Professional Documents
Culture Documents
People
Tip #1
People aren't Difficult…
they’re Different
Five Misconceptions in Communication
• Resistance to
change
• Resistance due
to bad mood
• Resistance due
to invasion of
territory
Why do difficult people resist new ideas and
opinions? (con.)
• Build trust
• Demand consistency
• Communicate
constantly
• Use praise liberally
• Encourage growth
Tip #5
Be descriptive not Judgmental
Steps to handling conflict
• Characteristic -
Bossy, Intimidating
• Reason - To
intimidate and
control
• Goal - Focus on the
issues, avoid
emotions
The Fox
• Characteristics -
Long winded, does
not confront directly
• Reason - To get
attention
• Goal - Surface the
attack
The Stone wall
• Characteristics -
Silent, and
unresponsive
• Reason - To control
the situation
• Goal - Get a
response
Tip #7
Any behavior not confronted
will continue
The 5 commandments for changing attitudes