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Bettina Looney & Carlos Segovia's Epic Wedding in


South Africa Was Festive, Family Oriented—and All
About Fashion

Instagram's most inspiring wedding of 2020 happened just before


lockdown and included four days of nonstop parties.
BY CARRIE GOLDBERG / FEB 26, 2021

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This was a love story we have been waiting to tell for a year. Bettina Looney,
personal stylist, tastemaker, and brand ambassador, wed Carlos Segovia in South
Africa in February 2020, right before the pandemic and its subsequent lockdowns
put the world on pause. Per Bettina's personal style, the Segovias' wedding became
an Instagram source of inspiration to brides worldwide who spent the year
planning, postponing, and replanning their weddings locally and abroad. In honor
of Bettina and Carlos’s one-year anniversary, Bettina shared their story—and all
the decor, details, fashion moments, and photos of their four-day affair—
exclusively with BAZAAR Bride.

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or years, Bettina Looney and Carlos Segovia were ships passing in the night.
The two grew up in Florida; she in Ocala, he in Miami. They then attended
the same university, and had intertwined social circles and multiple mutual
friends—before finally meeting in London. "There were so many moments where we
could have run into each other, but we happened to miss one another until the
universe decided it was time," Bettina tells BAZAAR Bride. The two had connected
over Facebook Messenger ("when that was a thing"), and he invited her to his home
for a dinner party, where they met for the first time. "I remember feeling as if we had
known each other our entire lives," she recalls. "We actually both said it out loud to
one another ... we had mutual feelings of ease and familiarity, but I don’t think either
of us knew what was in store."

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Their first meeting may have been long awaited, but their first date was
happenstance. The two meant to go to dinner with a few of Carlos’s friends, but
when said friends all canceled at the last minute, the pair decided to go on their own.
Halfway through the meal, Bettina realized it was more than a friendly affair. “I
swiftly went to the bathroom to freshen up, put on lipstick, and came back to enjoy
an amazing evening—the first of many! We have been inseparable ever since,”
Bettina says. She remembers that falling in love with Carlos happened quickly and
effortlessly. “He was my person from the very first day we met.”

After six months of dating, they moved in together. “I had to return to the States
three months into our relationship for visa issues and was planning on moving back
to London and into a flat with a girlfriend of mine,” Bettina recalls. “I think Carlos
spent all the time I was away convincing me of all the reasons I should move in with
him. I remember coming back to London so nervous, starting a brand-new job, and
moving in with someone who I was falling for but really had not spent that much
time with. Let’s just say it was the best decision I’ve ever made.”
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The couple took their first weekend trip together to Babington House in Somerset,
where Bettina shares she officially fell in love with Carlos. The two had drinks at a
hotel nearby, and decided to walk back. Bettina was in “impractical” heels, so, “He
took off his shoes, gave them to me, and walked the entire way in his socks. I just
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remember thinking that he was the most attractive man for doing that.” After the
weekend, the two sent a photo of them seated at the hotel restaurant to their
parents. “They both said individually that it was when they knew their children had
found their forever partners,” Bettina gushes.

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Five years later, Carlos planned a trip back to Babington with Bettina and his
cousins from Spain. Upon arrival, the hotel informed them that their room wasn’t
quite ready and ushered them to a table in the restaurant to enjoy a glass of
champagne—the same table they had taken that photo at years prior. Bettina was so
moved by the coincidence that she took matters into her own hands. “I said to
Carlos, ‘What if we don’t do things the conventional way? Why can’t I just ask you to
marry me? We’re at the same table where it all began five years ago, so happy and in
love, let’s just do it!’ Carlos looked at me with a blank face. He had an entire
proposal planned just 30 minutes later!” A walk on the hotel’s grounds ended with a
pop into the hotel’s on-site chapel. The aisle was lit with candles, and the two walked
toward the altar together, where Carlos got on one knee and proposed. “We both
were crying and got down on our knees. It was safe to say that it was a very mutual
engagement,” Bettina says. It was then she realized that Carlos’s cousins would not
be joining them. “We checked into the honeymoon suite, drank dirty martinis all
night, and had a full-on dance party! It was the most spectacular day and night of my
life.”

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Carlos proposed to Bettina with a radiant-cut solitaire ring set with vintage prongs in
a gold band, designed in collaboration with friend and designer Tania Shayan of
SHAY Jewelry. The two went to great lengths to achieve the design, with Carlos
sourcing the diamond in Hong Kong, picking it up in Antwerp, and passing it off for
the setting to be created in Los Angeles. As a special touch, the gold band of the ring
was lined with pavé diamonds and an emerald was set inside the setting, as a nod to
the bride’s favorite color.

