have 10 or more girlfriends. Mangaian
drowned when their ships sank. parents encourage their daughters to have sexual experi-
Premarital sex is essentially unknown. In marital sex, ences with several men. They want them to find marriage
foreplay is generally limited to kissing and rough fon- partners who are congenial.
dling of the buttocks. The husband invariably initiates the At around age 18, the Mangaians typically have sex
activity. The male-on-top is the only position used, and most nights of the week, with about three orgasms per
both partners keep their underwear on during the activity. night. By about age 48, they have sex two or three times
The man has an orgasm quickly and falls asleep immedi- per week, with one orgasm each time.
ately. Female orgasm either is believed not to exist or is All women in Mangaia apparently learn to have
considered deviant. orgasms. Bringing his partner to orgasm is one of the
man’s chief sources of sexual pleasure.
Mangaia
In distinct contrast to Inis Beag is Mangaia, an island in Sources: Marshall (1971); Messenger (1993).
the South Pacific. For the Mangaians, sex—for pleasure
and for procreation—is a principal interest.

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may do this quite casually as they sit on the ground. The Italy, and Spain. Attitudes are more negative in Belarus,
women and men talk about it freely, and there is no shame Bulgaria, Estonia, and Russia; and the cluster of coun-
attached to it. It is a customary position for women to take, tries with the most negative attitudes includes Croatia,
and they learn it in childhood. They never use their hands Lithuania, Poland, Portugal, Romania, and Ukraine.
for manipulation. (Powdermaker, 1933, pp. 276–277) While there is wide variation in attitudes toward homo-
sexuality and in same-gender sexual behavior, two general
rules do seem to emerge (Ford & Beach, 1951; Murray,
Premarital and Extramarital Sex 2000; Whitam, 1983): (1) No matter how a particular soci-
Societies differ considerably in their rules regarding ety treats homosexuality, the behavior always occurs in
premarital sex (Frayser, 1985). At one extreme are the at least some individuals—that is, same-gender sexuality
Marquesans of eastern Polynesia. Both boys and girls in is found universally in all societies; and (2) same-gender
that culture have participated in a wide range of sexual sexual behavior is never the predominant form of sexual
experiences before puberty. Their first experience with behavior for adults in any of the societies studied.
intercourse occurs with a heterosexual partner who is 30 The first point, that same-gender sexual behavior is
to 40 years old. Mothers are proud if their daughters have found universally in all cultures, is so well established
many lovers. Only later does marriage occur. In contrast that there was quite a stir in 2010 when a team of anthro-
are the Egyptians of Siwa. In this culture a girl’s clitoris pologists reported on a group of people, the Aka forag-
is removed at age 7 or 8 in order to decrease her potential ers of the Central African Republic (Hewlett & Hewlett,
for sexual excitement and intercourse. Premarital inter- 2010). The Aka were not aware of such practices and had
course is believed to bring shame on the family. Marriage no term for them. In fact, it was difficult for the anthro-
usually occurs around the age of 12 or 13, shortening the pologists to convey what they meant. We may need to
premarital period and any temptations it might contain. amend the earlier statement, to say that same-gender sex-
These two cultures are fairly typical of their regions. ual behavior is nearly universal across societies.
According to one study, 90 percent of Pacific Island societ- In the United States and other Western nations, we hold
ies permit premarital sex, as do 88 percent of African and 82 an unquestioned assumption that people have a sexual
percent of Eurasian societies; however, 73 percent of Medi- identity, whether gay, lesbian, bisexual, or heterosexual.
terranean societies prohibit premarital sex (Frayser, 1985). Yet sexual identity as an unvarying, lifelong characteris-
Extramarital sex is complex and conflicted for most tic of the self is unknown or rare in some cultures, such
cultures. Extramarital sex ranks second only to incest as as Indonesia (Stevenson, 1995). In those cultures the self
the most strictly prohibited type of sexual contact. One and individualism, so prominent in American culture, are
study found that it was forbidden for one or both partners downplayed. Instead, a person is defined in relation to oth-
in 74 percent of the cultures surveyed (Frayser, 1985). ers and behavior is seen as much more the product of the
Even when extramarital sex is permitted, it is subjected situation than of lifelong personality traits. In such a cul-
to regulations; the most common pattern of restriction is ture, having a “gay identity” just doesn’t compute.
to allow extramarital sex for husbands but not wives. Sex with same-gender partners is discussed in detail
in the chapter “Sexual Orientation: Gay, Straight, or Bi?”
Sex with Same-Gender Partners
A wide range of attitudes toward same-gender sexual Standards of Attractiveness
expression—what many in the United States call In all human societies physical characteristics are impor-
homosexuality—exists in various cultures (Murray, 2000). tant in determining whom one chooses as a sex partner.
At one extreme are societies that strongly disapprove of What is considered attractive varies considerably, though
same-gender sexual behavior for people of any age. In (Figure 6). For example, the region of the body that is
contrast, some societies tolerate the behavior for children judged for attractiveness varies from one culture to the
but disapprove of it in adults. Still other societies actively next. For some peoples, the shape and color of the eyes
encourage all their male members to engage in some are especially significant. For others, the shape of the
same-gender sexual behavior, usually in conjunction with ears is most important. Some societies go directly to
puberty rites (Herdt, 1984). A few societies have a formalized the heart of the matter and judge attractiveness by the
role for the adult gay man that gives him status and dignity. appearance of the external genitals. In a few societies,
Even across European nations, attitudes about homo- elongated labia majora (the pads of fat on either side of
sexuality vary considerably (Lottes & Alkula, 2011). For the vaginal opening in women) are considered sexually
example, people in Denmark, the Netherlands, and Swe- attractive, and it is common practice for a woman to pull
den have the most positive attitudes. Positive attitudes are on hers in order to make them longer. Among the Nawa
also found in a large group of countries including Austria, women of Africa, elongated labia majora are considered
Belgium, France, Germany, Great Britain, Greece, a mark of beauty and are quite prominent.

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Our society’s standards are in the minority in one


way: In most cultures, a plump woman is considered
more attractive than a thin one.
One standard does seem to be a general rule: A poor
complexion is considered unattractive in the majority of
human societies.
Research on sexual attraction is discussed in detail in
the chapter “Attraction, Love, and Communication.”

Social-Class and Ethnic-Group


Variations in the United States
The discussion so far may seem to imply that there is one
uniform standard of sexual behavior in the United States and
that all Americans behave alike sexually. In fact, though,
there are large variations in sexual behavior within our cul-
ture. Some of these subcultural variations can be classified
(a) as social-class differences and some as ethnic differences.

Social Class and Sex


Table 1 shows data on some social-class variations in sex-
uality. Education is used as an indicator of social class.
The more educated women are, the more likely they are
to use the pill for contraception. The
differences are dra-
matic, with college Is sexual behavior similar
graduates (22 percent) in all social classes in
being more than twice the United States?
as likely as high school
graduates (9 percent) to use the pill.
These findings raise the possibility that, especially for
women, social class and sexuality exert a mutual influ-
ence on each other. That is, thus far we have assumed
that one’s social class affects one’s sexual behaviors. But
it may also be true that a person’s sexuality influences
their social class. In this case, choosing to use an effective
method of contraception, the pill, may allow women to
continue their education and graduate from college.
In the third line in the table, we can see that the per-
centage of first premarital cohabitations that transition
to marriage is substantially higher for college graduates
(53 percent) than it is for those who did not go beyond
high school (39 percent). By first premarital cohabita-
tion, we mean the first time a person lived together with
(b) a romantic partner, and then whether those two people
went on to marry. College graduates have a better than
Figure 6 Cross-cultural differences, cross- 50 percent chance of that occurring. Those who only
cultural similarities. (a) Woman of West Africa. graduated from high school have a lower chance, which
(b) North American beauty queen. The custom may mean that they do not go on to marry but continue
of female adornment is found in most cultures, to cohabit, or perhaps that they cohabit with a second or
although the exact definition of beauty varies third partner before marrying.
from culture to culture. Finally, there are some social-class similarities in
(a) © Nigel Pavitt/Getty Images; (b) © Getty Images Entertain- Table 1. The percentage of first marriages for men that are
ment/Getty Images still intact after 20 years hovers around 50 percent for those

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Table 1 Social-Class Variations in Sexuality in the United States (education is used


as an indicator of social class).

