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Are You A Victim ?

By: Taylin Tyler


Have you been a victim of sexual
abuse ?
● If you are or were a victim of sexual abuse it
is important to know that you are not alone.
● Being a victim of sexual abuse is something
that no one would want to experience.
● If you are or were a victim I know that you are
hurting inside and I know that you may be
scared
● Just know that it is going to be okay and
someone is here to for you to talk to.
Did you know ?
● Did you know that it is more common for victims of sexual abuse to not come out to
anyone about being abuse for approximately 5 years.
● Did you know that there are a lot of support groups, hotlines and people around you
to help you get through your situation
● Victim Blaming is NOT okay because this is NOT your fault. You were the victim .
The facts !
● Approximately 93% of victims of sexual
abuse either know their offender or has some
kind of relationship with the offender (ex.
Family member, friend)
● Yes, you will experience traumatic situations
in your life because you went through such a
traumatizing thing.
● It is okay to not be okay. People who were not
victims of sexual abuse has no idea how you
feel or what you are going through.
What to do ?
● When you finally decide to come out and tell
someone about your abuse here is what you
do:
○ Sit them down and have a face to face talk
○ Take a breath because this will not be easy
○ It is okay to show emotion, so you can cry if
you need too
○ Tell them whatever it is you want them to
know.
○ Do not feel like you are being forced
○ Be comfortable
Are you the
Supporter ?
FOr the parents, loved ones or
friends
● If you are a parent, loved one, or friend of the victim it is important that they know
you support them and have the best interest at heart. You should never use words or
slurs that can remind them of their traumatic experience. You need to be
understanding and tell them that it is okay to feel that way. You can’t put yourself in
their shoes because they do not need that, they need to know that you are there for
them no matter what.
Do’s and Don’t
Do’s Don’ts

● Do be supportive ● Don’t rush the victim to talk


● Do be patient ● Don’t talk right away
● Do be present ○ Let everything they just told you process first
○ Listening ● Don’t force anything more than what they are
○ Engaging telling you
● Do be encouraging ● Don’t be a jerk
● Do use reassuring words ● Don’t give them advice on how they should
○ I am here for you have avoided the situation
○ I love you
● Don’t tell them they should have spoken up
○ You are not in this alone
sooner
● Do avoid judgement
● Do check in periodically
We support
you

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