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Foreword
Welcome to the revelations of a godly man.
You will discover in this book a non-conventional strategy to
attracting the type of lady and establishing the type of
relationship you actually seek.
Therefore, I require that you set aside your ego; this work
contains counsel that goes against the grain. You will need to
revisit your mental map, which you have constructed over
decades based on your past experiences, relationships,
upbringing, societal conditioning, bias, and judgment.
Self-evaluation, self-awareness, and introspection are essential
to understanding who you genuinely are and what you truly want
in a relationship.
We are all unique individuals with diverse life experiences.
Regarding potential romantic partners and romantic
relationships, we all have varying wants, desires, and
expectations.
This guide will assist you in discovering your true identity.
I will assist you in detaching yourself from negative and self-
limiting dating beliefs in order to reveal what is beneath the
surface.
Because it's likely that you've been fed lies; the majority of
people wear a facade their entire lives, and the majority of people
keep everyone at arm's length by maintaining a defensive wall.
Rarely do I encounter a man who is actually authentically
profound; who knows who he is, his values, and what he wants
out of life and relationships. This is due to the fact that everyone
is attempting to be someone else.
Most guys follow rather than lead. They conform to the
environment like dead fish. They adapt to the current condition
of degeneration as opposed to initiating change.
In a world full of liars, be known for your integrity, virtue, and
dignity.
Men are leaders, and I am aware that the majority of men are
dissatisfied with their current relationship scenario. Therefore,
you must be the change you wish to see in society.
You must set the example, and the world will soon follow suit.
You must establish a new standard for dating; if the rules you are
now following to are not producing the desired results, why are
you still adhering to them?
Within my work, you will discover the truth.
However, everything comes at a cost, my friend.
Throughout this book, I shall reference specific trigger points.
When anything provokes you, it is a hint that you must become
your own observer; it is precisely at this moment that you must
listen more attentively.
You will uncover the truth if you listen carefully; we all have the
truth within us, and we will all seek it. However, this is only
feasible if our lower-self, ego, and pride do not impede our
mental and spiritual development.
Ascension is beckoning, but you must be willing to leap into the
unknown, explore the darkness, and face numerous barriers.
But this trip is ultimately worthwhile because I know you seek a
profound, meaningful, and fulfilling relationship.
You desire a kind and compassionate woman in your life. And you
want to be yourself without a mask or the fear that she may not
love you for who you truly are.
You may now choose whether to continue and ascend, or to close
this guide and revert to the behavior patterns that caused you
pain.
The decision is yours to make.
The Modern Dating Trap
The first difficult truth I must confront you with is that you have
been deceived. And I must add, if you were hoping for a guide on
how to spin plates or any other red pill-inspired nonsense, this
is not what you are looking for.
This is the initial issue I must address in this book. You have been
deceived by both the red pill and pick-up artists. Casual sex is a
fabrication; there is no such thing as casual sex. The so-called
sexual liberation is corrupt and diabolical.
If you truly feel you can sleep around without repercussions, you
will soon be confronted with a very terrible truth. You may now
close this guide if you wish to maintain the same behavior
pattern, damn your soul to hell, and never have a truly fulfilling
relationship.
You may now be wondering why, which is a valid question
because males in this area never informed you of the
repercussions of your actions; instead, they sold you a false
world. This is how one convinces individuals to sign a deal with
the devil. Money, sex, and other types of quick fulfillment are
provided to you. However, the cost is unlimited and eternal.
Let me explain the significance of energy first. Maybe you don't
know or don't believe it, but every human interaction is an
energy exchange; every word, every touch, and even being in the
same room is already an energy exchange.
The strongest energy exchange occurs when two people engage
in sexual activity; hence, we name it "Sacred Energy Xchange."
You are exchanging energy with that individual, and presuming
you are both behaving from a low vibratory place (otherwise you
wouldn't be sleeping around), this implies you are reducing your
own frequency.
This can lead to increased participation in low-vibrational
activities, such as porn or drug use, or the pursuit of other short-
term gratifications. Aside from that, it may influence your mood
negatively, causing feelings of depression, low drive, lack of
motivation, etc.
