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CHAPTER IV

PRESENTATION, ANALYSIS, AND INTERPRETATION OF DATA

This chapter presents the data that dealt with the research questions of

the study. This study attempted to answer the following Research Questions:

1. How the participants do perceived their mother’s job?

2. What are the advantages and disadvantages of being a policewomen’s child?

3. What are the challenges of having a police mother?

4. How do the participants cope with the challenges of having a police mother?

5. What are the insights gained from having a police mother?

Perception of the Participants on their mother’s job

To answer Research Question number 1, “How the participants do perceive their

mother’s job?” Thematic analysis was used to analyze the qualitative data. Results are

placed in Tables 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, and 12.

Table 7

What is you perception on your mothers job? can she manage her time between work

and being a mom a home? Understanding that being a Police is arduous Job
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Participant Direct Quotation Theme


yes because technically base on
experience I have a very competitive
mother in terms of her career as well
as her job being a mother to her 6
1 children among of which are uh some
are still in elementary and some are
in college but she played her role
very well being a mother and a police
officer as well.

I view my mother’s job as a noble job


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at the same time rigid, rigid sir
because she had to divide her time
Understanding that being
The chosen field or career of my
a Police is arduous Job
mother is not usually the type of job
mothers usually do. It is different and
challenging because I always see my
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mother act as a strong woman not
just for her family but also for the
country. I always looked up to her for
being a police woman and a mother
at the same time.

Para sa akin ma’am yung trabaho


nang mama ko is isa sa
6
pinakamahirap talaga na trabaho pag
yung pulis kasi, based on experience
talaga to maam.
Table 7 shows the LIVED EXPERIENCES OF CHILDREN AND POLICEWOMEN; A PHENOMENOLOGICAL STUDY: Understanding that being a

Police is arduous Job.

In table 7, presents the lived experience of children and policewomen; a

phenomenological study is: understanding that being police is arduous job. Out of ten

(10) participants, four (4) answered that the profession of being a police officer and

working the role of being a mother was indeed difficult and that both requires strenuous

effort, as stated by Participant “I view my mother’s job as a noble at the same time rigid,

rigid because at the same time she had to divide her time.”

These results were supported by this literature stated that, according to Kurtz

(2012), the most notable difference between the stress levels of male and female

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agents is mainly related to family circumstances and responsibilities. This is one of the

challenges encountered by women in Law enforcement.

Table 8

How the participants do perceived their mother’s job? Respectable and Honorable Job

Participant Direct Quotation Theme


“She also needs to take care
of her duties and
responsibilities as a
policewoman just like a
mother. My mother knows how
10 to manage her time wisely
because she always gives time
to clean and take care of our
family as a whole, she doesn’t
forget to bon with us even
though she is tired at work.”
“I view my mother’s job as a
privilege job and also high-risk
5 job because in the first place
they spend most of their time
in her work.”
“I view my mother’s job not just Respectable and Honorable
2 a public servant but also a sign job
of being a good mother.”
“Sir I view my mother’s work
as a respectable job. She is a
role model to us, her children
and not just us but also our
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neighbors and people in our
locality. She is known to be
disciplined and not only that,
she is also caring. “
7 Manageable job sir.
“I view my mother’s job as a
formal profession which
requires her to uphold her
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duties and responsibilities no
only during office hours but for
the entirety of her service.”
Table 8 shows the LIVED EXPERIENCES OF CHILDREN AND POLICEWOMEN; A PHENOMENOLOGICAL STUDY: Respectable and

Honorable Job.

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In this Table 8 represents that six (6) respondents, over the ten (10) children

respondents says that it is respectable and honorable job are their answer to the

question “How do you view your mother’s job? Can she manage her time between work

and being mom at home?” The data shows that they view their mother’s profession as

respectable and honorable job, and is able to divide their time between their profession

and role as a mother like what Participant 2 said “Sir I view my mother’s work as a

respectable job. She is a role model to us, her children and not just us but also our

neighbors and people in our locality. She is known to be disciplined and not only that,

she is also caring. “

These results were supported by this literature stated that. The mother and child

relation is made stronger by quality time together, not quantity. some hesitation in the

absence of mother but as soon as children get love and attention from mother when she

returns, they forget the absence of the mother and their relationship becomes stronger

(Dr. Abdul Sattar Almani, et. al, 2012).

Table 9

How would you describe your life living with your parent considering their line of work?

Inspired and Proud to Parent's Duty

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Participant Direct Quotation Theme


“I would describe my life as a very
fulfilling because uh I grew up just
being a child of police officer uh I
know a God I also serve the noble
cause of accepting the fact that
1 they are police officers serving the
nation, giving their best though
sacrificing their time for their
children, for their family just to be
able to provide quality service to
the people”
I could describe my life as
something that i should always
cherish and value because my
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mother is doing her best in her job Inspired and Proud to
to maintain peace and order , and Parent's Duty
also to keep me safe.
7 Grateful and blessed sir.
Siguro ma’am beneficial pero
masaya naman siya kasi yung
pagiging pulis niya ma’am
nakakaproud kasi witness kami
eversince bata pa lang kami na
maraming pumupunta sa bahay
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na merely nagpapasalamat dahil
sa tulong na nagawa ng mama ko.
Although merong lapses atsaka
pagkukulang sa amin na anak
niya naiintindihan naming ganun
yung nature ng work niya.
Table 9 shows the LIVED EXPERIENCES OF CHILDREN AND POLICEWOMEN; A PHENOMENOLOGICAL STUDY: Inspired and Proud to

