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When a woman is involved in such situations where they need to handle all the things by their

own and to make several decisions then it results in anxiety issues that not only affect her but
also affect her children as when they see that their mother faced through such traumas in her life
in which she is doing all the things by herself but still face depreciation all the time then it affects
her children as well. When a recent survey of 37 random people was taken in this matter, we
found the following result. Note: In the recent survey 37.8% strongly agree that polygamy cause
stress, anxiety disorders in women’s that do affect her children and if you look into the disagree
Colum then only 2.7% believe that they don’t agree with it. We also asked about that Does
polygamy in women, result in a different upbringing of her children as compared to
monogamous marriages? Note: 54.1% highly believed that it does affect her mental health that
affect her children as well due to different responsibilities and also led to self esteem and 35.1%
said that it could be a reason and only 10.8% said no.

When we take the interview of Mr. Bilal Ali Khan, who was the former administrative of Lum’s
we asked him the question that what is the socio-Psychology issues faced by polygamy on
women that also affect her children? He said that it effects socio-groups circle of such children
and it effect their learning process in such a way that they never involved in conversation and
never do cross questioning that makes them introvert and agree upon whatever society wants
them to believe because they have faced such traumas in their life where they have seen their
mother in a situation in which she had never gain respect from their father and is never allowed
to stand in front of him then this situation left an impact on her children in different ways. We
also asked him the question that: Does physical and mental abuse on polygamy women also
affect her children? Then Mr. Bilal said that “It is a common thing in our society where children
are most of the time very close to their mothers rather than their father” as when they see
physical abuse happen with their mother then they become aggressive from the time being as
they cannot release their aggression on their father but when they come to university then put out
their anger on friends and if they are very shy and complex then they try to avoid people and
make themselves out of the socio-circles and wants to live alone from the rest of the society and
develop anxiety, stress and under go into deep depression in some cases.(Mr. Bilal Khan,
Personal Communication, 2020). While When interview of effective was taken that why
children blame their mother in this situation then her answer was because they think that she
doesn’t have time for his own children and is always busy by her own and she did same with
their father and due to self-esteem, their father has done 2nd marriage as in article of Aneeza
Pervaiz and Syeda Batool has also written that one of her participants believes that “their father
married again because my mother was unable to handle him properly.” (Pervaiz. A & Batool. S
,2016)

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