Less than High School Some College


High School Graduates College Graduates

Women aged 15–44 using the pill 4% 9% 16% 22%


Women whose first union was cohabitation 70% 62% 59% 47%
first premarital cohabitations that transition to marriage 30% 39% 40% 53%
Percent of first marriages for men that are intact at 20 years 54% 47% 54% 65%

Source: daniels et al. (2014); Copen et al. (2013); Copen et al. (2012a).

with less than high school, high school, and some college (1) There are ethnic-group variations, but there are also
(although it is somewhat higher for college graduates). ethnic-group similarities. The sexuality of these groups is
In summary, some social-class variations in sexuality not totally different. (2) Cultural context is the key. The
have been found. For example, the percentage of women sexuality of any particular group can be understood only by
who use the pill rises steadily with the level of education. understanding the cultural heritage of that group as well as
At the same time, there are some social-class similarities. its current social and economic conditions (Figure 7). The
sexuality of white Euro-Americans, for example, is influ-
Ethnicity and Sexuality in the United States enced by the heritage of European cultures, such as the Vic-
The U.S. population is composed of many ethnic groups, torian era in England. In the following sections, we briefly
and there are some variations among these groups in discuss the cultural contexts for African Americans, Lati-
sexual behavior. These variations are a result of having nos, Asian Americans, and American Indians and examine
different cultural heritages, as well as of current eco- how these cultural contexts are reflected in their sexuality.
nomic and social conditions. Here we discuss the cultural
heritages and their influence on sexuality of five groups: African Americans. The sexuality of African Ameri-
African Americans, Latinos, Asian Americans, American cans is influenced by many of the same factors influencing
Indians, and whites. A summary of some ethnic-group the sexuality of Euro-Americans, such as the legacies of the
variations in sexuality is shown in Table 2. Victorian era and the influence of the Judeo-Christian tradi-
In examining these data on ethnic-group variations tion. In addition, at least three other factors act to make the
in sexuality, it is important to keep in mind two points: sexuality of Blacks somewhat different from that of whites

Table 2 Comparison of the Sexuality of Whites, African Americans, Latinos,


and Asian Americans

African Latinos/ Asian


Whites Americans Latinas Americans

Gender ratio (number of males per 100 females),


30- to 34-year-olds 100 84 104 101
Percentage of women 15–44 using the Pill 19% 10% 11% NA
oral sex experience with the opposite sex among
females 15–24 years old 69% 63% 59% NA
oral sex occurred before first vaginal intercourse, females 49% 27% 37% NA
Percent who masturbated in the last year,
18- to 24-year-olds
Women 50% 56%
Men 54% 89%
Percent of first marriages intact after 10 years 68% 56% 73% 83%
Abortion rate* 7.6 25.3 16.1 NA

*Abortion rate is the number of abortions per year per 1,000 women in the group (Pazol et al., 2014).
NA means not available.

Sources: U.S. Census Bureau (2000a, b); daniels et al. (2014); Copen et al. (2012a); Copen et al. (2012b); dodge et al. (2010).

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(a) (b)

Figure 7 The sexuality of members of different ethnic groups is profoundly shaped by their cultures. (a) Roman Catholicism
has a powerful impact on Latinos. (b) There is strong emphasis on the family among American Indians.
(a) © Digital Vision/Getty Images RF; (b) © Hill Street Studios/Blend Images LLC RF

(Kelly & Shelton, 2013): (1) the African heritage (Staples, (Goodwin et al., 2010)]. Second, lower marriage rates
2006), (2) the forces that acted upon Blacks during slavery, among African American men are also due to the obsta-
and (3) current economic and social conditions. cles that they have encountered in seeking and maintain-
Like other U.S. ethnic groups, Black Americans, who ing the jobs necessary to support a family. Since World
constitute 15 percent of the U.S. population (Rastogi et al., War II, the number of manufacturing jobs, which once
2011), are not homogeneous. They vary in whether they are were a major source of employment for working-class
of Caribbean origin (Afro-Caribbeans) or are descendants Black men, has declined dramatically. The result has
of persons brought to the United States as slaves (African been a decline in the Black working class and an expan-
Americans); in whether they are rural and southern or sion of the Black underclass.
urban; and in social class. These variations are reflected in In later chapters, we discuss other issues having to do
sexual attitudes. Afro-Caribbeans emphasize sexual propri- with race/ethnicity and sexuality, always bearing in mind
ety and teach girls to be modest; this group tends to view the cultural context that shapes and gives meaning to dif-
African Americans as morally suspect and sexually undis- ferent sexual patterns.
ciplined (Lewis & Kertzner, 2003; Reid & Bing, 2000).
Table 2 shows some data comparing the sexuality Latinos. Latinos, who constitute 16 percent of the
of African Americans with whites, Latinos, and Asian U.S. population (Humes et al., 2011), are people of Latin
Americans. In some cases, differences between Blacks American heritage; therefore, the category includes many
and whites are striking. For example, compared with different cultural groups, such as Mexican Americans,
whites, Blacks are considerably less likely to engage Puerto Ricans, and Cuban Americans. Latinos can refer
in oral sex before the first time they engage in vaginal to the entire group or specifically to men; the term Latinas
intercourse. The differences, though, must be balanced refers exclusively to women of Latin American origin.
against the similarities. For example, Black women are Latinos have a cultural heritage distinct from that of both
about as likely as white women to engage in oral sex. African Americans and Anglos, although forces such as the
The marriage rate is lower for African Americans than Judeo-Christian religious tradition affect all three groups.
for other groups. This is due to a number of factors. First, In traditional Latin American cultures, gender roles are
there is not an equal gender ratio among Blacks. As shown sharply defined (Melendez et al., 2013; Rafaelli & Ontai,
in Table 2, the gender ratio is nearly equal among whites, 2004). Such roles are emphasized early in the socialization
Asian Americans, and Latinos; that is, there are about process for children. Boys are given greater freedom and
100 men for every 100 women. Among African Amer- are encouraged in sexual exploits. Girls are expected to be
icans, however, there are only about 84 men for every passive, obedient, and weak. Latinos in the United States
100 women. This creates lower marriage rates among today have a cultural heritage that
African American women because there are simply not blends these traditional cultural
Latinos: People of Latin American
enough Black men to go around [in the U.S., 87 percent values with the contemporary values heritage.
of marriages are between two people of the same race of the dominant Anglo culture.

