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Equilibrium & XP - Yous
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EQUILIBRIUM & XP
By Yous / In Uncategorized / 5 days ago / 13 Min read
What you are great at almost always develops to compensate for what you
are terrible at
These heavily influence what you gravitate towards and become good at
We tend to gravitate toward what we are good at, and avoid what we are bad
at
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Our weaknesses atrophy and become more of a limiter as the gap widens
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I was developing the emotion/body side of the equation, but neglecting the
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logic
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Overcompensates in that area to make up for lack of speed, power, and skill
Putting numbers to this, let’s say shooting was 84/100 and speed was 88/100
…but the opposite, which was positioning and strategy was 24/100
That would show up as a night and day difference in the results I produce
If I go from 84 to 87 shooting
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It’s the difference between making a incredible full-time income and making
nothing from sharing content
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Now let’s look at a broad sense of this and how it plays out
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The talented gradually cultivate their skills over their lifetime, it’s playing to
their primary cognitive functions
They don’t feel like they ‘paid a price’ to get it. They don’t have a intense
contrast of sacrifice made and energy exerted
This provides a high contrast and they can FEEL the price to pay
Giving them the perception of value from this contrast and energy exertion
This is why the untalented so easily can charge for their work & put
themselves out there – they overestimate themselves for this reason
This is why the talented so easily under charge or never charge and never
put themselves out there – they underestimate themselves
BOTH require integration of the opposite to get the best results and serve
others at the highest level
Invest back into their development and skills to be better with what they put
out there
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I could give endless examples of how this plays out, and how i’ve seen it
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In dating i’d keep doubling down on my strengths and did not acknowledge
my weaknesses
I’d keep doubling down on charisma and looks but was missing the opposite
side of the equation
Meanwhile the INVERSE is someone who was great at retaining but had no
attraction, essentially the ‘friend zone’
Knowing these inverses also shows it’s not really a matter of superior &
inferior
📜 “When the two become one, you will say to the mountain move and it will
move” – Jesus, Gospel of Thomas
It is not that our strengths are inadequate, rather it is our weaknesses which
prevent us from realizing results
When your car won’t start does that mean everything about the car is
broken?
Who does not workout, and starts working out changes something
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DIMINISHING RETURNS ON XP
In the gym your first year lifting, practically every week your lifts go up
Year 5 however, even a 5-10 pound increase over an entire year is considered
good
The XP table from RuneScape reveals this (other video games also follow the
same XP model)
The better you get, the more difficult it becomes to get better in a particular
skill
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It’s DOUBLE
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Getting to 85 will take 2 YEARS
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vs
(We are using simple math to illustrate the point, taking into consideration
compounding it could potentially be even more)
This is NOT saying to stop developing your strengths, but to be aware of the
overcompensation and neglect of the opposite
Wrestling with the opposite polarity that acts like a rubber band holding one
back
📜 “When the two become one, you will say to the mountain move and it will
move”
One does NOT need to mean exactly at the same skill level
Rather becoming ONE in direction they point to, on the same page, instead of
divided and weakening each other
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Complimentary vs Compensatory
This exists universally, a large part of the reason people require stimulants is
to COMPENSATE and power through a poorly designed system
BULLSEYE
We all start at different points around the perimeter and are moving toward
the bullseye
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They need opposites, one needs to gain weight, the other needs to lose
weight
They also need some similarities – exercise, eating better foods, hydration,
etc
The further from the bullseye, the worse our satisfaction and results
The closer to the bullseye the better our satisfaction and results
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The main focus here in bringing attention to the quantum leap effect of
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simply switching a weakness from negatively impacting you to being a HOME
complementary strength
When you remove the resistance of the weakness you also remove the
wasted energy your strength was compensating for
There reaches a point where people in their journey are forced to ‘face the
music’ when the gap between your strength and weakness is too strong
you’ll notice a devastating pattern
Understand this compensatory law and opposites law, and you will see it
everywhere
What is most rare and truly special are the ones who are BOTH
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That we can call the more logical type, gravitating toward strategy, systems,
distribution, analytics, packaging
Their distribution has no logic to it, their systems are non existent
Thus gravitating toward and doubling down on the strength of making the
product/the substance to overcompensate
The one with a great package but poor packaging needs the opposite so
people actually see his work and benefit from it
The one with great packaging but a poor package needs the opposite so
people actually benefit to a more impactful degree from his works
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Like a muscle it was the tension from overcompensating for our weakness
that developed our strengths to such a high level
Before this it was a matter of being self-challenged and wrestling with ones
own weakness that forced the tension to grow REACTIVELY
You need not worry, the game is designed in such a way you WILL keep
growing
If you choose to stop growing once you start seeing results, gradually like
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muscle attributes will atrophy HOME
Results will slip and some sort of negative catalyst will again appear
REACTIVELY as a result of the disharmonious tension of the gap in polarities
If you choose to PROACTIVELY create your own catalyst and challenges then
you will keep growing by YOUR OWN WILL
huh?
Self-Challenged meaning you pick your challenges for yourself or they will
come to you
What stops growth is when the self stops growth, doing better only when a
catalyst of something negative forces it
When you choose your challenges then you go on your own terms, if not
challenges come to you
It is not that are strengths are inadequate, rather our weaknesses obstruct
our realization of results
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📜 “When the two become one, you will say to the mountain move and it will
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There are probably 10 articles which can stem from these concepts
I wanted to get them out there in a clear and simple way to start
The nuances within the various aspects of the what we can call ‘Bullseye XP’
perspectives will be coming soon
Cheers,
– Yous
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