The so-called "Post Nut Syndrome" is your body's way of asking,
"What the hell are you doing, buddy?!"
Sex is an act of pair bonding and profound intimacy, and if you
indulge in it casually, you will first ruin yourself spiritually and
then lose your ability to form strong bonds with others.
I too have been unable to form meaningful relationships because
to emotional numbness, so believe me when I say that the
number of people who seek my assistance because they are
unable to do so is much more than you may think.
I discovered the red pill on my own, which may be part of the
maturation process for most men. But it is also a part of our
evolution to abandon it and seek the truth. The red pill
transforms into the divine pill.
This, of course, requires severe self-examination and the
willingness to abandon your ego and rewrite your mental map; a
feat so monumental that the majority of men are incapable of
achieving it.
However, I can guarantee that this path is truly worthwhile,
whereas you will suffer eternally if you allow your ego and pride
to impede your personal and spiritual development.
Let's now discuss sexual energy.
I'm assuming you've been in this niche for a while because you
found my work, which means you're familiar with NoFap and
Semen Retention.
First and foremost, we do this to overcome our porn addiction.
Porn is the greatest weapon of the devil and damages you in every
way. It corrupts the body, mind, and spirit.
However, there is so much more to Semen Retention or NoFap
that is rarely spoken.
You must recognize that your sexual energy is your most
important resource; it is the most potent energy we have access
to. This is why you acquire so much drive on extended NoFap or
Semen Retention trips. You are retaining your sexual energy and
channeling it into useful endeavors. Constant promiscuity will
deplete your sexual vitality, so don't be shocked if you're feeling
gloomy and drained of energy if you're continuously spilling your
seed.
But they don't want you to realize this; they want you to remain
weak and docile, and the best way to achieve this is to drain your
most important energy.
If you want to destroy a nation without resorting to war, make
adultery and nudity prevalent among the youth.
There are no free lunches, my friend. If there is no monetary cost
for something, you will pay with something else, in this case your
soul.
At this stage, you may encounter cognitive dissonance. However,
I urge you to set aside your ego once more. If these ideas were
created to attract a heavenly and wonderful relationship, you
would already be in one and wouldn't need this manual.
Once again, I've been there. I have sought out insignificant
relationships. I've been chasing pleasure. I was addicted to porn.
I did sleep around. And I know that my life became increasingly
miserable because you know what is right and what is wrong
deep down inside.
When you behave out of alignment, you will have bad life
experiences; behaving from a low vibratory position will draw
low vibrational life events to you.
Friend, pleasure is a false god. It leaves you unsatisfied and
wanting more. It provides a false sense of satisfaction for a little
amount of time before leaving you wanting more quickly
thereafter. There is never enough of it. And the pursuit of casual
sex is the pursuit of pleasure.
Lastly, do not forget that there is no such thing as casual sex
without consequences; in the worst case scenario, your casual
sex encounter will result in pregnancy.
Your sperm has the ability to produce new life; thus, you must
begin valuing it.
You are responsible for providing for, protecting, and leading
your family.
You may now say that there is abortion, but this is more devilish.
It is unacceptable to kill an unborn child because of a lack of
sexual discipline.
True masculine men are men of godly discipline, and it is crucial
to preserve sexual discipline. In actuality, no man who engages
in sexual activity is truly masculine. Sleeping about is a sign of a
lack of discipline, which is one of the most masculine qualities.
He may be viewed as manly since he is wearing a mask and is
surrounded by several women, yet this is not the image of a
divine masculine man.
A true, divinely masculine man is a man of integrity who does not
act on impulse and is not ruled by pleasure.
My friend, you must begin pursuing the truth.
You must be the change you wish to see in the world.
You must possess dignity, honor, and virtue as a leader.
You must act contrary to the norm.
You Attract What You Are
You must be a godly guy in order to have a godly relationship with
a godly woman.
If you want an exceptional woman, you must be an exceptional
husband.
If you desire a loving and compassionate woman, you must be a
loving and compassionate man.
The concept that you attract what you are and what you associate
yourself with is not widely discussed in this area.
