Module 

Self and Filipino Society

  
 OVERVIEW
Self and Filipino Society is an effective strategy intended to arrive at a
better understanding of one’s self and to identify the characteristic that
makes a Filipino vary from different society.
This module develops the character of the students to become more mindful
to the quality of values and attitudes needed to produce moral and ethical
professionals.
The suggested activities in this module of work can be adapted and
resources sourced to support student needs and the local context.
 Course
Describe and Understand
Outline
          Lesson 3: Leadership 
a. Difference between a Leader and Leadership
b. How to be a Good Leader
c. Qualities of a Good Leader
d. The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People

  Lesson 4: Nationalism and Patriotism

                                    10 Modern Ways to Express Filipino Nationalism
e. Nationalism Vs Patriotism
f. What’s the Difference?
Discussion of the Topics
Lesson 1: Self Awareness

 Definition of Self- Awareness

 Nature of Self – Who am I
 How to become more Self-aware
 When we talk about the human person it is
obviously everything that pertains to man whether
it is physical, spiritual, emotional, and intellectual
attributes.
Nature of There are several definitions of a human person
Self- based on different perspectives:
• Aristotle and Boethius described man as a rational being. As
Who Am rational being, a person is able to know, reason-out and apply
what he knows.
• Theologians describe a human person as a substance of physical
I? and spiritual. Spiritual in nature because man has a soul and is
created by a Superior Being with a divine purpose. Physical in
nature because a person is created with body and faculty that
correspond to his relationship with society.
• Dictionaries define a human person as a living, self-conscious
animal, or a thing.
 • Self-awareness includes recognition of one’s
personality, one’s strengths and weaknesses,
one’s likes and dislikes. Developing self-
awareness can help one to recognize when
Definition he/she stressed or under pressure. It is also
often a prerequisite for effective
of Self communication and interpersonal relations,
Awareness as well as for developing empathy for
others.
 The first step in changing the way you create your
life is self-awareness because you cannot expect to
change, what you are not aware of.

How to Self-awareness provides the clarity to choose

whether you express emotions of love or express
become emotions out of reactions of fear.
Self-awareness provides the possibility to catch
more you in that moment prior to saying something
destructive or even thinking a negative thought.
Self- Self-awareness is the means to identify your
unconscious patterns and raise them to your
aware consciousness so they can be changed.
It is through self-awareness that you identify and
change the underlying core beliefs that drive
destructive behaviors to create happiness.
 Post-TEST
Activity #2: Self Reflection (assignment)
-The class will write their strengths and weaknesses, likes and dislikes that will be
submitted through a soft copy written in Microsoft word.
(Minimum of 100 words with a font of times new roman and font size should be 12 in
a legal-size layout with margin of normal)
Lesson 2: Values Development
 Meaning of Value
 Three-Dimensional Process of Valuing
 Filipino Values and Characteristics
 Other Strengths of the Filipino Character
 Other Weaknesses of the Filipino Character
 Values Development
• The word “values” comes from the Latin word
“valere” meaning “to measure the worth of
something”. Also, values are the elements of
life prevailing in any society and they lie at the
core of man’s life.
 Personal values come in two
Personal varieties:
Values = are • Terminal Values = are the desired end
states that a person strongly wants to
our achieve like a comfortable lifestyle,
convictions and everyone has different set of
regarding terminal values in one’s values
what we complex.
• Instrumental Values= are convictions
believe are about a person’s desired characteristics
important or ways of behaving such as being
and desirable polite and values influence one’s
choices, but one’s choices also
influence other’s values over time.
 Behavior There are three (3) level of values maturity:
displayed
by 1. Self-centered – values are based on
individuals personal needs.
is a
2. Conformity Level – moral reasoning is
product of based on conforming to and upholding the
their level conventions and expectations of society.
of values 3. Principled Level – right and wrong are
maturity. judged on the basis internalized principles.
 Three (3) Dimensional Process of
Valuing

