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Are we the solution oriented type or the always at effect (blaming and playing victim) type?
Even if we are the latter we have to consciously become the former; the solution oriented type
for which we would need to
1- Devise action plans keeping the problem, solution and all the variables involved, in mind
2- Act upon that plan
3- Revise and re-implement if anything goes wrong and the outcome is not achieved
Why do I say we need to revise and re-implement the action plan? Because we make the change
happen for something that has a big enough WHY; “Why I am willing to take action to change
something in me/the situation/the event.”
Once you deliberately program and wire your brain to take action, it automatically starts looking
for solutions, theories and everything that could help you develop an effective plan to reach your
desired outcome.
Developing action plans and being solution oriented may be a bit tough as it requires slight
rewiring of the brain; changes in beliefs and thinking processes. However tricky it maybe it is
coachable. Message me to learn how to develop action plans after having identified solutions for
problems that need attention in an intimate relationship.