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Conversational Skills

Excelling at the workplace

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Agenda

Introduction to Communication Skills

Listening Skills

Spoken English

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Introduction to
Communication Skills

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Communication and Its
Importance

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What is Communication?

Process by which
Exchange or
meanings are
passing of Meaningful
perceived and
information, interaction
understandings
ideas or thoughts among human
are reached
from one end to beings.
among human
the other.
beings.

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Importance of Communication

Aids in Decision-Making

Facilitates Planning

Bridges gap between individuals

Means of Co-ordination
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Principles of Effective
Communication

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Principles of Effective Communication

Completeness

Conciseness

7 C’s of Effective
Communication
Consideration

Clarity

Concreteness

Courtesy

Correctness

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Principles of Effective Communication - Completeness

Information conveyed should be


complete

Complete information helps in


better decision making

Complete information always


gives additional information that
the receiver may have in mind

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Principles of Effective Communication- Conciseness

Communicating main and


essential points of the message in
limited words – ‘KISS’

Concise message is appealing and


comprehensive

Concise messages are non


repetitive in nature

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Principles of Effective Communication- Consideration

Consideration implies be empathy


- ‘stepping into the shoes of others’

Consider listener’s viewpoints and


mindset

Consider needs and requirements


of listeners

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Principles of Effective Communication- Clarity

Clarity implies emphasizing on a


specific objective at a time

Enhances the receiver’s


understanding of the meaning of
sender’s message

Usage of exact, appropriate and


concrete words

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Principles of Effective Communication- Concreteness

Concreteness implies being


particular and clear instead of
being generic

Concrete communication reflects


confidence

Concrete information can never be


misinterpreted

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Principles of Effective Communication- Courtesy

Courtesy means being polite, kind,


judicious, enthusiastic and
convincing
Courtesy reflects the nature and
character of the sender of the
message

Courtesy is not bias in nature

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Principles of Effective Communication- Correctness

Use of correct grammar and


appropriate language

Precision and accurateness of facts


and figures used in the message

Greater impact on the receiver

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Types of Communication

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Types of Communication

Non-
Verbal Written Visual
Verbal

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Verbal Communication

Verbal communication is the use of language to


transfer information through speaking or sign
language in case of differently abled person.

Use a strong,
Use active
confident Avoid filler words
listening
speaking voice

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Elements in Verbal Communication

Vocals
Vocabulary

Grammar

Verbal Communication
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Non Verbal Communication

Non Verbal communication is the use of body language,


gestures and facial expressions to convey information to
others. It can be used both intentionally and
unintentionally.

Be intentional
Notice how your Mimic effective
about your
emotions feel non verbal
nonverbal
physically communication
communication

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Elements in Non Verbal Communication

Aesthetic
communication

Para language

Appearance

Non Verbal
Communication
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Para Language/Body Language

Gestures Proxemics Eye gaze


Facial or
Expressions personal
space

Body
movements Haptics or
and touch
postures

Non Verbal Non Verbal


Communication Communication

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Written Communication
Written communication is the act of writing, typing or printing
symbols like letters and numbers to convey information. It is helpful
because it provides a record of information for reference. It is
considered as a proof in favour or against the sender.

Review your
Strive for
Don’t rely on tone written
simplicity
communication

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Elements of Written Communication

Pamphlets
&
Books & Brochures
Magazines

Letters,
Emails &
Chats

Written Communication
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Visual Communication

Visual communication is using designs, patterns, symbols, signs, etc


to convey the information. Visuals are often used as an aid during
presentations along with written and/or verbal communication.

Ask recipients Use simple to


Consider your
before including understand and
audience
visuals clear visuals

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Elements of Visual Communication

Signs &
Symbols
Photographs

Sketches,
Graphs &
Charts

Visual Communication
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Barriers to
Communication and
How to Deal with Them

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Barriers to Communication

Use of jargon

Emotional barriers
and taboos

Lack of attention,
interest,
distractions

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Barriers to Communication

Differences in
perception and
view point

Linguistic
barriers

Expectations
and prejudices

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Barriers to Communication

Psychological
barriers

Physical barriers

Cultural
differences

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Overcoming Barriers to Communication

Clarity in thoughts

Understand the need of receiver

Be aware of language, tone and


content of message

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Overcoming Barriers to Communication

Use of simple language

Active Listening

Emotional state

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Overcoming Barriers to Communication

Avoid information overload

Give constructive feedback

Consistency of message

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Handling Nervousness
and Discomfort

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Overcoming Communication Fears

Acknowledge Learn the tools


Get motivation
and identify and techniques
to work on it
your fear to succeed

Make mistakes
Keep at it and learn from
it

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Listening Skills

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Are you Listening or Hearing?

