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PREFACE vii
to a more positive and authoritative style of ca regiving. Not being firmly grounded in a posi-
tive style o f caregiving means that teachers might not understand what child ren, especially
the youngest child ren, need before they can play with other child ren well, express emotions
approp riately, or control their impulses. Adopting a positive autho ritative caregiving style can
be difficult but it is not at all impossible. I was raised in a home provid ing love, but o ften
ove rly strict rules and punishment that seemed unnecessary, and I decided in college while
taking my first preschool education course to try to learn a d ifferent and more positive way
o f wo rking with child ren while explo ring how to set and maintain limits firmly and fairly.
This entire textbook will help you find your ca regiving style and I hope that you decide to
adopt the auth oritative style, because it is exquisi tely effective in helping child ren.
• Alternatives to ti111e-out, as punis hment This edition has emphasized the need LO abandon
o r discard punishment in general and especially the commonly used punishment time-out. I
decided to weave a strong and promine nt th read in the entire book about positive guidance
strategies-alternatives to Li me-out- and decided to note that these strategies are superior
to and more compassionate and effective than any punishment, including time-out. Look for
this thread in several chapters, includ ing Chapters S, 8, 9, 10, 11, and 13.
• School- or home-based examples This text is aimed at futu re teachers. While much of the
research has been de rived from studies of child ren in families, I have focused examples in
this ed ition primarily on school-based examples, but have retained home-based examples
when that was necessary and relevant to a future teacher's understanding of what child ren
expe rience at home.
• Sources o f school-based examples are now weighted in favo r of K and Pre-K, with most
of these at the pre-K level. While the re are examples from Mr. Russo's first grade class, this
tenth edition has a greater numbe r of pre -K examples than from a primary classroom. The
reason: Preschool and child care expulsions are so high, with those in child ca re exceed-
ingly high , that professionals teach ing at those levels need to see appropriate guidance in
action.
• Encouragement vs. Praise This has been a controversial topic for some Li me in ECE. This
edition urges students to adopt encouragement and clarifies the differences between the two.
Chapte r 2 explains how to use encouragement effectively.
• Work wilh ,vhat you have One reviewe r suggested that this text help students understand
that they need at Li mes to work with what they have. So, Chapter 4 presents this concept in
the context of setting up a classroom well even when the furniture and storage items are not
the newest. The idea is to set up a room well using principles of effective room design and
the safe and sturdy materials available.
• Bullying as a form of aggression In Chapter 10, this edition gives greater weight LO caution-
ing teachers of young child ren to tread carefully when using the label "bully." We should not
confuse the normal instrumental aggression of young children with real bullying.
• Role o f inten tionality Chapte r 11, on challenging behavior, has always noted the role of
a teache r's deliberate attention to challenging behavior and tryi ng to figure out the root of
the behavior. Added to this chapter is a highlighting of the role of deliberate and intentional
teacher action in supporting child ren with challenging behavior. This is done through the
addition of a video example with discussion questions.
The tenth ed ition retains features that have helped students construct a developmentally appro-
p riate app roach to guid ing children. It also contains updated research throughout and new
content and features designed to make the teachi ng and learning processes for instructo rs and
students even more effective, efficient, and enj oyable. Following are some examples.
viii PREFACE
helping child ren handle disappointment and anger as well as on build ing friendship skills
have been retained.
• Focu s on the Role o f Culture in Guiding Children (Chapte rs 1, 2 , 3, 5, 6, 10). Focus on
Culture boxed information has been retained and targets the role that cultural scripts play in
guiding children. Cultural scriptS are acqui red by members of a culture and affect them in
ways that we might not have considered. For example, students will learn about how the
extra talk cultural script a ffectS a teacher's limit setti ng in a classroom.
• Implications of T heories (Chapter 2). Information on the implications of all theo ries pre-
se nted, that is, the practical applications o f each theo ry for an early childhood teacher.
Students will now have access 10 b rief and clearly explai ned implications.
• Coverage of Child Development Information (Chapter 2). This chapter retains the outline
of the maj or facetS of social and emotional growth in children during early childhood. This
info rmation is again presented by age groups.
