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Most postponements are an excuse for a lack of discipline. Spend at least an hour each day giving your fullest gift so that youll live a life without regret. !ssume your woman is how she is today forever. "ont fight it. #m$race it. "ont try to understand it and dont try to escape it. %ind the humor in it. Man who have lived significant lives are men who never waited' not for money( security( ease( or women. *ive with an open heart( even if it hurts. *ive as if your father was dead. , - know that for myself and so many others( at a deep emotional level our challenge is to do $etter than our fathers. - did that the day - graduated from college. .ut it did not make me a $etter man. /e cannot live our life constrained $y the 0udgment of our fathers or others1whether dead or alive. -f youre a$solutely fearless( would you $e earning a living in exactly the same way as you are now3 Meditate( contemplate or pray daily so you are present and steeped in the Source. -f you postpone the process of su$merging yourself in the Source for the sake of taking care of $usiness first( your life will $e spent in the hours and days of $usiness and then it will $e gone. 7ever change your mind 0ust to please a woman. 8ou are open to listening to others( $ut in the end( you will take the responsi$ility for making your own decision. 9here is no$ody else to $lame. 8our mission is your priority. 9ime you spend with your woman should $e time you really want to $e with her more than anything else. :ive it all. 7o holding $ack. ;se everything youve got. -nvite and en0oy your friends criticism. 9he father force is the force of loving( challenge and guidance. -f you dont know your purpose( discover it( now. - would say my purpose in life is to' teach( love( learn( play( dance( laugh( explore( give grace( feel good. .e willing to change everything in your life to live a full one. - have gone down this road myself and couldnt agree more. 7ot 0ust change for changes sake. <hange for $etterments sake. !nd dont expect the transition to $e easy. =oint is( the outcome is worth it all. "ont use your family as an excuse>youll only disservice them in the process. %or their sake( your sake and your womans sake( discover your deepest purpose( commit yourself completely to its process( and find a way to em$race your family as you do so. -t is not the amount of time $ut the ?uality of the interaction that most influences a childs growth. /hen you are with your family( $e with them totally. "ont get lost in tasks and duties. , - need to keep working on this one@ /atch $ecoming a ro$ot of duty. 8our success doesnt mean shit to her unless you are free and loving. 8our woman will test you. 9his will never end. 9his is the secret. 8ou will never get out of it. %inding a different woman wont get you out of it. 7either will therapy( money or sexual mastery. -n the feminine reality( words in fact take a second place to emotions and the shifting moods of the relationship. 9he truth of the feminine is whatever she is really feeling in this present moment.

24. 9he masculine grows $y challenge $ut the feminine grows $y praise. 25. =raise works. -nformation doesnt. =raise motivates. <hallenge doesnt. 9ry it. "eida suggests praising five to ten things each day. *ooks like - have to kick it up a notch. 6. Somehow all of this reminds me of another truism' "ont assume that they know you care. - remind myself to tell my wife that she is $eautiful( that she is a good person( that know that she is loving and caring. Aften times we can only give people our negative attention( whether at work or at home. 1. 9olerating her leads to resenting her. 9his is a real challenge. - know that in my own marriage - tend to either tolerate unaccepta$le conduct or $itch a$out it. - dont do what "eida suggests and that is to open her moods with skillful loving. !s "eida says( $oth of us will grow more $y my giving than $y my tolerating. 2. ! superior man sees her moods not as a curse $ut as a challenge and an amusement. 9his is an area - definitely have to work on. #specially the amusement part. -m sure -m not alone in that. . Apen her heart again and again and again. &. "ont analyBe your woman. Ar( as my good $uddy "ave Morgan said( 7ever try to understand them. -ts what makes the world go Cround. Ar as - say in my own workshops( -f it doesnt make sense( dont try to make sense out of it@ ). "eida advises that the easiest approach is to assume she is not feeling loved. +. !nd( oh $y the way( "ont suggest a woman fix her own emotional pro$lem. 2. *ove is the feminine priority( not purpose and direction. have to honor this in my wife. -t is so easy to fall in the trap of wanting others to $e like you. 4. "ont force the feminine to make decisions. , .oy( do fight this one@ "eida suggests that we dont say( "o whatever you want or 9hey are $oth nice. Say something decisive like( - like the red shoes( $ut whats most important to me is that youre happy. - tried that with my wife the other night in a situation where - was truly indifferent to the choice and - laughed at her improved reaction to it. 5. !s a practice( always help your woman make decisions $y giving her your perspective and telling her your choices( while letting her know you love her regardless of the decisions she makes. &6. 