Fractionation Simply Explained

By Alek Rolstad

Fractionation lets you up desire, curiosity, and compliance. Itʼs also

a fun way to handle objections. And odds are, you use it already.

I wrote a very long essay on the subject of fractionation last

summer. In that essay, I used a real-life event (a “lay report”) and
used it to cover fractionation – one of the MOST key concepts in
seduction.

After re-reading that post, even though I still consider it one of my

favorite pieces of writing so far on GC, I felt the need for a simplified
version. First of all, the previous post is a bit too long; secondly, it
puts a bit too much emphasis on the use of fractionation in one
particular situation – the one from the story covered in that post.

Truth is, fractionation is so versatile. I am sure you are probably

already using seduction techniques (either consciously or
unconsciously) that are based on fractionation. Most good seducers
out there use fractionation, and it is, in my opinion, one of the most
powerful concepts out there. In this post we will cover what it is, in a
simple, straight-to-the-point way – so that you actually get it.

Fractionation

Fractionation is an NLP tool that you use to enhance a state – a

state enhancer. There are many mental states one wants to trigger
and enhance when seducing a woman:

State of attraction (being attracted to someone)

State of arousal

State of happiness (excitement)

State of comfort

……

As you can see, there are a few ideal states one might want to
induce when seducing a woman. Inducing a state means to trigger
certain feelings in her (all seduction techniques have this as a main
goal). The idea with fractionation is to enhance the states you
induce: you pull her into a particular state, then pull her out… then
pull in again – in-out, in-out….

I will share many examples in order to make this really intuitive for
you. However, let me first explain the basic principle behind this.

The idea is, when you pull someone in and out of a particular
induced state, the state is enhanced.

It doesnʼt matter what type of “game” strategies or seduction styles

you use – because whatever you use can be enhanced with
fractionation. This means that if you, for example, sexualize things in
order to induce a sexual state in her, then pull out (i.e., stop
sexualizing) and do something else before sexualizing again, that
will enhance the induced sexual state tremendously.

The Effects of Fractionation

Let us now take a look at the different effects of fractionation:

Fractionation Effect #1: Enhances the Induced State

We have already discussed the main effect here, but the reasons
fractionation enhances a particular state are mainly a result of you
confusing her by pulling her in and out of the current state.

Ever wake up in the morning and press the snooze button over and
over again? The results are that you end up feeling more tired as
a result of going to sleep, then getting pulled out of it.
Fractionation took place – you got pulled in and out of sleep!

An example here would be sex talk – let us consider that you are
having a really deep, hot, and intense sex talk with a girl. She loves
every word you are saying… and she is getting really aroused.

Suddenly you pull away her source of pleasure and start talking
about the weather.
Sheʼs confused, but itʼs a good kind of confused.

What happens next is that, by cutting the thread, you let the effects
of your sex talk sink in. A bit later you switch back to a dirty
conversation. The result is a form of confusion that will let your
next “round” of sex talk have even more impact on her.

It does not always have to be the topics of your discussions that you
fractionate, it can be the whole vibe – such as going from a very
sexual vibe into a very social one – this will confuse her and make
her receptive, but also make the projection of your sexual state
(sexual vibe) more powerful. This is really powerful. Bottom line is
that you can fractionate ANYTHING and EVERYTHING.

Fractionation Effect #2: Makes Her Want More

By cutting a thread, especially a topic she likes, such as a sex story,

a discussion around sex, a cool story of yours, emotional talk, deep
diving even... then out of the blue you start fluff talking about some
nonsense (pop culture, weather, music, etc.), you end up leaving her
wanting more of the goodies.
Not only will this put her into a chasing position (a frame where she
chases you), it will also make her more receptive the next time you
switch back into a juicy topic or juicy vibe.

For example, if you escalate physically and make her horny, but
are not able to pull right away for some reason (could be logistics),
then you might want to fractionate things and put her in a situation
of wanting more of the good stuff – more of the physical escalation
and sexual vibe. This way, not only will she be more receptive when
closing time is nearing, but the escalation itself will have more effect
as a result of her building up anticipation for it – as a result of
missing it. Sheʼll be craving it.

Fractionation Effect #3: Makes Your Material Sink In

Fractionation makes your material really sink into her, especially if

you are using a fancier technique, such as sex talk or deep diving,
where there is lot going on and you want every piece of your
material to matter – to have an impact on her. This is difficult if you
never give her breaks and allow her to let the power of your
material really sink into her unconscious.

Fractionation Effect #4: Creates a Pleasurable Contrast

Have you ever noticed how hot water feels hotter after a cold bath?
And vice versa?
Contrast can make pleasurable things more pleasurable.

The power of your material, whether it is cocky and funny lines,

intriguing stories, sex talk or deep diving, will increase when it is
contrasted with something “less exciting” or “less powerful” such
as a chat about... where she is from (oh, good time to screen for
logistics!).

For example, your sexual vibe comes across as much more powerful
when contrasted with a more socially accepted and bland non-
sexual vibe.

Fractionation Effect #5: Raises Her Curiosity in You

Fractionation in and of itself can make a girl curious about you.

Boring people in general tend to have long monotone monologues.
When you use fractionation you do the exact opposite of that.