• Information on Sensory Stimulation in Infancy and Toddlerhood (Chapter 4). Classroom
design is presented chronologically- that is , Sta ns with room design for infants and tod-
dlers first, and is followed by that information for preschool through third grade. The role
of sensory sti mulation in a child's first years is now emphasized. Students will learn about
presenting appropriately ti med sensory stimulation to infants and toddle rs.
• How to Develop Good Relations hips (Chapter 1). This edition retains the expanded cover-
age of the importance of good teache r-child relationships in guiding child ren. Specifically,
students study the practical steps that they can take to develop caring and positive relation-
ships with young ch ild ren.
• Coverage of Schedules (Chapte r 4). Schedules appropriate for an age group are an indirect
form of guid ing children. The section on elements of appropriate Lime schedules has been
retained along with examples of appropriate schedules for different age groups within the
ea rly childhood period. The effect of appropriate schedules on children's development and
learning are explai ned.
• Information on Observation (Chapter 6). This chapter retains the discussion of the role of
assessment in schools of today, achieving objectivity in observing, and using portfolios in
the assessment process.
• I believe that we have a choice about how ,ve think about and behave with children.
John Steinbeck , in East of Eden, described the beauty inherent in the ability to make choices.
Students need to know that what they choose to think about child ren, how they act with
them, and the d iscipline strategies they use do matter. Using a positive, constructivist, and
optimistic approach daily has a long-term impact on children-helping them become self-
responsible, competent, independent, and coope rative people who like themselves and who
have a strong core of values.
• I believe that an adult's "style" of guiding children does affect children. It affectS several
pa rtS of their pe rsonality and thei r app roach to life- for example, their moral compass,
emotional intelligence, level of self-esteem, how they manage anger and aggression, how
they handle stress, thei r willingness to cooperate with others, whether they can take another
person's perspective, and their social skills.
The refore, the organizing force for this text is the concept of styles of caregiving- a concept
presented right away in Chapte r 1. Students should come away from that chapter with a clear
idea of the authoritarian, authoritative, and permissive styles. They will learn about adult beliefs
and behavior in each style and about the likely effect of that style on children. They will then
encounte r the concept of caregiving style woven into al most every chapte r.
• I believe that constructivist, positive, and effective child gu idance is based on solid
knowledge of child development. \Vithout this knowledge, adultS might well have unreal-
istic expectations of children. Having this knowledge gives professionals a firm foundation
on which to build child guidance skills .
• I believe that there is no one right way to deal with any issue but that there are many
good ways. I do not give students a set of tricks LO use with child ren. However, studentS will
find numerous exercises and questions designed to help them construct basic concepts of
child guidance. They might enjoy thinking critically about typical guidance issues and even
more challenging behaviors.
• I believe that we shou ld each develop a personal approach to guiding children, one
built on theoretical eclecticism. In this text, students will study and use the decision-
making model of child guidance, a model that evolves from understanding various theoretical
approaches to guiding children. StudentS will apply the major theories forming our beliefs and
perspectives on guiding children.
•!• ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
The professionals at Pearson support authors as they write. I thank my editor, Julie Pete rs; the
development editor, Krista Slavicek ; the managing content produce r fo r Teache r Ed ucation at
Pearson, Megan t-1offo ; as weJJ as the p roduction team, Maria Pi per, Sasibalan Chidambaram,
Thomas Dunn , and the photography researche rs for your professionalism and expertise.
Reviewers have been gene rous in offering ideas for enriching the content and structure of
Guidance of Young Children, JO'h Edition. Several colleagues from around the country reviewed the
mate rial for the tenth ed ition: Lois MicheJJe Edwards, Owensboro Community and Technical
CoJJege; J ill Harrison, Deha College; Je nni fer Henk, University of Arkansas; Lo ri Ki Hough, lord
Fai rfax Community CoJJege; and Carla \Veigel , Hennepin Technical CoJJege.
Reviewe rs provided hel pful and constructively given comments, and I assume their students
receive the same type of supportive feedback with suggestions for change. The reviewe rs made
several specific recommendations that I have noted and heeded. For example, 1 have retained
info rmation on Functional Behavior Assessment (FBA) and the A-B-C method of data coJJec-
tion in the chapte r on challe ngi ng behavior and information on cyberbullying in the chapter on
aggression and bu Hyi ng, and practical info rmation on helping children deal with disappoi ntment
and anger as well as on how LO develop friendsh ip skills. I restructu red one chapter's end of chap-
ter "Apply Your Knowledge" items based on one of the reviewe r's comments. I also reo rganized
the chapter on stress and resilience LO make it more streamli ned. Reviewe r feedback has reshaped
the structu re of pan s of this textbook.
