Who has the advantages among the siblings the Eldest? The middle?

Or
the youngest?

Explain Why (3 Patterns)

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The most have an advantages is the eldest one, why? Because the eldest
is always the first. First, of receiving all the love, attention, care and the
first one have all new toys, clothes or any materials things. And the first
one to make their parents proud when he/she graduated. In our Filipino
beliefs or Norms when in every family the eldest is the one to raise or
bring a successful life in the family the eldest one should do the hard
work so that the second child and even the youngest get the chance to
finish their study too.

And one of my proof is just like in my family situation we are 3 siblings I

have a big brother, me the middle one and the youngest, in my situation
my brother is the one doing all that responsibility when It comes to
financial and to support our education, my brother is a big part when it
comes to supporting our education. Even if not in my family they have
such same circumstance when the eldest one should have advantages.
And that’s one of the traditional ways of the Filipino family.

And the is why the eldest one has advantages over the middle, and
youngest because he/she the experience of all things and responsibilities
when it comes to the family and when the times comes the parents are
weak and old enough the other obligations will pass to the eldest.

The story I’m about to tell you is my own experience, with my siblings
well I have an ordinary family and healthy we’re not rich we just in the
middle some things like that. So my story is just short. Let’s start with
jealousy we can’t deny it. There’s always envy between siblings whether
it is love or attention of our parents some people, say it’s normal but
some other say it’s not because the parent fails to fulfills their role as a
parent so there is jealousy between to the siblings. So in my experience,
we also have a jealousy between each other especially with the attention
of our parents, and sometimes the youngest has a lot of attention rather
than us, I’m not saying I’m such immature daughter when it comes to the
attention of our parents mine point is not just the youngest is having lot
of attention it should be a equal.

The message that I learned and realized is that let us not focus on the
jealousy from our siblings because is our family, our siblings are family.
With them our life as only child is have big difference.

The values I grain is that don’t hate your own family and siblings because
when the time gets tight you’re or our family is the one there for us, not
our friends, colleague and our family only knows what truly are.

In the past is the same there’s jealousy happen between siblings, but in
the past is how they make their parents proud of them. And that’s when
the jealousy will come into the situation and from that jealousy; the
siblings will force to hate one another. And in the past also when the
eldest is a boy the father of the family will be proud. And also in the past
parent will very strict.

In our present time many siblings are spoiled by their parents to the fact
that it gets worse. And the parents are having favoritism in their children
which is unfair to the others the love and affection of their parents
should be equally.

In the present, I hope that all the siblings that having envy for each other
this time I hope that they realize and learned that siblings are important
especially the family and our Parents so love each other respect and
appreciate and make more memories with our siblings it doesn’t matter
who has advantages between eldest, the middle, or youngest the matter
is loved our sibling until we have time.