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Nonverbal cues also are important. Is the sender's posture open and friendly, or closed
and cold? Is her facial expression friendly or accusatory? All of these factors influence
how the same words will be received.
In addition to how the message is sent, many additional factors determine how the
receiver interprets the message. All new information we learn is compared with the
knowledge we already have. If it confirms what we already know, we will likely receive
the new information accurately, though we may pay little attention to it. If it calls into
question our previous assumptions or interpretation of the situation, we may distort it in
our minds so that it is made to fit our world view, or we may dismiss the information as
deceptive, misguided, or simply wrong.
Likewise, all opponents should be treated with respect. It doesn't help a conflict situation
to treat people disrespectfully; it just makes them angry and less likely to listen to you,
understand you, or do what you want. No matter what you think of another person, if
they are treated with respect and dignity -- even if you think they do not deserve it --
communication will be much more successful, and the conflict will be more easily
managed or resolved. Engaging in deep conversations (through problem-solving
workshops or dialogues) can also reduce misunderstanding by improving relationships,
by providing more context to communication, and by breaking down stereotypes that
contribute to negative characterizations or worldviews. The more effort one makes to
understand the person sending the message, the more likely the message will be
understood correctly.
Current Implications
This article talks about misunderstandings between different cultures...particularly
highlighting high-context cultures with low-context cultures. We are now seeing in the
United States, how there can be cultural misunderstandings between groups that
appear on the surface to be quite similar. Republicans and Democrats in the U.S. are
mostly all low-context communicators, yet they seem to be almost completely talking
past each other. Each sees the world in fundamentally different ways--their interests are
different, their understanding of facts is different, their reasons for advocating various
policies are different.
Certainly some of this difference is the result of media manipulation, which spawns not
only misunderstanding, but distrust and even hatred as a result of propaganda. Extreme
stereotyping of "the other," also prevents effective cross-group communication, so when
communication between groups occurs (which is becoming increasingly rare as we self-
segregate into different parts of the country), the messages are very likely to be
misinterpreted.
Much needs to be done to get the right and the left talking at all. But once they start,
mediators or facilitators are going to be needed to try to reduce misunderstandings and
build a groundwork for coexistence and tolerance.
This is one area where every individual can make a difference. When we talk to our
family members who have different belief systems, for example, take care to use good
conflict communication skills (see particularly the articles on empathic listening and I-
messages) among others, instead of escalatory communication. This grave conflict
within the United States is only going to be defused (if it is), one conversation at a time--
and it is incumbent upon all of us to start having those disarming, de-escalatory
conversations.