8ou cant have a woman who is always logically consistent( reasona$le( and who also fills your heart and flesh with energy( instantly and throughout the day> &1. 9he thing your woman is complaining a$out is rarely the thing she is complaining a$out. !gain( if it doesnt make sense( dont try to make sense out of it@ &2. She doesnt really want to $e num$er one. !s - often say to my wife( -ll $e the Ding and you can $e the Eueen. & . ! mans highest purpose is his priority( not his intimacy. 8our woman knows this( deep inside( she really wants it to $e this way. - have to watch this. - often times want my wife to $e as driven and as purposeful as - am. 9hat is not her gift. Fer loving and nurturing is her gift. 9hat is what must honor and constantly remem$er. 7o 0amming round pegs into s?uare holes. &&. 9he feminine responds to the moment of energy( forgetting her mans history of past $ehavior. 9rack records dont matter much( $eing in the present does. &). 8ou are always searching for freedom.

&+. 9he dark masculine energy of the warrior( one who could face death and kill when necessary is an essential part of you. /omen want this in their men. 9his is discussed in the $ook King, Warrior, Magician, Lover $y Go$ert Moore and "ouglas :illette. Most women dont want some new age metrosexual guy. 9hey want a man. &2. 8our woman knows your weakness $etter than anyone. !nd how to push your $uttons $etter than anyone. &4. *ife itself is the feminine>.whenever you are feeling isolated and weary( feel the present moment as if it were a woman. /hat a great image. - tried it the other morning at the $each. %irst time - gave the $each a gender. &5. ! womans true radiance reveals a degree to which she is open( trusting( connected( and loving. -snt it the radiance we want3 )6. !llow older women their magic. )1. *earn to discipline your ha$its of $uilding up and releasing mental and sexual tension. 7apoleon Fill talked a$out this whole concept in Think and Grow Rich. !$out the nature of transforming sexual energy. )2. <an you invade her $ody and her heart with so much love and humor that she laughs( relaxes and $rightens in spite of herself3 /hat a challenging line@ ) . -t only takes a moment of praise and deep appreciation to reHevoke a womans radiance. So try it. )&. Give her what you want from her. Ar as the .uddha would say( /hat comes to you comes from you. )). #0aculation should $e converted or consciously chosen. , "eida makes the point that without discipline( the release of our sexual energy is depleting rather than invigorating. 9heres a reason why $oxers dont get to have sex $efore $outs. .oxers( track athletes( and others re?uiring $ursts of energy will typically store up their sexual energy and use it to create a kinetic explosion. -n the same way( were encouraged to hold on to that sexual energy throughout our day in our lives and only give it up intentionally and in a manner which is empowering. Af course( this sounds like extra work. .ut then again( so is going to the gym or eating right( constant learning and everything else that tends to improve our life. "eida actually goes through a physical techni?ue to help men learn how to redirect their sexual release. 9his includes $eing very well aware of your $reath and $eing in control of your pelvic muscles. -ll leave it to you to read the details. )+. %eel your partner more than you feel yourself. -ts always $een my experience that the $est sex comes when - lose myself in my partner. )2. .ecause the mans priority is his mission( he will always gravitate to a woman whom he feels will most support his mission. , %ortunately this how - feel a$out my wife. didnt always feel this way a$out the women in my life and it made a $ig difference. )4. 9he desire for intimate loving is essential to your womans life as the mission towards freedom1financial( psychological( and spiritual1is to yours. )5. -t is natural not $e as into the relationship as your woman. +6. 8our woman could $e a corporate executive and you could $e a house hus$and. 9hats fine( as long as youre living your highest purpose and her life is devoted to love. +1. 8our masculine gift is to know where you are( where you want to $e( and what you need to do to get there. +2. ! superior man will not settle for the less than the fullest incarnation of love of which he and his woman are capa$le of. 7o room for ordinary relations here.

