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Self-Development in Childhood and Adolescence

Susan Harter, University of Denver, Denver, CO, USA


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Abstract

The nature of children’s and adolescents’ concepts of self change with age, in large part due to cognitive-developmental
changes. Young children’s self-concepts are limited to specific, concrete representations (e.g., I can run fast, I know my
numbers). In middle and later childhood, children’s self-descriptions represent trait labels (e.g., I am smart because I do well
in Social Studies, Language Arts, and Math). At adolescence, self-descriptions become increasingly abstract (e.g., I am
intelligent, athletic). In addition to domain-specific self-concepts, the ability to evaluate one’s overall worth as a person
emerges in middle childhood. The level of such global self-esteem varies tremendously across children and is determined by
how adequate they feel in domains of importance as well as the extent to which significant others (e.g., parents and peers)
approve of them as a person. Low self-esteem is associated with many psychological liabilities including depressed affect, lack
of energy, and hopelessness about the future. However, efforts to promote positive self-esteem can be problematic if they are
based on unrealistically positive judgments, namely, overestimations of one’s competencies. I review the debate about Self-
Esteem Movement, which has taken place largely in our schools, which has been criticized for fostering unrealistic percep-
tions of children’s competencies and, in collusion with some parents, a sense of entitlement. Moreover, one must consider
cross-cultural differences in the nature of self-esteem, which are legion. Certain cultures (e.g., China) do not even have a term
for self-esteem. Plus, instruments designed for Americans are often inappropriate, in terms of content and psychometric
properties, leading to faulty interpretations.

Introduction children and adolescents make evaluative judgments about


the self have been identified: scholastic competence, physical
Beginning in the second year of life, toddlers begin to talk competence, social competence, behavioral conduct, and
about themselves. With development, they come to understand physical appearance (Harter, 1999). The types of statements
that they possess various characteristics, some of which may be vary, however, across age periods, early childhood, middle
positive (‘I am smart’) and some of which may be negative (‘I childhood, later childhood, and early, mid-, and late
am unpopular’). Of particular interest is how the very nature of adolescence, in keeping with the cognitive abilities of each
such self-evaluations changes with development as well as age period.
among individual children and adolescents across two basic
evaluative categories: (1) domain-specific self-concepts, i.e.,
Early Childhood
how one judges one’s attributes in particular arenas, e.g.,
scholastic competence, social and (2) global self-esteem (for Young children provide very concrete accounts of their
a complete treatment of self-development in childhood and capabilities, evaluating specific behaviors. Thus, they
adolescence, see Harter, 1999, 2012). communicate how they know their ABCs, how they can run
Developmental shifts in the nature of self-evaluations very fast, how they are nice to a particular friend, how they
are driven by changes in the child’s cognitive capabilities. do not hit their brother or sister, and how they possess
Cognitive-developmental theory and findings (see Piaget, a specific physical feature such as pretty blond hair. Of
1960,1963; Fischer, 1980) alert us to the fact that the young particular interest in such accounts is the fact that the young
child is limited to very specific, concrete representations of child typically provides a litany of virtues, touting his or her
self and others, for example, ‘I know my ABCs’ (see Damon positive skills and attributes. One cognitive limitation of this
and Hart, 1988; Harter, 1999). In middle to later childhood, age period is that the young child cannot distinguish the
the ability to form higher order concepts about one’s wish to be competent from reality. As a result, they typically
attributes and abilities (e.g., ‘I am smart’) emerges. There are overestimate their abilities because they do not yet have the
further cognitive advances at adolescence, allowing the skills to evaluate themselves realistically. Another cognitive
teenager to form abstract concepts about the self that characteristic that contributes to potential distortions is the
transcend concrete behavioral manifestations and higher pervasiveness of all-or-none thinking. That is, evaluations
order generalizations (e.g., ‘I am intelligent’). are either all positive or all negative, but primarily, all
positive.

