Submitted by: M. Zubair Afaq OUTLINE SELF-ESTEEM INGREDIENTS OF SELF-ESTEEM Howard University Research:
Average man thoughts(Negative/Positive) 60,000
times. Thought s Feelings
Intuitions
Imaginations TERMS RELATED TO SELF- ESTEEM • Self-concept: Picture or perception in our minds about our abilities and attributes.
• Self Efficacy: The set of beliefs that one can
perform adequately in a particular situation. • Self-ideal: The way I would like to be. • Self-actualization: The realization or fulfillment of one's talents and potential. • Self-awareness: knowledge and awareness of your own personality or character. SELF-ESTEEM IS NOT 1. Self Esteem is NOT dependent upon what other people think about you.
2. Self Esteem is NOT egotism, arrogance,
narcissism/selfishness, or a desire to feel superior to others.
3. Self Esteem is NOT temporary euphoria.
HIGH SELF-ESTEEM • Rational • Realism • Flexible • Creative • Independent • Able to manage change • Willing to admit and correct mistakes • Seeks challenges • Quicker to recover LOW SELF-ESTEEM • Irrational • Blind to reality • Rigid • Fearful of new & unfamiliar • Inappropriate & conformity • Defensive • Over Complaint • Seeks safety of familiar & undemanding • Less aspiration BOOST YOUR SELF-ESTEEM • Know yourself. • Understand what makes you feel great. • Recognize things that get you down. • Set goals to achieve what you want. • Develop trusting friendships that make you feel good. • Don’t be afraid to ask for help. • Stand up for your believes and values. • Help someone else. • Take responsibility for your own actions. MY OPINION • You are a unique individual. No one else is like you in the whole world. This makes you special already! • Our time in this world is limited. Make it happen for you so you leave your mark in history! THANK YOU