My Name is Julmar V.

Butlig I was born in September 21, 1998, and my Birthplace

is in the province Alicia, Bohol. My mother’s name is Marivic V. Idulag, I think you
are confused why my mother is not the same of my Surname? There’s a story
behind that. That surname is the latest because I have Step Father.
Once upon a time my mother birth me in the province, 1year after I birth, our life
was so hard and poor they eat “kamote and saging” almost everyday. My mother
fighting my Father because of that. My father was so Lazy, he is contented on his
life, but my mother don’t want that because she has a dream for their child. So my
mother decided to leave my father. They took us and bring to my Tita in the
province of Zambales.
My Tita take care of me and my sister while my mother leave again and find work
in manila.
She was work as a maid in manila.
Every salary, my mom send us our budget. And 1-2yrs later she came again in
zambales with a man.
That man name is Joemar Idulag, he is tall, good and kind.
1-3days of staying in zambales. They go again in manila but this time with me and
my sister.
We rent a house in Caniogan, Pasig City.
My sister and I is currently study that time. Our step dad takes us to school.
Before we arrived at school he buys our food and any I want. He was so kind.
After a year my parent decided to marriage. My mother is pregnant that time.
The marriage is in Pasig Catholic Church. After that marriage my sister and my life
was changed.
My mother give a birth of our brother at our house on September 17 2004.
I mentioned my sister and I, life was changed. Because the attention of my father
and mother is in our brother all the time.
My father’s attitude was changed at first he was kind and good.
But it was changed after my mother gave a birth of my brother.
My father always angry to us.
After a year we leave in Caniogan Pasig City.
And we moved to Pinagbuhatan Pasig City.
I’m transferee in my new school. I find new friends and new circles.
But every year my friend and circle was changed in Grade 1 to Second Year.
On my third year of highschool I decided to study in zambales.
So I transferred at JESMAG, that high school year was Happy and Bad.
Happy because I had friends. Bad because too many bullies on that school.
The day before I graduated on my Fourth year Highschool my mother told me that
my real father ask her to see me. My mother accept And me too.
My real father was very happy, on that day he drunk and drunk and drunk.
He was very drunk after of they party he is going to home, he drive a motor and
accidentally crash on the road bridge. He fell on “dalampasigan” not thru the
water, my real father was alive and they bring to hospital, but when he woke
up,he saw that he was paralyzed
He couldn’t believe it, he tried to move and stand up, but the new operas were
tearing him apart. The blood was leak then he died.
My mother told me that accident happened to him. But I don’t care because, I
don’t have love creates on my father.
Months ago, I moved again on Pasig City for my study in College.
I enrolled at Gateway Institute of Science and Technology “G.I.S.T” I have many
bad influence friends there, they teach me played on the famous game D.O.T.A 2
I played it and it was so addictive. My first sem on my school was good but my
second sem I have a little bit cutting classes, the third sem was so Bad. I attended
only 1day of lecture and whole of that third sem is cutting classes. I failed and my
mother crying. I’m guilty so much. I waste my mother’s money. My mother
decided to go abroad because I am so naughty son. I’m not good at all and not
good son. Before my mother work on abroad, I work as a helper on GRX printing
services, we make Stickers of Jollibee, Greenwich, Burger Kings etc.
After a month I leave on that work. And I work in Del Monte Products as a Puller.
It was so hard and tired. I pull a lot of products using hydraulic hand pallet truck.
It is only a part time, because I want to study again.
After a month I study again in P.C.I.S.T “Pasig City Institute of Science and
Technology “ it was like Tesda. 6months of study in Computer System Servicing.
While I was studying, tesda had an offer of 1 week learning Web developing and
Web Designing, I grab it. I study in the morning and around 4pm I go to another
school. After a week ,I am success to get the certificate of web designing and web
developing. And also I’m done on my study in P.C.I.S.T .
I think I’m good for work and I can apply on office area. But my confidence was to
low, because I find so many jobs and attending interview, I’m always failed.
I think my life was failure. I ran away from home and go to Pasay City. And I saw a
post “wanted canteen helper” I applied on that. And easy accepted. I work for a
month and I’m not happy so I decide to leave. And I go to zambales in my tita.
My mom was very worried, when she found out that I was in Zambales, she
became complacent that I was okay. My Tita take care of me. I live a years and
thinking I am burden to all.
My Tita have a news for me. Ying Long Steel Corp. is hiring for Luna Boy. I applied
and get that Job. I think I can help now and not a burden anymore. 1 month after
the company was removing a employee because of off season they called.
All Luna boy was removed.
I don’t have work again, I’m very sad. And thinking I need to study again for
Bachelor’s Degree to get I want easily.
For the last time I ask my mother , I want to go to school again for college, I will
study hard.
My mother’s agree to me. I try to enroll in PRMSU but they not accepting old
curriculum, and I find another school. I tried to enroll in Columban College.
And they accept me, I determined to study well. My first sem is Good and I have a
lot of Friends and I like them so much. Now I’m in the Second Semester, I have
subject hard because I not good at it. But I tried my best, but it was so hard. I
believe if they compute my grades was failed, because I’m not good and that is
not my forte, so it’s hard. I wish I pass even it is “tres” .
So that’s me I’m Julmar Villamor Butlig, too many disappoinment on my self.
But I don’t want to tell to everyone that I have a problem and burden of life.
I just they to see me as a Joker, Happy person and friendly. They don’t know what
is behind on my smile. I’m so happy to be a friend’s of them.