Developmental Differences in Domain-Specific


Middle Childhood
Self-Concepts
As the child grows older, the ability to make higher order
Domain-specific evaluative judgments are observed at every generalizations in evaluating his or her abilities and attributes
developmental level. However, the precise nature of these emerges. The child may observe that he or she is good at sports,
judgments varies with age. Five common domains in which in general. This inference can further be justified in that the

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child can describe his or her talent at several sports (e.g., good under the abstraction of intelligence. Abstractions may be
at soccer, basketball, and baseball). Thus, the higher order constructed in the other domains. In the domain of
generalization represents a cognitive construction in which an behavioral conduct, there will be a shift from the perception
overarching judgment (good at sports) is defined in terms of that one is well behaved to a sense that one is a moral or
specific examples that warrant this conclusion. Similar principled person. In the domains of social competence and
processes allow the older child to conclude that he or she is appearance, abstractions may take the form of perceptions
smart (e.g., does well in math, science, and history). The that one is popular and physically attractive.
structure of a higher order generalization about being well These illustrative examples all represent positive self-
behaved could include such components as obeying parents, evaluations. However, during adolescence (as well as in later
not getting into trouble, and trying to do what is right. A childhood), judgments about one’s attributes will also
generalization concerning the ability to make friends may involve negative self-evaluations. Thus, certain individuals
subsume accounts of having friends at school, making friends may judge the self to be unattractive, unpopular,
easily at camp, and developing friendships readily upon unprincipled, etc.
moving to a new neighborhood. The perception that one is
good looking may be based on one’s positive evaluation of
Mid-Adolescence
one’s face, hair, and body.
Of particular interest is the fact that when abstractions emerge,
the adolescent typically does not have total control over these
Later Childhood
new acquisitions, just as when one is acquiring a new athletic
During later childhood, all-or-none thinking diminishes and skill (e.g., swinging a bat and maneuvering skis) one lacks
the aura of positivity fades. Thus, children do not typically a certain level of control. In the cognitive realm, such lack of
think that they are all virtuous in every domain. The more control often leads to dramatic shifts in self-perceptions across
common pattern is for them to feel more adequate in some situations or time. For example, the adolescent may conclude at
domains than others. For example, one child may feel that he one point in time that he or she is exceedingly popular but
or she is good at schoolwork and is well behaved, whereas he then, in the face of a minor social rebuff, may conclude that
or she is not that good at sports, does not think that he or he or she is extremely unpopular. Moreover, adolescents
she is good looking, and reports that it is hard to make develop multiple selves, how they are different in different
friends. Another child may report the opposite pattern. role relationships, for example, cheerful with peers, depressed
Contributing to this advance is the ability to engage in with parents, self-conscious on a date, etc. However, these
social comparison. Children can use comparisons with others vacillations and different selves cause distress, perceived
as a barometer of the skills and attributes of the self. In contrast, psychological conflict, and confusion about just which is
the young child cannot simultaneously compare his or her their ‘true self’ (see Harter, 2012).
attributes to the characteristics of another in order to detect
similarities or differences that have implications for the self.
Late Adolescence
Although the ability to utilize social comparison information
for the purpose of self-evaluation represents a cognitive- Gradually, adolescents gain control over these self-relevant
developmental advance, it also ushers in new, potential abstractions such that they become capable of more balanced
liabilities. With the emergence of the ability to rank-order the and accurate self-representations (see Harter, 1999, 2012).
performance of other children, all but the most capable They develop more advanced cognitive skills to deal with the
children will necessarily fall short of excellence. Thus, the confusion and the conflict between their multiple selves. Two
very ability and penchant to compare the self with others strategies have been documented in the author’s own work.
makes one’s self-concept vulnerable, particularly if one does As adolescents advance to more mature levels of cognitive
not measure up in domains that are highly valued. The more development, they develop higher levels of abstractions that
general effects of social comparison can be observed in can integrate the seeming contradictions of the previous
findings revealing that domain-specific self-concepts become period. For example, the realizations that they are depressed
more negative during later childhood, compared to early with parents but cheerful with friends can be subsumed
childhood. under the more advanced abstraction that they are ‘moody,’
thus integrating and justifying what were previously
inconsistent self-perceptions. Second, older adolescents
Early Adolescence normalize what were former contradictions, describing how it
would be ‘weird’ to be the same with your mother as you are
For the adolescent, there are further cognitive-developmental on a date, or with friends at a ball game (see Harter, 2012).