Hearing is an accidental and automatic brain response to sound that requires no


effort.
We are surrounded by sounds most of the time.
For example, we are accustomed to the sounds of airplanes, lawn mowers, vehicles
in traffic, the rattling of pots and pans, and so on.
We hear those incidental sounds and, unless we have a reason to do otherwise, we
train ourselves to ignore them.
We learn to filter sounds that mean little for us, just as we choose to hear our
ringing cell phones or any other sounds that are more important to us.

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Are you Listening or Hearing?

Listening, on the other hand, is purposeful and focused rather than accidental.
As a result, it requires motivation and effort. 
Listening, at its best, is active, focused and with concentrated attention for the
purpose of understanding the meanings expressed by a speaker.
We do not always listen at our best, some times we listen partially or selectively.

For effective communication, active listening is critical.

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Listening vs. Hearing

Listening Hearing
• Focused • Accidental

• Voluntary • Involuntary
• Effortless
• Intentional

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Effective Listening

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Barriers to Effective
Listening

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Barriers to Effective Listening

Being preoccupied and distracted

Environmental distractions

Preoccupied personal mindset

Interrupting the other person

Physical state

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Guidelines for Effective Listening

Keep an open
mind

Face the Listen and try


speaker to picture

When someone is
speaking

Don’t
maintain eye interrupt
contact

Be attentive,
but relaxed

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Guidelines for Effective Listening

Do not
interrupt

Wait for the Pay attention


speaker to to what isn’t
pause to seek said –
clarification nonverbal cues

When someone is
speaking

Give the
Ask questions
speaker
to ensure
regular
understanding
feedback

Try to feel
what the
speaker is
feeling

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Active Listening Skills

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Active Listening

Obtain
Understand Enjoyment Learn
information
• Start listening • listen to • listen with • Learn from the
to obtain understand the interest and understanding
information information enjoy the of the
obtained information information

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Becoming an Active Listener

Show that Respond


Pay Provide Defer
you’re appropriatel
attention feedback judgment
listening y

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Active Listening Techniques

Pay attention
 Give the speaker your undivided attention
 Put aside distracting thoughts
 Acknowledge the message periodically
 Look at the speaker directly
 Don't mentally prepare a rebuttal
 Avoid being distracted by environmental factors
 Recognize that non-verbal communication "speaks" loudly
 "Listen" to the speaker's body language

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Active Listening Techniques
Show that you’re listening
 Use your own body language and gestures to show that you are engaged
 Nod occasionally (non verbal)
 Encourage the speaker to continue with comments like yes, okay and "uh huh“
(Verbal nods)
 Smile and use other facial expressions to reflect your attention
 Make sure that your posture is open and interested

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Active Listening Techniques
Provide feedback
 Avoid personal filters, assumptions, judgments and beliefs that can distort what
we listen
 Ask open and closed ended questions for clarity
 Probe for more information
 Paraphrase your understanding to the speaker and get affirmation
 Summarize the speaker's comments periodically
 If you find yourself responding emotionally to what the speaker said, be vocal
about it
 In case you are unable to understand the speaker, ask for repeat explanation

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Active Listening Techniques
Defer judgment
 Allow the speaker to finish each point before asking questions
 Avoid attacking the speaker with your counter questions
 Interrupting is a waste of time
 Irritates/upsets the speaker
 Limits your full understanding of the message
 Wait for the speaker’s pauses
 Show non verbal expressions to stop the speaker, then ask
 Avoid abrupt additions in case you know more about the topic
 Avoid asking non topic related questions and derail the speaker
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Active Listening Techniques
Respond appropriately
  Active listening is designed to encourage respect speaker and reflect
understanding
 You are gaining information from the speaker’s perspective
 Be candid, open and honest in your response
 Assert your opinion before you speak/share
 Present/share your opinion without disrespecting the speaker’s opinion
  Reflect empathy