Second Dimension: Man

Third Dimension: One
First Dimension: Man must identify those whom
must recognize those who
needs to see himself as one respects, characteristics
have respect for others, and
someone important and of other people one respects,
the methods by which
someone unique. and the reasons why he
respect has been shown.
respects them.
 • The characteristic that makes a Filipino vary
from different society is his uniquely blended
culture and values from different influences.
Filipino values, for reason of several
influences that shaped its identity, are bipolar
like a coin that has two sides. They may either
Filipino Values be positive or negative in polarity. Let us take
and for example the value of utang na loob, or
debt of gratitude. The value of utang na loob,
Characteristics
the altruistic drawing of interior goodness of a
person by returning a debt of gratitude, is by
itself positive. However, when one is coerced
to honor a debt of gratitude and return the
favor, then it becomes negative.
• Due to this ambivalence of Filipino values, they have the potential
of being used for good or evil. They may either help or hinder
personal and national development, depending on how they are
understood or practiced or lived.
• To shape the Filipino society into a successful and progressive
nation, there is a need to reevaluate the different values that
influence every Filipino individual’s action to a set of
circumstances. We need to identify the positive side of every
Filipino value and develop them to yield a more successful and
developed society.
Let us then try to Utang na Loob
discuss some of • There is no specific translation that can approximate the meaning
of this Filipino value of utang na loob. Debt of gratitude is a lean
the values in the excuse of a translation because it does not even approximate the
fertile concept of the Filipino loob. Utang na loob is a situation
Filipino society where an individual is required to return a favor or service
received. However, the return of such service or favor cannot be
and re-evaluate translated into monetary equivalent and may reciprocated in a
month of service or even a lifetime.

