It’s all in the MIND

WHAT IS EVERYONE’S DREAM ?

SUCCESS
WHAT DETERMINES SUCCESS ???
 Why Doesn’t IQ Predict Leadership
Effectiveness Better?*
Everyone E“Everyone
smart”

*
 We have two Minds

Rational Mind
The Head

Emotional Mind
The Heart
EMOTIONS ARE INFECTIOUS
 Power Of Emotions

Emotions can
Overpower and
even paralyze
the THINKING
BRAIN

Vietnam war
 Self awareness

The

Consulting psychologist, wadhwa_rashmi01@yahoo.com

awareness
of both-
one’s mood
and
thoughts
about the

WADHWA
mood.

RASHMI
 Awareness of Moods

Self Accepting
awareness

Engulfed
 Empathy

Empathy builds on self

awareness.

The more open we are to

our own emotions,
the more skilled one is in
recognizing emotions in
others.
 DEVELOPING…..

INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS

Interpersonal Intrapersonal
intelligence intelligence
INTERPERSONAL INTELLIGENCE

Ability to understand other people

How they work

How to work co-operatively with them

What motivates them

INTRAPERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS

Accurate vertical model of oneself

To use this awareness to operate

effectively in life.
Passion’s Slaves
Anger, Worry, Sadness

Brooding fuel’s
anger.
Seeing things
differently
douses those
flames.
Art of Criticism

"I feel impatient." vs "This is ridiculous.”

“I feel hurt and bitter". vs. "You are an insensitive jerk."
"I feel afraid." vs. "You are driving like a idiot."
ART OF CRITICISM-
LEADERSHIP QUALITIES

 be specific
 offer a solution
 be present
 be sensitive
 Behavior Management

Balm for anger

•Challenge your
thoughts

•Transfer the
calm
 QUIZ…

•Name the five wealthiest people in the world.

•Name the last five Heisman trophy winners.

•Name the last five winners of the Miss America contest.

•Name ten people who have won the Nobel or

Pulitzer Prize.

•Namethe last five Academy Award winners for best

Actor and Actress.
 Quiz
•Name three teachers who aided your journey through school.

•Name three friends who helped you through difficult time.

•Name five people who have taught you something worthwhile.

•Thinkof a few people who have made you feel appreciated

and special.

•Think of five people you enjoy spending time with.

 Is Trust a
Positive
feeling
or

A Negative
Feeling
I Trust You
Can Do This

I Do Not Have
Trust In You
Research shows
 How to be
EMOTIONALLY INTELLIGENT?
Trust in oneself
gives the

CONFIDENCE

Will to perform
 Thank you

R A S H M I W A D H W A Consulting psychologist, wadhwa_rashmi01@yahoo.com