Self

Development
SEPTEMBER 11, 2021: 3:00 PM - 6:00 PM
PRECYLYN G. BUNAO, MM

OA108: PPD
“Try not to be too focused
on pleasing others and INTRO Q
end up losing your true
self.”
Yes, let us hold on to our
true self not on gratifying INTRO Q
others.
 Talking about your true
self, do you really know INTRO Q
who you are?
How do your strengths and
weaknesses help you in
INTRO Q
dealing better with other
people?
 Let us now begin by
revealing the truth about
“yourself” and the
underlying concepts about it
INTRO Q
Think about
yourself
What do you want to be? Or do you see Q
yourself what you actually see?
 two (2) categories

1. IDEAL SELF 2. ACTUAL SELF

the self that you aspire to the one that you actually
be see
 AWARENESS OF
YOURSELF

What
about
self-
IDENTIFICATIO
N OF THE
IDEAL SELF AS
SEPARATE

concept?
FROM OTHERS

ENCOMPASSES
ALL THE
BEHAVIORS
EVALUATED IN
THE ACTUAL
SELF
 SD

DEVELOPMENT
SELF
Congruency
If the way that I am (the actual self) is
congruent with the way that I want to be
(the ideal self), then I will feel a sense of
mental well-being or peace of mind.
 SD

DEVELOPMENT
Congruency

SELF
If the way that I am is not matched with
how I want to be, the incongruence, or
lack of alignment, it will result in mental
distress or anxiety.
 SD

DEVELOPMENT
Congruency

SELF
Personal development has an ultimate
aim of achieving greater self-knowledge
that will lead to higher alignment between
these two personality domains.
 YOUR KNOWLEDGE OF
YOURSELF AND HOW
YOU MANAGE
YOURSELF IMPACTS
DIRECTLY ON YOUR

knowing
PERSONAL
EFFECTIVENESS.

yourself
 BEING SELF-AWARE,
MAKING THE MOST OF
YOUR STRENGTHS,
LEARNING NEW SKILLS
AND TECHNIQUES AND
BEHAVIORAL
FLEXIBILITY ARE ALL

knowing KEYS TO IMPROVING

YOUR PERSONAL
PERFORMANCE

yourself
 OUR PERSONAL
EFFECTIVENESS
DEPENDS ON OUR
INNATE
CHARACTERISTICS –
TALENT AND
EXPERIENCE

knowing ACCUMULATED IN THE

PROCESS OF PERSONAL
DEVELOPMENT.

yourself
 TALENTS ARE FIRST
NEEDED TO BE
IDENTIFIED AND THEN
DEVELOPED TO BE
USED IN A PARTICULAR
SUBJECT AREA

knowing
(SCIENCE, LITERATURE,
SPORTS, POLITICS,
ETC.).

yourself
 EXPERIENCE INCLUDES
KNOWLEDGE AND
SKILLS THAT WE
ACQUIRE IN THE
PROCESS OF

knowing
COGNITIVE AND
PRACTICAL ACTIVITIES

yourself
the questions
are...
COULD YOU CLAIM WHAT ARE THOSE HOW IT WOULD
THAT YOU ALREADY STRENGTHS AND AFFECT YOUR
ACHIEVED A WEAKNESSES? RELATIONSHIP TO
GREATER SELF- OTHERS?
KNOWLEDGE?
what to do?
utilize them to your

greatest advantage
 MOVIEGOER
most pathetic, miserable people in
the world

ACTOR
happy bunch, realizing they are
the start of the show and enjoy
some level of control

3 kind of SCRIPTWRITER

people
has enormous control over her life
 Who are you
among these
three people?
Do you merely
watch your life
go?
do you act out a
script that you
feel has been
handed to you?
do you write the
script and make
your life
beautiful?
 “Make the
movie
beautiful, and
I will give you
all that you
need for
success.”
- God