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Quarter 1- Module 4:
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Quarter 1 – Module 4: COPING WITH STRESS IN MIDDLE AND LATE ADOLESCENCE
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Quarter 1- Module 4:
Table of Contents
What This Module is About …………………………………………………................ 1
What I Need to Know………………………………………………………………. ....... 1
How to Learn from this Module…………………………………………………………. 1
Icons of this Module……………………………………………………………………… 2
What I Know. ......................................................................................................... 3
Welcome to
PERSONAL
DEVELOPMENT
MODULE 4
Coping with Stress in
Middle and Late
Adolescence
This module talks about few effective stress management to help you break the hold
stress has on your life, so you can be happier, healthier, and more productive. The
ultimate goal is a balanced life, with time for work, relationships, relaxation, and fun4and
the resilience to hold up under pressure and meet challenges head on. But stress
management is not one-size-fits-all. That9s why it9s important to experiment and find out
what works best for you. The following stress management tips can help you do that.
What I Know
PRE-ASSESSMENT
As an initial activity, you will be assessed on your prior knowledge about finding the
answers to the research questions. This is to find out what are the things you need to
learn more about the subject matter.
Multiple Choice: Encircle the letter of the best answer.
1. It is a positive concept related to the social and emotional wellbeing of
individuals and communities
A. Mental disorder C. Mental illness
B. Mental health D. Psychological well-being
2. It is quite similar to other terms that refer to positive mental states, such as
happiness or satisfaction, and in many ways it is not necessary, or helpful to
worry about fine distinctions between such terms.
A. Mental disorder C. Mental illness9
B. Mental health D. Psychological well-being
6. They have a major influence upon mood, our sense of well-being, behaviour,
and health.
A. Mental Health C. Well-Being
B. Stress D. Stressor
10. Which of the following may help teens in coping with stress EXCEPT?
A. Get enough rest
B. Focus on your weaknesses
C. Engage in physical activity
D. Do things that make you happy
12. Which of the following statement is NOT true about mental health?
A. Mental health can affect many areas of your life.
B. Mental health affects how we think, feel, and act.
C. Mental health includes our emotional, psychological, and social well-being.
D. Mental health can9t determine how we handle stress, relate to others, and
make choices.
14. These are the ways you act and respond to your environment
A. Behavior C. Thoughts
B. Body Actions D. Emotions
Mental health includes our emotional, psychological, and social well-being. It affects how
we think, feel, and act. It also helps determine how we handle stress, relate to others, and
make choices. Mental health is important at every stage of life, from childhood and
adolescence through adulthood.
Mental health is a positive concept related to the social and emotional wellbeing of
individuals and communities.
Having good mental health, or being mentally healthy, is more than just the absence of
illness, rather it9s a state of overall wellbeing.
People who are mentally healthy are generally happy and confident about their lives. They
accept and deal with their problems realistically, recognize and accept their weakness,
have good relationship with others, understand themselves and try to have a decent life.
Mental health deals with both the emotional and psychological conditions of a person.
According to the World Health Organization (WHO), mental health is <a state of well-
being in which the individual realizes his or her own abilities, can cope with the normal
stresses of life, can work productively and fruitfully, and is able to make a contribution to
his or her community= (World Health Organization. Promoting mental health: concepts,
emerging evidence, practice (Summary Report) Geneva: World Health Organization;
2004).
At the most basic level, psychological wellbeing (PWB) is quite similar to other terms
that refer to positive mental states, such as happiness or satisfaction, and in many ways
it is not necessary, or helpful to worry about fine distinctions between such terms. If I say
that I9m happy, or very satisfied with my life you can be pretty sure that my psychological
wellbeing is quite high!
Individual factors such as the ability to manage thoughts and cope with stressors and
having communication and social skills to support connection with others.
It can be so easy for us to take our mental health for granted; to prioritize other things; to
put it off until next week. It can also seem too big and too hard, but it9s not. There are
some things everyone can do. The following are some tips to get you started:
1. Get enough sleep and rest. Sleep affects our physical and mental health, but can
be the first thing we trade in when we get busy or stressed.
2. Take time out for things you enjoy. Balance in life is important, so taking time out for
things you enjoy can make a difference to how you think and feel.
3. Be active and eat well. Our physical and mental health is closely linked so adding
exercise and nutritious food every day can make us feel better.
4. Nurture relationships and connect with others. Our connection to others is what
builds us up and keeps us strong.