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The couple always knew that they’d wed in South Africa. The country started as a
special place for Carlos, and Bettina grew to love it just as much. “[Carlos] has
always been moved by both the physical beauty of the landscape and the beauty of
the people,” says Bettina. “He went there for the first time while in university for an
internship, and it was what launched his career. We then went together several years

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later for a wedding, and I fell equally in love. We both agreed that when we were to
get married, we would love to do it there.”

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Enlisting Anne Mann, who planned their friends’ wedding, the pair worked to bring
their dreams to reality. “Anne took us everywhere and showed us everything. It was
definitely a lot of work, but the outcome surpassed all of our dreams and more and

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she has become so dear to our hearts,” Bettina says of teaming with Anne and her
company, Anne Mann Celebrates.

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Together, they planned a four-day wedding weekend, intending to show their guests,
all of whom were traveling in, everything they loved about the landscape, hotels,
food, and culture of South Africa. Prior to the festivities abroad, it was important to
the couple to celebrate their union with Bettina’s grandmother, who, at the time, was
battling ovarian cancer. The two wed in a civil ceremony at Sholom Park in Ocala,
officiated by Bettina’s childhood pastor, Dwayne Brigman. Bettina wore a vintage
wedding dress she found in Milan at her favorite vintage shop, Il Cameo, paired with
Jimmy Choo shoes.

“Carlos and I always made a promise that we would make sure to get married in the
presence of my grandmother with her blessing,” says Bettina. “She was a remarkable
woman and loved her family more than anything. On October 26, one year after
Carlos proposed, we got [married]. … I will cherish the smile on her face for the rest
of my life.” The guest list was small and intimate, just the couple’s parents and
Bettina’s grandmother, along with her grandfather and his wife. “We never knew
that a year and a half later, my step-grandmother would pass away from COVID. To
also be able to share this moment with the two of them is a gift we will always hold
on to.”

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After their intimate wedding in the States, Bettina and Carlos were ready for their
nuptials in South Africa. They checked in to the Belmond Mount Nelson Hotel—“It’s
one of our favorite places in Cape Town,” Bettina says. “The pink cape Dutch hotel
has an old-school Hollywood feel, and the pool is on a sprawling lawn in the middle
of a beautiful wildflower garden full of roses and butterflies fluttering around you.”

The day before their guests’ arrival, the couple took a horseback ride on the beach at
The Dunes. Having grown up with horses, Bettina saw it as the perfect opportunity
for the duo to enjoy one another and get centered before four days of nonstop
parties. “I wanted to start off the week with a ride on the beach, relaxing and having

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a moment to breathe and process everything that was about to take place,” says
Bettina. “It truly was the best start to our week.” For the ride, Bettina donned an
outfit by Eudon Choi, paired with a jacket by Nanushka and shoes by Manu Atelier.
The horseback ride was followed by two informal gatherings for guests as they
arrived in town, including dinner at The Duchess of Wisbeach, a restaurant that
turns into a dance party after hours.

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Upon arrival, guests were welcomed to their rooms with a gift by Design Afrika,
which specializes in ethically made and sourced African woven baskets, all with the
aim of supporting local women and communities. Carlos and Bettina opted for the
Winnie Bag, woven by Zimbabwean women, and filled it with a program of events by
City Print Sea Point with illustrations by Janine du Plessis, personalized phone cases
by The Daily Edited, Atelier des Femmes hand-sewn scrunchies, hangover kits, local
snacks, and upcycled organic lavender sachets by Juditha Sakinofsky.

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The couple's first official wedding event was at Chinchilla, a beautiful rooftop bar
right on the Camps Bay Promenade. “The sunset from the venue is spectacular, and
the interiors are relaxed and stylish,” Bettina says. Renting the space exclusively,
they decorated with vegetable installations and displays in lieu of flowers. “We
welcomed our guests to a weekend full of fun with great canapés and incredible
cocktails,” she explains. For the event, Bettina donned a Brock Collection dress,
paired with Wandler shoes, a 0711 handbag, and earrings by her engagement ring
designer, SHAY.

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The next day, the two welcomed their guests to a braai, an African barbecue, at the
Dylan Lewis Sculpture Garden. The breathtaking venue was meaningful to the
couple, who both love the artist’s work and the space itself. “When Anne took us to
[Dylan Lewis’s] private garden, which took 10 years to create with all of his

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sculptures sprawled underneath the dramatic Stellenbosch mountains, I was so


emotional,” Bettina recalls. “I couldn’t believe we were standing in this picturesque
garden of such a fabulous artist whom we had loved for so long, and now planning
one of our wedding events. It was definitely a pinch-me moment.”