advances that alter the nature of domain-specific self-
evaluations. Early adolescence brings with it the ability to
create more abstract judgments about one’s attributes and Global Self-Esteem
abilities. Thus, one no longer merely considers oneself to be
good at sports but to be athletically talented. One is no The ability to evaluate one’s worth as a person also undergoes
longer merely smart but views the self more generally as developmental change. The young child simply is incapable,
intelligent, where successful academic performance, general cognitively, of developing the verbal concept of his or her value
problem-solving ability, and creativity might all be subsumed as a person. This ability emerges at the approximate age of
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8 years. However, young children exude a sense of value or appearance. In fact, their profiles are quite similar to each other
worth in their behavior. The primary behavioral manifestations across the five specific domains. However, judgments of their
involve displays of confidence, independence, mastery self-esteem are extremely different. Child C has very high self-
attempts, and exploration (see Harter, 1999, 2012). Thus, esteem, whereas Child D has very low self-esteem. This raises
behaviors that communicate to others that children are sure of a puzzling question: how can two children look so similar
themselves are manifestations of high self-esteem in early with regard to their domain-specific self-concepts but
childhood. evaluate their global self-esteem so differently? The author
At about the third grade, children begin to develop the turns to this issue next, in examining the causes of global
concept that they like, or do not like, the kind of person they self-esteem.
are (Harter, 1999; Rosenberg, 1979). Thus, they can respond
to general items asking them to rate the extent to which
they are pleased with themselves, like who they are, and The Causes of Children’s Level of Self-Esteem
think they are fine, as a person. Here, the shift reflects the
emergence of an ability to construct a higher order The understanding of the antecedents of global self-esteem
generalization about the self. This type of concept can be has been greatly aided by the formulations of two historical
built upon perceptions that one has a number of specific scholars of the self, William James (1892) and Charles
qualities, for example, that one is competent, well behaved, Horton Cooley (1902). Each suggested rather different
attractive, etc. It can also be built upon the observation that pathways to self-esteem, defined as an overall evaluation of
significant others are approving and supportive, for one’s worth as a person (see reviews by Harter, 1999, 2012;
example, parents, peers, and teachers, think highly of the Rosenberg, 1979). James focused on how the individual
self. This process is greatly influenced by advances in the assessed his or her competence in domains where one had
child’s ability to take the perspective of significant others aspirations to succeed. Cooley focused on the salience of
(Selman, 1980). During adolescence, one’s evaluation of the opinions that others held about the self, opinions that
one’s global worth as a person may be further elaborated, one incorporated into one’s global sense of self (see Self:
drawing upon more domains and sources of approval, and History of the Concept).
will also become more abstract. Thus, adolescents can
directly acknowledge that they have high or low self-esteem,
Competence–Adequacy in Domains of Importance
as a general abstraction about the self.
For James, global self-esteem derived from the evaluations of
one’s sense of competence or adequacy in the various
Individual Differences in Domain-Specific domains of one’s life relative to how important it was to be
Self-Concepts as Well as Global Self-Esteem successful in these domains. Thus, if one feels one is
successful in domains deemed important, high self-esteem
Although there are predictable cognitively based develop- will result. Conversely, if one falls short of one’s goal in
mental changes in the nature of how most children and domains where one has aspirations to be successful, one
adolescents describe and evaluate themselves, there are will experience low self-esteem. One does not, therefore,
striking individual differences in how positively or negatively have to be a superstar in every domain to have high self-
the self is evaluated. Moreover, one observes different profiles esteem. Rather, one only needs to feel adequate or
of children’s perceptions of their competence or adequacy competent in those areas judged to be important. Thus,
across the various self-concept domains, in that children a child may evaluate himself or herself as unathletic;
evaluate themselves differently across domains. Consider the however, if athletic prowess is not an aspiration, then self-
profiles of four different children. One child, Child A, may esteem will not be negatively affected. That is, the high self-
feel very good about her scholastic performance, although esteem individual can discount the importance of areas in
this is in sharp contrast to her opinion of her athletic ability, which one does not feel successful.
