Science Technology Engineering and Mathematics Senior High School
1. Explain the meaning of authentic dialogue by using the following keywords:
A. "Otherness" of the other Humans differ from perspective, thoughts, opinions, beliefs, and etc. As what the "otherness" of the other implies, humans are at state of being different or unique from one another. So, when different people start a conversation, authentic dialogue can be present if and only if they talk with exchanging true and accurate ideas that can be based on their genuine emotions. In other words, authentic dialogue in "otherness" of the other is present if there is a real and honest conversation from two or more person with contrasting or distinct ideas. B. The other remains infinitely transcendent, infinitely foreign Given the fact that we are all imperfect, we also understood that we have our own limitations that put us in a situation where we can say that others are much better than us since their knowledge is greater or vice versa. With this fact, we cannot avoid conversations that might exceed to what we expected, conversations that we might think far different and unusual to our ordinary experiences. This kind of conversation might actually lead to conflicts or can be an authentic one. Therefore, authentic dialogue when the other remains infinitely transcendent is when one starts to listen and understand what is the real meaning of the talk rather than thinking that he/she was degraded. C. Moral humility Moral humility is when you humble yourself not because it is what you want others will do to you but because it is who you are. When we talk honestly and humbly to others without thinking about their moral status, that's when we are having an authentic dialogue. To be humble is to talk to other people with real feeling, real and accurate ideas and with an honest heart. If that happens, we are starting an authentic dialogue that is not based on life's standards.
2. Explain genuine dialogue by relating it to the following different barriers of
genuine dialogue: A. Totalization When totalization occurs, genuine dialogue can be terminated. In order for genuine dialogue to continue its role even with totalization, one should totalize not focusing on the negative side but instead focus on the bright and positive side. This doesn't mean that one will fake story in order to tell positive comments, it just simply means to be concern of what others might feel when they are told of something harsh and hurtful. To have genuine conversation even with totalization, one should put his/her self on the shoes of the other, that way negativity of totalization can be minimized and genuine conversation can be preserved. B. Labeling, reducing person into social categories . Genuine dialogue cannot be entirely practiced once there are labels of each person according to his/her social category. When there is partiality, the tendency of degrading another person is high and so, genuine dialogue is missed. But then, if and only if there is impartiality, genuine conversation can be practiced with the thought that nobody is higher or lower than the other. C. The assumption of sameness When one assumes that he/she is the same with the other, genuine dialogue can be blocked. Since one already assumes, he/she will then avoid starting a conversation knowing that they are already on the same page of his/her ideas. To avoid blocking genuine dialogue in assuming sameness, one should always remember that each one is different and unique. That way assumptions can be controlled. D. Familiarity When a person become familiar with another person, he/she might start on making jokes and say sarcastic words without realizing what the other might feel. Since there familiar with one another, the other might think that it's okay to say hurtful words sometimes but that is wrong. Familiarity is a good way to start a good relationship, but sometimes it can also be a root for a silent war. When one becomes over familiar, harsh words can be directly noticed and so, genuine conversation might lose its track over a heartfelt talk.
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