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Bettina and her bridesmaids arrived a bit early to take photos with photographers La
Dichosa in the otherworldly garden. The Spain-based photo team were tapped
alongside videographers Les Vaques and stylist Daniel Obasi, with Bettina taking on
the editing of her wedding video herself. “Daniel is from Nigeria and came to give all
of our photos a bit more of a stylistic approach,” Bettina says. “He had never done a
wedding before, but we thought the mixture of these creatives and their specialties
could really create magic.” And that they did—Bettina wore a sculptural Alberta
Ferretti gown with an open back to contrast the architecture of the venue. She paired
the dress with Old Celine earrings, Maxine shoes, and a Benedetta Bruzziches clutch.
Her bridesmaids all wore Tongoro, designed by Sarah Diouf, with whom Bettina has
collaborated for years. “I was always in awe of her brand and the ethical approach
she was taking in the fashion industry,” Bettina says of Diouf. “It was such an honor
to be able to have all of the girls in her creations, and she went above and beyond.”

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After photos, “We greeted our guests with a marimba band, had relaxed lounging
stations spread out throughout all the lawns,” Bettina says. “There were games, a
natural wine bar, a hat and fan table, and music provided by the talented Rus
Nerwich.”

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Guests arrived at a veritable vegetable market “with huge terra-cotta pots, a pavilion
filled with lemon trees, terra-cotta urns filled with fruits and spreads, and rattan
plinths with floral installations,” describes the bride. “Our inspiration behind the
vegetables was to make sure that all of the installations could be repurposed and for
local families in need within the community.” After the wedding, Oliver, a chef and
friend of the couple who catered the event along with Annalize Catering, used the
produce to make soup, sandwiches, and more for families within one of the local
townships.

The day ended with a walk through the property to a dance floor and lounge area
positioned for the best sunset views. “Anne had the entire walk lit up with fairy
lights,” Bettina describes. “Everyone gathered around to watch and wave goodbye to
the sun and danced until the late hours of the evening.”

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The next day, the couple got ready at Johannesdal, a high-design home and flower
farm. “I had fallen completely in love with [the] property. … It’s essentially a working
flower farm, but with interiors like you have never seen. Every corner in the home is
beyond incredible and has so much thought and aesthetic detail,” Bettina says.

The property’s capacity was too small for the couple’s guest list, but they were
conveniently constructing a venue next door, Johannesdal 1207. “We had the idea
that all of our guests could walk through Johannesdal’s interiors and have a
reception in the lawn, and then walk over to the adjacent property for the reception.
We loved the idea of us getting married in the home my family was staying in, and
then walking next door to the venue where Carlos’ family were staying. It felt
traditional,” says the bride. And she had the perfect team to execute it: “Count on
Anne to take on our vision and completely bring it life in a way we never thought was
possible!”

Getting ready that morning, “I felt so relaxed and so peaceful,” Bettina recalls. “The
love that was around [and between] us was experienced on a level that I could never
have imagined. Getting ready with my mother and mother-in-law; all of my closest
girlfriends; Massimo (Spazzoli) and Rachel (Singer Clark), my hair and makeup
team; my father and brother popping in and out. … The music was going, we were
dancing, drinking wine, and then we all cuddled in bed to open the card and gift
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Carlos had given me. Throughout the entire week and weekend, I was never nervous
until it came time to put on my dress.”

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Bettina wore a bespoke gown by Khyeli, the namesake label of Emirati designer and
creative, Ahmed Alkhyeli. “I will never forget the first time I ever went to see one of
his presentations in London,” Bettina says. “The dresses and the [presentation] itself
were so moving. … I always knew Ahmed would be the one to design my wedding
dress. I love his passion and how he truly loves to understand your story to connect
it with the piece he is creating. He has become such a dear friend.”

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The gown, a pleated, off-the-shoulder, A-line number with blouson bishop sleeves
was paired with customized Manolo Blahnik shoes. The bride’s something borrowed
and blue, her grandmother’s earrings and a sapphire bracelet, were worn along with
a sapphire ring Carlos had gifted her the morning of their wedding. “[My] something
old was also a charm that belonged to my grandmother that we tied around my
bouquet alongside of a photo of her. She passed away on January 6, a month before
our wedding, and I wanted to make sure that she still had the best seat in the house
and walked me down the aisle. She was there by our sides the entire time,” says
Bettina.

Bettina partnered with Estée Lauder on her beauty look in collaboration with her
makeup artist. “Rachel and I met with Estée Lauder prior to the wedding to do a few
makeup and hair trials. We went for a softer look and also tried to keep it as natural
as possible. Also, their matte lips were [the] absolute best and stayed on for hours at
a time." Bettina kept her hair simple and clean, with a bespoke face veil that she
created in partnership with Khyeli wrapped around and into her hair.