5. Learn to manage stress. If you have trouble winding down or managing thoughts to
find relaxation, yoga or writing your feelings down might be of help.
6. Get involved and join in. Being part of a group with common interests provides a
sense of belonging so find out about sporting, music, volunteer or community groups
locally.
7. Build your confidence. Learning improves your mental fitness and taking on a new
challenge can build confidence and give you a sense of achievement.
8. Be comfortable in your own skin. Everyone is unique and should be celebrated.
Know who you are and what makes you happy.
9. Set realistic goals and deal with tasks one at a time. It is good to be specific when
you set a goal to help keep you on track.
10. Reach out for help when you need it. Everyone needs support from time to time.
Talking to a family member, a friend, your doctor or one of the many services can
be of great help.
https://everymind.org.au/mental-health/understanding-mental-health/understanding-mental-health-and-wellbeing
Disappointed in life?
Feeling stressed out?
Not having any fun?
Feeling worn out?
If your answer is YES, you are not alone.
No one experiences perfect mental health or well-being all of the time. We all have to
learn how to balance the different aspects of our lives. When things in our life change, we
have to re-establish the balance. However, ongoing mental health problems can take a
real toll on your well-being.
Your mental health can affect many areas of your life; work, school, or home life,
relationships with others, sleep, appetite, energy levels, ability to think clearly or
make decisions, physical health, life satisfaction and more...
It can influence:
How you feel about yourself, the world and your life
Your ability to solve problems and overcome challenges
Your ability to build relationships with others and contribute to your communities
Your ability to achieve your goals
Many people take care of their physical health before they feel sick. They may eat well,
exercise and try to get enough sleep to help maintain wellness. You can take the same
approach to mental health. Just as you may work to keep your body healthy, you can also
work to keep your mind healthy.
https://www.heretohelp.bc.ca/wellness-module/wellness-module-1-mental-health-matters#top
Thoughts
The way you think about something has a big impact on your mental health. Changes in
your thoughts often go along with changes in your mental health. When you feel well, it's
easier to see life in a more balanced and constructive way. When you aren't well, it's easy
to get stuck on negative things and ignore positive things.
Emotions
A big part of emotions is the way you feel. Emotions can be pleasant, unpleasant or
blended, such as when you have two emotions at the same time. Changes in emotions
often accompany changes in mental health.
Examples of emotions/feelings:
Happiness or joy
Contentment
Calmness
Behaviors
Behaviours are the ways you act and respond to your environment. Some behaviours are
helpful, and some can be harmful. Changes in behaviour often go along with changes in
mental health.
Body reactions
Body reactions are changes in your body functions such as heart rate, breathing,
digestion, brain chemicals, hormones and more. Changes in your body reactions often
go along with changes in your mental health.
What’s More
4 BASIC DIMENSIONS OF HEALTH AND
WELL-BEING
Directions: Each of the four mental health dimensions can influence all of the
others. Give 5 examples of each dimension on how you express
your mental health and well-being. Reflect on your day to day life
experiences.
Thoughts Emotions
What’s More
WHAT IS YOUR WELLNESS LEVEL?
ACTIVITY 2: WELLNESS
Read each statement and record the score of the response that best reflects how
you have been feeling during the past month. Add up your selected responses to
find out your Total Wellness Score.
Almost Frequen Half the Rarely (2 Never (1
Always tly (4 time (3 points) point)
(5points) points) points
I felt self-confident
I felt satisfied with what I was able
to accomplished- I felt satisfied with what
I was able to
I was a "go-getter" - I took on lots
of projects
I felt emotionally balanced
I felt loved and appreciated
I had goals and ambitions
I felt like having fun, participating in
sports and all my favourite activities and
hobbies
I felt useful
I smiled easily
I was true to myself, being natural at
all times
I did a good job of listening to my friends
I was curious and interested in all sorts
of things
I was able to clearly sort things out when
faced with complicated situations
I found life exciting and I wanted to
enjoy every moment of it
My life was well-balanced between
my family, personal and professional
activities
I was quite calm and level-headed
I was able to easily find answers to
my problems
I got along well with everyone around me
I lived at a normal pace, not
doing everything excessively
I had the impression of really enjoying life
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If you are actively working on ways to improve your health, your score will probably go up
over time. Increases usually mean that you are feeling better about things and feeling like
you can cope with life9s challenges while still finding time for fun. If you are experiencing
stress or changes in your overall health, your score may go down for a period of time.