+ . 8ou are entirely responsi$le for cutting through your own laBiness( addictions and unclarity. 9heres nothing to wait for and no$ody to $lame. , !men. !s - learned a long time ago in Money and 8ou( play a$ove the line and take responsi$ility. +&. 9ake away anything that dulls your edge. 7o newspapers or magaBines. 7o 9I. 7o candies( cookies or sweets. 7o sex. 7o cuddling. 7o reading of anything at all while you eat or sit on the toilet. Geduce working time to a necessary minimum. 7o movies. 7o conversation that isnt a$out truth( love( or the divine. , =erhaps this hit me as much as anything in this $ook. /e can get so caught up in our dayH toHday duties( roles and responsi$ilities that we can literally disappear. .ecause - am aware of this( -ve read a few $ooks on simplicity so that - can keep my life simpler. "eida 0ust reminded me that - can do $etter still. /hile he doesnt suggest that we do this on a neverHending $asis we should at least experiment with it for a while until were clear a$out who the heck we really are. Fas part of you disappeared too3 /hat can you strip away to find yourself again3 +). Spend time at least once a week with a group of men. !s he states( <ut through the $ullshit and talk with each other straight. - realiBe that despite the fact - do so many workshops for so many men( - dont have a mastermind group of my own where - can cut through the $ullshit and talk straight. - will work on creating such a group. *ive a noH$ullshit life. Strip it all away. .e a man. :ive the gift. .e present. .e Ane. Gestore the sexual energy. .reathe.

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s a disc!aimer" these aren#t my notes. They do, however, contain massive va!ue. This is rea! ta!k and wi!! $ring you to a who!e nother !eve! of greatness if app!ied correct!y. Fere are detailed notes - took during one of "avid "eidas seminars. %or those who dont know "avid "eida he is the author of the $ook 9he /ay of the Superior Man. 9hese notes are money for anyone wanting to $ecome an actual man and not 0ust a fake like many. #n0oy. 7otes JStarted with a yoga style warm upK H !ny desire is a form of insecurity H -f youre looking to achieve something then you are insecure H Gelax into what youve always $een. 9hen offer your true self as a gift. H 8our $ody is a resume to a woman H Gelaxed depth of $eing is most attractive to a woman H %irst three times at anything you fail $adly( though you might get lucky( then its less stressful after. H 8ou point to your heart to define you H -ts in the moment( as you relax in that. 9hats what everyone feels. H 8ou always attract someone as wounded as youre putting out H -f youre trying to achieve something( you are insecure( and youll attract someone as insecure. H -f youre faking it( people will expect you to keep faking it. H 7o one cares a$out you( except you( and you shouldnt. H /here your attention is is how people experience themselves. H -f youre attentive on yourself( youll attract selfish women H Mick Lagger is a$out the music( and giving it( not a$out him( not a$out his $ody( not a$out his aches( not a$out his age . . . H #veryone wants a good show Jhappiness( love( etc.K H %ind out what you want( that when you die youll die complete. i. /hat do you want to do $efore you die3 H *ook at your friends and girlfriends( and thats you H 8ou want a girl to see :od through you H 8ou want the girl to worship you H 9he rd step( stage of intimacy 9he Stages 1st stage , "ick suckers Jdo something wrong and she doesnt suck your dickK 2nd stage , %air Ji.e. if you want me to suck your dick( you have to eat my pussy , $usiness relationshipK rd stage , 7either mutual relationshipM not fair. -9S - /!79 9A A=#7 SAM#A7# 9A :A" 9A7-:F9. J:A" $eing divinityK !nd in return - accept nothing $ut pain. 8ou should feel like Lesus on the cross. /hen you walk into the clu$ you know youll experience pain eventually. -ts mutual( true worship. /e all worship women. :ift H :raduation "ay i. "ifference is $etween the girl $efore meeting you and the girl after meeting you. H 9he part of you totally trusta$le is what you give to women during sex H 7ote' :iving :A" without expectation Jshe wont give you the kudos you deserveK H /omen are $uilt to show you where youre holding your fear. H -f you need her approval you are already attracting those low level moments H %ind out why you want to $e with women. H =lay around HN %inding the right girlJsK