Parent's Duty

Table 9 represents that four (4) respondents, over the ten (10) respondents says

that they’re inspired and proud to parent’s duty to the question “How would you describe

your life living with your parent considering their line of work?”. The data shows that the

children of those policewoman officer are inspired to become one as well and they are

honored with their parents as sated by participant 7 “ Grateful and blessed sir, Siguro

ma’am beneficial pero masaya naman siya kasi yung pagiging pulis niya ma’am

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nakakaproud kasi witness kami eversince bata pa lang kami na maraming pumupunta

sa bahay na merely nagpapasalamat dahil sa tulong na nagawa ng mama ko”.

These results were supported by this literature stated that the mother and child

relation is made stronger by quality time together, not quantity. some hesitation in the

absence of mother but as soon as children get love and attention from mother when she

returns, they forget the absence of the mother and their relationship becomes stronger

(Dr. Abdul Sattar Almani, et. al, 2012).

Table 10

How would you describe your life living with your parent considering their line of work?

Close Family Ties

Participant Direct Quotation Theme


Family Oriented sir, so during her
working hours I always meet my
2 grandmother, sometimes my
uncle or aunt, it depends upon the
situation who’s available.
For me sir, I consider my life as
fine and getting better, we
Close Family Ties
accepted and aware of her job
and also we’re not grow up
5 seeking that attention since we
understand their work as they
always say as a public servant,
you must prioritize the public first
before your family.
Table 10 shows the LIVED EXPERIENCES OF CHILDREN AND POLICEWOMEN; A PHENOMENOLOGICAL STUDY: Close Family Ties.

Table 10 shows that two (2) out of ten (10) participants said that they describe

their lives to have close family ties. In this statements, participant 2 mentioned “ Family

Oriented sir, so during her working hours I always meet my grandmother, sometimes

my uncle or aunt, it depends upon the situation who’s available”. The participants are

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saying that despite of the hectic schedule of their mothers, they still manage to have a

good relationship as a family.

These results were supported by this literature stated that The mother and child

relation is made stronger by quality time together, not quantity. some hesitation in the

absence of mother but as soon as children get love and attention from mother when she

returns, they forget the absence of the mother and their relationship becomes stronger

(Dr. Abdul Sattar Almani, et. al, 2012).

Table 11

How would you describe your life living with your parent considering their line of work?

Learn to be independent through parent’s way of discipline

Participant Direct Quotation Theme


As I grew older, I decided to take
initiative to take most of the
responsibilities in our home. My father
taught me how to cook and my mother
taught me how to properly clean our
house. I absorbed all of that and I took
care of my lola and my brother while
managing the chores. I am fulfilled that I
9 could help my parents inspite of their
busy schedule. Instead of joining my
friends in their outdoor activities, I prefer
to stay at home. I enjoy cooking viands
Learn to be independent
for my family and see them enjoy it. I
through parent’s way of
also enjoy watching my parents relax and
discipline
not help in our house because me and
my brother is already done in cleaning
our house.
Our normal way of living inside the house
sir is when you commit a mistake, our
parents sometimes hurt or inflict us
slightly as a means of discipline but we
3 understand their intentions sir so that we
would not repeat those mistakes for us to
be more disciplined and that the hurt they
gave was love; for us to really think about
our mistakes sir.
Table 12 shows the LIVED EXPERIENCES OF CHILDREN AND POLICEWOMEN; A PHENOMENOLOGICAL STUDY: Learn to be independent

through parent’s way of discipline

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Table 11 represents that two (2) over the ten (10) respondents says that children

learnt to be independent through parent’s way of discipline is how they describe their

lives considering the line of work their parents have. In their statements the data shows

the way how a police officer mother disciplines them is an advantage. Participant 9

stated that “ As I grew older, I decided to take initiative to take most of the

responsibilities in our home. My father taught me how to cook and my mother taught me

how to properly clean our house. I absorbed all of that and I took care of my lola and my

brother while managing the chores”.

These results were supported by the literature stated that Job of the mothers has

no effect on children`s cognitive development. The teachers explained that cognitive

development consists on knowledge, comprehension, application, analysis, synthesis

and evaluation and the children of working and house hold mothers have same

cognitive development. Mothers urged that cognitive development depends upon

heredity and environmental non-employed tries her best to provide the best

environment necessary for child development. Students argued that employed mothers

make the children more independent (Dr. Abdul Sattar Almani, et. al, 2012).

Table 12

How would you describe your life living with your parent considering their line of work?

