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trusting, happening, doubt, strategy session, guided, excited, anxiety, feel, dream, guidance, cortisol,
co creative process, fear, talking, mel robbins, willingness, study, develop, flying, package

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Today is July 13 2023. And this is an audio with John and me, mostly me. But he's here supporting,
discussing the what's happening with me. And the unfoldment, of putting together the strategy
sessions. So I am experiencing, I've been experiencing doubt and the messages, the guidance. The
guidance I've been getting is that the my third gate, the doubt gate, is gate 63 is the one that's helping
me understand that Dow is just an indicator light, that helps. It's like, when you order a package from
Amazon, and then it's like, you know, your order has been received. And then they'll say, you know,
your package is on its way, or the package has been processed. And then and then now it's out for
delivery. And you can literally see on your app on your phone app, exactly what's happening. And there
have been times when I've seen the package, where it'll literally show that there's nine people in front of
me. So I know, it's almost here, you know. And so the doubt, of feeling is literally that it's just an
indicator light or a message from the universe saying, Hey, you want you said you wanted more, you
wanted expansion, it started, we've gotten your order is being processed, it's now happening, you
know, it's out for delivery, things are happening. And so the feeling of doubt is just the experience of of
recognizing that you're being expanded, and you don't really know which way is up, you don't know
what that means. Because things are being rearranged energetically. And you need to wait until it
settles. So it's kind of a waiting game, and a trusting game, and just allowing things to be where they
are, however, then I heard Mel Robbins. And she talked about her. She talks about her fear of flying
and how she she came across a study that showed and I remember Tony Robbins saying this years
ago, I learned this years ago, 20 years ago or more, that there was a study where they they prove that
physiologically in the body, there's no difference between excitement and fear or anxiety, I think they
use the word anxiety. And so Mel Robbins, you know, said that there was another study where they
took, and I don't know if that was the same or not. But anyway, same study or a different study. But the
point is, is they took you know, two groups of people, you know, they were each anxious about
whatever the activity was that they were going to be doing. And then one of the groups was not given
anything special to do. They were the control group. And the second group was told to simply keep
saying how excited they were about what they were going to be doing, even though they didn't feel that
way. And the people who have kept saying, I'm so excited, actually, we're able to perform significantly
better than the control group, which was, you know, just having their anxiety, because, because, you
know, there's that proof that the body physiologically has absolutely no difference between excitement
and anxiety. It's really how the mind perceives it and interprets it. So if it's based in fear, and you just
leave it at the level of anxiety, then that I read somewhere that the No, I think it was Mel Robbins that
said, the brain is filled with cortisol, which keeps it from, you know, functioning well, it's it can't

