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LandonFeatherstone

FHS2400Period5

Theoriesofloveandyou

TheoriesofLoveandYou:
Identifysomerelationshipsthatyouhaveobservedinthepast(eitheryour
ownorothers)andevaluatethoserelationshipsusingeitherorbothofLeesandSternbergstheoriesof
love.Sincewemayknowsomeofthesepeople,trynottouserealnames.Foryourpaper,describethe
relationshipandthentellwhattypeoflovetheyhadintheirrelationship.Explainhowyouarrivedatyour
conclusion.

Inourliveswewitnessmanytypesofrelationshipswhetheritbeourownoranother's.Todaymany
sociologisthavestudiedthecomponentsofloveanddevelopedtheories.Oneofthemostwellrenowned
theoriescanbefoundintheMarriageandFamilyExperiencetextbook.Thistheoryiscalledstylesoflove
developedbyHendrickLee.Thistheorystatesthatthereismanyformsoflove.Thesetypesoflove
includeEros,Ludus,Storge,Mania,Agape,andPragma.Erosiswhenloversonlylovethebeautyoftheir
partner.Ludusiswhentherelationshipismoreplayfulthanloving.AStorgetypeofloveiswhenitstartsas
afriendshipandincreasesintoarelationshipanddecreasesintoafriendship.Maniaiswhentheloveisan
unhealthyobsession.Agapeisatypeofrelationshipwherethecoupleislovingpatientandunderstanding.
Finally,thelasttypeofrelationshipisPragma.APragmarelationshipisthemostpracticaltypeof
relationship.

Oneofthegreatestexamplesoflovei'veseeninmylifeisofmygrandparents.WhenIwasveryyoungmy
grandmapassedaway.Thisleadtomygrandpabetterappreciatinglove.That'swhywhenhemethis
secondwifehewasverygratefulandwasagoodlovinghusband.Thetypeofrelationshipcanbeclassified

asaAgaperelationship.Thisisbecausebothmygrandpaandmygrandmaaremoreappreciativeofwhat
marriageandlovehastooffer.Thereforetheyareselfless,patient,andmorelovingtowardseachother.

Todaytherearemanydifferenttypesoflove.Thesetypesoflovecanbebrokendownintosix
differentcategories.SomeofwhichincludeEros,Ludus,Storge,Mania,Agape,andPragma.Aperfect
exampleofloveinmylifeismygrandparents.Mygrandparentshaveoneofthemostpuretypesoflovei've
everseen.Theyarealwaysputtingeachotherbeforethemselvesandalwaystryingtodowhat'sbestfor
eachother.MebeingasyoungasIam,Ihavenotbeeninanyspecialrelationshipbut,whenIamIcan
onlyhopeforittobeasspecialasmygrandparents.

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