Complicated Due to Time Deficit

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Participant Direct Quotation Theme


Since my both of my parents are
police officer, I would describe it
as being a slightly complicated
4
because she needs to divide her
time so that we can all be together
sir.
when it comes to the emotional Complicated Due to Time
needs namin, oo nakakausap nila Deficit
kami maam pag may time pa sila
maam pero iba na kasi maam kasi
6
yung firm dati tsaka before ako
mag enter sa academy maam
nafefeel ko talaga maam na
bumabayi sila sa amin maam.
Table 12 shows the LIVED EXPERIENCES OF CHILDREN AND POLICEWOMEN; A PHENOMENOLOGICAL STUDY: Complicated Due to Time

Deficit

In this Table 12 it represents the two (2) out of ten (10) respondents says that

due to their mother’s profession as stated by Participant 4 “ Since my both of my

parents are police officer, I would describe it as being a slightly complicated because

she needs to divide her time so that we can all be together sir.”., respondents are

having complicated relationship due to time deficit because their parents have to divide

their time so that they can be all together. The data shows that the it’s being

complicated due to the time management.

These results were supported by the literature stated wherein they pointed out

that by making an effort to strike this balance, they soon exhaust their emotional and

physical reserves, leaving them frequently weary, burned out, and unable to continue to

succeed in both domains. Women, specifically, tend to experience even greater conflict

because their share of responsibilities in the family/home domain is generally much

larger than their male counterparts (Hall et al., Kurtz, & Roebuck et al., Policemoms:

Perceived challenges impacting gender equity in policing, 2012).

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Advantages and Disadvantages of being a policewoman’s child.

To answer research question number 2, “What are the advantages and

disadvantages of being a policewomen’s child?” Thematic coding was used to analyze

the qualitative data. Results are placed in Tables. Results are placed in Tables 13 and

14.

Table 13

What are the advantages of being a policewoman's child? what are the disadvantages?

Learned to Adapt on Parent’s Absence

Participant Direct Quotation Theme


“The advantages of being a
policewoman’s son is that I became very
sensitive to females, growing up I did not
1 want to hurt others particularly females
because my mother always inculcated to
me that a females are given that slightest
advantage of physical” General Advantages of being a
“Respect maam, nirerespeto ako nang child of a police=mom:
mga classmate ko maam o nung mga Respect to women, Sense of
friends ko, hindi nila ako inaapi ,minsan Independence, Responsibility,
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natatakot sila. Na ganituhin sila ganyan. Security and Dicipline, Social
Safe and security din maam, Connection and Prestige.
napoproviadan nang kailangan namin.”
“Gaya nung sabi ko ma’am na yun
adedevelop yung sense of independence
8 sa sarili ma’am , Ma’am. Disadvatages
ma’am is yung mga activities na
nirerequire good moral values.”
Table 13 shows the LIVED EXPERIENCES OF CHILDREN AND POLICEWOMEN; A PHENOMENOLOGICAL STUDY: Learned to Adapt on

Parent’s Absence

Table 13 represents that three (3) over the ten (10) respondent answers to the

question “What are the advantages of being a policewoman’s child? What are the

disadvantages?” Participant 6 said “Respect Ma’am, nirerespeto ako nang mga

classmate ko Ma’am o nung mga friends ko, hindi nila ako inaapi, minsan natatakot sila

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ganyan, safe and security din Ma’am, napoprovidedan ng kailangan namin. In this

statement, it shows the general advantages of being a child of a policemom: Respect to

women, sense of independence, responsibility, security and discipline, Social

connection and prestige.

These results were supported by the literature stated that Job of the mothers

has no effect on children`s cognitive development. The teachers explained that

cognitive development consists on knowledge, comprehension, application, analysis,

synthesis and evaluation and the children of working and house hold mothers have

same cognitive development. Mothers urged that cognitive development depends upon

heredity and environmental non-employed tries her best to provide the best

environment necessary for child development. Students argued that employed mothers

make the children more independent (Dr. Abdul Sattar Almani, et. al, 2012).

Table 14

What are the advantages of being a policewoman's child? what are the disadvantages?

General Disavantages of being a child a police-mom? Time and/or attention deficit for

bonding and sense of danger due to parent's duty as police

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Participant Direct Quotation Theme


“the disadvantage is that the time
is always divided and limited, our
2 time also depends if she’s
required to take post to her
working unit”
“disadvantages is that every time
I’m home nor outside I always
keep reminding myself that is
3 should not do anything that can
destroy the image of my mom
because what I do will reflect in
her as my parent.”
“disadvantages is that you have
General Disavantages of
4 the spare time to spend with
being a child a police-
them.”
mom: Time and/or
“disadvantages, their time
attention deficit for
spending with us is limited and at
5 bonding and sense of
the same time pressured because
danger due to parent's
I need to be proper all the times.”
duty as police
“disadvantages are I am not able
to spend most of our time with
her. It is hard for me at first
9 because why can’t my mother
support rme in having a high
score at school but I eventually
learned to understand them.
The advantages are you know
your rights by the law and you can
apply scholarships regarding the
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line of work of a police. The
disadvantages are you should
learn to live independently.
Table 14 shows the LIVED EXPERIENCES OF CHILDREN AND POLICEWOMEN; A PHENOMENOLOGICAL STUDY: General Disavantages of

being a child a police-mom: Time and/or attention deficit for bonding and sense of danger due to parent's duty as police.

Table 14 represents that six (6) over the ten (10) respondents says that general

disadvantages of being a child of a police-mom.

