WHO I AM

In this world, many people surround us. Though we all apparently look similar, yet we all are
unique in our own ways. The uniqueness gives us an identity. I am a teenage girl. I am like most
teenage girls but I am also different from others. Those differences make me who I am.

Who am I? This is a question we have all faced many times, from a multitude of sources. Ever since
elmentary school when I was asked to write about my family and myself, I disliked self reflection.
This was in part because I did not have the vocabulary to present my thoughts and majorly due to
the fact I was scared of what would come of a true reflection of who I am. So enough of that, who
am I? I am phlegmatic emotion is not a thing I have a capacity for, I am always asked, “are you
upset about something?” “why don’t you get as excited as everyone else about things?” and my
answer is simply “I don’t”. I have never experienced grief.

I used to have extremely low self-esteem and friends with very high self-esteem so naturally caused
me assume a superficial mask of high self-esteem. But as time passed my self-esteem grew and this
false high self-esteem bloomed into borderline narcissim. I am self-obsessed and care too much
about how I look, dress and act, but my self-obsession doesn’t affect me caring about others. Also
as to not contradict myself I feel I should add I do not view caring as an emotion but rather a
natural instinct.

I feel uncomfortable when im not with my own “squad”, or group of friends. In these situations I
tend to put up a “bubble” and stay out of conversation. I enjoy observing people and will wait until
I know I have something worth adding to the group before joining in. But when this bubble is
popped by someone pulling me into conversation or coming up to me, I m outgoing and some
would even say funny.

Who am I? this is a question that I should ask myself everyday, I consider myself as an individual
person, with a body and a soul, a person who makes mistakes, laughs, cries, hurt, smiles, and loved.
My life is full of meaningful relationships and memories. I am loved,supported and encouraged by
my family. I am highly ambitious person and has a big dreamsfor myself and also for my famiy. I
want to become an Socia Worker someday, because I am motivated the belief that through
empowering one person at a time it becomes a ripple effect into the society.

As a college student, sometimes, I no longer go on gala with my friends, because of many school
works. My parents have made it possible to get me into college school even if we’re lack of money,
this is all for me to learn on and to be a good person in future. I am a person who makes many
mistakes, but im willing to ifx and correct my mistakes. We all do mistakes and it’s not a bad thing ,
it’s how we grow and become better. I am a person who laugh so hard but I am also a soft-hearted,
I cry easily even at small things. I am kind person by heart and I intentionally never try to hurt
people, I have a little bit aatitude problem, I usually get angry without any reason.

I love my life and my purpose and aim in life. I want to do something good for my family. I mean life
to be great gift for some special purpose by God. Therefore, I value time in my life and strive hard
to be successful someday. You know successful and failure are closely associated with one’s
achievements and losses. One who achieves anything today has lost a thing yesterday, there is no
completely successful person without the mixture of both failure and success. That is to say, if I
failed many times, this will you were will made me stronger ever. I am person who works hard and
trying to improve an improvise until I get the success I desire. This all expresses who I am.