This time you change not only the topics, but maybe your tonality,
maybe your body language, maybe even the whole vibe! It
becomes interesting because variation is what makes something
interesting. Fractionation offers variation and tends to make you
come across as more interesting – and maybe even mysterious,
which is a hot thing for many women!

The Uses of Fractionation

Let us now discuss the particular uses of fractionation.

Already, by discussing the effects of fractionation, you probably

have a clue as to its uses – but there are other uses for fractionation
that are not related to its direct effect. This is what I will cover now.

Fractionation Use #1: Enhance Your Material

I have already discussed this in depth when I discussed the effect of

fractionation. However, I would like to give you another example –
one you guys are probably familiar with. Let us consider that you
building up attraction (i.e., inducing a state of attraction), and she is
now chasing you… a bit… not much, just a bit. You can easily
enhance this state!

You can do so by showing mixed signals, such as using push and

pull – a famous old-school technique where one goes from showing
interest to showing disinterest before showing interest again. They
do so non-verbally by changing the whole vibe (i.e., showing
interest followed by a short freeze-out).

One might show some interest verbally (“You know… I think you are
cute”), then later give her a sign of disinterest (“You are a bit shy for
me”) before maybe giving her more signs of interest in order to
avoid potential auto-rejections (“But gosh, how cute you are”).

Or maybe do it all in one sentence: “Has anyone ever told you that
you are a mix of super cute and super annoying at the same time?”
Not really sure how to take that, but getting more attracted anyway.

This way, you enhance her attraction for you. Yes, push and pull is a
“fractionation” based technique!

Fractionation Use #2: Avoid Resistance

Fractionation can be used to avoid resistance (e.g., anti-slut

defense based resistance or last minute resistance). Besides the
fact that fractionation creates compliance by putting her into a
mental state of “wanting more”, fractionation also allows you to
move further under the radar.

By dragging her out of the induced state before she is able to resist
– you avoid it…. And suddenly, before she knows it, you push her
back in… and keep pushing things forward. By fractionating, you
destroy what could be a potential resistance trigger (such as
physical escalation) into tiny pieces.

Resistance is a conscious thing, so by breaking it into smaller

pieces, you also “break it down” in her conscious mind.
Unconsciously, though, the effect is same – if it is not enhanced.
This way, you can avoid potential resistance.

An example would be the use of “push and pull” escalation, where

you take a step backward for every two steps forward. For example,
you might kiss her… lick her ears… then neck, then kiss her lips
again before going down to her belly… before going back to her
lips… and then back to her belly before going for her breasts…

Fractionation Use #3: Deal with Resistance

You can use fractionation to deal with actual resistance. I have in

many posts here shared my persistence routine when dealing
with resistance – this one is based on fractionation.

Technically, the idea here is to take a step back whenever you

face resistance – how big the step back is depends on how big
the resistance is.

This way, you not only cut out her source of pleasure and
validation, but you also show non-neediness. The problem many
men face when persisting is that they can come across as needy. By
fractionating, you avoid that problem – how can one come across as
needy when one is willing to take a step back?

A needy guy always pushes things further, even when a girl

resists – this is the definition of neediness. This is to be avoided.
After a while you “fractionate” back into what you were doing,
whether that is escalating things further or trying to pull/isolate. This
technique works for any kind of resistance, whether it is resistance
to being isolated from her friends, being pulled out of the club, or
last minute resistance.

Fractionation Use #4: Gain Control of the Interaction

Fractionation allows you to have a lot of control over the interaction.
For example, not only do you avoid inflating a topic (i.e., use a
technique to the point of it becoming boring to her) or allowing the
topic to lose its power, but you can also keep an interaction going
for longer, and keep her hot for longer.

In cases where it is on between you and a girl, but for logistical

reasons you are unable to pull, fractionation allows you to keep her
hot for longer. For a more detailed explanation of “stamina game”
and how to deal with it, check out my previous post on
fractionation.

Let us now recap this post.

Fractionation: Simplified

Fractionation is a technique
upon which many concepts
within the art of seduction are
based. The idea is to pull the girl
in and out, over and over again,
of a particular state in order to
enhance the state. But
fractionation does a lot more:

Makes your material more

powerful – no matter what
material or seduction style
you use

Reduces resistance

Makes her curious about

you
 Increases her desire and makes her want “more” of what you
are already doing

Allows you to persist without coming across as needy – good

for dealing with resistance

Can help you calibrate and deal with hard situations

As you can see from this post, fractionation is a powerful tool. You
can see how many seduction techniques are based on this
wonderful concept.

Anyway, try to think of different ways you can add fractionation to

your arsenal, and try to apply it in-field. Once you begin to master it,
you will enjoy the results. I suggest you also take a look at my
previous post on fractionation if you havenʼt done so already (or
maybe you should consider re-reading it), as that post covers an in-
depth example of a real-life application.

Questions and comments are welcome. I hope you enjoyed this

post.

Best ...

Alek

About the Author: Alek Rolstad

Alek Rolstad launched his pickup career at

age 14, an early starter and seduction
savant. His unique style of game focuses
on “sex talk”: a way to make sex the
primary topic of conversation. Sex talk lets
the user excite girls rapidly, and filter for
girls open to fast, raunchy, kinky one-night stands and sex. You can
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