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A Sexually diverse World


Sex in China

T
he first 4,000 years of recorded Chinese history ago, led by several famous neo-Confucianists, so that
were characterized by open, positive attitudes negative and repressive attitudes became dominant.
about human sexuality, including a rich erotic In 1422 there was a ban on erotic literature, and a
literature. Indeed, the oldest sex manuals in the world second major ban occurred in 1664. A commoner
come from China, dating from approximately 200 b.c.e. involved in printing a banned book could be beaten
The most recent 1,000 years, however, have been just the and exiled.
opposite, characterized by repression of sexuality and When the communist government founded the
censorship. People’s Republic of China in 1949, it imposed a
A major philosophical concept in Chinese cul- strict ban on all sexually explicit materials. The
ture, yin and yang, originated around 300 b.c.e. and policy was quite effective in the 1950s and 1960s.
is found in important writings on Confucianism and By the late 1960s, however, erotica was being pro-
Taoism. According to the yin-yang philosophy, all duced much more in Western nations, and in China
objects and events are the products of two elements: there was increased openness to the West. By the late
yin, which is negative, passive, weak, and destructive; 1970s, X-rated videotapes were being smuggled into
and yang, which is positive, active, strong, and con- China from Hong Kong and other countries, and they
structive. Yin is associated with the female, yang with quickly became a fad. Small parties were organized
the male. For several thousand years, the Chinese have around the viewing of these tapes. The government
used yin and yang in words dealing with sexuality. reacted harshly, promulgating a new antipornogra-
For example, yin fu (the door of yin) means “vulva,” phy law in 1985. According to the law, “Pornography
and yang ju (the organ of yang) means “penis.” Huo is very harmful, poisoning people’s minds, inducing
yin yang (the union of yin and yang) is the term used crimes . . . and must be banned” (Ruan, 1991, p. 100).
for sexual intercourse. This philosophy holds that the Publishing houses that issued pornography were given
harmonious interaction between the male and female stiff fines, and by 1986, 217 illegal publishers had been
principles is vital, creating positive cultural attitudes arrested and 42 forced to close. In one incident, a Shanghai
toward sexuality. railway station employee was sentenced to death for
Of the three major religions of China—Confucianism, having organized sex parties on nine different occa-
Taoism, and Buddhism—Taoism is the only truly indige- sions, during which pornographic videotapes were
nous one, dating from the writings of Chang Ling around viewed and he engaged in sexual activity with women.
a.d. 143. Taoism is one of the few religions to advocate Male homosexuality is recognized in historical
the cultivation of sexual techniques for the benefit of writings in China as early as 2,000 years ago. Homo-
the individual. To quote from a classic Taoist work, The sexuality was then so widespread among the upper
Canon of the Immaculate Girl, classes that the period is known as the Golden Age of
Homosexuality in China. One historical book on the
Said P’eng, “One achieves longevity by loving the
essence, cultivating the spiritual, and partaking of Han dynasty contained a special section describing the
many kinds of medicines. If you don’t know the ways emperors’ male sexual partners. There were also toler-
of intercourse, taking herbs is of no benefit. The pro- ant attitudes toward lesbianism. But with the founding
ducing of man and woman is like the begetting of of the People’s Republic in 1949, homosexuality, like
Heaven and Earth. Heaven and Earth have attained the all other sexuality, was severely repressed. Most Chi-
method of intercourse and, therefore, they lack the lim- nese in the 1980s claimed that they had never known a
itation of finality. Man loses the method of intercourse homosexual and argued that there must be very few in
and therefore suffers the mortification of early death. Chinese society.
If you can avoid mortification and injury and attain the In the early 1980s, China was characterized by a puri-
arts of sex, you will have found the way of nondeath.”
tanism that probably far exceeded that observed by the
(Ruan, 1991, p. 56)
original Puritans. It was considered scandalous for a mar-
The tradition of erotic literature and openness ried couple to hold hands in public. Prostitution, premari-
about sexuality began to change about 1,000 years tal sex, homosexuality, and variant sexual behaviors were

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all illegal, and the laws were enforced. Even sexuality in


marriage was given little encouragement.
Table 3 Contemporary data on Sex
A moderate sexual liberation began in the 1980s and
in China: A Liberalizing Trend
continues today, sparked in part by increased access to
sexual media and in part by government policies demand- Older Current
Cohort* Cohort*
ing contraception, which open the door to premarital sex
without the worry of pregnancy. Open displays of affec-
Percent who masturbated
tion, such as holding hands in public, are now no lon- by age 23
ger treated as signs of promiscuity. High schools now Men 31% 52%
include sex education in the curriculum. The rationale Women 3 8
is that a scientific understanding of sexual development Percent who engaged in
premarital sex
is essential to the healthy development of young people
Men 16 31
and to the maintenance of high moral standards and well- Women 5 14
controlled social order. Sexual images are found today Percent who viewed
much more often in the media, although censors continue pornographic materials in
to monitor the content. There is open discussion of the the last year
Men 13 74
importance of women’s sexual pleasure.
Women 6 37
Noted American sex researcher Edward Laumann
has extended his surveys to China (Laumann & Parish, *“older cohort” refers to those who turned 20 before 1980
2004; Parish et al., 2007; Table 3). The results indicate and therefore grew up in the conservative culture of the time.
“Current cohort” refers to those who turned 20 after 1980 and
that the liberalizing trends are occurring mainly in the therefore grew up in the era of liberalization.
larger cities, whereas the majority of Chinese live in
more rural areas that are still extremely conservative. Source: Parish et al. (2007).

In regard to premarital sex, only 16 percent of men and


5 percent of women from the older generation say that similar to those reported in many other nations. It will
they engaged in it, compared with 31 percent of men be interesting to see whether liberalization continues or
and 14 percent of women today. These rates are still an eventual swing back to repression occurs.
low compared with Western nations such as the United
States. For extramarital sex, 4.5 percent of women Sources: Evans (1995); Jeffreys (2006); Parish et al. (2007); Ruan
engaged in it in the past 12 months, as had 11 percent (1991); Ruan & Lau (1998); Zhang et al. (2012).
of men in noncommercial and 5.5 percent of men in
commercial sex (Zhang et al., 2012). These rates are

The gender roles of traditional Latino culture are of family—nuclear and extended—in matters such as
epitomized in the concepts of machismo and marianismo support, loyalty, solidarity, and family honor (Becker
(Melendez et al., 2013). The term machismo, or macho, et al., 2014).
has come to be used loosely in American culture today.
Literally, machismo means “maleness” or “virility.” More Asian Americans. The broad category of Asian
generally, it refers to the “mystique of manliness” (Ruth, Americans includes many different cultural groups, such
1990). The cultural code of machismo among Latin as Japanese Americans, Chinese Americans, and Indian
Americans mandates that the man must be responsible Americans, as well as the relative newcomer groups
for the well-being and honor of his family, but in extreme such as Vietnamese Americans and the Hmong. Asians
forms it also means tolerating men’s sexual infideli- constitute 6 percent of the U.S. population (Hoeffel
ties. Marianismo, the female counterpart of machismo, et al., 2012). As discussed in A Sexually Diverse World:
derives from Roman Catholic worship of Mary, the vir- Sex in China, traditional Asian cultures, such as the Chi-
gin mother of Jesus. Thus, motherhood is highly valued nese, have been repressive about
while virginity until marriage is closely guarded. sexuality. Traditional Cambodian Familismo: Among Latinos, a strong
cultural valuing of one’s nuclear and
Familismo is another important aspect of Latino society, for instance, believed
extended family.
culture. This cultural value emphasizes the importance that a lack of information about

