Quarter 2

Personal Development
 Learning Competencies

Discuss an understanding of teen-age

relationships, including the acceptable
and unacceptable expressions of
attractions
 Lesson 1
Understanding Personal Relationships
Processing Questions:

1.What do the picture want to

convey?

2. Have you experienced this kind

of scenario before? How did you
deal with it?
Processing Questions:

1. What does the writer want to

tell about the line “ Love is
the greatest of all”?

2. How would you express

affection to your loved ones?
 “Affection is one of human being’s greatest
emotions”.
 can be conveyed in an intimate partnership with a compatible
partner.
What is personal relationship?
PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP – is a form of relationship
closely linked to a person and which can only be important to
that person.

Kinds of Personal Relationship

1. Privacy & Intimacy- are two attributes describing personal
relationships and level of commitment to another person/s
2. Impersonal Relationship – commitment to an organization
like a business entity, a principle or purpose.

3. Attraction - it is a force that unites people and can grow into

an attachment which eventually leads to commitment.
Understanding the Acceptable and
Unacceptable Means of Expressing
Attractions Toward the Opposite
Sex
 Filipino culture is bound to believe that a decent display of
someone’s feeling is also a must to be accepted by society. It is a
major disappointment that anyone who fails to follow this
standard will be classified as poorly educated by society or the
community, or how one’s parents failed at parenting.
Because of the Filipino’s culture of decency, the Republic
of the Philippines seriously believed that the issues of people’s
means of expressing attractions to the opposite sex or gender
can be legally addressed.
 The Republic Act (RA) 11313, also known as the Safe Space
Act, intentionally prohibits indecent and unlawful acts of
expressions.

What makes a Healthy and Acceptable Expression of Attractions?

Factors that lead to growth and maintenance of healthy and acceptable relationship:
1. Mutual Respect. Respect in a partnership means that each
partner trusts and respects the weaknesses of each other and will
never question them.
Factors that lead to growth and maintenance of healthy and acceptable relationship:
2. Trust
3. Honesty
4. Support
5. Fairness/ Equality. You need to have a give and take in your
relationship.
6. Separate identities.
7. Good communication
 10 Things that are Unacceptable in any Relationship
1. Cheating
2. Putting you down
3. Not supporting your dreams
4. Controlling
5. Lack of communication
 10 Things that are Unacceptable in any Relationship
6. Unnecessary sacrifices
7. Unreliability
8. Forgetting the memorable day
9. Self- destruction
10. Not caring about friends and family
Answer the table below…
Situation Reasons Effect Reaction Advice
1. Cheating
2. Controlling
3. Unreliability
4. Lack of
Communication
Skills
 Learning Competencies

Express his/ her ways of showing

attraction, love, and commitment
 Lesson 2
Personal Development: Personal Relationship
“Making time for one another is vital to
keep the relationship healthy and the
process of give and take are great ways to
sustain a relationship”. (Miller, 2008)
Below are different expressions of yours toward other people. Now, think of a
particular person that comes first to your mind when you feel such expression.
Attraction
the Merriam-Webster dictionary, defined attraction as the action
or power of evoking interest, pleasure, or liking for someone or
something; and a quality or feature that evokes interest, liking or desire.

Key Components of Attraction

1. Physical Attractiveness
2. Similarity
3. Proximity – pertains to physical distance
4. Reciprocity -
Love
(a) a strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties;
(b) attraction based on sexual desire; affection and tenderness felt by
lovers;
(c) affection based on admiration, benevolence, or common interests.
2. An assurance of affection
Commitment
 “refers to the feelings and action that keep partners
working together to maintain the relationship.”
Commitment is a choice.
Tips on how to keep a healthy relationships
1. Stay Happy
2. Be emphatic
3. Keep Open Communication
4. Always Trust
5. Show respect
6. Be a helping hand
Answer the following questions:
1. What type of love are you experiencing right
now? Why did you say so?

2. How do you show your attraction, love and

commitment to your loved ones? Enumerate each.
Activity
In this activity, you are going to express your best way of expressing your attraction love or
showing commitment to someone by creating a mini poster out of cut outs from magazines,
newspapers, or other printed materials. Your mini poster should be done on a short bond
paper and must showcase your ways of expressing affections to develop a long term-
relationship. Write a brief explanation of your work at the back of your mini poster.

