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Ground Hog Day For The Soul - AM Bennett PDF
Ground Hog Day For The Soul - AM Bennett PDF
Here is a partial list of some often-buried shadow parts of the human soul. Many are a natural
part of life which are present in early childhood but are later repressed by parents, teachers and
society, and then eventually by ourselves. We are probably conscious of some of these and not
conscious of others. We project some of these parts onto others rather than acknowledge them as
part of ourselves.
1. Circle the parts on the list that you are aware of as a real presence in yourself.
2. Put a star next to the parts that really hook you when other people display them.
The SoulCollage process was created by Seena Frost and is described in her book:
SoulCollage Evolving: An Intuitive Collage Process for Self-Discovery and Community
Feel free to reproduce this in any form with acknowledgment of its source. Enjoy!
Shadowy Parts Worksheet #2- Lets Go Deeper
Add some more of your own shadowy parts to the list on Worksheet #1.
Be sure to include:
Qualities you dont like about yourself
Parts of yourself that you hide from
Things you do that you are ashamed of
Make a list of shadowy parts that you find REALLY irritating in others:
The SoulCollage process was created by Seena Frost and is described in her book:
SoulCollage Evolving: An Intuitive Collage Process for Self-Discovery and Community
Feel free to reproduce this in any form with acknowledgment of its source. Enjoy!
Shadowy Parts Worksheet #3- Golden Shadow
The Golden Shadow contains the bright parts of yourself that you have disowned, locked up in
the basement, and might be hiding from. Write down any of these parts here. Know that you can
add to this list at ANY time!
To help you name some more of these bright, disowned parts, write the names of three people
you admire and look up to as role models. Write three characteristics of each.
For example:
Thich Nhat Hanh: _______wise____ _______funny_____ _______calm______
1)
2)
3)
Feel free to turn this paper over and name more people you admire and their traits. Have fun with
it! Include characters from TV and books and movies if you like! The major truth here is that
what you admire in others, is also a part of you, otherwise you wouldnt recognize it!
The SoulCollage process was created by Seena Frost and is described in her book:
SoulCollage Evolving: An Intuitive Collage Process for Self-Discovery and Community
Feel free to reproduce this in any form with acknowledgment of its source. Enjoy!
Shadowy Parts Worksheet #4- Bringing It To Balance
Choose 3-5 of the darker shadowy parts from the above lists and write them in the first column:
1. ________________________________ ____________________________
2. ________________________________ ____________________________
3. ________________________________ ____________________________
4. ________________________________ ____________________________
5. ________________________________ ____________________________
Now think about each one of these shadowy parts. What would be the name or energetic value of
each part IF it was displayed in moderation/balance? Write your ideas in the second column. For
example: 1. _________Inner Critic______________ ________Truth Teller__________
Dont worry if you cant discern the answers to all of these at this time. Just play with it, and
keep it in the back of your mind. As you work with these parts in the light of day, you will be
led closer and closer to the answers that you need!
The SoulCollage process was created by Seena Frost and is described in her book:
SoulCollage Evolving: An Intuitive Collage Process for Self-Discovery and Community
Feel free to reproduce this in any form with acknowledgment of its source. Enjoy!
Groundhog Day for the Soul
1. Intros- each person shares a card or image that will act as a Protector today.
-tell us name, where from and what you hope to get out of workshop today
3. What is Shadow?
a. Debbie Ford: Shadow contains all the parts of us that we are not at peace with.
d. born from negative, ancient beliefs about ourselves (and usually false)
f. anything that stands in light has a shadow. You! Standing in the light! Light.
* personal * family * communal * archetypal
examples
10. Small group discussion or in pairs- talk about guided vis. Experience and/or something
they discovered about themselves while doing the worksheet.
2. Separate into 2 groups of 4:- each person has 5 minutes (ring bell)
a. Share the cards they made today and what they learned about themselves from
above writing exercise
b. Help each other fill out page 4 of worksheet, bringing it into balance
Dialoguing with a SoulCollage Shadow Card
k. What advice do you have for me? What do you think I should do?
The SoulCollage process was created by Seena Frost and is described in her book:
SoulCollage Evolving: An Intuitive Collage Process for Self-Discovery and Community
Feel free to reproduce this in any form with acknowledgment of its source. Enjoy!