them to develop Bahala na

• Bahala na Filipinos, by nature, are a religious group of people.
a more positive They firmly believe in the supernatural and in all kinds of spirit
dwelling in individual persons, places, or things. They believe in a
value for the Supreme Being who will take care of things for them. The Filipino
is very religious who has a saint to pray to each day of the week.
Filipino • The term bahala na comes from the words Bathala na. It reflects
the Filipino‟s dependence on the supernatural being and on fate.
individual. This tends to move toward the commonly conceived
procrastination character of the Filipino.
Inspirational video explaining what are values:
Lesson 3: Leadership
 Difference between a Leader and Leadership
 How to be a Good Leader
 Qualities of a Good Leader
 The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People
 • A Leader is:
Difference
-Someone who acts as a guide, a directing
between a head and someone who leads a body of troops.
Leader • Leadership is:
-The position of a leader, the quality
and displayed by a leader and the act of leading.
Leadership
 How to become a Good Leader
• Good leaders are made, not born because if you have the desire and
willpower you can become a good leader. Good leaders develop through a
never-ending process of self-study, education, training, and experience
(Jago,1982).
• From a follower’s perspective, good leadership can be attributed on
several qualities that a person must have. These qualities make people
comply and passionately follow a leader.
 1. Character = The quality of a person’s behavior, as revealed
in his habits of thoughts and expressions, his attitudes and
interests, his action, and his personal philosophy in life.
What people must know about character?
- Character is more than talk; Talent is a gift, but
character is a choice.
-Character brings lasting success with people.
Qualities - Leaders cannot rise above the limitations of their
character.
of a Good 2. Charisma = “The first impression can seal the deal.”. An
extraordinary power in a person, group, cause, etc. which
Leader takes hold of popular imagination, wins popular support.
To make yourself the kind of person who attracts others, you
need to personify these pointers:
-Love Life
-Put a “10” on every person’s head
-Give people hope
-Share yourself.
3. Commitment = “It separates “doers” from “dreamers”. The act of committing, the state of
intellectual and emotional adherence to some political, social, religious theory or action
especially the conscious linking of works of literature and art with such theory of action.
True nature of commitment: -Commitment starts in the heart
-Commitment is tested by action
-Commitment opens the door to achievement
4. Communication = “Without it you travel alone.” The act of communicating, something
communicated and a means of sending a message, orders, etc.
You can be more effective as a communicator if you follow four basic truths:
-Simplify your message
-See the person
-Show the truth
-Seek a response
5. Competence = “If you built it, they would come”. To cultivate competence, do the following:
-Show up everyday
-Keep improving
-Follow through with excellence
-Accomplish more than expected
-Inspire others
6. Courage = “One person with courage is majority”. The quality of the mind that enables the person to
face difficulty, danger, etc. without fear.
Truths about courage:
-Courage begins with an inward battle
-Courage is making things right, not just smoothing them over
-Courage in a leader inspires commitment from followers
-Your life expands in proportion to your courage
7. Discernment = “Put an end to solve mystery”. To perceive by the sight or the intellect and
to distinguish mentally.
To maximize effectiveness of a leader, do the following:
- Discover the root issues
-Enhance your problem solving
- Evaluate your options for maximum impact
-Multiply your opportunities
8. Focus = “The sharper it is, the sharper you are”. A central point of attraction, attention, or
activity.
Guidelines to focus your time and energy:
- 70% on strength
-25% on new things
-5% on areas of weakness
9. Generosity = “Giving freely”
The following will cultivate the quality of generosity in your life:
-Be grateful for whatever you have
-Put people first
-Don’t allow the desire for possessions to control you
-Regard money as a resource
-Develop the habit of giving
10. Initiative = “You won’t leave home without it”
An introductory act or step, readiness, and the ability in initiating action, one personal, responsible decision.
A leader possesses the following qualities to make things happen:
-They know what they want
-They push themselves to act
-They take more risks
-They make more mistakes
11. Listening = “To connect with their hearts, use your ears.”. To give attention for the purpose of hearing
Keep your ears open to the following:
-Your mentors
-Your followers
-Your customers
-Your competitors
12. Passion = “Take this life and love it”. Any compelling emotion, strong amorous feeling, strong sexual desire,
strong fondness, or enthusiasm.
Truths about passion:
-Passion is the first step to achievement
-Passion increases your willpower
-Passion changes you
-Passion makes the impossible possible.
13. Positive Attitude = “If you believe you can, you can”
To be more positive, think of the following:
-Your attitude is a choice
-Your attitude determines your actions
-Your people are a mirror of your attitude
-Maintaining a good attitude is easier than regaining one
14. Problem Solving = “You can’t let you problems be a problem”
Five (5) qualities demonstrated by a leader with good problem-solving ability:
-They anticipate problems
-They accept the truth
-They see the big picture
-They handle one thing at a time
-They don’t give up a major goal when they’re down
15. Relationships = “If you get along, they’ll go along”. The state or fact of being related
To cultivate good relationships, it requires the following:
-Have a leader’s head – understand people
-Have a leader’s heart – love people
-Extend a leader’s hand – help people
16. Responsibility = “If you won’t carry the ball, you can’t lead the team”. The state or fact of being responsible, a person or thing for which one is responsible Involves duties or
obligations and accountable, as for something within one’s power.
The one who embraces responsibility has the following characteristics:
-They get the job done
-They are willing to go the extra mile
-They are driven by excellence
-They produce regardless of the situation
15. Relationships = “If you get along, they’ll go along”. The state or fact of being related
To cultivate good relationships, it requires the following: 
-Have a leader’s head – understand people
-Have a leader’s heart – love people
-Extend a leader’s hand – help people
16. Responsibility = “If you won’t carry the ball, you can’t lead the team”. The state or fact of being responsible, a person or thing for which one is responsible Involves duties or
obligations and accountable, as for something within one’s power.
The one who embraces responsibility has the following characteristics: 
-They get the job done
-They are willing to go the extra mile
-They are driven by excellence
-They produce regardless of the situation
17. Self-Discipline = “The first person you lead is you”
Action points to follow:
-Develop and follow your priorities
-Make a disciplined lifestyle your goal
-Challenge your excuses
-Remove rewards until the job is done
-Stay focused on results
18. Servanthood = “To get ahead, put others first”
A true servant leader embodies the following:
-Puts others ahead of his own agenda
-Possesses the confidence to serve
-Initiates service to others
-Is not position-conscious; Serves out of love
19. Teachability = “To keep leading, keep learning”
Guidelines to help cultivate and maintain teachable attitude:
-Cure your destination disease
-Overcome your success
-Swear off shortcuts
-Trade in your pride
-Never pay the same price for the same mistake
20. Vision = “You can seize only what you can see”. The act of power of seeing and a vivid imaginative
conception.
Things to be understood to handle vision:
-Vision starts within
-Vision draws in your history
-Vision meets other‟s needs
-Vision helps you gather resources
 Post-TEST
Activity #3: Rating scale
--Below is a list of statements about leadership behavior. Read each one carefully, then, using
the following scale, decide the extent to which it applies to you. For best results, answer as
truthfully as possible. (Highest Score is 50)
 