H :ood sex is open and intense that if you ever see the woman again you 0ust $reathe . . . Masculine H .e the awareness that is undiminished $y the moments.i. 2 parts to a moment 1. 8oure aware of this moment. 8ou can see a chairM youre not the chair. 8ou are tired( $ut youre not the tired. J/itness , - am here( not changing.K 2. #verything else , everything else except the witness J9o $e free of the pleasure and pain( during pleasure and painK H 8our value as a M!7 is your capacity to remain present no matter what happens. H 9he capacity to remain present no matter if there is pleasureOpain H #verything else that changes is the feminine H .eing here is the masculine H 9hat unflinching makes a man a man H %ear doesnt collapse them( them who are valua$le in society H 7ot fidget( collapse . . . thats your value as a man. H %eminine is moveHa$ility and feminine value is a$ility to move H /e want a woman who gives you everythingM *-%#. H Masculine is that which does not move. H Masculine P you H %eminine P #verything else in the universe My gift H 9he sacrifice of myself for others H /hen youre fucking a girl what would you prefer in terms of value. ! girl who is rigid and still( or a girl who is all over the place in pleasure3 H :uys drink to num$ H /omen drink to express themselves H #very fidget deHmasculiniBes you H Fow much of your day do you want to here of her day( life( friends( etc3 H rd stage is making a relationship into an art form. H -n general( what kills a relationship is talking .om$ "ropping #xample H ! good warrior feels the $om$s $efore they drop Ji.e. fishing( you have to $e sensitive to all the moments to catch the most fish. /ith picking up women( you have to $e sensitive to any situationK H =ractice increased awareness $y feeling the person on your left( on your right( people $ehind you. Ji.e. .asket$all players can pass to anyone on the court of their field sensitivityK H "avid "eida said if he was a woman he wouldnt date anyone in this room H !ny unconscious movement is $ad H !ll fidgets and movements make you unattractive More !ttractive H %eel the space around you H Sense your $reathing H 9o find out how much you trust someone think of the following. 8ou have a huge $usiness deal of all your life savings( would you trust that man3 !sk 8A;GS#*% H "o you trust yourself with someones life savings3 /omen !re So Sensitive H Deep feet straight H Fumour means presence i. 9hink of a good 0oke( and a gun on your side ready to shoot anyone who gets in your way. H 8ou can learn to $e the most trusta$le person in the world( $ut you have to $e real. H /omen want to feel that your $ody is reflecting the real

H 9here is not $etter or worse men( there is $etter acting and worse acting men H 8ou get as much selfHinvolved when you $elieve there are worse or $etter men. H !fter your $ody goes you will know who you are H 8ou are always aware of the present( $ut how much are you expressing3 H %eel that you are dancing in your $ody( $ut you can kill the next person who gets in your way. H -ts all a matter of $eing aware of the present moment. H /hen you $ecome more aware of your $ody you can express your glow. H *aughter of human existence P slight smile H =ractice to real your glow. H :uys awareness of presence changes( thats why girls say( - want this guy. 9hen the next moment says( - want this other guy. 9hats why girls dont know what guy they want. H %eel like your feet are rooted and feel that root H GAA9 8A;GS#*% SA 8A;G# ! /FA*# .#-7: H %or )H16 Minutes a day stand in front of a mirror( $ig erect dick and feel like everyoneOyou is going to die in the next ten minutes and sing and you can kill the person who walks in the door H 9witches are feed$ack. 7o twitches if youre A7 H 9witches are feed$ack that you are losing it H /ed all go insane if we didnt live in self deception H Aur mortality is so frail that we deceive ourselves so we dont go insane. H *oosening up your ass makes you less of a tight ass. H /hy not 0ust lay in our excrement and die3 -f you 0ust eat and mastur$ate( what is it a$out eating and mastur$ation that are so great3 H Gelationships are important for you to live out your fantasies H 8our purpose is to live out your fantasy everyday of your life H /e want to experience power every day H 1st stage man i. - want to dominate this woman so - can feel good a$out myself H rd stage man i. express your fantasy and use it as a portal H 8ou only ignore who you are when you say -f only . . . H Sex and violence is on television cause they dont live it out H 8ogic way to use mastur$atory fantasy H Anly when you are living on your edge will you feel alive H -f you get emotional $y movie types( then you have to do that Ji.e. fighting movieM then $ox or do martial artsK H Mastur$atory %antasy i. Su$missive woman 1. cause were not well fucked H 9he cure is to trace fantasy to the root H /e fuck each other with our gifts. -f you hold in your gift they $ecome demonic( and thus a fantasy H Multiple women i. -nfinitely attractive( there fore consciousness is infinitely attraction Ji.e. 0ust walk into a $arOclu$ and $e conscious of your whole $ody( as well as everyone around you. /alk into a clu$ and feel the whole room. -f someone says( Fi.