If we are completely honest, the majority of males hold negative
beliefs about dating and women. They may reply that this is
based on experience, but I would say that this is simply a biased
interpretation of experience; it is ego attachment.
Your worldview (ego attachment) has been influenced by a
variety of factors, including past experiences, traumas,
relationships, childhood, parenting, and social programming.
If you can adjust your perception, you can also alter your reality.
The truth is that your worldview will always be validated by
reality.
If you believe that all women are skanks, then all women will be
skanks.
If you believe that every woman cheats, then every woman will
cheat.
If you believe that women are hypergamous, money-branching,
evil beings that do not care about you as a man, then women will
be hypergamous, money-branching, evil beings that do not care
about you as a man.
However, you are creating this for yourself.
I am not ignoring the hypergamous tendency of women in this
discussion. I am aware that women engage in hypergamy. But
being hypergamous does not equate to being a disloyal, monkey-
branching hoe who will abandon you as soon as a better
opportunity presents itself.
Again, it is your problem if you believe this; you are simply dating
the wrong women.
It is your fault if you date degenerate, gold-digging women who
lack faith, not theirs.
And stating that all women are skanks merely puts you in the
mindset of a victim.
Not all ladies are hoes. Not every woman cheats. Not all ladies
are monkey-branchers.
Again, you attract whatever you are aligned with.
And if your present affirmations are not producing the dating
experience you desire, why do you continue to nourish it?
I always tell men that if they attract garbage, they need to take a
hard look in the mirror.
What can you expect if you approach low-quality women in low-
quality environments?
If these negative affirmations are deeply established, you should
seek disconfirming evidence rather than confirming evidence.
You will find what you seek.
I understand that this is difficult when you are inundated with
information on the Internet, but you must be proactive.
I am very familiar with viral content in this field.
Content that goes viral is not about self-healing, ascension, or
having a devoted, loving lady by yourself.
Viral material consists of foolish street interviews conducted at
party sites in which low-quality women boast about cheating on
their boyfriends.
But you cannot contribute to this.
You must cease consuming this type of content since doing so
will cause you to align with it. It will become a reality for you.
You may assert that all women are this way and that this is the
harsh reality, but you continue to believe the lies you have been
told.
Again, I am aware of this because I have been there before.
You must be mindful of what you feed your thoughts.
Internet is an excellent tool for creating your own world and
bubble.
The algorithm bombards you with preselected content, giving
the sense that this is reality. However, further facets remain to
be identified.
Those ladies you see are possessed, degenerate, and morally
corrupt. However, there are still many women who are kind,
compassionate, devoted, and who believe in God or the universe.
Remember that you attract what you're aligned with.
If you feel that such ladies are scarce, they will be scarce.
If you believe there are a large number of good women, there will
be a large number of good women.
Stop acting as your own tyrant.
Rewriting Your Mental Map
Why is it so difficult to align yourself with what you truly desire?
Because we seek what is known.
This is why we form trauma bonds.
In the absence of healing, a person with narcissistic or abusive
parents is likely to enter a relationship with a narcissistic or
abusive spouse.
It is what we are accustomed to and familiar with.
You have been programmed for decades.
You have used the same affirmations for decades.
Your perspective has been validated for decades.
Consequently, reorienting oneself is never a simple task.
It's the same with pornographic addiction and obesity.
You have spent decades watching pornography, masturbating,
and overeating; do not expect an overnight turnaround.
It will demand consistent effort.
Change needs a willingness to adapt.
And it certainly won't be simple, because nothing worthwhile is
simple.
If you desire a deep and meaningful relationship, you must make
a concerted effort to become a man deserving of a deep and
meaningful relationship.
Because most men are not. You cannot be ego-driven, egoistic,
and proud while also seeking a lady who is loyal, understanding,
empathetic, and sincerely loves you.
Remember that you attract what you are.
Your mental map will need to be revised.
What exactly do I mean?
Your mental map serves as a compass that guides you through
life.
Your mental map is your ego-attachment; you've created it over
the course of your lifetime; therefore, it's based on past
experiences, traumas, relationships, etc.