These results were supported by this literature stated that Job of the mothers has

no effect on children`s cognitive development. The teachers explained that cognitive

development consists on knowledge, comprehension, application, analysis, synthesis

and evaluation and the children of working and house hold mothers have same

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cognitive development. Mothers urged that cognitive development depends upon

heredity and environmental non-employed tries her best to provide the best

environment necessary for child development. Students argued that employed mothers

make the children more independent (Dr. Abdul Sattar Almani, et. al, 2012).

Challenges of having a Police Mother

To answer research question number 3, “What are the challenges of having a

police mother?” Thematic coding was used to analyze the qualitative data. Results are

placed in Tables. Results are placed in Tables 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, and 21.

Table 15

How is it growing up with your mother as a police? Raised in Strict Parenting

Participant Direct Quotation Theme


Growing up with my mother,
she’s very disciplinarian in a
good way, she always ask
2
us, how’s our day, if we are
all fine and if there’s any
problem.
Live in a condition to meet
each role. Parang we
6 comply to rules and
regulations na na-impose Raised in Strict Parenting
niya sa amin maam.
“Kasi pag sinabing pulis
yung nanay mo dapat
expected yan sila na strikto
sila tapos hindi rin kadalas
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yung mama ko sa bahay na
naiiwan kami sa bahay na
kailangan magasikaso para
sa sarili namin.”
Table 15 shows the LIVED EXPERIENCES OF CHILDREN AND POLICEWOMEN; A PHENOMENOLOGICAL STUDY: Raised in Strict Parenting.

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Table 15 represents the three (3) participants, over the ten (10) respondents

says that raised in strict parenting is their answer to the question “How is it growing up

with your mother as a police?” The data shows that it is expected to have a strict

parents if they are in police service. Participant 2 says that “Growing up with my mother,

she’s very disciplinarian in a good way, she always ask us, how’s our day, if we are all

fine and if there’s any problem In their statements, it shows that the children that has a

police mother is expected to be strict and raised with that kind of parenting.

These results were supported by this literature stated that It has been observed

that a child`s infant period suffers badly due to the mother`s employment. They should

realize the fact that the quality of time they spend with their children is a priority should

be to sit with children either playing with them or listening to them interestingly whatever

phone while sitting in the company of children. It has also been observed the hat

emotional development and attachment of infants suffer badly when the work is over

working mothers should spend remaining the whole time with. They should prioritize the

company of their children. They should spend less time with others. Children like

games very much and mothers should spend most of the time playing with children.

Lack of monitoring and supervision is observed in most of the families where mothers

are employed (Dr. Abdul Sattar Almani, et. al, 2012).

Table 16

How is it growing up with your mother as a police? Growing up is Challenging due to

the situation.

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Participant Direct Quotation Theme


For me sir, I feel a sense of fear in a
way that in any day or any time my
mother may be put in harm because
of her work especially in our area
3
where there are many leftist groups
(NPA). We also secure our safety at
our house since we know the work of
our mother.
“its quite very challenging because
sometimes especially when there are
special occasions; birthdays,
graduations and other special
occasions significant events in your
life. Often times when they are in
1 great and dire need of their or of
them to perform their duties as police
officers they often make the hard
Growing up is Challenging
decision of choosing their work over
due to the situation.
their own children because they know
that the their service is highly needed
by the community that they serve”
I could say that I’m a proud son
because her job is a privilege and at
the same time a high risk one, the
figure of my mother is a good role
5
model in our town because not
everyone in our place got that job
that’s why it serve as an honor to me
sir.
Inspired sir, because being a
6
policewoman is a tough job.
It’s very difficult sir because there’s
time that when we need our mothers
4
presence she was not able join us
because of her work.
Table 16 shows the LIVED EXPERIENCES OF CHILDREN AND POLICEWOMEN; A PHENOMENOLOGICAL STUDY: Growing up is

Challenging due to the situation.

Table 16 shows the five (5) participants, over the ten (10) respondents says that

raised in strict parenting is their answer to the question “How is it growing up with your

mother as a police?” The data shows that it is expected to have a strict parent if they

are in police service. In their statements, is just a kind of parenting. Growing up is

Challenging due to the situation as participant 3 quoted “For me sir, I feel a sense of

fear in a way that in any day or any time my mother may be put in harm because of her

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work especially in our area where there are many leftist groups (NPA). We also secure

our safety at our house since we know the work of our mother.”

These results were supported by this literature stated that It has been observed

that a child`s infant period suffers badly due to the mother`s employment. They should

realize the fact that the quality of time they spend with their children is a priority should

be to sit with children either playing with them or listening to them interestingly whatever

phone while sitting in the company of children. It has also been observed the hat

emotional development and attachment of infants suffer badly when the work is over

working mothers should spend remaining the whole time with. They should prioritize the

company of their children. They should spend less time with others. Children like

games very much and mothers should spend most of the time playing with children.

Lack of monitoring and supervision is observed in most of the families where mothers

are employed (Dr. Abdul Sattar Almani, et. al, 2012).