( look at them with depth $ut $e aware of everyone elseK H .reathe P *ots of women H "epth P Monogamy H rd stage , worship you $ut will cut your head off if you $ullshit H ! womans role is to prevent you from your purpose H #very moment is an excuse to give your gift or not. H %uck society( - have to give this gift. H :irls dont have interest in his $ooks. Fis $ooks mean a lot( and itll hurt( he may weep( $ut he doesnt need mommy. 9here is a part of him so desperate for her to acknowledge what he does. Fe knows this

and goes $ack to writing another $ook. H -f shes a good woman she wont support you. H -f you need support for your gift then it wont $e as artful. H 9hey will support you in the extreme moments H !s soon as you G#!**8 G#!**8 dont need her support will you actually get it( and youll get it without it going to your ego. H -f you do something $ig in the world( the world will try to resist you. 9he measure of your capacity is your a$ility to $ash it down. H 9he world is a $ig woman H ! woman is a concentrated version of the world. H 9ake any great human $eing and youll see that they have $een $eaten down. /hen you win this game you die( you smile as you exit. H /omen help the process( especially with one woman. !nd shes giving you what the world will give you( $ut in concentrated form. i. -t may take the world ten years to shit on you( $ut a woman will do that more often( and you will learn to get up and move on. H /hat she wants to feel is( - know what - want to do( 0oin me3( 7A9 - dont know what to do( will you help me3 H /ealthy men and extremely $eautiful woman have an extreme disadvantage of $eing real. H Men friends are important to keep you in line. H 7o one cares a$out your past( they care a$out $eing real. H Fow to learn not to give a shit3 i. -ts like eating food( your $ody shits out stuff not needed( $ut keeps the nutrients. ii. #!9 9F# /AG*"( if you do it fully you will take it all in and then youll discover what you need to do $efore you die. H Men dont learn from other peoples mistakes very well. H !lways take everything in and then decide what you need to do to die complete. !sk 1. /hy do you want to talk to her3 a. ! positive thing would $e you have a gift to give her thatll $enefit the world. 9he negative thing would $e for superficial reasons. H Most of the fear is whats going to happen you H -n stage youll give your gift and possi$ly get nothing in return. H :o to a clu$ and give your gift you everyone( some will accept( some will re0ect H /hat ever shes doing( take it in. H 9ake it all in( and still give your gift. Jits a test or telling you somethingK H /omen are geniuses at finding out what weakens you H 7ote' -f she keeps going on and on then shes a nagging $itch. H !s teenagers we should learn to play %oot$all #xample H Say youre playing foot$all and you dont know the rules. 8ou get the $all( and everyone starts trying to tackle you and you say /hy are you trying to tackle me@3 /#** 9F!9S 9F# :!M#@ H 8ou can connect to :od without women JmeditationOyogaK( or through women. H -f she attacks your core and you tell her( - love you( itll unravel her. H /omen forget the moment H -f you can take fear away from sexual life you have more sex. H "eida went from white clothed meditating pure type to Lack "aniels( steak eating( ) women fucking for ten hours. H %ucking around and not living a$out your fantasies relives the +6s and results in what he have now( and that is not a good thing H 8ou dont win life( you out grow life H 8ogic , dick is the root to your heart H #very woman wants your soul( that communion. H *ook into her eyes( see her heart( $reathe with her . . . and there is a point when $reaths are in sync. 9hen invite her to touch you $y feeling her touch you. H 56Q of game is synchroniBing $reath. H "ont go soft( G#*!R into pure awareness