where she evaluates herself quite poorly. Socially she feels The author has directly examined this explanation in
reasonably well accepted by her peers. In addition, she research studies by asking children to rate how important it is
considers herself to be well behaved. Her feelings about her for them to be successful (Harter, 1999). The findings reveal
appearance, however, are relatively negative. Child A also that high self-esteem individuals feel competent in domains
reports very high self-esteem. Another child, Child B, has they rate as important. Low self-esteem individuals report
a very different configuration of scores. This is a boy who that areas in which they are unsuccessful are still very
feels very incompetent when it comes to schoolwork. important to them. Thus, the discrepancy between high
However, he considers himself to be very competent, importance and perceptions of inadequacy contribute to
athletically, and feels well received by peers. He judges his low self-esteem. In contrast, the congruence between
behavioral conduct to be less commendable. In contrast, he importance and feelings of success leads to higher self esteem.
thinks he is relatively good-looking. Like Child A, he also
reports high self-esteem.
Incorporation of the Opinions of Significant Others
Other profiles are exemplified by Child C and Child D,
neither of whom feel good about themselves scholastically or Another important factor influencing self-esteem can be
athletically. They evaluate themselves much more positively in derived from the writings of Cooley (1902) who
the domains of social acceptance, conduct, and physical metaphorically made reference to the ‘looking-glass self.’
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According to this formulation, significant others (e.g., parents To Raise or Not to Raise Self-Esteem within both
and peers) were social mirrors into which one gazed in order Society and Our Schools
to determine what they thought of the self. Thus, in evaluating
the self, one would adopt what one felt were the judgments of For two decades, considerable debate and controversy has
these others whose opinions were considered important. surrounded this question. Initiatives have been proposed to
Thus, the approval, support, or positive regard from raise self-esteem at the national and state levels, as a cure-all
significant others became a critical source of one’s own for many societal ills. Parallel interventions at the classroom
sense of worth as a person. For example, children who level have been urged by some educators who presume that
receive approval from parents and peers report much higher self-esteem enhancement should motivate students to attain
self-esteem than children who experience disapproval from higher levels of academic achievement. The initiative
parents and peers. adopted by the State of California, in 1990, reflects one of
The author’s findings (Harter, 1999, 2012) reveal that both the most ambitious efforts to tackle this issue at a legislative
these factors, competence in domains of importance and the level (California Task Force to Promote Self-Esteem and
perceived support of significant others, combine to influence Personal Responsibility, 1990). This particular initiative
a child’s or adolescent’s self-esteem. Thus, those who feel became a public marker of the ‘Self-Esteem Movement.’ Its
competent in domains of importance and who also report message was also a subtext in the playbooks of many
high support, rate themselves as having the highest self- educators.
esteem. Those who feel inadequate in domains deemed California state legislators expressed their conviction that
important and who also report low levels of support rate by raising the self-esteem of its citizenry, many social ills
themselves as having the lowest self-esteem. would be significantly reduced, for example, crime, teen
pregnancy, delinquency, drug abuse, and school
underachievement. Such a widespread intervention would
Cross-Cultural Considerations lead to better societal, as well as personal, outcomes. The
California initiative vaulted the topic of self-esteem into the
Globalization and the proliferation of psychological research national limelight, as the media scrambled to cover the
on the international scene is a welcome new trend. frenzied efforts to alter self-perceptions in the service of the
However, one must appreciate that there are clear differences greater cultural good. Swann (1996) likens the quest for
between Western and Eastern conceptions that much be high self-esteem to the search for the Holy Grail, pointing to
recognized, before Westerners encourage Eastern cultures to the dizzying array of programs that proliferated.