Table 17

How is it growing up with your mother as a police? Learned to be Independent

Participant Direct Quotation Theme


I noticed when I was young that my
mother is different from my classmate’s
mother. My classmate always has their
mothers at their side at school, during
PTA meeting I am often lended to other
9
mothers because my mama could not
attend. That simple activity I
Learned to be Independent
implemented to myself that I need to
learn in being independent in just a
young age
Growing up with my mother as a police
officer, she is not always around because
10
she has duties and responsibilities that
she needs to take care first.
Table 17 shows the LIVED EXPERIENCES OF CHILDREN AND POLICEWOMEN; A PHENOMENOLOGICAL STUDY: Learned to be

Independent.

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Table 17 represents that two (2) respondents, over the (10) respondents

says that they learned to be independent.“ In their statements, participant 10 says

“Growing up with my mother as a police officer, she is not always around because she

has duties and responsibilities that she needs to take care first”.

These results were supported by this literature stated that It has been observed

that a child`s infant period suffers badly due to the mother`s employment. They should

realize the fact that the quality of time they spend with their children is a priority should

be to sit with children either playing with them or listening to them interestingly whatever

phone while sitting in the company of children. It has also been observed the hat

emotional development and attachment of infants suffer badly when the work is over

working mothers should spend remaining the whole time with. They should prioritize the

company of their children. They should spend less time with others. Children like

games very much and mothers should spend most of the time playing with children.

Lack of monitoring and supervision is observed in most of the families where mothers

are employed (Dr. Abdul Sattar Almani, et. al, 2012).

Table 18

Did you have attachment issues when your mom leaves for work? How does the

absence of your mother affect your day living? No Attachment Issue, Learn to Live

Independent and Responsible

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Participant Direct Quotation Theme


“I had a period of time to be able
to adapt to such environment that
1 uh I need to accept that they
were, they should not be present
at all times as I was growing up.”
No sir, because every time she
leaves she keep on reminding us
about her field of work that she
needs to go back for the sake of
2
us. I was inspired by her because
no matter how hassle her work is,
she can still manage to ask for our
welfare.
For me nothing sir, because mom
always explain to us her field of
3 work and she always keep
prioritizing family time and strong
bond between us.
No sir, at young age my mother No Attachment Issue,
was already indoctrinated in Learn to Live
regard with her line of work. In the Independent and
4
sense that it made us more Responsible
responsible, during her presence
we need to need to be proper.
None sir, in the first place she
ensure that we’re okay and I
totally understand if sometime
they was not able to attend in
5 some of events and activities. For
me sir, there is no effect since due
to technology I am now open for
communication with them anytime
and anywhere.
The absence of my mother due to
her work made me to learn to live
independently and learn to rely on
10 myself in times of trouble , and
everytime I go home I should take
care of myself , because I don’t
have my mother around.
Table 18 shows the LIVED EXPERIENCES OF CHILDREN AND POLICEWOMEN; A PHENOMENOLOGICAL STUDY: No Attachment Issue,

Learn to Live Independent and Responsible

In this Table 18 it represents the six (6) respondents, over the twenty (20)

children says that they’re not having attachment issues, instead they learn to live

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independent and responsible. As stated by participant 4 to the question “Did you have

attachments issues when your mom leaves for work? How does the absence of your

mother affect your day to day living?”, “No, Sir ,At young age my mother was already

indoctrinated in regard with her line of work. In the sense that it made us more

responsible, during her presence we need to be proper.” In this statement, it is clear to

the respondent that they’re aware about their parent’s situation with regard to their line

of work.

These results were supported by the literature stated that Job of the mothers has

no effect on children`s cognitive development. The teachers explained that cognitive

development consists on knowledge, comprehension, application, analysis, synthesis

and evaluation and the children of working and house hold mothers have same

cognitive development. Mothers urged that cognitive development depends upon

heredity and environmental non-employed tries her best to provide the best

environment necessary for child development. Students argued that employed mothers

make the children more independent (Dr. Abdul Sattar Almani, et. al, 2012).

Table 19

Did you have attachment issues when your mom leaves for work? How does the

absence of your mother affect your day living? Learned to Adapt on Parent’s Absence

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Participant Direct Quotation Theme


Yes sir, as time goes by when Im
7 growing up, I can adapt the time
when she was working.
I am taught on how to act always
on alert. We were taught to be
9 brave even though there are
challenges or problems in our
way.
Nung bata kami ma’am, yes
ma’am until siguro hanggang 7
years old ako ma’am, during that
time di ko pafully comprehend na
ganun yung trabaho niya ma’am.
Nung baby naman kami ma’am
toddlers kami ma’am every
Learned to Adapt on
pregnancy ng mommy ko ma’am
Parent’s Absence
8 parang may taon naman
makasama naming siya ma’am
pero habang lumalaki kami ma’am
parang lalo siyang matagal na
nawawala dahil sa schooling na
tinetake niya over the years. Kaya
na fully comprehend lang namin
ma’am parang naiintindihan yung
may naiisip kami as teenagers.
Oo maam, kahit may mga
problema na hindi pa nareresolve
minsan naiisip ko nalang maam
6
na may responsibilities pa naman
sila outside sa bahay namin
maam
Table 19 shows the LIVED EXPERIENCES OF CHILDREN AND POLICEWOMEN; A PHENOMENOLOGICAL STUDY: Learned to Adapt on

Parent’s Absence

Table 19 represents that four (4) over the ten (10) respondents says that parent

considering their line of work”, to the question “Did you have attachments issues when

your mom leaves for work? How does the absence of your mother affect your day to

day living? ” The data shows that participant 7 answered “ No, the children of those

policewoman officer are inspired to become one as well and they are honored with their

parents.