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sexuality would prevent the premarital sex that would youth culture to have sex (Hellerstedt et al., 2006). In one
tarnish a family’s honor (Okazaki, 2002). study of youth in a Northern Plains tribe, 9 percent had
Several core Asian values persist in the United States first intercourse before age 13, compared with national
and doubtless affect sexual expression. Among the core statistics of 5 percent (Kaufman et al., 2007).
values that are relevant to sexuality are the following Unfortunately, the major national sex surveys such as
(Kim et al., 2005): those from which Table 2 was drawn have had such small
samples of American Indians that they have not been
1. Collectivism. Others’ needs, especially those of the able to report reliable statistics for this group.
family, should be considered before one’s own. Open
Racial Microaggressions. Old-fashioned, obvious,
expression of some forms of sexuality would repre-
overt racism has become rare in the United States. It has
sent a threat to the highly interdependent social struc-
been replaced by more subtle forms of prejudiced atti-
ture as well as to the family (Okazaki, 2002).
tudes and behaviors. Racial microaggressions are subtle
2. Conformity to norms. The individual should conform insults directed at people of color, often done noncon-
to the expectations of the family and society. Shame sciously (Sue et al., 2007; Sue, 2010). Members of ethnic
and the threat of loss of face, which can apply both to minorities in the U.S. experience them frequently, and
the individual and to his or her family, are powerful they can be a source of stress. Consider the following
forces shaping good behavior. example.
3. Emotional control. Emotions should not be openly
expressed. Emotions such as love or passion should be Neil Henning, a White professor, had just finished a lec-
ture on Greco-Roman contributions to the history of psy-
muted and controlled.
chology. He asked for questions. An African American
student raised his hand. The student seemed frustrated
Given all these forces, it is not surprising that Asian and said that the history of psychology was ethnocen-
Americans today tend to be the sexual conservatives of tric and Eurocentric, and that it left out contributions
the various ethnic groups (Meston & Ahrold, 2010). For from African, Asian, and Latin American cultures and
example, they have the lowest incidence of multiple psychologies.
sexual partners (Laumann et al., 1994; Meston & The professor responded, “Aidan, please calm down.
Ahrold, 2010). We are studying American psychology. We will eventually
address how it has influenced and been adapted to Asian
American Indians. American Indians, like other U.S. and other societies.” (adapted from Sue, 2010, p. 3)
ethnic groups, are diverse among themselves, as a result
of the different heritages of more than 500 tribes, such as Can you spot the microaggressions? Telling a person
the Navajo, Hurons, Mohicans, and Cheyenne. In addi- to calm down is often an expression of dominance that
tion, there are distinctions between those who are city invalidates the legitimacy of the person’s feelings.
dwellers and those who live on reservations (Tafoya, Then, the professor implied that American psychology
1989; Weaver, 1999). was the norm and it influenced other societies, with
The popular media over the last century have por- no consideration of the possibility that other societies
trayed American Indian men as noble savages who are might have developed psychological concepts and
both exotic and erotic (Bird, 1999). They have been principles on their own. All of this was very subtle,
shown nearly naked, emphasizing well-developed mas- though. Aidan undoubtedly felt dissatisfied with the
culine bodies. In romance novels of the 1990s, American interaction, but it would be difficult for him to say that
Indian males became cultural icons for vanishing stan- the professor said something horrible. The subtlety
dards of masculinity. They are handsome and virile, yet and ambiguity of microaggressions make them even
tender and vulnerable, and magnificent lovers for white more difficult to deal with.
women (Van Lent, 1996). As we will see in later chapters, the concept of micro-
American Indian women have been less visible in aggressions also extends to gender microaggressions,
the popular media. When present, they are stereotyped as sexual orientation microaggressions, and microaggres-
princesses or squaws (Bird, 1999). The princess is noble, sions against trans people.
beautiful, and erotic. The Disney animated film Pocahon-
tas features such a voluptuous princess. The stereotypical
squaw, in contrast, is unattractive, uninteresting, and ignored. The Significance of
Although traditional American Cross-Cultural Studies
Racial microaggressions: Subtle Indian cultures had strict courtship What relevance do cross-cultural data have to an under-
insults directed at people of color and
rules that regulated premarital sex, standing of human sexuality? They are important for
often done nonconsciously.
today there is great pressure in the two basic reasons. First, they give us a notion of the

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enormous variation that exists in human sexual behav- Masturbation


ior, and they help us put our own standards and behavior Humans are definitely not the only species that mastur-
in perspective. Second, these studies provide impres- bates. Masturbation is found among many species of
sive evidence concerning the importance of culture and mammals, particularly among the primates (monkeys and
learning in the shaping of our sexual behavior; they apes). Male monkeys and apes in zoos can be observed
show us that human sexual behavior is not completely masturbating, often to the horror of the proper folk who
determined by biology or drives or instincts. For exam- have come to see them. At one time it was thought that
ple, a woman of Inis Beag and a woman of Mangaia this behavior might be the result of the unnatural living
presumably have vaginas that are similarly constructed conditions of zoos. However, observations of free-living
and clitorises that are approximately the same size and primates indicate that they, too, masturbate. Techniques
have the same nerve supply. But the woman of Inis Beag include hand stimulation of the genitals or rubbing the
never has an orgasm, and all Mangaian women orgasm.3 genitals against an object. In terms of technique, mon-
Why? Their cultures are different, and they and their keys and nonhuman apes have one advantage over
partners learned different things about sex as they were humans: Their bodies are so flexible that they can per-
growing up. Culture is a major determinant of human form mouth–genital sex on themselves.
sexual behavior. Female masturbation is also found among many spe-
The point of studying sexuality in different cul- cies besides our own. The prize for the most inventive
tures is not to teach that there are a lot of exotic peo- technique probably should go to the female porcupine.
ple out there doing exotic things. Rather, the point is She holds one end of a stick in her paws and walks around
to remind ourselves that each group has its own cul- while straddling the stick; as the stick bumps against the
ture, and this culture has a profound influence on the ground, it vibrates against her genitals (Ford & Beach,
sexual expression of the women and men who grow 1951). Human females are apparently not the only ones
up in it. We offer more examples in many of the chap- to enjoy vibrators.
ters that follow.

Same-Gender Sexual Behavior


Same-gender behavior is found in many species besides
Cross-Species Perspectives our own (Bagemihl, 1999; Leca et al., 2014; Vasey, 2002;
on Sexuality Figure 8a). Indeed, observations of other species indicate
that our basic mammalian heritage is bisexual, com-
Humans are just one of many animal species, and all posed of both heterosexual and homosexual elements
of them display sexual behavior. To put our own sexual (Bagemihl, 1999).
behavior in evolutionary perspective, it is helpful to Males of many species will mount other males, and
explore the similarities and differences between our own anal intercourse has been observed in some male pri-
sexuality and that of other species. mates (Wallen & Parsons, 1997). Among domestic
There is one other reason for this particular discussion. sheep, 9 percent of adult males strongly prefer other
Some people classify sexual behaviors as “natural” or males as sex partners (Ellis, 1996; Roselli et al., 2002).
“unnatural,” depending on whether In a number of primate species, including bonobos and
other species do or Japanese macaques, females mount other females (Vasey
Is homosexuality found do not exhibit those et al., 2006; Vasey & Jiskoot, 2010).
in other species? behaviors. Sometimes,
though, the data are
twisted to suit the purposes of the Sexual Signaling
person making the argument, and so Female primates engage in sexual signaling to males, in
there is a need for a less biased view. Let’s see exactly effect, flirting (Dixson, 1990; Figure 8b). For example,
what some other species do. females in one species of macaque engage in parading in
front of males to signal their interest. Among baboons, spi-
der monkeys, and orangutans, the female makes eye con-
3
We like to use the word orgasm not only as a noun but also as tact with the male. The female patas monkey puffs out her
a verb. The reason is that alternative expressions, such as “to cheeks and drools. The parading and eye contact sound very
achieve orgasm” and “to reach orgasm,” reflect the tendency of
Americans to make sex an achievement situation (an idea to be
familiar—they could easily be observed among women at
discussed further in the chapter “Sexual Arousal”). To avoid this, a singles bar. The puffing and drooling probably wouldn’t
we use “to have an orgasm” or “to orgasm.” play as well, though.