embrace Western frameworks, paradigms, and instruments Unfortunately, these efforts did not have their intended
(Harter, 2012). Clearly, self-esteem is a value touted by effects, based upon very disappointing findings that did not
Americans, as witnessed by the many attempts to protect produce the desired outcomes. Self-esteem, particularly if it
and enhance it (Harter, 2012; Leary, 2004). However, high was unrealistically enhanced, did not represent the
self-esteem, based on individual accomplishments, is not anticipated panacea that would cure our social ills (see
revered as a psychological commodity in most Eastern Eccles and Roeser, 2009).
cultures (see Harter, 2012). In fact, in some languages, How the self-esteem movement played out on the stage of
namely, Chinese and Japanese, there is no equivalent term America’s classrooms, as an educational microcosm of
for ‘self-esteem.’ Self-esteem is simply not a core value and society, is of particular relevance in terms of its implications
therefore is not represented or codified in their respective for the youth. A major focus of many educational
languages. interventions has been the enhancement of self-esteem,
This leads to numerous problems when instruments given the argument that student achievement would
designed for Americans are administered in many other improve, as a result. These contentions have fueled an
countries (see Harter, 2012). First, the content may not be intense debate that is reflected within the educational and
appropriate, meaning at the domain or item level. Most psychological literature (see review in Harter, 2012).
noticeable is that self-esteem items do not resonate with Proponents have touted the advantages of enhanced self-
such populations. As a result, this interferes with the esteem, whereas opponents have vociferously argued that
psychometric properties in that American instruments such efforts are not only misguided and useless, at best, but
administered in such countries lack reliability and validity, destructive, at worst. What are the primary arguments, pro
and the factor structures do not hold up. Question formats and con?
such as the one employed in our own instruments pull for The claims of the proponents are perhaps the most
social comparison, which is frowned upon in many straightforward, given the belief and insistence that raising the
countries, leading to lower scores than would be anticipated self-esteem of students will produce higher levels of
given objective data about levels of achievement and achievement and foster academic success, primarily
competencies in certain cultures. See Harter (2012) where measured by grades and test scores (see Tice and Gailliot,
these different issues are addressed in more detail. There, the 2006; for thoughtful reviews of the dispute).
author urges that those in different cultures take stock of Those who believe in the value of enhancing self-esteem
these problems and perhaps initially designed interview among students first argue that while admittedly modest,
questions to address their specific research questions and the correlation between these two constructs is sufficient to
hypotheses that are more culturally sensitive and will lead to warrant educational intervention. Second, these proponents
more meaningful findings. also contend that the enhancement of self-esteem will
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produce educational benefits, that is, global perceptions of given my own experience in the schools over the years,
one’s worth as a person act causally to promote gains in many teachers who were forced to administer what they
academic achievement. called touchy-feely exercises complained that this was not
Opponents of educational interventions first point out their job definition, rendering them less than effective if
that the magnitude of the correlation between self-esteem they attempted to mouth the self-esteem mantra.
and academic achievements is relatively trivial and thus Furthermore, the goal of self-enhancement strategies, for
without serious implications. Second, they challenge the its own sake, interferes with the educational goals of
presumed directionality of effects. That is, although the learning and mastery. As Covington (2006) observes,
two constructs may bear a modest correlation to one enhanced achievement is more likely if children are
another, it is just as likely that successful achievement in motivated to learn for the sake of learning, to stimulate
the classroom (as indexed by good grades and high their own curiosity, to challenge themselves, and to set
standardized test scores) represents the cause of higher personal goals that involve skill improvement. If the reasons
self-esteem, not the effect. These are the general arguments behind school performance are more self-promotional and
that define each position. Next, the author turns to the defensive in nature, for example, striving to succeed in order
more nuanced considerations. to avoid failure with its implication that one is
A major concern addressed by many opponents is that incompetent, academic motivation will wane because of the
seeking to boost self-esteem can artificially destroy any fear that one cannot succeed.
incentives for students to devote effort toward scholastic Perhaps one of the strongest and most vocal opponents of
goals (Tice and Gailliot, 2006), particularly if self- self-esteem enhancement programs within the school system
evaluations are unrealistic. Inflated self-esteem provides no is Baumeister and colleagues (Baumeister, 1996; Baumeister
incentive for self-improvement. Moreover, the practice of et al., 2003). Baumeister’s devastating critique is captured by
inviting students to make unconfirmed self-affirmations as this assertion: “At worst, the pursuit of high self-esteem is
to their worth (‘I am smart,’ ‘I am awesome,’ ‘I am special’) a foolish, wasteful, and self-destructive enterprise that may
do not appear to be effective. end up doing more harm than good” (Baumeister, 1996: p.