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These results were supported by this literature stated that the mother and child

relation is made stronger by quality time together, not quantity. some hesitation in the

absence of mother but as soon as children get love and attention from mother when she

returns, they forget the absence of the mother and their relationship becomes stronger

(Dr. Abdul Sattar Almani, et. al, 2012).

Table 20

Was it a challenge to become a child of a policewoman? Difficult due to frequent

Parental Absence to Render Duty

Participant Direct Quotation Theme


“personally speaking it was very challenging
because I’m the only son among my siblings I
am the only boy and therefore the absence of
1
my mother also the absence of my father
because of their work I had to stand up at
very young age.
“very difficult, she don’t have time to guide
4 you and you have to depend on your other
relatives for you understand different things.”
“Yes sir, it is very challenging to meet their
7 expectation, to strive harder sir and to
Difficult due to frequent Parental
become like them.”
Absence to Render Duty
Back in the day, we don’t have the
relationship of closeness from other mothers
and their daughters. I am not able to share
9
my feelings and thoughts because she is
often at work. It is hard to have the closeness
when she is always not with us.
“The greatest challenge that i encountered is
the times that i miss and need someone to
10 rely on and my mother is not around so i must
deal with it with myself and understand the
line of work of my mother.”
Table 20 shows the LIVED EXPERIENCES OF CHILDREN AND POLICEWOMEN; A PHENOMENOLOGICAL STUDY Difficult due to frequent

Parental Absence to Render Duty

Table 20 represents that five (5) participants, over the ten(10) says that it is

difficult due to frequent parental absence to render duty.“ , “Was it a challenge to

become a child of a policewoman?”. Participant 7 said.

These results were supported by this literature stated that It has been observed

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that a child`s infant period suffers badly due to the mother`s employment. They should

realize the fact that the quality of time they spend with their children is a priority should

be to sit with children either playing with them or listening to them interestingly whatever

phone while sitting in the company of children. It has also been observed the hat

emotional development and attachment of infants suffer badly when the work is over

working mothers should spend remaining the whole time with. They should prioritize the

company of their children. They should spend less time with others. Children like

games very much and mothers should spend most of the time playing with children.

Lack of monitoring and supervision is observed in most of the families where mothers

are employed (Dr. Abdul Sattar Almani, et. al, 2012).

Table 21

Was it a challenge to become a child of a policewoman? Positive perspective as child of

policemom.

Participant Direct Quotation Theme


"So some adjustments have been
done but I’ve always understand
3 her reason and all of those
cautions is for the sake of our own Positive perspective as
good.” child of Policemom.
I took it as my inspiration and
5 motivation that’s why I’m here in
this prestigious institution.
Table 21 shows the LIVED EXPERIENCES OF CHILDREN AND POLICEWOMEN; A PHENOMENOLOGICAL STUDY : Positive perspective as

child of Policemom.

Table 21 represents that two (2) participants, over the ten (10) respondents says that

positive perspective as chlild of policemom.In one of the answers.

These results were supported by the literature stated that Job of the mothers has

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no effect on children`s cognitive development. The teachers explained that cognitive

development consists on knowledge, comprehension, application, analysis, synthesis

and evaluation and the children of working and house hold mothers have same

cognitive development. Mothers urged that cognitive development depends upon

heredity and environmental non-employed tries her best to provide the best

environment necessary for child development. Students argued that employed mothers

make the children more independent (Dr. Abdul Sattar Almani, et. al, 2012).

Coping with the challenges of having a police mother

To answer research question number 4, “How do the participants cope with the

challenges of having a police mother?” Thematic coding was used to analyze the

qualitative data. Results are placed in Tables. Results are placed in Tables 22 and 23.

These results were supported by this literature stated that It has been observed

that a child`s infant period suffers badly due to the mother`s employment. They should

realize the fact that the quality of time they spend with their children is a priority should

be to sit with children either playing with them or listening to them interestingly whatever

phone while sitting in the company of children. It has also been observed the hat

emotional development and attachment of infants suffer badly when the work is over

working mothers should spend remaining the whole time with. They should prioritize the

company of their children. They should spend less time with others. Children like

games very much and mothers should spend most of the time playing with children.

Lack of monitoring and supervision is observed in most of the families where mothers

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are employed (Dr. Abdul Sattar Almani, et. al, 2012).

Table 22

What were your measures taken in order to cope with the challenges of being a

policewoman's child? Support from Relatives and Peers.