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(a) (b)

Figure 8 (a) Same-gender sexuality in animals: Two male giraffes “necking.” They rub necks and become
aroused. (Photograph by Stephen G. Maka.) (b) The sexual behavior of primates: females have various ways
of expressing choice. Here a female Barbary macaque presents her sexual swelling to a male. He seems to
be interested. (Photograph by frans de Waal.)
(a) © Thomas Michael Corcoran/PhotoEdit; (b) © Meredith F. Small

Human Uniqueness which is a particular hormonal state. In contrast, human


Are humans in any ways unique in their sexual behav- females are capable of engaging in sexual behavior—and
ior? The general trend, as we move from lower species actually do engage in it—during any phase of their hor-
such as fish or rodents to higher ones like primates, is monal (menstrual) cycle. Thus, the sexual behavior of
for sexual behavior to be more hormonally (instinc- human females is not nearly as much under hormonal con-
tively) controlled among the lower species and to be trol as that of females of other species.
controlled more by the brain (and therefore by learning Traditionally it was thought that female orgasm
and social context) in the higher species (Beach, 1947; is unique to humans and does not exist in other spe-
Wallen, 2001). Thus, environmental influences are cies. Then some studies found evidence of orgasm
much more important in shaping primate—especially in rhesus macaques (monkeys), as indicated by the
human—sexual behavior than they are in shaping the same physiological responses indicative of orgasm
sexual behavior of other species. in human females—specifically, increased heart rate
An illustration of this fact is provided by stud- and uterine contractions (Burton, 1970; Goldfoot et
ies of the adult sexual behavior of animals raised in al., 1980; Zumpe & Michael, 1968). Thus, humans
deprived environments. If mice are reared in isolation, can no longer claim to have a corner on the female
their adult sexual behavior will nonetheless be nor- orgasm market. This fact has interesting implications
mal (Scott, 1964). But if rhesus monkeys are reared for understanding the evolution of sexuality. Perhaps
in isolation, their adult sexual behavior is severely the higher species, in which the females are not driven
disturbed, to the point where they may be incapable to sexual activity by their hormones, have the pleasure
of reproducing (Harlow et al., 1963). Thus, environ- of orgasm as an incentive.
mental experiences are crucial in shaping the sexual In summary, then, there is little in human sexuality
behavior of higher species, particularly humans; for that is completely unique to humans, except for elabo-
us, sexual behavior is a lot more than just “doin’ what rate, complex cultural influences. In other respects, we
comes naturally.” are on a continuum with other species.
Female sexuality provides a particularly good illustra-
tion of the shift in hormonal control from lower to higher The Nonsexual Uses of Sexual Behavior
species. Throughout most of the animal kingdom, female Two male baboons are locked in combat. One begins to
sexual behavior is strongly controlled by hormones. In emerge as the victor. The other “presents” (the “female”
virtually all mammals, females do not engage in sexual sexual posture, in which the rump is directed toward the
behavior at all except when they are in “heat” (estrus), other and is elevated somewhat).

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THE SEXUAL HEALTH PERSPECTIVE 19

Two male monkeys are members of the same troop. vision of positive sexual health (Edwards & Coleman,
Long ago they established which one is dominant and 2004; Parker et al., 2004). The World Health Organiza-
which subordinate. The dominant one mounts (the tion (WHO) definition, adopted in 2002, is as follows:
“male” sexual behavior) the subordinate one.
These are examples of animals sometimes using sex- Sexual health is a state of physical, emotional, mental
ual behavior for nonsexual purposes (Small, 1993; Wal- and social well-being in relation to sexuality; it is not
len & Zehr, 2004). Commonly such behavior signals the merely the absence of disease, dysfunction or infirmity.
Sexual health requires a positive and respectful approach
end of a fight, as in the first example. The loser indicates
to sexuality and sexual relationships, as well as the possi-
his surrender by presenting, and the winner signals vic- bility of having pleasurable and safe sexual experiences,
tory by mounting. Sexual behaviors can also symbolize free of coercion, discrimination and violence. For sexual
an animal’s rank in a dominance hierarchy. Dominant health to be attained and maintained, the sexual rights
animals mount subordinate ones. As another example, of all persons must be respected, protected and fulfilled.
male squirrel monkeys sometimes use an exhibitionist (World Health Organization, 2006)
display of their erect penis as part of an aggressive dis-
play against another male in a phenomenon called phallic Notice that this definition includes not only sex-
aggression (Wickler, 1973). ual physical health but also sexual mental health and
All this is perfectly obvious when we observe it in positive sexual relationships. Therefore, public health
monkeys. But do humans ever use sexual behavior for efforts to prevent HIV or chlamydia infection, programs
nonsexual purposes? Consider the rapist, who uses sex to enhance romantic relationships, and activism to end
as an expression of aggression against and power over a discrimination and violence against gays and lesbians
woman (Zurbriggen, 2010), or over another man in the all fall under the umbrella of sexual health. Notice also
case of same-gender rape. Another example is the exhi- that the definition includes both negative and positive
bitionist, who uses the display of his erect penis to shock rights. Negative rights are freedoms from—for exam-
and frighten women, much as the male squirrel monkey ple, freedom from sexual violence. Positive rights are
uses such a display to shock and frighten his opponent. freedoms to—for example, freedom to experience sex-
Humans also use sex for economic purposes; the best ual pleasure or to express one’s sexuality with same-
examples are male and female prostitutes. gender partners.
There are also less extreme examples. Consider the With the growth of the sexual health movement, the
couple who have a fight and then make love to signal an concept of sexual rights has also come to center stage;
end to the hostilities.4 Or consider the woman who goes in fact, the term is used in the WHO definition. The idea
to bed with an influential—though unattractive—politi- here is that all human beings have certain basic, inalien-
cian because this gives her a vicarious sense of power. able rights regarding sexuality, just as in America’s
You can probably think of other examples of the Declaration of Independence the writers asserted that
nonsexual use of sexual behavior. Humans, just like all people have the right to life, liberty, and the pursuit
members of other species, can use sex for a variety of of happiness (that last one is interesting in the context
nonsexual purposes. of sexuality, wouldn’t you say?). The question then is,
What are humans’ basic sexual rights? The principles
are new and evolving, but they generally include ele-
ments such as a right to reproductive self-determination
The Sexual Health Perspective and freedom from sexual abuse and sexual violence, as
well as the right to sexual self-expression (provided,
The important new concepts of sexual health and sexual of course, that it doesn’t interfere with someone else’s
rights provide yet another broad and thought-provoking sexual rights) (Sandfort & Ehrhardt, 2004). Some would
perspective on sexuality. Sexual health is a social and argue that same-sex marriage, in this context, is a basic
political movement that is gaining momentum world- sexual right, and these arguments are gaining momen-
wide. Although many discussions of sexual health are tum worldwide. Argentina, Australia, Belgium, Canada,
actually about sexual disease, such as HIV infection, France, the Netherlands, Spain,
sexual health is a much broader concept that involves a and now the U.S. are among the Sexual health: A state of physical,
nations now offering a legally emotional, mental, and social
well-being in relation to sexuality.
recognized relationship for both Sexual rights: Basic, inalienable
4
It has been our observation that this practice may not always heterosexual and same-gender rights regarding sexuality, both
mean the same thing to the man and the woman. To the man it couples. And South Africa’s positive and negative, such as rights
can mean that everything is fine again, but the woman can be left
constitution of 1996 bars dis- to reproductive self-determination and
feeling dissatisfied and not at all convinced that the issues are
resolved. Thus, this situation can be a source of miscommunica- crimination on the basis of sexual sexual self-expression and freedom
from sexual abuse and violence.
tion between the two. orientation (Parker et al., 2004).

