PERSONAL

RELATIONSHIP
 OBJECTIVES:
1.) Discuss an understanding of teenage
relationships, including the acceptable and
unacceptable expressions of attractions;
2.) express his or her ways of showing attraction,
love, and commitment;
3.) identify ways to become responsible in a
relationship; and
4.) appraise one’s relationships and make plans
for building responsible future relationship.
 WHAT IS PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP?

it is the kind of relationship

between people through shared
understanding, mutual trust and
social bonding.
 kinds of personal relationship
• privacy and intimacy
• impersonal relationship
• attraction
 7 THINGS THAT ARE ACCEPTABLE IN ANY
RELATIONSHIP:

1) respect
2) Trust
3) honesty
4) support
5) fairness/equality
6) separate identities
7) good communication
 10 THINGS THAT ARE UNACCEPTABLE IN
ANY RELATIONSHIP:
1) cheating
2) putting you down
3) not supporting your dreams
4) controlling
5) lack of communication
6) unnecessary sacrifices
7) unreliability
8) forgetting the memorable day
9) self-destruction
10) not caring about friends and family
 ATTRACTION
1) physical attractiveness
2) proximity
3) similarity
4) reciprocity
 TRIANGULAR
THEORIES OF LOVE
 WAYS TO BECOME RESPONSIBLE IN A
RELATIONSHIP
1) ESTABLISH COMMUNICATION
2) HONOR COMMITMENTS WITH EACH OTHER
3) BE HONEST
4) BE MINDFUL OF YOUR WORDS
5) TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY OF YOUR
ACTIONS
6) CORRECT EACH OTHER WHEN NEEDED
7) APOLOGIZE WHEN YOU HAVE MADE A
MISTAKE
8) DO NOT BE A DISTRACTION TO EACH
 THEORIES OF LOVE
1) philia
2) PRAGMA
3) STORGE
4) EROS
5) LUDUS
6) MANIA
7) PHILAUTIA
8) AGAPE
 WAYS IN APPRAISING
ONE’S RELATIONSHIP
1) SHARED VALUES AND RESPECT
2) PRIORITIES THE RELATIONSHIP
3) EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION
4) EMPATHY
5) COMPASSIONATE UNDERSTANDING
6) APPRECIATION
7) JOY AND PASSION
 WAYS IN MAKING PLANS FOR
BUILDING RESPONSIBLE FUTURE
RELATIONSHIP
1) BECOME A GREAT LISTENER
2) ASK THE RIGHT QUESTION
3) PAY ATTENTION TO THE WHOLE PERSON
4) REMEMBER THINGS THAT ARE
IMPORTANT TO OTHERS
5) BE CONSISTENT AND MANAGE
EMOTIONS
6) BE OPEN AND SHARE WHEN THE TIME
IS RIGHT
THANK YOU
FOR
LISTENING !
have a great day!