However, because it is based on the past, it is obviously out of
date. You must review and redraw your mental map.
You must get rid of things that no longer exist.
But that is a difficult task.
Because it requires you to admit that you have been wrong. You
must exhibit humility. You must be willing to look into your own
beliefs.
You must recreate your mental map such that it supports your
progress and what you genuinely seek in life, rather than
hindering it.
This is an affirmation-based system. Ask yourself: what dating-
related affirmations do you hold? How do they assist you in
attracting the ideal mate and relationship?
Work to replace any negative or self-limiting affirmations with
positive ones; this applies to all aspects of your life, not just
dating.
Your self-talk is crucial. Your mind is your most potent weapon.
You will be talking with yourself anyhow, so be positive. You
wouldn't spend time with someone who continuously speaks
poorly about you, right?
Why then are you your own enemy in your head?
Deep Dive
To attract the lady and relationship you genuinely want in your
life, you must first be conscious of what you truly want.
Most men today wear a facade; they attempt to be someone or
something they are not. However, this does not eliminate the
importance of embodying your future self and striving for
greatness in becoming a godly man.
Most males are superficial. I rarely encounter men who are
actually authentically profound. Rarely do I see a man who
embraces his individuality, is unabashedly himself, and lives his
life according to his own beat.
Forget for a moment all previous experiences, relationships,
traumas, childhood, parenting, and social training.
Without prejudice and judgment, consider the kind of man you
wish to be, the type of woman you wish to attract, and the type
of relationship you desire.
We all have distinct wants, desires, expectations, love languages,
and limits, so everyone's ideal partner and relationship will
appear different.
My ideal relationship differs from yours.
Your best friends' ideal relationship differs from yours.
Your parents' ideal relationship differs from yours.
Forget what others desire and concentrate on what you want.
To align yourself with your desires, you must understand what
they are.
You must know who you wish to be in order to embody that
identity.
Furthermore, abandon all attachments. This is a question only
you can answer, and there is no right or wrong response.
Notice that I am not providing you with any techniques,
strategies, or behavioral modifications to manipulate women;
instead, I want you to envision your ideal woman and
relationship.
What does she look like?
What characteristics does she possess? Is she loving, caring,
nurturing, understanding, empathetic, and self-confident?
What are your relationship goals; what do you place the most
importance on?
Where do you picture yourself in 5 to 10 years with that woman?
Do you share any interests or hobbies?
What do you discuss in your conversations?
Even if you don't have all the answers now, which is absolutely
acceptable, you now know what to consider more in regards to
women and relationships.
If you do not know what you are searching for, you cannot find it.
If you are heading in the wrong direction, momentum will not be
of much use.
Permit me to provide a personal illustration for your
comprehension:
I am a men's coach and author whose mission is to assist guys in
being their best, most masculine, and most true selves and in
attracting meaningful and happy relationships. My passion is
psychology, and my primary focus is mental and spiritual
development. I am highly self-aware, grounded in my masculine
energy, compassionate, open, and kind. I do believe in God, want
to start a family in the next two to three years, and aim for
continuous progress.
Given these parameters, I must reject women who do not line
with my purpose, mission, lifestyle, and aspirations, which I
already have because I am in a relationship.
Nonetheless, my ideal woman has to be feminine, self-aware,
open, enthusiastic of motherhood and mental and spiritual
development, as well as a seeker of continuous progress.
To attract her into your life, it is essential to know what you want
out of life and your romantic partner.
You will meet a variety of women, but not every woman will be
the perfect match for you, and dismissing those who are not is
essential to manifesting the relationship you truly seek.
You cannot waste time with women who do not share your goals
and purpose.
And you must communicate this BEFORE entering a romantic
relationship.
Many men and women make the critical error of not talking
about these topics until they have been in a relationship for
several months. Then they realize that they are not compatible
and decide to separate. This is a waste of time and resources.
If you have a clear vision and know what you want in life, you
must convey this to a potential partner so that she can decide
whether or not to join you.
Not always does attraction work in your favor. You will be
physically attracted to women who do not connect with your
mission, and you must have the mental strength (an abundance
mindset) to reject them and move on.
