ORAL STAGE 0-1 year Freud stated that in this stage, the organ for pleasure is the mouth. I couldn’t say for myself, so I asked the people around me what I was fond of doing when I was this young. They told me that I liked to suck on the silicone nipple, and I would put things in my mouth. ANAL STAGE 1-3 years Freud, the anus is the primary erogenous zone and pleasure is derived from controlling bladder and bowel movement I was told that by this time I was already being taught how to independently urinate and poop. We had a baby seat for the bowl which was placed there every time my cousin and I would need to use the toilet. I was also being taught to do other things that I could independently. PHALLIC STAGE 3-6 years In this stage the infant's libido (desire) centers upon his or her genitalia as the erogenous zone. At this stage in my life, all I can remember is that there are thing taught to me that I shouldn’t have learned at that young age. Also, as I can remember, I already started to develop attraction for the opposite gender. LATENCY STAGE 6-12 years This stage covers my entire elementary period. I was already doing a lot of things independently. When I was in my 4th grade, I learned to care for my own. I learned to feed myself, bathe myself, study on my own, and a lot more things. Latency stage states that children now learn to compare themselves to others. I think I also have experienced this since I graduated as the class salutatorian thinking why I didn’t become first. GENITAL STAGE 6 years and above At this point in my life, I have already learned a lot of things. I also have become aware about my surroundings and the feelings of others. I have always been shy but still managed to make a lot of friends. I only have been with few people in my elementary days, my classmates stay the same each year. But when I entered High school, I have learned to become more social and independent as well. Dasigo, Daniel Nicole R. PCAS 301-A
PIAGET’S STAGES OF COGNITIVE DEVELOPMENT
SENSORIMOTOR 0-2 years This stage is when I have learned to move and move the things around me. I also learned how to use my senses to learn things around the environment. They always want to play with me like peek a boo, stacking blacks and putting objects inside and outside the container PREOPERATIONAL STAGE 2-7 years This stage is when I started to talk properly. I learned how to use words in context and when not to say or when to say something. My understanding has been deeper and widened. There are still a lot of things I don’t understand, and I have a lot of questions in mind. I practically ask about everything. CONCRETE OPERATIONAL 7-11 years This is when I began to understand about the use of money. Also, I have learned important things that may play an essential role in my life. If before, I can only read time, in this stage I can also understand the importance of time. This was when I start feeling shy when I come late in class. FORAMAL OPERATINAL 11 and above This stage is when we already know a lot of things. I think I already know how to judge quite right in this stage. I understand complex ideas. This stage is when my parents have imparted life lessons that I remember and keep. Also, Dasigo, Daniel Nicole R. PCAS 301-A
ERICKSON’S STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT
TRUST vs MISTURST 0-18 mos When I was this young my mother told me that I always cried. I cry often whenever someone I don’t know holds me or carries me. I only stay calm when I am with people I recognize and know. AUTONOMY vs SHAME AND DOUBT 18 mos – 3 years This stage is when I have cried a lot to get what I wanted. My mother told me that I cry a lot when things don’t go my way. I cried when I wanted something, when I was hungry and when I needed something. INITIATIVE vs GUILT 3-5 years I began school when I was 3 years old. When I was at this stage, there were minor things I wanted to accomplish. I wanted to finish writing what the teacher instructed to write, I wanted to color the coloring book completely. I have set minor goals maybe because I was attending school at this stage, INDUSTRY vs INFERIORITY 5-13 years This was when I wanted to do the dishes, do the laundry. I wanted to do something that would make me feel of purpose. I wanted to join different things. I was a dancer at church and was so happy that I was part of something that I liked. I started finding things that I could do to be of help. IDENTITY vs CONFUSION 13-21 years I’ve been in several relationships in the past, but I got my long-term relationship when I was 14. This gave me the sense of being with someone and being with that someone for a long period of time. There were times that I really felt worn out and tired of being with the same person day after day but as I aged and matured, I learned that fidelity is important. Dasigo, Daniel Nicole R. PCAS 301-A