Once again , please feel free to email me with questions, comments, or suggestions about
Guidance of Young Children, Tenth Ed ition.
Marian Marion
Email: mariancmarion94@yahoo.com
PART I GUIDING YOUNG CHILDREN:
THREE ESSENTIAL ELEMENTS 1
Chapter 1 A Teacher's Role in Guiding Children 3
Chapter 2 Theoretical Foundations of Child Gu idance 26
Chapter 3 Understand Child Development: A Key to Guiding
Children Effectively 56
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BRIEF CONTENTS xiii
Basic Processes Ad ults Use to Influence Theo ries Focusi ng o n Psychological, Emotio na l,
Chi ldre n 20 an d Social Learn ing Needs 43
Modeling 20 Erik Erikson 43
Instruction and Practice 20 Abraham Maslow 45
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CONTENTS XV
Activities and the Project Approach 105 Red irect Child ren's Behavio r- Dive rt and Distract
Criteria for Developmentally Appropriate the Youngest Children 131
Activities 107 Red irect Child ren's Behavio r- Make Substitutions
Materials: Choosing and Managing 107 with Older Child ren 132
Listen Actively 133
Analyze a Case Study 108
Deliver !-Messages 133
Summary 108
Teach Conflict Resolution (Problem Solving) 135
Apply Your Knowledge 1 09 Preve nt Overstimulation and Teach Calming
Websites 109 Techniques 136
Help Children Save Face and Preserve Their Dignity 137
Set Up Practice Sessions and Give "On-the-Spot" Discove r and Build on Ch ild ren's Strengths 148
Guidance 126 Obse rve Individual Needs for Possible Further
Give Signals or Cues for Appropriate Behavior 12 7 Sc reening 148
Encourage Children's Effo rts to Acce pt LimitS 128 Ac hieve Objectivity a nd Avoid Subjectivity
Change Something about a Context or Setting 128 in Observing 149
Ignore Behavior (Only When It ls Appropriate Teachers Are Responsible for Record ing Observations
to Do So) 130 Objectively 149
CONTENTS xvii
Time Sampli ng 159 \Vhen and How Does Moral Identity Develop) 179
Theoretical Perspectives on Moral Identity 181
Portfolios in Observing and Guiding
Child re n 160 Practices t hat Help Children Develop Authent ic
Self-Esteem 181
\Vhat Is a Portfolio? 160
Benefits of Portfolios for Ch ild ren, Teachers, Believe in and Adopt an Authoritative Caregivi ng
and Families 160 Style 182
Efficient Use of Portfolios 161 Plan Appropriate Activities Deserving of Child ren's
Time 182
Analyze a Case Stu dy 162 Express Genui ne Interest in Child ren and Their
Sum mary 162 Activities 182
Apply Your Knowledge 163 Give Meaningful Feedback LO Child ren 182
Use Encouragement and Appreciation and Avoid
Websites 163
Empty Praise 183
Acknowledge Both Pleasant and Unpleasant
Feelings 184
PART Ill Special Topics in Child
Demonstrate Respect for All Family Groups
Guidance 165 and Cultures; Avoid Sexism and Judging Physical
Attributes 185
Teach Specific Social Skills 186
Chapter 7 Self-Esteem and the
Moral Self 167 Analyze a Case Study 188
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Summary 188
Learni ng Outcomes 168
Apply Your Knowledge 189
Introd uction 169 Websites 189
Parts of the Self 169
Self-Awareness 169
Self-Concept 171
Chapter 8 Feelings and Friends:
Emotional and Social
Self-Control 171
Compet ence 190
Self-Esteem 172 •• • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • •
Buildi ng Blocks of Self-Esteem 172 Learning Outcomes 191
Competence 174 Introduction 192
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Suppo rtive Interpersonal Envi ronmentS 205 Stages in Respo nd ing to Stress an d Cop ing
w ith Stress 232
Suppo rtive Physical Envi ronments 206
Stages in Responding to Stress 232
Essential To pics in Social Emotional
Learning 207 Coping with Stress 234
Emotions as Normal and Having a Purpose 207 He lp ing Chi ldre n Cope with Stress 238