You must begin making decisions with your big head, not your
little head. 99% of the time, your little head will make the wrong
decision.
Consider the honeymoon phase. You may be very drawn to that
woman because your hormones are all over the place, but as they
normalize, you will realize if your relationship decision was
based on emotion or logic.
You must place a premium on values. If you have the same values
and life goals, the relationship will persist.
The difficulty is that the majority of people are unaware of this
truth and base their relationship decisions on emotions, then
claim to be in "love."
But let me tell you, my friend, that there is a significant
distinction between falling in love and truly loving someone.
Love entails a lack of self-control and the disintegration of ego
boundaries. Since falling in love does not require conscious
effort, it cannot be genuine love. In reality, falling in love is
merely lust.
True strength and love are put to the test when one "falls out of
love." Passing the honeymoon phase signifies falling out of love;
when your hormones return to their usual levels.
Let me tell you about love.
Scott Peck's concept of love, which can be found in his book The
Road Less Traveled, is the term that will alter your perspective.
“Love is the will to extend one’s self for the purpose of nurturing
one’s own or another’s spiritual growth… Love is as love does.
Love is an act of will — namely, both an intention and an action.
Will also implies choice. We do not have to love. We choose to
love.”
Love requires effort. Love is an action that we perform.
There is no effort required to fall in love; anyone can fall in love.
But the majority of individuals never actually love somebody.
Therefore, the common phrases "I'm not feeling it anymore" or
"I've lost feelings for you" are immature and foolish. That
merely suggests that you have fallen out of love, and it is the
beginning of true love.
Love is not (usually) something you feel, but something you do.
If you continue to make relationship decisions based on your
emotions, you will repeat the same cycle over and over again, and
you will never have a successful relationship.
Similarly, you can never achieve success if you allow your
emotions to control your behavior. The majority of guys are
aware that they must perform their duties regardless of their
emotions. However, the majority of men base their relationship
decisions on their emotions.
Do you select a very important employee for your company
purely on your feelings, or do you have a complex process to
identify the best candidate for this position who corresponds
with the company's values?
This is how you must approach relationships, and you must
reject women whose mental and spiritual development has not
reached this level.
Understanding Polarity
The next essential concept to comprehend is polarity. In a
nutshell, a masculine man need a feminine woman. However,
polarity goes further than this.
While you are physiologically predisposed to possess masculine
energy, you also possess feminine energy, and you must
recognize that polarity is a spectrum.
You cannot be 100% masculine. You may be masculine, but it
does not mean you lack feminine energy. Consider masculine
and feminine energy to be analogous to yin and yang. Yin is
commonly associated with feminine energy, whereas yang is
associated with masculine energy. However, as you are well
aware, there is a dot in both.
This indicates that although you are mostly masculine, you also
possess feminine energy.
You must recognize that the masculine is a manifestation of the
feminine.
Our imagination, creativity, and so on, are feminine, whereas
what we create - what we manifest in the physical world - is
masculine.
The feminine thrives in the spiritual realm, whereas the
masculine manifests in the material world.
Why am I telling you this?
I need you to recognize that you are a spectrum of feminine and
masculine energy, as this is crucial for selecting the ideal
relationship for you.
Attraction is based on polarity. As previously said, a masculine
man needs a feminine woman.
But let me give you an example; no man is 100% masculine.
Those who appear to be are often imbalanced hypermasculine
men acting out of a wounded masculine.
Every man possesses or should possess the capacity to access his
feminine energy, just as every woman possesses or should
possess the capacity to access her masculine energy.
In fact, we are currently experiencing a dilemma in which males
are too immersed in their feminine energy and women are too
immersed in their masculine energy.
Any woman who successfully navigates the job market is and
must be in her masculine. They must be bold and occasionally
take the initiative; they cannot submit or they will be trampled
by others.
Therefore, if you desire a very feminine lady, you must be a truly
masculine guy and fully provide for her in order to remove her
from the job market.
You cannot expect a woman's femininity to flourish if you drive
her into her masculinity.
Nonetheless, the point I wish to emphasize is that you must be
conscious of where you fall on this spectrum.