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20 CHAPTER 1 ● SEXUALITY IN PERSPECTIVE

Critical THINK ing Skill


An introduction to critical thinking

In this and all other chapters in this textbook, you will find boxes labeled CRITICAL THINKING SKILL. Each
of these boxes is designed to improve your critical thinking skills as applied to sexuality, but the skills you learn
will be useful in many other areas of life.
According to Diane Halpern, an expert in critical thinking,
Critical thinking is the use of those cognitive skills or strategies that increases the probability of a desirable out-
come. It is purposeful, reasoned, and goal directed. It is the kind of thinking involved in solving problems, formu-
lating inferences, calculating likelihoods, and making decisions. . . . Critical thinking also involves evaluating the
thinking process—the reasoning that went into the conclusion we have arrived at or the kinds of factors considered
in making a decision. (Halpern, 2002, p. 93)
Critical thinking is logical, rational, and free of self-deception. Critical thinking is also an attitude that people
carry with them into situations, a belief that can and should be used to make better decisions. Over time, those
with excellent critical thinking skills should experience better outcomes (e.g., making a good career choice or
making a good decision about where to live) compared with those who have poor critical thinking skills
(Halpern, 1998).
For these reasons, colleges and universities believe that it is important for students to improve their critical
thinking skills. Those skills are also increasingly important in the world of work, as our industrial, manufacturing
economy has been replaced by a knowledge-based economy, and the ability to evaluate information carefully is
a major asset.
In each chapter of this textbook, you will find boxes called CRITICAL THINKING SKILL. Each teaches a
particular critical thinking skill with an application in sexuality, but each skill will have applications throughout
your life. Here’s to better critical thinking by all of us!

Critical THINK ing Skill


Understanding that other cultures think differently
about some issues
One way to improve critical thinking skills is to understand that some cultures have different ideas about certain
issues than we have in our culture. This cross-cultural view widens our perspective and helps us to think more
rationally about unspoken assumptions in our culture. For example, in the United States, if you get married in
a church or other place of worship, then, after signing some papers, you are also legally married—that is, the
religious and the civil or legal parts of marriage are combined. In many European countries, however, including
some Catholic countries, things are done very differently. The civil ceremonies and the religious ceremonies are
separate, often occurring on different days. For example, in France couples go to city hall for the legal ceremony
and then, separately, to a church for the religious ceremony. Those who are religious do both, and those who are
not go just to the city hall part. Either way, they have a party afterward.
How does knowing about these practices apply to how we do things in the United States? For example, some
religious groups object to gay marriage. How would that debate change if we separated religious marriage from
civil marriage?

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SUMMARY 21

SUMMARY
Sex and Gender sexual behavior. Frequency of intercourse may vary
Sexual behavior is activity that produces arousal and from once a week in some cultures to three or four
increases the chance of orgasm. Sex (sexual behavior and times a night in others. Attitudes regarding premari-
anatomy) is distinct from gender (being male or female tal and extramarital sex, masturbation, same-gender
or some other gender such as trans*). sexual behavior, and gender roles vary considerably
across cultures. Within the United States, sexual
behavior varies with social class and ethnic group.
The History of Understanding Sexuality: These great variations provide evidence of the
Religion and Science importance of learning and culture in shaping sexual
Historically, the main sources of sexual information were behavior. Yet all societies regulate sexual behavior in
religion and, beginning in the late 1800s, science. Impor- some way.
tant early sex researchers were Sigmund Freud, Havelock
Ellis, Richard von Krafft-Ebing, and Magnus Hirschfeld,
all emerging from the rigid Victorian era. By the 1990s, Cross-Species Perspectives on Sexuality
major, well-conducted sex surveys were available. Studies of sexual behavior in various animal species
show that masturbation, mouth–genital stimulation,
and same-gender sexual behavior are by no means lim-
The Media ited to humans. In many species, sexual behavior may
Today, the mass media—whether television, magazines, be used for nonsexual purposes, such as expressing
or the Internet—carry extensive portrayals of sexuality dominance.
and are a powerful influence on most people’s under-
standing of sexuality. The mass media may have an
influence through cultivation, agenda setting, and social The Sexual Health Perspective
learning. A new international movement focuses on sexual health
and the principles of sexual rights.

Cross-Cultural Perspectives on Sexuality


Studies of various human cultures around the world
provide evidence of enormous variations in human

SUGGESTIONS FOR FURTHER READING

Bagemihl, Bruce. (1999). Biological exuberance: Animal Historian Lutz documents Victorian antisex norms,
homosexuality and natural diversity. New York: as well as those who rebelled against them.
St. Martin’s. The author documents the blindness of Staples, Robert. (2006). Exploring black sexuality.
scientists to the same-gender sexual behavior they New York: Rowman & Littlefield. Staples, considered
observed and at the same time catalogs the extensive- the dean of Black family studies, writes authoritatively
ness of same-gender behaviors in hundreds of species. about topics such as the myth of Black sexual
Gregersen, Edgar. (1996). The world of human sexuality. superiority.
New York: Irvington. Gregersen, an anthropologist, Zuk, Marlene. (2002). Sexual selections: What we can
has compiled a vast amount of information about and can’t learn about sex from animals. Berkeley:
sexuality in cultures around the world. The book also University of California Press. Zuk, a biologist,
includes a treasure trove of fascinating illustrations. carefully analyzes what can be inferred from studies
Lutz, Deborah. (2011). Pleasure bound: Victorian sex of the sexual behavior of animals.
rebels and the new eroticism. New York: Norton.

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Are YOU Curious?
1. Is the heterosexual male preference for
the “hourglass” female figure universal?
2. What theory accounts for how the smell
of perfume or cologne becomes sexually
arousing?
3. Why do most sexual interactions in our
society follow the same patterns?
Read this chapter to find out.

2
CHAPTER

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Theoretical Perspectives on Sexuality

CHAPTER HIGHLIGHTS
Evolutionary Perspectives Critical Theories
Sociobiology Feminist Theory
Evolutionary Psychology Queer Theory

Psychological Theories Sociological Perspectives


Psychoanalytic Theory Symbolic Interaction Theory
Learning Theory Sexual Scripts
Social Exchange Theory Sexual Fields
Cognitive Theory Social Institutions

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O ne of the discoveries of psychoanalysis consists in the assertion that impulses,


which can only be described as sexual in both the narrower and the wider sense,
play a peculiarly large part, never before sufficiently appreciated, in the causation
of nervous and mental disorders. nay, more, that these sexual impulses have con-
tributed invaluably to the highest cultural, artistic, and social achievements of the
human mind.*
From an evolutionary perspective, no single decision is more important than the choice
of a mate. That single fork in the road determines one’s ultimate reproductive fate.†

*
Sigmund Freud. (1924). A General Introduction to Psychoanalysis. New York: Permabooks, 1953. (Boni & Liveright edition,
1924). pp. 26–27.

Buss (2000), p. 10.