Limits on Expressing Emotions 208 General Guideli nes: Helping Ch ild ren Cope wiLh
Stress 238
Alte rnative Responses to Emolions 209
Teachers Can Help Children Facing Lhe Specific Stress
Strong Emotions Vocabulary 211
of Moving 243
Emotions Vocabulary of Younger vs Older Child ren 212
How to Talk abouLEmotions: How LO Use You r
Analyze Case St ud ies 246
\Vords 214 Summary 247
Friendship Skills 215 App ly You r Knowledge 247
Social Emotional Learning O pportunities: We bsites 247
Duri ng Large Group and Focused on Th roughout
t he Day 215
Chapter 10 Aggression and Bullying
Helping Children Handle Disappointment 216 in Young Children 24 8
Helping Children Deal with Ange r 217 •• • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • •
Helping Children Learn Friendshi p Skills 218 Learni ng Outcomes 24 9
Analyze a Case Study 219 Introduction 250
Summary 219 Aggress io n 250
App ly Your Knowledge 219 Fo rms of Aggression 250
Websites 220 Gender Differences in Aggression 251
CONTENTS xix
\.Vhat Child ren Need during Small Group 308 Smashing Pumpkins in a Primary
Classroom 331
Indi rect Guidance 308
Direct Guidance 309 Usi ng the Decision-Making Model to
Make Contextual Changes (Changes to
Transit ions 310 t he Setting) and to Change a n Adu lt's
Practices 332
\Vhat Child ren Need during Transitions 312
Examples of Transitions 312 A Preschool Classroom: Keep the Sand in the Pan,
Please 332
Indi rect Guidance 313
Liam and the Math \Vorkbook 333
Di rect Guidance 3 14
Usi ng the Decision-Making Model to Change
Visual Su pports 31 S t he Context and Change the Teacher's Own
Analyze a Case Study 317 Practices 334
Summary 317 A Thi rd-Grade Classroom Joseph and Chloe
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Lesson 334
Websites 318
Concluding Statement about Guidi ng Young
Children 335
Chapter 13 Apply Your Knowledge: Analyze a Case Study 336
Use t he Decision-Making Model of Summary 337
Ch ild Guidance 319 Apply You r Knowledge 337
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Learning Outcomes 320
Introduction 321
Append ix: Review: Majo r Positive Discipli ne
Decision-Making Model of Child Strategies 338
Guidance 322
Glossary 346
Knowledge, Skills, and Respect: The Basis of the
Decision-Making t-1ode1 322 References 351
Eclectic- One Strategy Does Not Fit All 323
Name Index 365
Di fferent Children, Different Families Call for an
Eclectic Approach 324 Subject Index 369
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4 PART I •> GUIDING YOUNG CHILDREN
Learning Outcomes
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• Defe nd the idea that teache rs must develop good relatio nsh ips with children to guide
them effectively.
• Expla in the two majo r di1nensions of a teacher's style of caregiving.
• Desc ribe major ca regiving styles in te rms o f an adult's level of demandingness and
respons iveness.
• Explain the bas ic processes through which teache rs influence ch ildren.
Blake left his scooter in the middle of the living room. His mother called out to him, "Put the
scooter outside. Blake." Blake heard but ignored her as he walked away. "Blake, did you hear
me? Put that scooter outside this instant I mean it. No water park for you this afternoon ifyou
don't put that scooter outside!" Blake shuffied down the hall to his room, and Mom continued
in an exasperated tone, "Blake, get back here. I want that scooter put away."
Finally, l\llom just tun1ed back to the kitchen. "That boy never listens to me."
Blake pays little attention to hiS mother's limits. He also knows that she hardly ever follows
up on her threats. That aften1oon, for example, Mom took Blake to the water park, after saying,
"Next lime, Blake, you'd better listen to me when I tell you to do something." Blake tun1ed his
head away Jrom l\llom and rolled his eyes.
