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Emotional
Intelligence
Group 1 12 B
Personality Development
In this lesson we will learn about
the different theories of emotions.
To understand how emotions affect
our behavior, let us look at some
theories in this lesson.
Learning Objectives:
At the end of the lesson, the students will be able
to:
1.Discuss that understanding the intensity and
differentiation of emotions may help in
communicating emotional expressions.
2.Explore one’s positive and negative emotions
and how one expresses or hides them.
3.Demonstrate and create ways to manage various
emotions.
Do you agree that we can be
happier when we are with happy
people and angrier with angry
people?
I FEEL THINGS
stated by Frando & Mores (2014):
physiological changes, observable
behaviors and subjective
experiences.
Physiological
Changes
Our bodies react whenever we experience an intense emotion such as fear or anger.
Physically, one’s breathing changes, the heart beats faster and there is increase in blood
pressure. In addition, a person may urinate more frequently since the kidney and bladder
become more active. The salivary gland is suppressed so one’s mouth may feel dried out.
I FEEL THINGS
SURVIVOR
Survival
• According to Goleman (1995), emotions have
always served as our internal guidance system.
Through the million years of evolution, nature
has developed our emotions. They alert us
when natural human need is not being met.
For example, when we feel sad, our need for
connection with other people is not met. When
we feel rejected, it is our need for acceptance
which needs to be meet. Our interaction with
other people to meet this natural human needs
can definitely help us survive.
Decision Making
• Our emotions help us make decisions
because they are a valuable source of
information. There are studies that
show that when a person’s emotional
connections are disconnected in the
brain, he/she will be incapable of
THINK
making simple decisions for the simple
reasons that he/she is unaware of how
he/she will fell about his/her choices.
Boundary Setting
WALLS
• There are times when we feel
uncomfortable with a person’s behavior.
During this instance, our emotions alert
us well. If we learn to trust our emotions SET
and feel confident about expressing
ourselves, we can actually let other
BOUNDARIES
people know about the awkward feeling
that we have as soon as we are aware of
our feelings. This way, we are able to set
our borders necessary to protect our
physical and mental health.
Communicati
on
• Our emotions help us
communicate with others. Our
facial expressions convey a wide
range of emotions to other
people around us. If we look sad
or hurt, we are sending others an
indicator that we are in need of
their help. This way, we are
TALK
better understood and cared
about by other people.
Unity
SOLIDIFY
• People around the globe have different
beliefs ( religious, cultural or political)
but emotions are perhaps the greatest
potential source of uniting all members
of the human race. Since emotions are
universal, people become unified. The
emotions of empathy, compassion,
cooperation, and forgiveness all have
the potential to unite us.
• “Believes divide us. Emotions unite us.”