Decreases usually mean that it is harder to feel good about things and that you are
struggling to find a sense of balance. Decreases in scores can be an important sign that
you need to take action to make things better for yourself. Most people experience ups
and downs in their wellness scores over time. To track your own wellness and general
mental health over time, we recommend taking this test once a month.
https://www.heretohelp.bc.ca/wellness-module/wellness-module-1-mental-health-matters#top
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JOURNAL WRITING
In January 2020 the World Health Organization (WHO) declared the outbreak of a new
corona virus disease, COVID-19, to be a Public Health Emergency of International
Concern. WHO stated that there is a high risk of COVID-19 spreading to other countries
around the world. In March 2020, WHO made the assessment that COVID-19 can be
characterized as a pandemic.
WHO and public health authorities around the world are acting to contain the COVID-19
outbreak. However, this time of crisis is generating stress throughout the population.
WHO, Department of Mental Health and Substance presented a series of messages
that can be used in communications to support mental and psychosocial well-being in
different target groups during the outbreak.
In your own, write an essay about Mental Health and Psychosocial considerations
during the COVID-19 outbreak
Write your message to the general population, for healthcare workers, for team leaders
or managers in health facilities, for careers of children, for older adults, people with
underlying health conditions and their careers, people in isolation.
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What’s In
Aside from being a reaction (or response), Stress is also a stimulus as well as a
relational condition between persons and the situations they are in (Feist and Rosenberg
2012).
Stress as a response is the way the body reacts to challenging situations. This
involves the interactions between the hormones, glands and nervous system where the
adrenal gland drives the production of cortisol or better known as <Stress hormone=.
Stressors have a major influence upon mood, our sense of well-being, behaviour,
and health. Acute stress responses in young, healthy individuals may be adaptive and
typically do not impose a health burden. However, if the threat is unremitting, particularly
in older or unhealthy individuals, the long-term effects of stressors can damage health.
Stress can come from any event or thought that makes you feel frustrated, angry
or nervous. The manner in which stress affects us depends on how we choose to think
about stress, and how we respond to it. But do you think that stress is always something
negative? Actually, stress can either be negative or positive. There are two kinds of stress
3 eustress and distress.
Eustress refers to a positive and healthy response of the body from a stressor. It
produces good feelings to one9s well-being. Example, a student who studied so hard for
the examination then took and got an outstanding grade in it, he may feel happiness and
enjoyment.
On the other hand, distress refers to a negative reaction of the body towards a
given stressor. Stressors are the things that make a person stressed. It may alter the
mood and emotions and can cause problems in health, and even affect the way a person
thinks. For example, when a student failed in his subject he may experience sadness and
disappointment.
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What’s New
ACTIVITY 4: ARE YOU HAPPY OR
SAD?
JOURNAL WRITING
ACTIVITY 5: MY DIARY
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What’s More
WHAT CAUSES YOU TO <LOSE
YOUR COOL=?
ACTIVITY 6: X FACTOR
All of us have certain things, persons or situations that cause us to lose our composure
in our everyday living. Determine your stressors by completing this activity. Put an X to
each factor that causes you stress. You can add more on the blank spaces provided.
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What’s More
STRESS SIGNALS
ACTIVITY 7: CHECKMATE
JOURNAL WRITING
ACTIVITY 7.1: STRESS SIGNS
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What I Can Do
ACTIVITY 8: STRESS EXPLORATION
https://www.therapistaid.com/therapy-worksheet/stress-exploration/stress/adolescents
The Stress Exploration worksheet will help you learn about your stressors, and factors
that protect you from stress. Stressors include daily hassles, major life changes, and life
circumstances.
Daily Hassles
Common annoyances or strains of daily life.
Examples: traffic, chores, work problems, lack of sleep, homework, limited free time,
argument with partner
Rating
1
2
3
Rating
1
2
3
Life Circumstances
Permanent or long-term circumstances that make life more difficult.
Examples: poverty or financial problems, disability, chronic illness, conflictual
relationships, values that conflict with culture, discrimination, job dissatisfaction, living
somewhere unsafe
Rating
1
2
3
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What’s New
Stress is a natural part of life. Everyone experiences stress, and everyone is affected by
stress in different ways. It is important to know how to manage stress. When you do not
know how to manage your own stress, you face consequences like anxiety, depression
and sleep issues.