Never (0) Sometimes (2 or 3 or 4) Always (5)
-10 questions
Lesson 4: Nationalism and Patriotism
 10 Modern Ways to Express Filipino Nationalism
 Nationalism Vs Patriotism
 What’s the Difference?
• The words nationalism and patriotism are often used interchangeably, meaning one for the other.
There is, however, a wide distinction between nationalism and patriotism as political concepts. Let
us consider the following.
• Nationalism, etymologically, means love, care for, preservation and patronage of one’s native land
and everything in it—the country of birth of a national, whether it be Filipino or otherwise. To be
a Filipino nationalist, therefore, the ethnological ramifications of nationalism must all be present
in one’s being. This implies a heartfelt dedication for the love, care, and preservation of the
Philippines and everything that is identified with it: the Philippine territory, the inhabitants,
Philippine sovereignty, its government, all things that represent and symbolize the country; the
aspirations, hopes, dreams and needs of the Filipino people.
• On the other hand, patriotism is taken from the Latin term pater, which literally means “father”.
Patriotism is the willingness and determination to lay down one’s life for the fatherland—the
constant resolve to sacrifice one’s life and limb for the preservation of the State. It is the total
realization of that love for the country, which is nationalism. In other words, to be patriotic is to be
nationalistic. Conversely, one cannot be patriotic without being nationalistic.
• In the Philippines, today, we are lacking in patriots largely due to the diffusion of
Filipino values, culture, influence of conquistadores, and the confluence of historical
bad governance. The Philippine State is in dire need of statesmen who truly
understand the basics of politics—politics being defined as the systematic study of
the state—the state being defined as having four basic elements: territory (the
Philippine archipelago, its waters, subterranean shelves, etc.), people (the Filipino
people who are nationalistic and patriotic), sovereignty (freedom from foreign
dictates), and government (a body politic composed of delegates who are considered
to be representatives of the people to stand and fight for Filipino interests, dreams,
aspirations, and hopes).
• For as long as our political leaders blind us of these things, for as long as the Filipino
people refuse to learn, for as long as we remain mediocre, for as long we could not
change our self inwardly, for as long as we refuse to change, nationalism and
patriotism will only be words in the dictionary.
 10 MODERN WAYS TO EXPRESS
FILIPINO NATIONALISM
• Nationalism is a devotion of love for one’s country. A country’s
identity is seen through its culture, traditions, religions, beliefs,
and even the unity or togetherness of the people in it. The
history of the Philippines reflects the kind of nationalism the
Filipinos have. Their heroes stood and fought to preserve the
Filipino identity and attain freedom and independence.
 The following are 10 modern ways to
express Filipino nationalism:
1. Respect the Philippine flag and value the Filipino identity
• Being Filipinos, we should respect our Philippine flag and its purpose. The history and
value of this flag are connected to the freedom we have today. Encourage our
fellowmen to participate and respect our flag and its anthem and even our different
symbols. They provide us our identity as Flipinos or citizens of the beautiful Republic
of the Philippines.
2. Be a productive citizen
• Be industrious and make ourselves productive, not only for ourselves but for our
country as well. Serve the people, serve our nation.
3. Be aware of the issues in our country
• We must be aware and updated on the significant issues happening in the country. Extend
help to the needy fellowmen, especially the victims of disasters like typhoons, flooding, and
the like.
4. Stand proud for every Filipinos achievement
• Filipinos is globally competitive in many aspects. They are proud to be a Filipino and for the
honors they bring to our country. They unite every Filipino for their achievements. We can
be proud of Filipinos like Manny Pacquiao, the Azkals Football Team, the Gilas Pilipinas
Basketball Team, and many more.
5. Patronize and support our own products
• The Philippines has rich resources to create quality goods and products. The manpower
services we provide are also globally competitive. Our economy will improve more if we
ourselves patronize our own products which characterize our creativity, resourcefulness, and
industry.
6. Preserve the Filipino culture
• Philippinesis rich in various colorful cultural elements. They are our identity. Be proud
and preserve the culture we have for they are our treasure. We have to keep them for
the future generation.
7. Respect everyone and value our traditions
• Filipinos are very courteous and respectful. Even in modern times, many Filipinos
show and value their noble norms and traditions. So we Filipinos must continue to
exercise these good traditions like respecting our elders and others, by using “po at
opo”, being hospitable, and being religious.
8. Speak out our own language
• Using our own language is manifesting and preserving our national identity. It is our
unique means of communicating and interacting with our fellowmen. Our language is
an important tool to achieve further unity and national development.
 9. Remember and commemorate our heroes’ sacrifices for our country.
• There were many Filipinos who died for our democracy, freedom, and
independence. Some fought using their pens and tongues, while some used
the power of their arms and weapons. Each had their own way of showing
their love and respect to our country. In today’s generation, let us value and
treasured our heroes sacrifices and devotion for our country. (google.com)