Participant Direct Quotation Theme


“I tried to seek comfort of my
relatives, my cousins particularly my
siblings who are much older than me.
They gave me a better understanding
of what my parent’s jobs are, the
1
nature of their career, they gave me
the understanding that I should not
be very much bothered about their
absence because they are
performing noble cause.”
“Like what I stated earlier, I go to my
grandmother if my parent was not
able to go home, most of the time my
2 grandmother makes me realized that
my parent is just doing their job also
she allows me to call my parent at
Support from Relatives and
work to get in touch with them.”
Peers
“financial sa structural trail dito
ma’am kasi we live together with my
8 grandparents hindi naman kami
totally walang guidance guardians
naming ma’am.”
“Kausapin ko yung mga classmate ko
tapos doon ako mag let go nang mga
emotions tapos kinakausap ko din
yung mga kapatid ko na kahit busy
6
yung parents natin wag kayong mag
tanim nang sama nang loob kasi para
din naman sa atin to yung ginagawa
nila.”
“I always ensure that I have open
5 communication and discussion with
them about my life problems”
Table 22 shows the LIVED EXPERIENCES OF CHILDREN AND POLICEWOMEN; A PHENOMENOLOGICAL STUDY : Support from Relatives

and Peers.

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Table 23

What were your measures taken in order to cope with the challenges of being a

policewoman's child? Taking it as Avenue for Character or Self Development.

Participant Direct Quotation Theme


“The measure I have taken as the
child of a policewoman is that I
3 develop my patience and
understanding about her field of
work”
“I started it in developing myself
sir by considering myself as an
4 responsible individual and
ensures that I can already handle
the challenges of life.”
“What I did sir is that I focused on Taking it as Avenue for
my goal sir and that is to study Character or Self
7 hard, in order to graduate from Development.
high school to college specially
pass the board exam.”
“I immediately taught myself that I
9 need to be independent and take
responsibilities as their first child.”.
In order to cope up with the
challenges, i always try to keep
10 myself busy and avoid thinking
about the line of work that my
mother have.
Table 23 shows the LIVED EXPERIENCES OF CHILDREN AND POLICEWOMEN; A PHENOMENOLOGICAL STUDY : Taking it as Avenue for

Character or Self Development.

Insights Gained from having a Police Mother

To answer research question number 5, “What are the insights gained from

having a police mother?” Thematic coding was used to analyze the qualitative data.

Results are placed in Tables. Results are placed in Tables 24, 25, 26,27 and 28.

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Table 24

How are you now as her child? With high self-efficacy becoming public safety officer

Participant Direct Quotation Theme


“I am pursuing BSPS course. I’m
in track of my dreams as well as
their dream for me to become
1 independent, actually they were
not forcing me to take up
anything, given the nature that
they are police officers.”
She inspired me to become a
police officer and follow her foots
4
step as she taught me to be
contented.
“For me, I am now a good son that
serves as good role model to my
5 younger sibling and I believe that With high self-efficacy
my mother is very proud of me becoming public safety
ever since I entered academy.” officer
“As of now sir, as a result I
become a good child, because I
did pass the board exam and for
7
that sir I can apply to the police,
recruitment, nonpolice
commissioned officer.”
“Now, I am taking the path she
also chose when she was a young
adult. I also want to be like her
9 may be more than her because
that is what she wants for us, to
achieve more than what they
achieved in life.”
Table 24 shows the LIVED EXPERIENCES OF CHILDREN AND POLICEWOMEN; A PHENOMENOLOGICAL STUDY : With high self-efficacy

becoming public safety officer

Table 24 represents that Five (5) participants, over the ten (10) respondents says

that challenge is their answer to the question “How are you now as her child?”.

Participant 7 answered “ As of now sir, as a result I become a good child, because I did

pass the board exam and for that sir I can apply to the police recruitment, nonpolice

commissioned officer.”

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These results were supported by this literature stated that The mother and child

relation is made stronger by quality time together, not quantity. some hesitation in the

absence of mother but as soon as children get love and attention from mother when she

returns, they forget the absence of the mother and their relationship becomes stronger

(Dr. Abdul Sattar Almani, et. al, 2012).

Table 25

How are you now as her child? Productive and Living Independently

Participant Direct Quotation Theme


“Until now, I learned how to be
independent no matter how tough the
2
situation is, I was able to cope up and
think a possible solution.”
“Now, all in all I could say that I was
raised properly by my parents despite of
3
their hectic job in a way that I was not
used to degrade nor judge others.”
“Now, as a policewoman’s child I learned
to live independently but I was guided to
the right path by my parents even though
10
they don’t have a lot of time but they did
their best and made me the greatest
Productive and Living
person I can be.”
Independently
Siguro the word to describe me as police
officer’s daughter ma’am is madiskarte
siguro sa bahay kasi growing up
8 kailangan mong gawin yung mg bagay
na hindi nanineexpect na. tapos yung
magcope up sa situation na kaya mo
alam mo naman pala.
“yung mga pressure na nangyari sa akin
nung bata pa ako parang pinatatag nila
yung loob ko kahit na ganun yung
6
nangyari sa childhood ko noon kaya
nagpapasalamat ako sa kanila maam na
pinalaki nila ako na matatag.”
Table 25 shows the LIVED EXPERIENCES OF CHILDREN AND POLICEWOMEN; A PHENOMENOLOGICAL STUDY : Productive and Living

Independently

Table 25 represents that five (5) respondents, over the ten (10) respondents

says that they’re productive and living independently in regard to the “How are you now

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as her child, Participant 2 said that “ Until now, I learned how to be independent no

matter how tough the situation is, I was able to cope up and think possible solution.