Rubric:
Creativity 50 % Orderliness 15 %
Content 25 % Organization 10%
Identify ways to become responsible in
a relationship
(ESP_PD11/12PR-IIb-9.3)
 Lesson 3
Identify ways to become responsible in a relationship
Arrange the jumbled letters to form a meaningful word in each item.
1. A person obliged him/herself to dedicate his/ her time to someone or in doing something.
___________________________ M N C O I T M E T M
2. It is the feeling or state of liking or falling for someone or something that provided pleasure on your part.
___________________________ R T A T C A T N O I
3. It is the act of being very familiar or a special kind of attachment with the company of someone.
___________________________ Y C M A T I N I
4. It is a sort of arrangement between two people sharing the same feelings and responsibility.
___________________________ P A E S R T R N I H P
5. It is an abstract thing that is meant to be shown through different means and is one of the key elements in any kinds
of relationship.
___________________________ O E L V
 Importance of Relationship
1. Lead us to make a healthy relationships.
2. Help us see our potential
3. Boost our confidence
4. Give you a sense of direction
5. Clear our life goals and aspirations
6. Build a beautiful person within you.
 6 Major Elements of Becoming Responsible in a Relationship
1. Mutual Respect
2. Value Quality Time
3. Trust and Honesty
4. Well-Communicated Love
5. Reliability and Security
6. Non-judgmental Listening and Presence
Activity - SENTENCE COMPLETION
Understanding Ways to Become Responsible in a Relationships
1. Mutual Respect pertains to __________________________________
2. Well-communicated love is
__________________________________
3. Being responsible in a relationship means
______________________________________
4. Quality time for me is having ______________________________
5. Sense of Reliability for me is having
__________________________________
The List of Five
If you are to name five essential keys to become responsible in a relationship,
what values or personalities would you include to draw your own concept of
being responsible? Write them inside each box, then explain your conceptual
paradigm using the guide questions below.

1. Why did you choose the values you have given above? How can these values help one person
become responsible in a relationship?
 Learning Competencies
Distinguish the various roles of different
individuals in society and how they can
influence people through their leadership or
followership
 Lesson 4
Various Roles of Different Individuals in
Society and How they can Influence People
Through Leadership and Followership
Write FACT if you agree with the statements, BLUFF if not.
1. Friend is someone not related to you but very much willing to be
part of your life. He /she is family to you.
2. Mutual respect is important to gain a healthy relationship.
3. Sense of reliability and security develop a sense of responsibility
among the people in a relationship.
4. Becoming responsible in a relationship can make any form of
relationship stronger.
5. Well-communicated love entails open communication.
What are the characteristics of a
leader and a follower?
 What is role?
A role defines a set of norms, values, behaviors, and
personality characteristics attached to a status such as leader,
follower, or club president.

To become a good leader, you must be a good follower.

Roles of an Efficient Leader that can Influence People:
1. Set Example – a good leader sets the best example. It is the first
rule. Walk the talk. Do not compromise anybody in the
organization or team integrity. Never take shortcuts.
2. Assume and do responsibility. You should be guided by your own
duties and responsibilities. Be proactive in guiding, teaching, and
developing excellence in everyone.
3. Show initiative – find out what needs to be done. Do not wait for
anyone to tell you what to do.
4. Life-long learner – capacitate yourself. Learn everything you need
to know about the current job.
5. Show enthusiasm – if you come to work happy and cheerful, it provides
motivation. Enthusiasm is contagious. Never let personal issues affect your
performance.
6. Willing to serve – the quality is known of a servant leader. Showing this
kind of characteristics can inspire thought and action of your own constituents.
7. Active listener – to become an active listener , you must maintain an eye
contact.
8. Show empathy – try to understand where people are coming form and their
point of view. Put yourself in the other people’ s shoe.
9. Be sensitive to the need of others – you must be the one who should know
and feel the needs of your constituents.
10. Delegate work – sharing work among members at the organizations should
be divided into a manageable task.
11. Learn to appreciate
12. Be patient
 ACTIVITY
Make a poster showing different roles of a
leader and follower in a society that could
influence people.
Rubric: Creativity 50 %
Content 30%
Orderliness 20 %