Al 18 months, David, when visiting a friend with his mother, banged on the friend's television
screen and pushed at the door screen. His mom said nothing until the friend expressed concern
for her property. Then she said, "David, do you think you should be doing that?" To the friend
she said, "You know, I don't think I should order him around." When he was 4 years old, David
stayed up until 11:30 when company was over. To the friend who inquired about his bedtime,
Mom replied, "Oh, I let David make decisions 011 his own." David Jell asleep in the book comer
al his preschool the next day. At 6 years of age, David pushed ahead of others at a zoo
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partial unconsciousness, or even by more marked congestive
symptoms. The pain may seem to fill the whole cranium, may be
located in a cerebral region, or fixed in a very limited spot. Heubner
asserts that when this headache can be localized it is generally
made distinctly worse by pressure at certain points, but my own
experience is hardly in accord with this. Any such soreness plainly
cannot directly depend upon the cerebral lesion, but must be a reflex
phenomenon or due to a neuritis. According to my own experience,
localized soreness indicates an affection of the bone or of its
periosteum. In many cases, especially when the headache is
persistent, there are distinct nocturnal exacerbations.
39 Book Y., p. 88, 1879.
As I have seen it, it occurs in two forms: In the one variety the patient
sits all day long or lies in bed in a state of semi-stupor, indifferent to
everything, but capable of being aroused, answering questions
slowly, imperfectly, and without complaint, but in an instant dropping
off again into his quietude. In the other variety the sufferer may still
be able to work, but often falls asleep while at his tasks, and
especially toward evening has an irresistible desire to slumber, which
leads him to pass, it may be, half of his time in sleep. This state of
partial sleep may precede that of the more continuous stupor, or may
pass off when an attack of hemiplegia seems to divert the
symptoms. The mental phenomena in the more severe cases of
somnolency are peculiar. The patient can be aroused—indeed in
many instances he exists in a state of torpor rather than of sleep;
when stirred up he thinks with extreme slowness, and may appear to
have a form of aphasia; yet at intervals he may be endowed with a
peculiar automatic activity, especially at night. Getting out of bed;
wandering aimlessly and seemingly without knowledge of where he
is, and unable to find his own bed; passing his excretions in a corner
of the room or in other similar place, not because he is unable to
control his bladder and bowels, but because he believes that he is in
a proper place for such act,—he seems a restless nocturnal
automaton rather than a man. In some cases the somnolent patient
lies in a perpetual stupor.
The special senses are liable to suffer from the invasion of their
territories by cerebral syphilis, and the resulting palsies follow
courses and have clinical histories parallel to those of the motor
sphere. The onset may be sudden or gradual, the result temporary
or permanent. Charles Mauriac44 reports a case in which the patient
was frequently seized with sudden attacks of severe frontal pain and
complete blindness lasting from a quarter to half an hour; at other
times the same patient had spells of aphasia lasting only for one or
two minutes. I have seen two cases of nearly complete deafness
developing in a few hours in cerebral syphilis, and disappearing
abruptly after some days. Like other syphilitic palsies, therefore,
paralyses of special senses may come on suddenly or gradually, and
may occur paroxysmally.
44 Loc. cit., p. 31.
Syphilitic epilepsy may occur either in the form of petit mal or of haut
mal, and in either case may take on the exact characters and
sequence of phenomena which belong to the so-called idiopathic or
essential epilepsy. The momentary loss of consciousness of petit
mal will usually, however, be found to be associated with attacks in
which, although voluntary power is suspended, memory recalls what
has happened during the paroxysm—attacks, therefore, which
simulate those of hysteria, and which may lead to an error of
diagnosis.
56 April, 1869.
That the attacks of syphilitic insanity, like the palsies of syphilis, may
at times be temporary and fugitive, is shown by a curious case
reported by H. Hayes Newington,59 in which, along with headache,
failure of memory, and ptosis in a syphilitic person, there was a brief
paroxysm of noisy insanity.
59 Journ. Ment. Sci., London, xix. 555.
Very frequently the history of the case is defective, and not rarely
actually misleading. Patients often appear to have no suspicion of
the nature of their complaint, and will deny the possibility of syphilis,
although they confess to habitual unchastity. My own inquiries have
been so often misleading in their results that I attach but little weight
to the statements of the patient, and in private practice avoid asking
questions which might recall unpleasant memories, depending upon
the symptoms themselves for the diagnosis.
The large gummata have not rarely two distinct zones, the inner one
of which is drier, somewhat yellowish in color, opaque, and
resembles the region of caseous degeneration in the tubercle. The
outer zone is more pinkish and more vascular, and is semi-
translucent.