10. Love our family, our neighbors, and our compatriots

• Love and help one another. That way, we are showing the world that we are
proud to be Filipinos. Stand united! Do something to help each other and for
the greater good for mother country. Love everyone and love our country as
we love ourselves. (google.com)
• There are many ways to show our love for our country. In
our generation, there are things that test our nationalism.
What is important though is that we stand united as Filipino
people and we love Philippines as our mother country. Let us
manifest the essence of nationalism in every aspect of our
life.
 NATIONALISM VS PATRIOTISM

• Now that our world is becoming more and more

interconnected, some people believe that it is important
to support one’s own country. Both “nationalism” and
“patriotism” can be used to describe a pride for one’s
country.
 What’s the difference?
• The main difference between these two terms is the degree to which people feel them, and whether they
are beneficial feelings or not.
Patriotism
• Noun: The root of the word patriotism is patriot, or a person who is loyal to their country. In general, this is
a very positive feeling. Patriotism is support for one’s country because you feel pride in it, and a belief in
the values of that country.
• Example:
• • People who volunteer to serve in the military feel a sense of patriotism to their country.
• • Patriotism is needed in a country after war to help revive the country’s economy and society.
 • Noun: For nationalism, the meaning is quite different. Instead of just a
positive feeling of pride in your country, nationalism is a feeling of
superiority.
• You will think that your country is better than other countries, to the
point that you reject other countries – their people, products, culture,
language, etc. – simply because they are from other countries. Even if
things from your own country are inferior, you defend them
unconditionally because you believe you country is better.
Example
• • Recently, there have been a lot of cries for more nationalism in
the government.

Nationalism • • I originally thought that the driving force behind that

organization was patriotism, but after they started taking more extreme
measures and stances, I realized it had turned into nationalism.
• While a pride in your own country is certainly encouraged, an
excessive pride or outright rejection of other cultures is not!
Nationalism can lead a country to become closed off and inhibit its
growth and cooperation with other nations. In the globalized world of
today, cooperation is certainly preferable to conflict.
 LEARNING OBJECTIVES
At the end of the course, the student will be able to:
- Fully understand the definition of a person.
Self-Awareness
-Assess one’s strength and weaknesses as pathway to self-mastery.
-Recognize oneself to be a better person.
-Improve oneself to fulfill one’s life goals.
Values Development and Filipino Values
-Be aware of the desirable values to make oneself worthy.
-Infuse positive values to develop a Christian-inspired living.
-Identify community services driven by good citizenship values.
Leadership
-Discover why dynamic leaders are made, not born.
-Practice the effective habits of a good leader.
-Be a servant leader in a community service.
References:
 Books
 Websites