If you are 70% masculine and 30% feminine, the greatest match
for you will be a woman who is 30% masculine and 70% feminine.
You may argue that you desire a woman who is 100 percent
feminine, but I must disappoint you. In this instance, you are
seeking a unicorn.
Possibly you desire a lady who is continuously striving for
improvement, who desires mental and spiritual growth, and who
exercises to maintain an attractive physique - that, my friend, is
masculine energy.
That is goal-oriented, which is inherently masculine.
If you want your wife to behave in this manner, you must
recognize that she is tapping into her masculine energy.
And you must recognize that this masculine energy may
manifest in her everyday life, and you must guide her toward
embracing her femininity.
The majority of women have no choice but to navigate life with
masculine energy, as they are forced to enter the workforce and
compete with both men and women for better positions.
Do not expect her to flourish in her femininity if she is still in the
job market because you are abandoning your masculine
obligation to provide.
Alternatively, you must recognize that if you become more
feminine (or effeminate), she will immediately become more
masculine.
Nature always finds a way to maintain equilibrium.
It is only an adaption that we are currently dealing with feminine
men and masculine women.
This chapter's takeaway is that you must identify where you are
on this spectrum (or where you wish to be) and select a woman
who is compatible with you, keeping in mind that certain traits
you may desire are inherently male.
Being A Godly Man
You must be a godly man in order to attract a godly lady and
establish a godly relationship.
If you want an excellent wife, you must be an excellent husband.
If you desire a feminine woman, you must be masculine.
It all depends on you.
You are responsible for being the man you actually want to be and
attracting the type of woman and relationship you truly desire.
A godly, masculine man will always be accompanied by a godly,
feminine woman.
But what characteristics define a godly man?
Faith, purpose, vision, honor, leadership, provisioning, and
sacrifice.
Let's take it apart piece by piece.
A man without faith is incapable of being a godly man.
I do not dictate which faith you choose to practice. I am not
claiming that one religion is correct and the others are wrong;
the truth can be discovered in each.
However, you must have faith. Whether it be Christianity, Islam,
Judaism, or an eastern religion such as Buddhism. It is up to you
whether you believe in God or the universe. I assure you, though,
that faith can move mountains.
You need order and structure in your life. You must adhere to
godly standards. This alone will allow you to have a more
satisfying and prosperous life.
In addition, you need purpose and vision. This is not a secret; I
am confident you are aware of it. Men need purpose. They must
pursue something greater. It is your responsibility to
constructively contribute to society.
You must be visionary. You must have big ambitions and a large
vision. You must be capable of leading a meaningful existence in
search of greatness and divinity. You need vision since you are
the family's leader, and where will you take them without vision?
Where will you lead yourself if you lack vision?
If you lack vision, you are inclined to pursue meaningless
relationships and the pursuit of pleasure, both of which are a
steep slope to misery.
And do not fret if you have not yet discovered your purpose. If
you have not yet discovered your purpose, your goal is to discover
it. God has placed you on earth for a purpose, endowed you with
unique abilities and talents, and subjected you to adversity and
hardship to form you into the man you are becoming.
A godly man is an honorable man. He is truth-seeking, bold, and
virtuous. Unfortunately, modern men have lost touch of the
value of honor. This is the case since we live in a society filled
with effeminate men. Men who will lie and betray you at nearly
every opportunity.
This may not imply that you should trust no one, but you should
be judicious with whom you place your trust.
I want you to become brutally honest; express the truth when it
must be stated, even if it offends others or causes you to lose
their friendship. If you lose someone because you are honest,
they are doing you a favor; this applies to friendships, business
relationships, and romantic partnerships (again, be
unapologetically yourself).
A man of honor possesses and adheres to his ideals and
principles. He defends them with his life and refuses to be
manipulated or coerced into abandoning his principles.
Most men lack principles; they are not virtuous.
To be a truly godly man, though, you must live in accordance with
your ideals. Some will be your personal principles, while others
will be mandated by your religion. You must adhere to certain
guidelines.
