Name: John Gabriel Diuyan Section:GED101-C1

EXERCISE 3.1.1A Me, Myself, and Society

Instruction: Using the worksheet below, define what thoughts, beliefs, values, habits, and other
behavior (both positive and negative) you have acquired by filling in the spaces in the table. You may
also use a separate sheet.

Group/ Institution/ Beliefs/ Values/ Behavior

Your BVB
  Event (BVB)
Being grateful Because of my family, I am strictly
Taught how to be civilized, helpful, obedient, and
independent very formal not because my mother
1. Family
Always give back after is strict but because it teaches me
how to deal in society.
receiving grateful
Living the best as I could For me, having genuine friends
Become generous with is sacred. Because the memories
others you have with them is more
Be guilty of becoming precious than anything in the
2. Friends helpful with one another whole and it also builds your
character. And also because of
them, it built my character to
become more friendly and more
Microsystem adventurous.

Teaches everything Because of school, I become

Builds stress, anxiety and more tired when doing work
more because of unfair ruling. In my
self-perception, I always taught
myself that even though a bad
grade in high school
3. School downwards, you'll still get a fine
job, or a good college degree.
Because of this my mindset has
become more detrimental
especially if the things I do has
no harm in a short term.

Gives values, beliefs, and Growing with the church on my

religion side, didn't really grow my
beliefs in religion but because all
Mesosystem 1. Church the things that I did in the
church give me all I need to
grow.
 Gives all what a scout is
2. CAT
The company isn't really a
group per se, but the
SMPC Company helps all
3. SMPC Company the people here in
Semirara. And we all help
each other in times of
crisis
To know that
opportunities come and
1. My father's Job go
N/A
2. My friends'
Exosystem
change of SHS
school
To become aware of
3. My mother's leg one's health
pain To know one's limits
The church's ideology is
very different in different
parts of the world. But
1. Church one thing is true is that
we were made by God
and can be taken away by
God
It is believed by many
Macrosystem 2. Being great at that being great at
something or something is the only
everything thing a person can be
remembered.
It is believed by many,
especially Asians, that
3. Finishing college having a degree is one of
life's bucket list.
Being a CAT felt like a whole
community because it grew me
to become more loyal and more
serios as a CAT in my school.
Because of this community, my
moral strengthens, my own
values and behavior also
strengthen, and it also aligned
my path into social life.
My father's job losing is very
heart wrenching because of fear
of being homeless. Because of
this it made me realize that not
everything if for free.
Because of them leaving it made
me sad which only nourished on
being okay on anybody leaving,
friend or family.
Because of my mother's pain in
her right leg, I just consciously
helped more in the house to
lessen my mother's burden.
This ideology is very illogical
even for a omnipotent and
omniscient God, that is why I
resent that kind of mindset.
I believe that it is only if you are
being good to other people will
make recognizable to anybody.
I believe that living the life that
you want is the best thing in
anybody’s bucket list. And
finishing college is the least to
worry about.
 To serve as a reminder Every time I went to my
where are your roots at hometown makes me happy
1. Every time I went and become more aware of
to Davao City where I used to live and where I
was born, and I am grateful for
that.
Become thriftier I learned to value money more
Chronosystem 2. My father's and even find ways to and more understanding of the
unemployment help even just a situation.
little bit.
  All the days I went to school is
what made me today, it shaped
3. All of the days I me to how I become, and it
went to school taught me everything I need
from here on.

EXERCISE 3.1.1B Me, Myself, and Society

Process Questions:

1. What beliefs, values, and behaviors do you consider to be helpful to your social self? Why?

I am an ambivert because of personal issues, but on what I have learned as I grow up that are
helpful in my social self is to become more engaging in any social gathering, become more
adventurous with little risks in life, being generous, friendly, cheerful, kind, trustworthy,
courteous, helpful and many more that I have learned throughout the years will help me in my
social self. And becoming more understanding by being humble and more open-minded to other
people that surrounds me.

2. What beliefs, values, and behaviors do you consider as detrimental to your social self? Why?
There are pros and cons in each subject and the downside of my behaviors in my social self is
that I take things logically. It is not the worst thing but because I engage with other people
without responding to any of their feelings is very bad in socializing. For example, I always think
logically especially in the event of somebody is in bad mood or in a very bad state.
3. What new insights about your social self, do you have at this point?

Well, I become more understanding with anybody on the internet because I want to know
everything in different perspective.
EXERCISE 3.2.1A MSM- My Social Media

Instruction: Open any of your social media accounts. Review your posts and screen capture those you
think show benign and toxic online disinhibitions. Why do you think they are benign or toxic? Use the
table below for your answers.

I did not have any posts that shows benign or toxic posts in any social media. I have neither share
controversial topics with anybody nor any controversial comments in any posts

EXERCISE 3.2.1B MSM- My Social Media

Instruction: Take a look at the things you post on your social media accounts and answer the following
questions.

Processing questions:

1. Based on the things you post, what can you say about your online persona?
Because I have no posts about anything other than a change of profile picture on my Facebook
account, I have no foundation on my online persona. But I have interacted Facebook and TikTok
to know what I do in a daily basis, like if a content is controversial like the upcoming election, I
just always read anything that has a solid argument and only listen from both sides. Based on
what I do on social media, I can define myself as reserved especially in very controversial times
not because I have a persona to keep up with but because I hate dealing with uncivilized users
a.k.a internet trolls and there are a lot of them.

2. How do you feel about your posts?

Again, I don’t have any controversial ones or any posts that engages with other people. And the
other posts I have are only tagged ones and a change of profile picture.

3. Have you ever been involved in social media conflicts? If yes, explain how, and if no, explain
your general feeling toward social media conflicts.
I don’t want to get involved with anybody about any kind of drama. Throughout the time, there
will be a controversial person in social media that does something unforgivable, and the internet
will hate her for it. During the controversy, the perpetrator will delete or make his/ her account
private, and the internet will get mad and will make a hate thread. Of course, that I’ll still hate
him/ her, but a hate speech or doxing is too far. Plus, nothing, in the power of the internet, will
solve the problem.
4. What can you do to avoid social media conflicts in the future?
Nothing, a conflict is a conflict and everybody on the internet are involved with it, you
personally will choose what to do next. For me, I’ll just skim away if it doesn’t revolve around
me or anything near me.
EXERCISE 3.3.1 Wants and Needs, Utility and Significance, Signifier and Signified

Instruction: List down at least 10 material things that you possess. Indicate whether they are wants or
needs. Write their utility and significance.

Material Things Wants/ Needs Utility Significance

It helps me in any school
1. Laptop Needs activities For school
It helps me in any school
2. Computer Wants/ Needs activities For school
I needed it to buy the
3. Money Needs necessary thing in my life For everyday things
4. Cellphone Needs I need it for everything For everyday things
Necessary only for going
out. Other than that it is
not that required in my
5. Shoes Wants life For clothing
Necessary for everyday
6. Clothes Needs things For clothing
Necessary for school
7. Books Needs activities For school
Unnecessary but it only
served as an
8. Playstation Wants entertainment For entertainment
Unnecessary but it only
served as an
9. Speakers Wants entertainment For entertainment
Unnecessary but it only
served as an
10. Television Wants entertainment For entertainment