Imagine, for a moment, that you are sitting in a bed-


room, watching two people making love. Imagine, too,
Evolutionary Perspectives
that sitting with you in the room, thinking your same
thoughts, are Sigmund Freud (creator of psychoana-
Sociobiology
lytic theory), E. O. Wilson (a leading sociobiologist),
Sociobiology is defined as the application of evolutionary
Albert Bandura (a prominent social learning theorist),
biology to understanding the social behavior of animals,
and John Gagnon (a proponent of script theory). The
including humans (Barash, 1982). Sexual behavior is, of
scene you are imagining may evoke arousal and noth-
course, a form of social behavior, and so the sociobiolo-
ing more in you, but your imaginary companions would
gists try, often through observations of other species, to
have a rich set of additional thoughts as they viewed
understand why certain patterns of sexual behavior have
the scene through the specially colored lenses of their
evolved in humans.
own theoretical perspectives. Freud might be marvel-
In terms of evolution, what counts is producing lots of
ing at how the biological sex drive, the libido, expresses
healthy, viable offspring who will carry on one’s genes.
itself so strongly and directly in this couple. Wilson, the
Evolution occurs via natural selection, the process by
sociobiologist, would be thinking how mating behavior
which the animals that are best adapted to their environ-
in humans is similar to such behavior in other species
ment are more likely to survive, reproduce, and pass on
of animals and how it is clearly the product of evolu-
their genes to the next generation.
tionary selection for behaviors that lead to successful
How do humans choose mates? One major criterion is
reproduction. Bandura might be thinking how sexual
the physical attractiveness of the person (see the chapter
arousal and orgasm act as powerful positive reinforcers
“Attraction, Love, and Communication”). The sociobi-
that will lead the couple to repeat the act frequently and
ologist argues that many of the characteristics we evalu-
how they are imitating a technique of neck nibbling that
ate in judging attractiveness—for example, physique and
they saw in an X-rated film last week. Finally, Gagnon’s
complexion—are indicative of the health and vigor of the
thoughts might be about the social scripting of sexual-
individual. These in turn are prob-
ity; this couple begins with kissing, moves on to petting,
ably related to the person’s repro-
and finishes up with intercourse, following a script writ- Sociobiology: The application of
ductive potential; the unhealthy
ten by society. evolutionary biology to understanding
are less likely to produce many the social behavior of animals,
Some of the major theories in the social sciences have
vigorous offspring. Natural selec- including humans.
had many—and different—things to say about sexuality,
tion would favor individuals pre- Evolution: A theory that all living
and it is these theories that we consider in this chapter.
ferring mates who would have things have acquired their present
Theories provide us with answers to the question “why?” forms through gradual changes
maximum reproductive success.
We often wonder why others do or do not engage in par- in their genetic endowment over
Thus, perhaps our concern with successive generations.
ticular sexual behaviors and relationships. We sometimes
physical attractiveness is a prod- Natural selection: A process in
ask the “why” question about our own sexuality. Creative
uct of evolution and natural selec- nature resulting in greater rates
minds have developed theories to answer such questions.
tion. (See Barash, 1982, for an of survival of those plants and
Given the diversity in human sexuality, we need a range animals that are adapted to their
extended discussion of this point
of theories to understand it. environment.
and the ones that follow.) We

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24 CHAPTER 2 ● THEoRETICAL PERSPECTIvES on SEXuALITy

choose an attractive, healthy mate who will help us pro- Dancing permits the assessment of physical prowess,
duce many offspring. Can you guess why it is that the and so on.
sociobiologist thinks most men are attracted to women Sociobiologists can also explain why the nuclear fam-
with large breasts? ily structure of a man, a woman, and their offspring is
If attractiveness is an indicator of health, it should be found in every society. Once a man and a woman mate,
more important in mate selection in societies where more there are several obstacles to reproductive success, two
people are unhealthy. An online survey obtained ratings being infant vulnerability and maternal death. Infant
of the attractiveness of images of male faces from 4,800 vulnerability is greatly reduced if the mother provides
women ages 21 to 40 from 30 countries. Facial mascu- continuing physical care, including breast-feeding. It is
linity, manipulated by computer, had more impact on further reduced if the father provides resources and secu-
attractiveness ratings in countries with poorer health, as rity from attack for mother and infant. Two mechanisms
measured by mortality, life expectancy, and communi- that facilitate these conditions are a pair-bond between
cable disease (DeBruine et al., 2010). mother and father, and attachment between infant and par-
From this viewpoint, hanging out, playing sports, ent (Miller & Fishkin, 1997). Thus, an offspring’s chances
getting engaged, and similar customs are much like of survival are greatly increased if the parents bond emo-
the courtship rituals of other species (see Figure 1a). tionally, that is, love each other, and if the parents have
For example, many falcons and eagles have a flying a propensity for attachment. Further, an emotional bond
courtship in which objects are exchanged between the might lead to more frequent sexual interaction; the plea-
pair in midair. The sociobiologist views this courtship surable consequences of sex in turn will reinforce the
as an opportunity for each member of the prospective bond. Research with small mammals, including mice and
couple to assess the other’s fitness. For example, any
lack of speed or coordination would be apparent dur-
ing the airborne acrobatics. Evolution would favor
courtship patterns that permitted individuals to choose
mates who would increase their reproductive suc-
cess. Perhaps that is exactly what we are doing in our
human courtship rituals. The expenditure of money by
men on dates indicates their ability to support a family.

(a) (b)

Figure 1 (a) The courtship rituals of great egrets. (b) Dancing is a human dating custom. According to socio-
biologists, human customs of dating and becoming engaged are biologically produced and serve the same
functions as courtship rituals in other species: They allow potential mates to assess each other’s fitness.
(a) © J.H. Robinson/Science Source; (b) © Creatas Images/PictureQuest RF

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Another random document with
no related content on Scribd:
Wishing to use some 2¹⁄₄ by 3¹⁄₄-in. plates in a 6¹⁄₂ by 8¹⁄₂-in.
camera, I made kits that proved satisfactory, as follows, the method
being adaptable also to other sizes: A piece of cardboard the size of
the camera plate was procured. A rectangle, as at A, was cut in the
center, ¹⁄₁₆ in. larger each way than the plate. Paste, over the back of
the cut-out rectangle, a sheet of tough, thin paper, B, and glue two
small pieces of cardboard, as at C. Cut cardboard pieces D, E, F,
and G, proportioned as at H, and glue them into position, G being
over the others, the piece E sliding. If a dry plate is placed in the
rectangle and E is slid toward the plate, it will hold the latter in
position. The plate holder is loaded with the kit, and to prevent
warping, a couple of pins are driven into the plate holder, as at H.
Figures J and K indicate the open and closed positions. The ground
glass is marked to correspond with the rectangle, so that one can tell
where to focus the image.—L. L. Llewellyn, Piedmont, Calif.
Photographic-Print Washing Machine
By HARRY MARCELLE

M any amateur photographers have occasion to make a


considerable number of prints and find the washing of them
tedious, by the ordinary methods. In order to overcome this difficulty
the print-washing machine shown in the sketch was made. It is
simple in construction and performs the work quite satisfactorily at a
saving of not a little time. Since the water in which the prints are
washed must be agitated, a pivoted tray is provided. A unique
feature is the water wheel through which the water supply passes, at
the same time developing power to operate the rocker arm, by
means of which the tray is agitated.
The frame for the large trough, which contains the tray and other
apparatus, is made of 2 by 4-in. uprights, braced with 2 by 2-in.
pieces. The trough is made of ⁷⁄₈-in. stock, joined at the ends with a
water-tight grooved, or dado, joint. The top is fitted to form a cover
and may be hinged or arranged as a lid, supported and held in place
by cleats, fixed on its under side with screws. The trough and its
fittings may be made of a size suited to individual requirements. The
device illustrated is 4 ft. long, and has a trough 18 in. wide and 13 in.
high. The interior of the trough is given a coat of tar to make it
waterproof, and the exterior may be painted thoroughly to preserve
the wood.
The rocking tray, in which the prints are placed, is made of ⁵⁄₈-in.
stock. It is 5 in. high, 15 in. wide, and 28 in. long. Splash boards are
fixed at its ends, as shown, and the bottom is made of muslin,
reinforced with wooden strips, ¹⁄₂ in. wide. The tray is supported on a
rod or pipe at its center, the ends of the support being set into the
sides of the trough. A crank arm of wood or metal is attached to the
center of one end of the tray, and operates through an opening in the
top of the trough. The crank arm engages a crank fixed to the shaft
of the water wheel, as shown in the sketch. The crank must be made
not longer than 2 in., or the resulting action on the tray will pour out
too much water, the prints being thus in danger of damage.

