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DYNAMICS and
STRUCTURES
CCTAO Formation of
Formators
3 things that you have discovered or
rediscovered about yourself
2 dominant feelings that you
have
There is a sense of
joy in someone
who has the
experience of being
IDENTITY INTIMACY
Fr. A. Cencini defines
IDENTITY as “the sense of
interior unity and
continuity lasting in time
and in various
circumstances, together
with an ability to
maintain solidarity
with a realistic system
of values...”
That concept points to us the two
components of identity: the actual and the
ideal self which come to develop due to
two basic factors: the genetics and
environment factors.
Important to note: family
(environment) plays a very significant
role in the forming of the identity of the
person.
INTIMACY
• Intimacy comes from the Latin word
“intimus” which means “what is
most within ourselves.”
– the willingness to share our
inner life and self with
others. In fact, self-
disclosure is the heart of
intimacy.
The family is the matrix of
identity of the individual.
The family molds and
programs the child’s
behavior and sense of
identity in the early process
of socialization.
The traditional way of defining
what a family is:
“the basic unit of society; it
provides for the union of man
and woman so that they may
create children and assure them
nurture and strength.” (Ackerman,
Treating the Troubled Family....)
Family is a socially
recognized group (usually
joined by blood, marriage,
cohabitation, or adoption) that
forms an emotional connection
among its members and that
serves as an economic unit of
society.
TYPES OF FAMILIES:
1. Nuclear family: A family consisting of a married man
& woman and their biological children.
2. Extended family: A family where grandparents or
aunts and uncles play major roles in the children’s
upbringing. This may or may not include those relatives
living with the children. These family members may be
in addition to the child’s parents or instead of the child’s
parents.
3. Blended family: A family that consists of members
from two (or more) previous families.
4. Conditionally separated families: A family member is separated
from the rest of the family. This may be due to employment far
away; military service; incarceration; hospitalization. They remain
significant members of the family.
5. Single parent family: This can be either a father or a mother who
is singly responsible for the raising of a child. The child can be by
birth or adoption. They may be a single parent by choice or by life
circumstances. The other parent may have been part of the family
at one time or not at all.
6. Gay or Lesbian family: A family where one or both of the
parents’ sexual orientation is gay or lesbian. This may be a two-
parent family, an adoptive family, a single parent family or an
extended family.
Salvador Minuchin was
one of the leading experts
in the field of family
therapy and one of the
creators of structural
family therapy, a type
focused on family
dynamics and how the
individuals in a family
make up that whole .
Minuchin felt that the
root of many childhood
problems was not within
the child but the family
unit. Therefore, to
change the child's
behavior, he believed the
therapist must offer
support to change the
family dynamics.
When therapists use
How Structural
structural family therapy
Family Therapy
Works? with patients, they pinpoint
the family hierarchy. They
may look to find out the
family rules, who has the
power, and what structures
exist, if any.
Are we familiar with
emotional patterns of
our family?
Understand the
emotional patterns and
degree of power in our
family…
LIFE-SPACE
DIAGRAM
Degree of emotional
connected/distance
Degree of
power/authority
How to do it?
Female Male
member member
Sample pattern
Questions:
I. Emotional Center
Who is the emotional center of your family?
* Where do most of the boxes connect with?
* Where do they run for appreciation? For
emotional support?
* Who can affect the others most in times of
sadness? Irritability? Anxiety? Happy times?
Questions:
II. Power Center
•Where do decisions
revolve?
•Where do rules, beliefs,
values emanate?
Some more questions…
1. Who is the biggest box? 4. What LSD would you
rather have?
2. Who is/are affected by this? 5. What needs to happen
How? in order to realize your
desired LSD?
3. What change is impeded by this
structure or what change can 6. Who can initiate
occur because of this powerful this?
person?
SHARING (break-out groups)
1. What are your discoveries and re-
discoveries about your family dynamics
and relationships?
2. What feelings were evoked in you as
you look deeper on your dynamics as a
family based on the questions you have
answered?
3. Are there discoveries/rediscoveries
about yourself which affect your
relationship with others?
FAMILY is considered as a SYSTEM.
What does it mean?
A system is a set of interacting or
interdependent components forming an
integrated whole.
Thus, as members of a family system every
one is interconnected emotionally.
When one person makes some basic
changes, the whole system does.
Therefore, people cannot
be understood in isolation
and detached from each
other.
Each part of the system affects each other.
Ex. An alcoholic member of the system.
The alcoholic’s unpredictability and
violence disturb and distort much of the
family’s interaction.
Every member of the family must adapt to
this behavior. Some will absorb the anger,
others deny the effects of the alcoholic’s
behaviour. Still others avoid him or
pretend not to be part of that system.
Every family as a system has its own way of
coping with the challenges of living together.
Sample pattern
There are rules, spoken and unspoken,
which govern how the family reacts to
different situations. How do decisions get
made in the family?
Among the members they know who
feeds and nourishes, who is the
authority, who sets the limits, who is
different from the other..... Who does
certain things...
II. SUB-SYSTEMS:
◦The family as a system differentiates and
carries out its functions through sub-systems.
It can be formed by generation, by sex, by
interest or by function.
◦Each individual belongs to different sub-
systems, in which she/he has different levels
of power and where she/he learns
differentiated skills.
The sub-systems:
1. The Spousal sub-system
2. The Parental sub-system
3. The sibling sub-system
The SPOUSAL or MARITAL
SUBSYSTEM:
◦It refers to behavioral patterns ideally
characterized by each partner
supporting the other. This relationship
with married individuals preferably
manifest cooperation, open
communication and effective conflict
resolution.
The spousal sub-system:
◦It has specific tasks or
functions vital to the family’s
functioning.
◦The main skills required for the
implementation of its tasks
are complementarity and
mutual accommodation.
◦When this sub-system
lacks complementarity
and mutual
accommodation there is
power struggle....a
struggle that will
certainly affect the
whole system.
B. PARENTAL SUBSYSTEM
* It is formed with the birth of
the first child .
* Considered to be the
condition in which organized
communication and role
patterns are maintained
between children and the
parents.
◦ The spousal sub-system now
differentiates to perform the tasks of
socializing the child without losing the
mutual support that characterize the
spouse sub-system.
◦*The role of the parental sub-system
modifies as the child grows. A very
challenging tasks for many.
◦These tendencies are very significant
to the formation of the individual self.
C. The SIBLING SUBSYSTEM
The sibling sub-system
◦It is the first social laboratory in which children
can experiment with peer relationships.
◦In the sibling world, children learn how to
negotiate, cooperate and compete.
◦They learn how to make friends and allies.
◦They learn the basics of entering into
relationships.
C. The sibling sub-system
The sibling sub-system
◦Is of central importance and a possible
protective factor for children.
◦Nevertheless, it remains surprisingly
understudied and lacks any theoretical
framework.
FAMILY ROLES
WHAT ARE FAMILY ROLES?
• These are patterns of interaction which
become ingrained habits that sometimes
make change difficult.