This is a good thing. Men require principles, direction, and
vision. The current deplorable status is directly attributable to
the lack of principles, vision, and direction. Men lack role models
and guiding concepts, do not have a manhood ritual, and have no
mentors to guide them through life. Therefore, they indulge in
self-destructive behavior.
Regarding mentors who guide men through life, this will
eventually become your responsibility. Similarly, you are
responsible for leading yourself, your wife, and your family. Men
are leaders, but the majority of men are unable to lead, do not
want to lead, or lead without morality and honor.
You must lead with the best interests of everyone in mind. You
must lead your tribe to glory by setting an outstanding example.
I told you that you must be the change you wish to see in society,
and that this change must begin with you. You must first lead
yourself in order to lead others. Only if you accept and embrace
this obligation will you be able to live a happy and meaningful
life.
Your leadership will determine the quality of your family.
Your leadership will determine the quality of the society.
Your leadership will determine the quality of your life.
This will necessitate sacrifice. First, sacrifice, as in giving up
something old or short-term in exchange for something new or
a greater reward over the long run.
And, of course, self-sacrifice. I told you that you must lead with
everyone's best interests in mind, which often requires putting
your own wants on hold. It will sometimes necessitate sacrificing
your own desires for the sake of others. Please do not confuse
this with people-pleasing or becoming a white knight. You must
understand when to act selfishly and when to act selflessly.
However, as a great leader, you will not always obtain what you
want, and you will occasionally have to sacrifice your own
desires.
Self-sacrifice is a forgotten masculine virtue. Everyone is greedy
and egoistic, and this is why we live in such a hellish world.
Nobody is willing to sacrifice themselves for the sake of others.
Nobody is willing to sacrifice his own interests for the greater
good. And you must change this by setting the proper example.
Everyone gets what he deserves, and if you are a godly man, you
will find God's grace. Do not fear that you will be rewarded; you
will. Nevertheless, this should not be your primary motivation.
Give with no expectation of receiving in return.
Protection and provisioning are the last but not least of your
essential masculine obligations. Because men are physically
stronger than women, we must protect them. Women bear the
weight of vulnerability. Your partner will bear your offspring.
She will look after it, love it, and nurture it. She is therefore
entitled to your protection. You must create a safe environment
for her and shield her from danger.
As stated previously, you are responsible for provisioning. This
obligation has been forgotten by the new generation of men. The
growth of the belittling and effeminate 50/50 culture cannot be
tolerated. You must be conscious of the fact that if you are
penniless, you are not deserving of a feminine woman.
Relationships that are 50/50 are dysfunctional and beta as fuck.
You cannot expect her to flourish in her femininity while you
neglect your masculine responsibilities. You must be masculine
in order to attract a feminine woman. And a masculine man
protects and provides for his woman. Obviously, not every
woman deserves a traditional, masculine man, but it is your
responsibility to weed out these women and avoid wasting your
time with them.
You must be a godly man if you desire a godly lady and a godly
relationship. And the harsh reality is that if you do not exhibit
and embody these characteristics, you do not deserve one.
Remember that you get what you deserve in life.
Manifest
Therefore, gentlemen, it is now time to put what you have read
into practice.
Consider the type of woman and relationship you desire in your
life, and adjust yourself accordingly.
Work on yourself to become an excellent man, and an excellent
woman will soon enter your life.
However, remember to maintain outcome independence.
Scarcity makes it impossible to attract.
You must be whole without a female companion.
A woman gives value to your life, but she is not essential.
Friend, if you believe that you and your life are incomplete
without a woman, you are signing up for hell.
You will develop an emotional dependency (Oneitis), and you will
suffer unending misery.
You must be content with yourself.
Only then will you be able to attract a wonderful woman into your
life.
Because when you are not, you will emanate needy energy, which
is naturally repellent to women.
A woman is always seeking for a strong, capable leader, and the
only way to be a strong, capable leader is to be grounded in
yourself.
I hope you take the advice in this guide seriously, and that it
helps you on your mental and spiritual growth journey, enables
you to become the man you genuinely want to be, and helps you
attract the woman and relationship you truly want.
You are blessed by God, my friend.
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