Resources
for Working with Shadow
Meeting the Shadow: The Hidden Power in the Dark Side of Human Nature,
edited by Jeremiah Abrams and Connie Zweig
Shadow Dance: Liberating the Power and Creativity of Your Dark Side,
by David Richo
Dancing in the Dragons Den: Rekindling the Creative Fire in Your Shadow,
by Rosanne Bane
The Shadow Effect: Illuminating the Hidden Power of Your True Self,
by Deepak Chopra, Debbie Ford, and Marianne Williamson
Dark Side of the Light Chasers: Reclaiming Your Power, Creativity, Brilliance, & Dreams
by Debbie Ford
The SoulCollage process was created by Seena Frost and is described in her book:
SoulCollage Evolving: An Intuitive Collage Process for Self-Discovery and Community
Feel free to reproduce this in any form with acknowledgment of its source. Enjoy!
There is that part of ourselves that feels ugly, deformed, unacceptable. That part, above all, we
must learn to cherish, embrace, and call by name. -- Macrina Wiederkehr
You must go into the dark in order to bring forth your light. When we suppress any
feeling or impulse, we are also suppressing its polar opposite. If we deny our ugliness,
we lessen our beauty. If we deny our fear, we minimize our courage. If we deny our
greed, we also reduce our generosity. Our full magnitude is more than most of us can
ever imagine. --- Debbie Ford, The Dark Side of the Light Chasers
In Madeleine LEngles novel, A Wind in the Door, fallen angels called Echthroi are
destroying large chunks of the Creation. Meg learns that only by recognizing, naming,
and loving these beings, who are both inside and outside of us, can she prevent them
from doing more harm. Here is Meg engaged in the spiritual practice of shadow: I
Name you, Echthroi My arms surround you. You are no longer nothing. You are.
You are filled. You are me.
Guest House
by Rumi
A man who took great pride in his lawn found himself with a large crop of dandelions.
He tried every method he knew to get rid of them. Still, they plagued him.
Finally he wrote to the Department of Agriculture. He enumerated all the things he had
tried and closed his letter with the question, What shall I do now?
In due course the reply came: We suggest you learn to love them.
The Shadow includes all that we abhor about ourselves as well as the hidden gold that
we have buried inside for safe keeping. We disguise these negativities by seeing whats
wrong with others. Then we camouflage our positive potential when we admire or
idolize others. SoulCollage helps us embrace the Shadow and liberate us from
limiting stories. Unacknowledged, these stories are held in our subconscious, affecting
our day to day behaviors. Meeting the Shadow turns the dark angles within us into
beacons of light. --- Suzie Wolfer, SoulCollage Facilitator in Oregon
The Shadow is not the opposite of something. The Shadow is an exaggeration of the
balanced place or an absence of the balanced place. --- Seena Frost
All of our Neters have the potential and the freedom to lose their balance.
--- Seena Frost
More in the tradition of mystics from every faith, SoulCollage sees every form as a
mix of positive and negative, and this mix constantly shifts as the density of imbalance
changes. Good and bad, therefore, can be understood and worked with as a matter of
losing or gaining balance. --- Seena Frost
SoulCollage sees the Shadow as vital, primitive energy that is out of balance. It can
be exaggerated and out of control, or it can be absent when needed. Too much or too
little. If this sounds like too mild a description of the evil you see in the world or in
yourself, let me emphasize that the Shadow of every Neter can become very out of
balance and very deadly. But much of its deadliness comes from its unacknowledged
and unexamined nature. As long as we refuse to recognize the Shadow in ourselves,
we are in its power. --- Seena Frost
Blessed is the Eternal Light who grants us so many epiphanies in the darkness.
A Shadow parts grip on our Soul begins to loosen the moment we let our
consciousness shine on it; it loosens more as we dialogue with it.
This both/and way of dealing with Shadow is central to SoulCollage. Even one
personal Neter that I refuse to recognize and work with towards better balance can
impact the balance of the whole of creation. We are that interrelated, that interwoven
with each other. --- Seena Frost
Unconditional
By Jennifer Welwood
If you cannot see your own shadow, you must go in search of it. The shadow hides in
shame in the dark alleys, secret passages, and ghost-filled attics of your consciousness.
To have a shadow is not to be flawed, but to be complete. We are all living with the
wreckage of failed ideals that once seemed like perfect solutions.
The shadow loses its power when consciousness stops being divided. When you are no
longer split, theres nothing to see but one self in all directions. There are no hidden
compartments, dungeons, torture cells or mossy rocks to hide under. Consciousness
sees itself. ---- Deepak Chopra, The Shadow Effect
Here are the choices we can make to bring the shadow back into balance:
Stop projecting
Detach and let go
Give up self-judgment
Rebuild your emotional body