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Theoriesofloveandyou
TheoriesofLoveandYou:
Identifysomerelationshipsthatyouhaveobservedinthepast(eitheryour
ownorothers)andevaluatethoserelationshipsusingeitherorbothofLeesandSternbergstheoriesof
love.Sincewemayknowsomeofthesepeople,trynottouserealnames.Foryourpaper,describethe
relationshipandthentellwhattypeoflovetheyhadintheirrelationship.Explainhowyouarrivedatyour
conclusion.
Inourliveswewitnessmanytypesofrelationshipswhetheritbeourownoranother's.Todaymany
sociologisthavestudiedthecomponentsofloveanddevelopedtheories.Oneofthemostwellrenowned
theoriescanbefoundintheMarriageandFamilyExperiencetextbook.Thistheoryiscalledstylesoflove
developedbyHendrickLee.Thistheorystatesthatthereismanyformsoflove.Thesetypesoflove
includeEros,Ludus,Storge,Mania,Agape,andPragma.Erosiswhenloversonlylovethebeautyoftheir
partner.Ludusiswhentherelationshipismoreplayfulthanloving.AStorgetypeofloveiswhenitstartsas
afriendshipandincreasesintoarelationshipanddecreasesintoafriendship.Maniaiswhentheloveisan
unhealthyobsession.Agapeisatypeofrelationshipwherethecoupleislovingpatientandunderstanding.
Finally,thelasttypeofrelationshipisPragma.APragmarelationshipisthemostpracticaltypeof
relationship.
Oneofthegreatestexamplesoflovei'veseeninmylifeisofmygrandparents.WhenIwasveryyoungmy
grandmapassedaway.Thisleadtomygrandpabetterappreciatinglove.That'swhywhenhemethis
secondwifehewasverygratefulandwasagoodlovinghusband.Thetypeofrelationshipcanbeclassified
asaAgaperelationship.Thisisbecausebothmygrandpaandmygrandmaaremoreappreciativeofwhat
marriageandlovehastooffer.Thereforetheyareselfless,patient,andmorelovingtowardseachother.
Todaytherearemanydifferenttypesoflove.Thesetypesoflovecanbebrokendownintosix
differentcategories.SomeofwhichincludeEros,Ludus,Storge,Mania,Agape,andPragma.Aperfect
exampleofloveinmylifeismygrandparents.Mygrandparentshaveoneofthemostpuretypesoflovei've
everseen.Theyarealwaysputtingeachotherbeforethemselvesandalwaystryingtodowhat'sbestfor
eachother.MebeingasyoungasIam,Ihavenotbeeninanyspecialrelationshipbut,whenIamIcan
onlyhopeforittobeasspecialasmygrandparents.