H Say Fi@ from pure awareness. & Steps to Apening a :irl 1. %eel deepest purpose 2. Gest in deepest purpose . %ind gift to give her and open her heart with your gift &. 9hen say( Fi@ in pure form. H !ll women feel the negative and positive( they 0ust dont say it. H "epth means relaxed( humourous( open( and free. 9o .e More Masculine H Dnow your purpose H .reath deeply H Goot yourself H Stop fidgeting H -ts tough at first( and it takes effort( $ut after its easy cause you live it. H "uring sex( that every moment you are disconnected from the moment youll get a negative response all the time H ;h( looking down( fum$ling is not masculine. H Euality women are re0ected from the $eginning H 9he heart adds something to the vocal tone. i. 9one( no clamping down 1. fix the vocal tone $y laughing Jtaking yourself too seriouslyK H connect the hearts for adding something to the voice H 9hey can feel when youre lying. 9hey can feel more a$out you( then you can feel a$out you. #nlightened Sex Manual H Fe practices many hours a day $y himself H 8oure responsi$le for how you affect others H /hen you get really good you will find things a$out her that she doesnt even know( and you have to step up to continue with the girl( so people dont get hurt H /hen you get good you dont need to find someone( you have to eliminate them H /hat do you have to give to a woman $efore you die3 i. 8our gift H -f you went to a clu$ and $reath in three ways( fill the space with your consciousness( conscious of your entire $ody( and any $ody that comes near you( and giving your heart to everyone. H 8ou attract any woman that your attention is on Ji.e. if you spend most of the time thinking a$out pleasure( youll attract pleasure. -f you focus on your deepest gift youll attract women who want your deepest giftK H /hat counts to women is not what you say( its how you say H -f your heart is disconnected from your purpose( your heart will $e rated low on a scale of 6 to 16. H *ook at someone while saying it( and think of how you would say something to that person if you were with them. H /omen are a$out love and giving love. H /omen want to feel your whole $ody is into your purpose H Slow down tempo so its like a dance to get them involved( 7A9 pushing it on them H 8ou claim the woman you want to claim and you make that claim known to them in delicious ways #xercise H Stay present $y counting your $reaths 16 minutes a day( and if you are not conscious then slap yourself. H More presence P more attractiveness H <hatting $rings you a$out in your head H %ind your deepest purpose and express it H !ttractiveness i. So present you can fall asleep 1. show humour though also show that you could kill them if they get craBy

H /hen talking mix in humour( killing a$ility( and that you are $etter than others( that you could get any woman youd want. H =resence changes all the time .est presence H %eet parallel H Gelaxed 0aw H .reathing in $elly H 9hinking you could have any woman H 9hat you are humourous though you could kill them H Shoulders $ack H Gelaxed $odyOmovement H Gelaxed face H :aBe at the horiBon H /hen talking( talk direct( at a relaxed pace and the tone that you are $etter than them /ays 9o -mprove H 7A - think . . . H 7A ;h H 7A hesitation H 7A low( insecure H 7A in your head H 9hink $efore you speak H Gelax H .reath( focus on your $reath as $reath is life( and your life is most important H 7o fighting H =resence P attractiveness J$e more presentK H /hen youre tired is when you need to practice( thats when you push yourself H /hen tired do 16H1) minutes of $reathing exercises H /eight training and yoga are great mixes H Stage 1 women go for guys who are rich cause they assume wealthy guys can get through lifes o$0ectives. H Stage women( if she had a choice $etween a nonwealthy man in the present and a wealthy man in the present( she might choose wealthy( though you never know. Geview H 8ou walk into a room and see an incredi$ly attractive woman( why are you attracted3 i. *ight ii. Gadiance iii. *ife H /omen are valued $ased on *ight( Gadiance( S *ife H /hat makes you attractive is consciousness( presence and attention. H She is 7A9 attracted to light( radiance( and life H -f you want a woman with light( radiance( life then you have to give consciousness( presence( and attention H Money is sexy cause its an example of consciousness( presence( and attention H Fenry Disinger was voted sexiest man of the year ) times( and hes ugly. -ts cause he has consciousness( presence( and attention H Stage 1 women want T and status H Stage 2 women want humour( intellect H Stage women want consciousness( presence( attention in the purest form Jfearless sensitivity that you are willing to take anything without flinchingK H Stage 1 i. 7eedy men try to make lots of money cause then they think people would like them Ji.e. - need T( attentive women . . .K H Stage 2 i. "ependence J- dont need . . . K