Damon (1995) was also among the first to be critical of 120). What is the basis for his contentions?
what he considered an overemphasis by educators on To begin with, Baumeister is critical of the California
promoting high self-esteem, particularly when these efforts initiative to promote self-esteem, which professed to
lead to an inflated sense of one’s self-worth. Damon has represent a social vaccine to cure or hopefully inoculate
viewed such efforts as not only misguided but potentially citizens against the evils of crime, violence, substance abuse,
detrimental, arguing that they divert educators from the teen pregnancy, child abuse, chronic welfare dependency,
active teaching of skills and deprive students of the thrill and educational failure. He rightfully asserts, consistent with
that results from personal accomplishment. It has been the considerable evidence on narcissism, that for many in
Damon’s contention that self-esteem has become an this country, self-esteem is already inflated.
overrated commodity and that the effusive praise that We seem to be revisiting an earlier movement, from the
parents and teachers heap on children to make them feel 1960s and 1970s, what the author has called the Camelot era
good about themselves is often met with suspicion by the of self-esteem interventions, which invoked simplistic
children themselves. Moreover, it interferes with their attempts to enhance self-esteem that were unsuccessful.
attention to the goal of building specific skills in the service These urged general self-affirmations (e.g., “I’m OK, you’re
of genuine achievement. It does a grave educational OK” messages) and affective feel-good exercises that were
injustice to encourage children to think well of themselves designed to impact self-esteem directly. The contemporary
without having earned it. Cote (2009) has joined the ranks analog can be observed among educators, coaches, and
of opponents, decrying the ‘cult of self-esteem’ that has parents who have fallen prey to the ‘good job!’ mantra.
gripped schools in this country. Children and adolescents are lavishly and indiscriminately
‘Feel-good activities,’ a mainstay of many of the self- praised for their efforts, independent of whether they
esteem interventions to emerge in the 1980s, have produced warrant such positive feedback.
few gains, despite the widespread commercial packaging of Recent findings (reviewed in Harter, 2012) reveal that
programs designed to enhance self-esteem. They demand narcissism among the youth has systematically increased
that teachers suspend corrective feedback and remove over the past three decades, given that society, in general,
challenging material, ‘dumbing down’ the curriculum and schools, in particular, have both perpetuated messages
(Damon, 1995). Such activities divorce self-esteem from and practices that promote self-enhancement, self-serving
palpable achievements that result from realistic attributions biases, and a sense of entitlement. Affirmations of
to the student’s personal effort. As a result, they confound ‘specialness’ and educational practices such as grade
self-esteem with egocentrism, narcissism, arrogance, conceit, inflation and ‘dumbing down’ the curriculum prompt
and self-delusion (see Harter, 2012). That said, proponents unrealistic views of competence and contribute to
of these packaged programs claim that the self-affirming narcissistic self-promotion. In May of 2012, in a risky and
affective exercises and techniques will extend, not only to courageous high school graduation speech, the speaker
heightened school performance, but to broader societal shocked students and outraged parents by his blatant
goals to help curb such teenage social ills as pregnancy, contention that “you students are not special!” It was
drug use, and delinquency. However, there is little evidence a wake-up call that caught the attention of the national
to warrant these claims (see Covington, 2006). Moreover, media and reactions went viral. Thus, the bottom line is
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that our educational system and child-rearing practices should be to foster realistic self-perceptions and provide
should cultivate behaviors that produce self-views that are support to encourage children and adolescents to develop the
both realistic (that is, based on objective evidence) and necessary skills toward that goal.
adaptive (that is, promote activities that predict long-term
adjustment to the demands of society). See also: Identity in Childhood and Adolescence; Self-
Concepts: Educational Aspects; Self: History of the Concept.

Conclusions
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