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SEXUAL ADJUSTMENT
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likely to become sexually maladjusted as one whose preparation is grossly
and criticisms. Psychol. Bull., 1948, 45, 443-459; Hyman, H., & Barinack, J. E.
Special review: sexual behavior in the human female. Psychol. Bull.,i1954, 51, 418-
427; Hiltner, S. Sex ethics and the Kinsey reports. New York: Association, 1953;
Ellis, A. (Ed.) Sex life of the American woman and the Kinsey report. New York:
Greenberg, 1954; Bergler, E., & Kroger, W. S. Kinse_;;~myth dffemale sexuality.
New York: Grune & Stratton, 1954. • _ ~
11 A good summary of the Freudian theory regarding stages of sexual develop-
ment will be found in White, R. W. Lives in progress. New York: Dryden, 1952,
pp. 295-303.
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12 There are numerous books and articles dealing with premarital sex problems.
See, for example, Wile, 1. S. The sex problems of youth. J. soc. Hyg., 1930, 16, 413-
427; Schneiders, A. A. Tbe psycbology of adolescence, Milwaukee: Bruce, 1951,
Chap. X, especially pp. 201-216. Tucker, T. F. Sex problems and youtb. London:
AlI,n & Unwin, 1941; Tho"". Op. Ch,p. XU. ~
,i,., 439
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sexual relations and often stand in the way of adequate social de-
velopment
5. Feelings of anxiety, fear, and guilt regarding sex ~n all its forms
6. Deep-seated mental conflicts that. center around sexual desires and
behavior. '\
One can see, of course, that these problems are clos~ly interrelated. Im-
proper sexual behavior gives rise to feelings of guilt or shame; inadequate
sex identification may cause considerable anxiety; and obsessive ideas of
sex lead to fear, conflict, or improper sexual conduct.
Premarital sexual problems have many causes and many different
ramifications; and it is not an easy matter to formulate effective principles
of sexual adjustment. Sexual problems and maladjustments reflect in part
the reactions of people to cultural and social demands and restrictions,
failure to reach an adequate level of maturity, weakness in self-control,
damaging and restrictive sexual attitudes on the part of parents, group
pressures that enforce conformity, lax or poorly developed moral prin-
ciples, and defective personality integration~ In some instances, the diffi-
culty may reflect inadequate physical development or fixation at an
earlier response level. Poor sex identification is often associated with
slowness or failure in the development of sex organs or of secondary
sex characteristics. The adolescent boy, for example, may present femi-
nine characteristics that make it difficult for him to identify adequately
with his own sex. Fixation can produce the same effe~ts, and both may be
the forerunners of homoerotic tendencies, including crushes and frankly
homosexual behavior. It should be understood, therefore, that some cases
of sexual maladjustment, because of the nature of the cause, may be
extremely resistant to treatment or to the application of principles of
adjustment. Nevertheless, there are many instances in which such prin-
ciples can be put to good use.
Nature and Principles of Sexual Adjustment and H:jgiene
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The formulation of acceptable principles of sexual adjustment will de-
pend on the way such adjustment is interpreted. Some writers, for
example, do not hesitate to suggest the free expression of sexual desire
as a means of ridding oneself of sexual conflicts or frustrations. From
our viewpoint, such a "solution" only complicates the problem, 'and thus
falls outside the concept of adequate sexual adjustment. It is not by giving
in to sexual impulses that adjustment is achieved; rather, it is knowing
how to regulate them in an orderly, integrated manner that is most im-
portant from the standpoint of sex hygiene. . -/:-------__ /
The concept of sexual adjustment is complex and many-sided; but
basically it implies the capacity to react to sexual realities-impulses,
desires, thoughts, confiicts, frustrations, guilt feelings, and sex differences
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SOU~~OF . _________________#-__~E_F~F~E~C~T__+_*_--------------~
INFORMATION GOOD BAD I SOTH GOOD AND SAD
(11.2%)
Pred'ominanfly (8.6%)
wholesome
Both (18.2%)
wholesome
and
unwholesome
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Fig. 30-Comparison of sex information with effects. Each figure
represents 5 per cent of the group supplying the information. It is
clear from this illustration that unwho~esome sex information can
have widespread detrimental effects on young people. From Fleege,
U. H. Self-revelation of the adolescent boy. Milwaukee: Bruce, 1945.
Reprinted by permission.
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wrong, psychologically detrimental, and naturally results-in feelings of
shame and guilt. It is especially in matter_:; of this kind that knowledge
and perspective are basic to the preservation of emotional stability and-
sound mental health.
3. The integration of sex desires and inclinations with mOTal prin-
ciples and social responsibilities is required by sound hygiene. This means
that sexual tendencies and expressions must be brought into line with the
rules of right conduct. Magner says very pointedly, /
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Of cou~se, much depends upon our definitions. But if we define
happiness as activity conformable to right order or the fulfillment of
desire in accordance with our general good, we are immediately con-
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And again,
The art of developing a Christian personality is a composite art and
study. It embraces a right outlook on life, sound and tested principles
of action, personal habits in conformity with law, and self-discipline of
appetites. These requirements are nowhere more true and urgent than
in that aspect of personality denominated sex. To the extent that a
person has mastered the problems arising from sex and turned the im-
pulses of the flesh into strong and generous well-springs of symp:lthy
and lofty action, he has learned the mastery of life itself. In ,reverse,
warped and confused mentality on the subject can beget habits and
attitudes far beyond the immediate range of sexual activity and can
manifest itself in various forms of personal maladjustment and mischief. 16
Reprinted by permission. See also Moore, T. V. The driving forces of human nature.
New York: Grune & Stratton, 1948, pp. 248-250; Sheen F. J. Peace of soul. New
York: McGraw-Hill, 1949, Chap. VIII, especially p. 153. Bishop Sheen trenchantly
reminds us that "there is no surer formula for discon~t than to try to satisfy our
cravings for the ocean of Infinite Love from the teacu . of finite satisfactions."
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