These results were supported by the literature stated that Job of the mothers has

no effect on children`s cognitive development. The teachers explained that cognitive

development consists on knowledge, comprehension, application, analysis, synthesis

and evaluation and the children of working and house hold mothers have same

cognitive development. Mothers urged that cognitive development depends upon

heredity and environmental non-employed tries her best to provide the best

environment necessary for child development. Students argued that employed mothers

make the children more independent (Dr. Abdul Sattar Almani, et. al, 2012).

Table 26

What were the insights or lessons gained for being a child of a policewoman?

Appreciation to Mother’s work

Participant Direct Quotation Theme


“It gave me the inspiration to follow the
1 footsteps of my mother in a manner to serve
the country.”
My insights or lesson gained for being a child
of a policewoman is maintain to be humble
7 and always instill the discipline in myself to
protect the integrity and dignity of my
mother’s surname.
My mother is a superwoman, handling plenty
of work in her career and in our home.
Despite her lackings, she still copes up and
still shows motherly love to us. She loves her Appreciation to Mother’s work
9
work but she loves us more. Loving two can
still be true. Her braveness and strongness
could help me in being a strong and influential
woman just like her.
I believe the best part of being a son of a
police officer gives you that sense of
independence and a brand new perspective
8 of the world in line with the duty and service
to God Country and people. it gave me the
inspiration to follow the footsteps of my
mother in a manner to serve the country.

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Table 26 shows the LIVED EXPERIENCES O26F CHILDREN AND POLICEWOMEN; A PHENOMENOLOGICAL STUDY : Appreciation to

Mother’s work

In this Table 26, it represents that four (4) respondents, over the ten (10)

participants it says that appreciation to mother’s work is their answer to the question

“How are you now as her child?”. The participant 1 said,It gave me the inspiration to

follow the footsteps of my mother in a manner to serve the country.”

These results were supported by this literature stated that The mother and child

relation is made stronger by quality time together, not quantity. some hesitation in the

absence of mother but as soon as children get love and attention from mother when she

returns, they forget the absence of the mother and their relationship becomes stronger

(Dr. Abdul Sattar Almani, et. al, 2012).

Table 27

What were the insights or lessons gained for being a child of a policewoman?

Appreciation to Mother’s work

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Participant Direct Quotation Theme


It may be challenging but in the
long-run it made me who I am
today, an independent person.
Regardless of the nature of the
job of my parents, still I was able
2 to manage myself. And being a
child of a policewoman, discipline
was instilled to me at an early
age, which I am so thankful for.
Thankful for having a parent that
guides me to the right path
The lessons that I have gained
from having a mother under the
job of a uniformed personnel is
that, I get to be independent in
times of my mother or parents is Appreciation to Mother’s
not around our house as I get to work
3 have the chance to take in-charge
of the responsibilities that my
parents should be having for us.
And in addition, I get to be
cautious about the crimes and
danger that’s happening around
my surrounding.
The lesson I learned from being a
child of a policewoman is that I
learned how to become
4
independent, discipline and as
well as responsible of my own
actions.
To be an independent person and
6
developed a sense of leadership.
Table 27 shows the LIVED EXPERIENCES OF CHILDREN AND POLICEWOMEN; A PHENOMENOLOGICAL STUDY : Appreciation to Mother’s
work

Table 27 represents that four (4) respondents, over the (10) cadet participants

say“ The data shows that this cadetship is their dream and that is the reason why they

want to become a PNPA cadet. In their statements, it shows that three of the all

respondents says they want to become cadet because this is their dream.

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Participant 4 stated that “ The lesson learned from being a child of a policewoman is

that I learned how to become independent , discipline and as well as responsible of my

own actions”.

These results were supported by this literature stated that the mother and child

relation is made stronger by quality time together, not quantity. some hesitation in the

absence of mother but as soon as children get love and attention from mother when she

returns, they forget the absence of the mother and their relationship becomes stronger

(Dr. Abdul Sattar Almani, et. al, 2012).

Table 28

What were the insights or lessons gained for being a child of a policewoman?

Developed Empathy and to Value Time

Participant Direct Quotation Theme


I learned how to accept things in a
positive way or in away
5 professionally, that we must
always have empathy anytime we
make decisions.
The most important lesson i Developed Empathy and
gained for being a child of a to Value Time
policewoman is that you should
10 cherish the time of your parents
and spend it to improve the bond
and relationship you have with
them.
Table 28 shows the LIVED EXPERIENCES OF CHILDREN AND POLICEWOMEN; A PHENOMENOLOGICAL STUDY : Developed Empathy and
to Value Time

Table 28 represents that two (2) respondents over ten (10) says that The lesson

learned from being a child of a policewoman, Participant 5 said: “ I learned how to

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accept things in a positive way or in away professionally, that we must always have

emphathy anytime we make decisions.”

These results were supported by this literature stated that the mother and child

relation is made stronger by quality time together, not quantity. some hesitation in the

absence of mother but as soon as children get love and attention from mother when she

returns, they forget the absence of the mother and their relationship becomes stronger

(Dr. Abdul Sattar Almani, et. al, 2012).

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