The first step in learning how to manage your own stress is to understand how your
stress affects you.
Everyone experiences stress in their life. A moderate amount of stress is healthy and
can fuel productivity. Too much stress and poor stress-management skills can cause
significant consequence on a person9s mental health, physical health, relationships and
overall mood. It is important to understand how stress affects you in preparation for
developing healthy stress management skills.
https://www.psychpoint.com/mental-health/worksheets/introduction-to-stress-management/
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What’s More
Coping strategies are the actions we take to deal with stress, problems, or uncomfortable
emotions. Unhealthy coping strategies often provide instant gratification or relief, but have
long-term negative consequences. In contrast, healthy coping strategies don9t always feel
good in the moment, but they contribute to long-lasting positive outcomes.
Examples of Scenarios
Noelle has a research paper due in one of her classes. Because the paper will require
so much work, Noelle feels anxious every time she thinks about it. When Noelle distracts
herself with other activities, she feels better. Noelle uses the strategy procrastination to
avoid her feelings of anxiety. This helps her feel better now, but will cause problems in
the long run.
Juan feels jealous whenever his girlfriend spends time with her friends. To control the
situation, Juan uses insults to put down his girlfriends9 friends, and he demands that his
girlfriend stay at home. When Juan9s girlfriend caves to his demand, he feels a sense of
relief. Juan uses coping strategy of aggression to avoid discomfort of jealousy.
Rebecca is angry about being passed over for a promotion at work. Rather discussing
the situation with her boss and trying to improve her work performance, she holds onto
her anger. Rebecca has learned to manage her anger by drinking alcohol. Drinking
numbs Rebecca9s anger temporarily, but problems at work remain unsolved.
Scenario Discussion Questions
1. What consequence might result from this individual9s unhealthy coping strategy?
2. What healthy coping strategy could be helpful for the individual?
3. What barriers might be preventing the individual from using healthy coping
strategies?
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If you are feeling stressed, there are steps you can take to feel better. As you read the
following suggestions, remember that conquering stress will not come from a half-hearted
effort, nor will it come overnight. It will take determination, persistence and time. Some
suggestions may help immediately, but if your stress level doesn9t seem to improve, it
may require more attention and/or lifestyle changes.
Be realistic. If you feel overwhelmed by some activities (yours and/or your family9s), learn
to say NO! Eliminate an activity that is not absolutely necessary. You may be taking on
more responsibility than you can or should handle. If you meet resistance, give reasons
why you9re making the changes. Be willing to listen to other9s suggestions and be ready
to compromise.
Meditate. Just ten to twenty minutes of quiet reflection may bring relief from chronic stress
as well as increase your tolerance to it. Use the time to listen to music, relax and try to
think of pleasant things or nothing.
Visualize. Use your imagination and picture how you can manage a stressful situation
more successfully. Whether it9s a business presentation or moving to a new place, many
people feel visual rehearsals boost self-confidence and enable them to take a more
positive approach to a difficult task.
Take one thing at a time. For people under tension or stress, their day-to-day workload
can sometimes seem unbearable. The best way to cope with this feeling of being
overwhelmed is to take one task at a time. Make a list of things you need to get done and
start with one task. Once you accomplish that task, choose the next one. The positive
feeling of <checking off= tasks is very satisfying. It will motivate you to keep going.
Exercise. Regular exercise is a popular way to relieve stress. Twenty to thirty minutes of
physical activity benefits both the body and the mind.
Hobbies. Take a break from your worries by doing something you enjoy. Whether it9s
gardening or painting, schedule time to indulge your interest.
Share your feelings. A conversation with a friend lets you know that you are not the only
one having a bad day, caring for a sick child or working in a busy office. Stay in touch with
friends and family. Ask them how they have dealt with a similar situation that may be
<stressing you out.= Let them provide love, support and guidance. Don9t try to cope alone.
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Be flexible! If you find you9re meeting constant opposition in either your personal or
professional life, rethink your position or strategy. Arguing only intensifies stressful
feelings. Make allowances for other9s opinions and be prepared to compromise. If you are
willing to be accommodating, others may meet you halfway. Not only will you reduce your
stress, you may find better solutions to your problems.
Go easy with criticism. You may expect too much of yourself and others. Try not to feel
frustrated, disappointed or even <trapped= when another person does not measure up.
