Application: Choose one situation which you have already experienced. Discuss how communication helped in resolving the issue in the context you have chosen. Situation 1: You have overspent your budgeted allowance for the week because of unexpected expenses. Your mother usually does not give extra allowance. Demonstrate how communication can help you persuade your mother to give you additional budget. The first time this happened to me was during my 1 st year in high school. I was reluctant to ask my mother for an additional allowance because I misspent my money on my favorite toy. Upon arriving at home that day, I immediately went to the kitchen to look for food because I did not have the money to buy my snacks. My mother felt that it was strange because she knows that I usually eat snacks at school before going home. She then asked me why and I chose to admit the truth. She said that it is understandable to be impulsive at my young age but reminded me to be wiser especially when it comes to money and food. She then asked me if how much the toy cost to recover my lost meal allowance. In this case, it is really important to take advantage of communication because it fuels understanding and good relationship. If I did not communicate well with my mother, she will not have an idea of what happened and I might end up getting hungry for the days remaining at school. Feedback: In the situation above, communication has helped me express my problem to my mother. At that time, there is no other person to help me better than my parents. A healthy relationship requires effective communication. To be effective, communication entails talking and listening in equal measure. It is important that a person is able to express his needs to someone and at the same time be able to perceive the needs of others as well. In my case, I was able to express what I need to my mother and listened to what she has to say as well. It is a two-way process that needs the cooperation of both actors. Topic 2. Types of Communication Application: “Which is more effective, verbal or non-verbal communication” The effectiveness of the two types of communication is relative. It may depend on the context and intended audience. However, results are better when both are combined together. Interpretation of messages is easier and more accurate when verbal and non-verbal communication complement each other. Non- verbal gestures can elaborate on verbal messages to reinforce the information sent. Feedback: Both verbal and non-verbal communication make a communication more effective because of a certain degree of dependence between them. A verbal act may depend for its correct interpretation entirely on a nonverbal act. Likewise, a nonverbal act may depend for its correct interpretation entirely on a verbal act. For example, using hand signals while talking to a person with difficulty in hearing and smiling while expressing your admiration to a person with difficulty in seeing. Each type may be used independently because of its own features but combining the two makes the message clearer.
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