The Spray Forced from the Pipe Gives Power to the Water Wheel, Which in
Turn is Transferred to the Rocker Arm Attached to the Tray

The water wheel is made of two round disks of sheet metal, 9 in. in
diameter. Strips of wood are fitted between them so that the wheel is
3 in. wide on the face. Wooden blocks, grooved to fit the shaft of the
water wheel, are used as bearings. They are fixed to the top with
bolts. The water supply is provided through a pipe at one end. A cap
is fitted over the end of the extension on the pipe and a small hole
drilled through it. This forces the water against the blades of the
water wheel rather than permitting it to drop under normal pressure.
The flow of water is regulated by the valve on the supply pipe, and
the excess water is drained off at the opposite end of the trough. The
force of the water, as it leaves the water wheel, is lessened, and the
water carried gently to the tray, by means of a board set between the
top and the tray, at the wheel end of the trough.
A Washstand for the Baby
To make this washstand, I mounted a cheese box on a frame 20
in. from the floor, and fitted a shelf between the legs 9 in. from the
floor. In the center of this shelf a hole was cut, with a compass saw,
to hold a wash basin. Rods between the legs are handy for towels,
washcloths, etc. Within the circular box are kept baby’s toilet and
bath articles. The inside of the box is padded with cotton and lined
with nainsook, the latter being used, also, for the cover. When the
cover is on the box, the stand is used as a small table. White enamel
gives the stand a neat finish.—F. E. Brimmer, Dalton, New York.
Carrying Strap and Lock for Hand Cases

The illustration shows how to make a locking device for hand


cases or satchels, and providing, also, a strap for carrying. Cut two
pieces of ⁵⁄₈ by 2-in. strap iron, and two pieces, 2¹⁄₂ in. long. Bend
them, and fasten them with screws or rivets, as shown. When the
case is carried, the strap holds the crosspieces firmly.
Disk Talking-Machine Records Played
Eccentrically
A hole was bored about an inch from the center of a disk talking-
machine record and the latter was placed on the machine with the
new hole over the center pin of the table. When the record was
played, the result was a reproduction extremely amusing and hardly
recognizable as compared with the original one.
Safety Flue Stopper Made of Tin Pail

The usual method of covering stovepipe holes in chimneys with a


tin disk is not as safe as it should be, especially adjoining
nonfireproof material. A safer method is to fit a tin can, or a tin pail,
into the chimney hole, as shown. Cut it off the right length, with a pair
of tin shears, leaving projections as stops, and replace the disk
stopper.—J. A. Raught, Janesville, Wisconsin.
Book Rest for Music Stand

The music-stand attachment shown in the illustration aids in the


handling of music books, and is easily made. Some stands are
provided with a supporting edge about 1 in. wide and will not
properly carry larger music books, and the device is attached to this
edge. The device is of wood, ³⁄₁₆ by 3¹⁄₄ in., and the length of the
stand. On the bottom, two wood strips are fastened. They are
beveled as shown in the sectional view, to wedge on the music rest.
—L. R. W. Allison, Newark, N. J.
Uses for Worn Talking-Machine Needles
Among the uses made of discarded steel talking-machine needles
are the following: as glazier’s tacks; as brads, where a headless nail
or an inconspicuous one is desired; as pins for fastening papers
together; and for the tacking in of the backs on picture frames.—
William A. Martin. Jersey City, N. J.
Automatic Photo-Print Washing

A photographers’ automatic print-washing device may readily be


made with the aid of an alarm clock, and a spool to which a piece of
thread is attached as shown. The spool is fixed to the alarm-clock
winder. An upright support, having a nail driven into the top and bent
over to form a hook, carries the thread, to which the print is attached
by a small clip. The alarm-clock mechanism is then set, and when
released draws the print from the dish, the bell warning the operator.
—George H. Holden, Chesterfield, England.
Portable Sectional Poultry Fencing
Sectional poultry fencing has several advantages over stationary
fencing: It can be easily moved, the poultry yard being made larger,
smaller, or shifted; an area may be planted to a crop and gradually
included in the yard, furnishing greens for the poultry. Also, the
tenant who does not care to put down permanent equipment, will find
sectional fencing desirable.
Poultry Fencing Made in Portable Sections Has Several Advantages over a
Stationary Barrier

Sections are practical to about 18 ft. long, and should be 7 ft. high
for the lighter breeds of poultry. If the fencing is to be used for grown
stock only, the fine-mesh wire below may be omitted, and 2-in. mesh
used. Some sections should be fitted with gates, and the top batten
should be set down about 1 ft., so as not to afford footing for the
poultry. The sections are lashed together with wire, and supported by
an occasional post, or guyed to buildings or supports.
Suitcase Holder for Running Board of Automobile

These Homemade Supports Are Adjustable to Suitcases of Varying Widths

Two metal strips, ³⁄₁₆ by 1¹⁄₂ by 20 in., were used to make a strong
and adjustable holder for suitcases carried on the running board of
an automobile. One-inch slots were cut near the top of the strips,
which were bent to form angles having an upright portion 12 in. long.
The angles are adjusted at the bolts, as shown, and the suitcase is
held in place by straps.—Lucien G. Baer, Los Angeles, Calif.
Wheelbarrow for Large Cans

Milk Cans were Handled Easily by Means of This Homemade Cart

Large cans for milk are awkward to handle and transport in the
dairy or barn, and the cart shown in the sketch was made from an
old wheelbarrow and sections of pipe, to make this work easy. The
pipes were bent to the shape shown and strongly braced with iron
rods. A board bottom was provided, and the barrow wheel was
mounted between the forked ends of the frame. The cart may be
used for numerous other purposes, and is especially convenient in
that the load need only be lifted slightly.—Monroe Woolley, San
Francisco, Calif.
Plain Butts Used as Double-Swing Hinge
By placing two ordinary plain butt hinges so that two of their wings
overlap completely, they may be made to serve as a double-swing
hinge. If the holes do not correspond in the adjoining wings, drill new
ones, disposing them to give the best hold in the wood. Allowance
must be made in applying the hinge, for the double thickness of the
center portion.

¶A rubber finger tip is convenient in counting sheets in that the paper


is not soiled, since moistening of the finger is unnecessary.
Portable Skylight for Home Portraiture
By W. W. IRVINE

P hotographers who wish to construct a part of their equipment may


be interested in a portable skylight, which I made and use with
thorough satisfaction, for home portraiture. Covered with imitation
leather, it is quite presentable in carrying it about. Figure 9 shows the
case closed, with stand, flash lamp, box of flash powder, and a
white-cloth reflector inside. The apparatus set up for work is shown
in Fig. 5, and the details of construction in the other sketches.
First make the frames for the top and bottom of the case, A, of ³⁄₈
by 2¹⁄₂-in. wood, and B, of ³⁄₈ by 1¹⁄₄-in. stock, lengths and
construction as shown in Fig. 3. Cut from extra-heavy mount board,
two 21 by 28-in. pieces, C, and tack one to one side of each of the
frames. Cut a similar piece, E, 15 by 26¹⁄₂ in., and hinge it with
strong cloth, or thin leather, to the inner side of the thicker frame, to
form the roof E, Fig. 5. Hinge the two frames with three butt hinges.
The frame is then ready for covering, and for this purpose imitation
leather is economical and practical. Two yards of 36-in. material is
needed. Use hot glue, first on the bottom half of the case, applying it
smoothly, and press the fabric into place. Then cover the sides, the
upper half, and the roof. The covering must be in one piece to
prevent the smoke from escaping at the joints. Glue down the edges
inside of the case, and set it aside for 24 hours to dry.
While waiting for the case to dry, the work on the bag can be done.
Two yards of close-woven white muslin, or one yard of 60-in.
sheeting, is required for the front. For the sides, closely woven black
material should be used. Figures 1 and 2 show the dimensions, the
white portions representing patterns, and the shaded portions
material for hems and seams. The material is folded over the

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