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Triple-A-Listening

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Triple-A-Listening

Attitude

Attention

Adjustmen
t

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Triple-A-Listening

Maintain a Cultivate a
Strive to
positive, capacity for
maintain
constructive adjustment
undivided
and non & openness
attention and
judgmental to listen
stay focused
attitude

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Spoken English

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Opening and Closing a
Conversation

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Opening and Closing a Conversation

Opening a conversation and


bringing a conversation to an end
are essential parts of our everyday
language.

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Opening and Closing a Conversation
When you see
General
the person after Asking about
Opening weekend
a long time
• “Hi, how are • “How have you been • “How was your
you?’ doing? weekend?”

• “Long time no see” • “What did you do on


• “Hi, how is it
the weekend?”
going?”
• “Yes, it’s been a
while. Thank you for • “Did you have a
• “How are you asking” good weekend?”
doing?”
• “How’s everything • “What are your
• “Thank you for with you?” plans for the
asking” weekend?”

• “Are you free this


• “I am fine.” “How weekend?”
about you?”
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Opening and Closing a Conversation
How often do
General closing General closing
you…

• “How often do you • “I will talk to you • “Bye”/ “Goodbye”


babysit your soon”
nephew?” • “See-ya”
• “I will meet you
• “How often do you again” • “See you tomorrow”
go out with your
family or friends?” • “Take it easy” • “See you later”
• “How often do you • “Take care”
see your family or
friends?”
• “Go/Reach safely”

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Turn Taking/ Reciprocity

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Turn Taking

Turn taking gives a


In a conversation, chance for speakers
there is a situation to do conversation
when a speaker smoothly, so there
takes the chance to won’t be a dominant
speak, that is turn. speaker in the
conversation.

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Seven Turn Taking Strategies

Fluency
Speak,
Avoiding
Use overthen
Accuracy
Ask
Interruptions
Conjunctions
Phrases
AskingFillers
forand
for Agreeing/Disagreeing
forGiving
PausesOpinions

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Practice
Time

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Engaging the Listener

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Tips to Engage Your Audience

Stick to your
subject

Take breaks
and
Maintain flow
Let your
audience talk

Change is a way
to grab attention

Why should Get them


they listen moving

Tell stories

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Acknowledgements,
Connectors and
Transition Phrases

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Speech Transitions

They help the


Transition words listener to They help to build
are used to link progress from one up coherent
words, phrases or idea (expressed by relationships
sentences. the speaker) to the within the text.
next idea.

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Acknowledgements, Connectors and Transition Phrases

Agreement, Addition, Similarity

In the first place Again Moreover

Not only..but also To As well as

As a matter of fact And Together with

In like manner Also Of course

In addition Then Likewise

First, second, third Uniquely similarly

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Acknowledgements, Connectors and Transition Phrases

Opposition, Limitation, Contradiction

Although this may be But Although


true
In contrast Still instead

Different from Unlike Whereas

Of course…,but or Despite

At the same time Rather As much as

Be that as it may Even though nonetheless

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Acknowledgements, Connectors and Transition Phrases

Cause, Condition, Purpose

If In case Granted

…then Provided that So long as

Whenever So that When

So as to With this in mind Because of

Due to For fear that Since

while In view of Being that

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Acknowledgements, Connectors and Transition Phrases

Examples, Support, Emphasis

In other words Notably In fact

To put it differently Including In general

As an illustration To be sure In detail

For example Truly That is to say

Certainly Surely To repeat

To clarify To explain By all means

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Acknowledgements, Connectors and Transition Phrases

Conclusion, Summary, Restatement

As can be seen After all By and large

Generally speaking In fact To sum up

In summary On the whole As shown above

In short All in all In either case

In the long run In brief Obviously

Ultimately Definitely usually

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Acknowledgements, Connectors and Transition Phrases

Space, Location, Place

In the middle Here Further

To the left/right There Beyond

In front of Next Nearby

On this side Where Wherever

In the distance From around

Below Amid among

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Recap Activity

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Questions?
Thank you

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