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remember things well, it can't focus very well, and it doesn't make good decisions. But the people who
were, you know, talking about how excited they were, it started to retrain, you know, like their brain was
getting a different message. And so they were able to perform well because they weren't getting
flooded with the cortisol. I believe the dopamine is what comes into your mind when you're excited. And
so, and that's the only difference. So in listening to Mel Robbins say that my guidance told me and said,
Now that, you know, doubt is really an indicator about all the possibilities. It's just an indication that
exactly what you've asked for is now underway and is happening. Now start talking about you know,
like, tell yourself how excited you are, but what the guidance told me to do was and Mel Robbins gave
an example of, of, you know, her fear of flying, which is what I was saying before, and in her fear of
flying. She because of this study and learning about how she could say I'm so excited. She felt like she
needed a reason to be excited. And so she, you know, she was able to be excited about the fact that
she was going to See your husband, you know, because even though she didn't like flying, she was,
you know, she loved her husband, she was excited about that. So she kept saying that and focusing on
him. And she said, within four or five flights, she lost all fear of flying, it was just gone. Because by
taking what, you know, taking the anxiety, and turning it into excitement, you know, it just eliminated the
fears. And, and so I heard her say that my thought, okay, and then spirit guided me and said, you want
to go beyond just looking forward to seeing so many, you want to have your clients and students to take
their dream, their vision, whatever it is they want. And when I'm dealing with men who haven't been
able to be intimate, or their wives are not being intimate with them, then that's their dream, their dream
is to have, you know, a healthy normal, you know, partnership of connection and love and intimacy with
their spouse, and that's their dream, if that's their dream, then that's what they want to be focusing on
is, anytime they feel doubt or discouraged, or anything like that, they want to start talking about how
excited they are, that they're you know that their dream is happening. That it is being it's going it's it's
being worked on, it's underway under construction in the universe, you could say, and it will happen, so
they just need to stay with it. Because a construction site, if nobody shows up and does the things that
are needed, it's just gonna sit there and the building will never get built. Or it'll be left half finished, you
know. So we must do the same thing, we must build it and they will come we must show up and keep
doing that work every day. And it happens because because it is it's inevitable. It's a law. So I wanted
to document that about the doubt part so that I could get that into the course. And work with this myself.
Because I think what I started out saying was that what I've been experienced in the last couple of days
is, in the last couple of days, the experience of doubt, has been intensified. And I was really starting to
panic and feel like, you know, not only do I feel like I don't really know what I'm doing and I I'm not sure
I'm going to be presenting this course in a way that they can understand that's my big concern is I want
to make sure that these men, you know, who may be coming to me, Cole, they're not you know, many
of them may have never watched the webinar or the indoctrination video. So they don't know anything,
they're just coming in completely cold, just wanting a normal sex life with their partner. And that's it,
they're just cold, and then they come on to this strategy session call with me. And somehow in that
strategy session, I need to find the way to reach them to have them connect with what I'm saying, and
and recognize that this is exactly what they need. And this is going to help them. And I know I haven't
quite found that language yet. But I know it is. It is developed, it's under construction, I can feel that it's,
you know, it's beginning to come forward. And so what I'm documenting here is that I am now
committed to really working with what the universe has told me about doubt. And so I started that
yesterday, I started saying I'm so excited. And I had to really think about I don't feel excited at all, I feel
very anxious about this, or you know, having all this doubt but But I realized I really am excited about,

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you know about what, you know what is happening. And this is exactly what I've been guided to do. It's
there's no question that I, I didn't come up with any of this stuff I didn't, I would never have gone off on
my own and try to do any of this stuff. The only reason I'm doing what I'm doing is because I had been
strongly guided to do it. And so I am trusting that that guidance, you know, because it's been such
brilliant guidance all along. I'm trusting that that guidance knows exactly where I am in the process, and
where I need to be in what needs to happen. And it's going to guide me throughout the whole thing.
And so that is what's going to happen. And I'm trusting that and so I have you know I am you know, I
said to Yoshua yesterday that I am, I am remaining open, I am trusting you. And I am allowing things to
just keep unfolding. And I give you my little willingness, I felt like all I have is this little tiny bit of
willingness, but I give it freely and fully that little willingness. And now I know that I can trust that, you
know, there's a purpose for what I'm doing. It would not serve a purpose for a disaster to happen or for
people to turn against me or whatever. It's I'm here to help them my motivation is to help them I

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am genuine in that. And I just want to my care is how can I help them make this connection? How can I
help them to get this and if Horse, that will be an exploratory thing that will begin to develop more and
more as I, as I go through the live q&a s with them because things will come up and I'll be guided. So
we will, it'll be a co creative process, and I will let them know that, that this is a co creative, everything's
a co creative process, you know, their questions, and you know, me being there as, as a guide, who
knows the way you know better than them, all of that is co creative, they're going to ask me things I
haven't been asked before they're going to, you know, it's it's going to be a learning experience for all of
us, but we're all going to continue to grow forward, and it will all be good. So I am trusting his allowing
this and I'm just I'm I now know that flow, flow cannot stop, you're always going to be in a state of flow,
if you remain open and childlike. That is the key. And so that's what I'm doing. I am trusting, which is
what young children do, they don't worry about anything, they just, you know, they know, mommy and
daddy has. So um, so that's what I'm doing. Mom and Dad have this. And I am just going to go forward.
So now I just now John and I are going to be listening for the best way to make things clear, in this very
short time of the strategy session to try to stay you know, to say things in ways that they can connect
with. And then when they get in the course, I will be able to go deeper into in more profound ways and
take more time to develop concepts so they can get it. But during the strategy session, I won't have that
luxury. So I will need to find something that's concrete and relatable to them where they are now
without having to stretch them and then help them you know, see what they're going to get. So and put
it in, I've got to put it in terms of what they need. Like they don't care that I have 12 models, they care
what's it going to do for me? How is it what are you doing that's going to make a difference in my life
right now. So that's what they want to know. And I guess I'll stop here.

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