H Stage i. /hat can - give $efore - die3 H :ood women want stage ---( though they would go after a guy with all stages H Maturity in a woman determines her stage U H 7othing wrong with money( master it and move $eyond money. 9hough you can $e a monk( and not have a need for T. !rtists H Stage 1 i. !rt for attention ii. !rt for money H Iery few artists in stage H 9he stages are a development H /omen mirror you( if you are a stage 1( shell lie to you( steal your money H *ight attracts consciousness H -f youre in rd stage( youll induce rd stage in people H -ts all our responsi$ility to $e rd stage( every moment were not makes the world a dum$er and darker place. H -t takes a woman one second to pick the most consciousOpresentOattentive man H Fow you walk( talk( standing( $reathing( looking at horiBon H Man can pick out most radiant girl within three seconds H *ife P Gesponsiveness H -f $ody doesnt show depth of man( the tone of voice can H :um chewing turns stage --- women off H :enuine smile from heart gives you a 16 H /ay predominately men and predominantly women people learn are completely different H 9o "eida( everything is an exercise. H *ook into the persons left eye. H /omen doesnt want you to practice on her( even if it is practice H %eminine is the water( and masculine is the container. 8oure the container( shes the water. 8ou direct the flow of the river( $ut she has the power. -ts your 0o$ to $e the stage container H -f shes $itching i. Stage 1 guy will 0ust leave and come $ack later Ji.e. have a $eer and get $ack to her laterK ii. Stage 2 guy will listen $ut have attention on other things iii. Stage guy will do the following. She goes .lah( .lah( .lah and in your heart you find out how to open her to :od( the mystery of life. Ji.e. you might nod and then dance her around( and if she gets pissed say( :od( - love it when youre angry H "ont encourage a woman to $e more feminine H Gelax her into amore feminine place than shes at H -ts 7A9 always true that a woman has to $e more feminine to $e more happy( they can add a little more masculine to their life #nergy H #veryone has masculineOfeminine in their $ody H -ts up to you to take over the masculine. H !nytime a woman is acting helpless shes playing with you. H 8ou should play $oth masculine and feminine sides( if not youre half a person H ! %G## M!7 is someone who can have a $unch of su$ personalities and not worry a$out them. i. Stage 1 Man goes to many su$ personalities ii. Stage Man doesnt give in. H 8ou cant serve someone else and find there self if you cant find your own. H -nstead of saying /here do - go( you say hmmm( - have all these personalities( what gift do - have to give3 Stage H :iving gift regarding your depth through su$ personalities. :ift

through meditation. :ift through fucking. H Lust roll with it H :ive gift through su$ personalities H !s any artist knows( its the flaw that makes the art H Michael Lordan was not a $alanced human $eing( he gave it through his kink H "ance in the wound H 8ou give your pain through a gift to others H .uild and lose( $uild and lose( $uild and lose H 8ea( - wont even work with a $usiness partner unless hes $een $ankrupt twice. H Maturity is when you can $e re0ected and move on. H 8ou have to fail repeatedly to get the $ig success H 9his $odily reaction of failure came from school and getting good grades H %!-* -7 *-%# H 9he $igger game you play( the $igger your losses. H !ll this is grounded in enlightenment H #nlightenment is in this present moment( in light( consciousness( and fucking H 9his moment H #nlightenment is 7A9 knowing it intellectually its $reathing it( living it. 9his moment. 8ogic sex is one person giving life and one giving consciousness. H 8ou need friends so you dont delude yourself H /hen youre ready a teacher will come H =laying around with sex and drugs is like mastur$ation( and you need someone to get you out of it H SensitiBe yourself to internal( flow of light for mastur$ation H /ere on a spiritual ?uest( through women( 0ust take it further( and grow women to stage --- $y giving your gift.