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Guests arrived at the venue and enjoyed a cocktail reception before taking their seats
for the ceremony at Johannesdal. Carlos walked down the aisle with his parents in
Tom Ford from Harrod's; Bettina followed with her bridesmaids, escorted by her
father. “Walking down the aisle with my dad and some of my beloved girlfriends felt
so surreal. It wasn’t typical in terms of bridesmaids walking down the aisle before
me. We all walked together to the front of the service, and then separated so that my
father could walk me down. The [walk towards the ceremony] was quite long, and
we kept looking at each other and making sure we were keeping it together from
crying, even though it was extremely difficult. It was so lovely, all of us walking
together, and it wasn’t something we planned. We just ad hoc-ed it a few minutes
before getting ready. And it was perfect.”
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The bride walked down the aisle to “Feeling Good” by Nina Simone, sung by a local
artist. “Every time I hear it, I get goosebumps from head to toe,” Bettina says.
“Hearing her powerful voice overtaking the entire valley while looking over the
picturesque mountaintops was truly one of the most overwhelming experiences of
my life. I couldn’t see Carlos until I reached the aisle, and when I turned the corner
to walk up to him, it was truly so beautiful. Seeing him in that moment made me
realize the true meaning of marrying your life partner.”

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Bruce Bender, a longtime family friend of Carlos’s, officiated the ceremony. The
bride's brother “read a beautiful bible verse, Colossians 3:12-14, about wearing love,”
and her sister read a meaningful poem by Maya Angelou. “It was so simple and so
deep. We both decided to write our own vows to each other, and I don’t think there
was one person in the entire valley who was not crying.”

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After the ceremony, guests were invited to cocktails in the tiered gardens before
heading to dinner on the lower lawn. Lush Flowers, which Bettina discovered in
downtown Cape Town on the hunt for an arrangement, helped create the
tablescapes, alongside Anne and her team. The furniture was also curated. “We were
so inspired by all of the aesthetics that we decided to get creative ourselves and
customized a lot of our own furniture to complement the incredible scenery. I am
rattan obsessed, and we created all of the bars and DJ booths with Anne and Curated
Event,” Bettina says. Jade Paton Ceramics, owned by the daughter of the owners of
Lush Flowers, Daniela and Garth Paton, provided the vessels for the tables and
surrounding decor.

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A bossa nova band provided the soundtrack to a dinner created by Jacques Erasmus,
who owns one of Cape Town's best restaurants, Hemelhuijs. The couple had their
first dance as newlyweds to “Like I’m Gonna Lose You,” by Meghan Trainor and
John Legend as another nod to Bettina’s late grandmother. “She was Meghan
Trainor obsessed. It was sung live, and it was one of the last songs we both danced to

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together with her. Truly, it was a dedication to her and the blessing she gave us when
she watched us civilly get married,” Bettina says.

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And then, the party really got started. At midnight, “We did a Hispanic tradition
called la hora loca, which translates to ‘the crazy hour,’” Bettina says. “Marimba
drummers came out to get the party started, and so many other party props were
brought out including Segovia-branded tambourines and floral headbands my
mother-in-law made by hand.” Carlos’s mother created an additional surprise with
some key family members: “They all came out in extremely tropical outfits, with
fruits on their head and performed an entire dance—our jaws literally dropped!”

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The drummers then brought the party inside where a soundproof club was waiting
for guests to dance the night away. “We danced until 6 a.m. in a club that we created
inside to avoid any chance of noise complaints,” Bettina explains. “The after-party
was all covered with Persian rugs and rattan furniture in darker tones.” For late-
night dancing, the bride wore a minidress with tulle off-shoulder sleeves and a long
tulle train, also by Khyeli.

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The next day, guests gathered at Pengilly House for a midday recovery brunch. “The
home chefs created the most delicious lunch. Rus Nerwich whipped out the vinyls
for the first few hours, and then our friend, Floyd Lavine, deejayed to get the party
started one last time. He had everyone up and dancing. It ended up turning into a
full-on party! It was the perfect ending to our week of paradise.”

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After the celebrations, Carlos and Bettina continued their exploration of South
Africa, popping over to the Dorp Hotel, followed by two days at Tintswalo Atlantic,
and finally heading to Kruger National Park for a stay at Singita Lebombo and Sweni
Lodge. “We were so moved by not only the wildlife that we were able to experience
but how impeccable the lodges were and how much good the Singita family does for

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the community,” she explains. “The service was unparalleled. Their love and
consideration for the wildlife is so immense, and the members of the team are so
incredibly knowledgeable. We were so moved by their philanthropic initiatives.”

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The couple paired their alliance with charitable brands throughout their wedding
with a philanthropic registry as well. Guests were asked to donate to the Avela
Foundation, a nonprofit organization committed to helping children with burn
injuries on their road to physical and psychological recovery. “We are so grateful for
the love and support everyone showed towards supporting Avela,” she shares. “That
was the greatest gift of all.”

CARRIE GOLDBERG Weddings & Travel Director


Carrie Goldberg is HarpersBAZAAR.com’s Weddings & Travel Director.

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