The <other person= may be a coworker, spouse, or child whose behavior you are trying to
change or don9t agree with. Avoid criticisms about character, such as <You9re so
stubborn,= and try providing constructive suggestions for how someone might do
something differently.
Accept your needs. Recognize what your triggers are. What situations make you
feel physically and mentally agitated? Once you know this, you can avoid them
when it's reasonable to, and to cope when you can't.
Manage your time. Prioritizing your activities can help you use your time well.
Making a day-to-day schedule helps ensure you don't feel overwhelmed by
everyday tasks and deadlines.
Practice relaxation. Deep breathing, meditation and progressive muscle
relaxation are good ways to calm yourself. Taking a break to refocus can have
benefits beyond the immediate moment.
Exercise daily. Schedule time to walk outside, bike or join a dance class.
Whatever you do, make sure it's fun. Daily exercise naturally produces stress-
relieving hormones in your body and improves your overall physical health.
Set aside time for yourself. Schedule something that makes you feel good. It
might be reading a book, go to the movies, get a massage or take your dog for a
walk.
Eat well. Eating unprocessed foods, like whole grains, vegetables, and fresh fruit
is the foundation for a healthy body and mind. Eating well can also help stabilize
your mood.
Get enough sleep. Symptoms of some mental health conditions, like mania in
bipolar disorder, can be triggered by getting too little sleep.
Avoid alcohol and drugs. They don't actually reduce stress: in fact, they often
worsen it. If you're struggling with substance abuse, educate yourself and get help.
Talk to someone. Whether to friends, family, a counselor or a support group,
airing out and talking can help.
https://www.therapistaid.com/therapy-worksheet/healthy-unhealthy-coping-strategies/stress/adolescents
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Additional Activities
What are some Causes of Stress in Teens and Adolescents?
School pressure and career decisions.
After-school or summer jobs.
Dating and friendships.
Pressure to wear certain types of clothing, jewelry or hairstyles.
Pressure to experiment with drugs, alcohol or sex.
Pressure to be a particular size or body shape (with girls, the focus is often
weight; with boys, it is usually a certain muscular or athletic physique).
Dealing with the physical and cognitive changes of puberty.
Family and peer conflicts.
Being bullied or exposed to violence or sexual harassment.
Crammed schedules, juggling school, sports, after-school activities, social life
and family obligations.
What are some signs that a teen or adolescent is suffering from stress?
Increased complaints of headache, stomachache, muscle pain and/or tiredness.
Shutting down and withdrawing from people and activities.
Increased anger or irritability (i.e., lashing out at people and situations).
Crying more often and appearing teary-eyed.
Feelings of hopelessness.
Chronic anxiety and nervousness.
Changes in sleeping and eating habits (i.e., insomnia, nightmares, or being <too
busy= to eat).
Difficulty concentrating.
Experimentation with drugs or alcohol.
Assessment: Post-Test
3. Stressors include
A. Daily hassles
B. Major life changes
C. life circumstances
D. all of the above
4. These are the ways you act and respond to your environment
A. Behavior C. Thoughts
B. Body Actions D. Emotions
6. They have a major influence upon mood, our sense of well-being, behaviour,
and health.
A. Mental Health C. Well-Being
B. Stress D. Stressor
10. Which of the following may help teens in coping with stress EXCEPT?
A. Get enough rest
B. Focus on your weaknesses
C. Engage in physical activity
D. Do things that make you happy
12. It is quite similar to other terms that refer to positive mental states, such as
happiness or satisfaction, and in many ways it is not necessary, or helpful to
worry about fine distinctions between such terms.
A. Mental disorder C. Mental illness
B. Mental health D. Psychological well being
15. Why should mental health matter to you and your family?
A. When your mental health suffers, it can become hard to enjoy life.
B. Many of these changes can make it harder to enjoy a balanced and
rewarding life.
C. Everyone can benefit from learning how to enhance and protect their
mental health.
D. All of the above
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Answer Key
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References
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mental-health-and-wellbeing
https://www.mentalhealth.gov/basics/what-is-mental-health
https://www.robertsoncooper.com/blog/what-is-psychological-wellbeing/
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https://www.heretohelp.bc.ca/wellness-module/wellness-module-1-mental-health-
matters
https://www.slideshare.net/PennVillanueva/coping-with-stress-in-middle-and-late-
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https://www.robertsoncooper.com/blog/what-is-psychological-wellbeing/
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