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INTRODUCTION:
environmental factors may have bad or good effects for every student. Having early
thus contributing to low grades. There were four (4) variables stipulated in congruence
to their academic performance such as (1) Attendance -student partners persuade them
to attend their classes; (2) Classroom Activities -early romantic relationships help them
by inspiring them to do or to finish all the tasks that their teacher has given them; (3)
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Socialization -having romantic relationships help them to gain more friends and to
communicate with their fellow students in sharing their knowledge; (4) Public display of
affection -students who have romantic relationships somehow distract some students in
their interest in academic excellence. Therefore, students need the teachers, school
early romantic relationships may somehow affect their academic behavior and, in turn,
may have low performance in school activities. This is why every student must have
proper guidance from their family and friends in their social environment and have prior
Growing adolescent has several challenges to deal with, therefore they need guidance
and support for this change especially when they engaged in early romantic
relationships because this new experience may contribute a lot to their development as
an individual.
The romantic relationships have become an integral part of adolescents’ daily lives,
and dating is the primary topic of adolescent conversations (Eder, 1993). Having
often superficial, and the majority continue only for a few weeks or months without
mature relationship skills of intimacy (Collins & Van Dulman, 2006; Li, et al., 2010).
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The romantic interactions also create a variety of challenges for adolescents.
relationships (Furman & Shaffer, 2003), family relationships (Laghi et al., 2017),
depression, and anxiety into adulthood (Kansky & Allen, 2018). culture, it is critical to
By these factors of early romantic relationships, we could say that adolescent is the
most crucial part of human development as we encounter changes that might affect our
This study aims to determine the Effects of teenage relationships to the aspects of
Senior High School students of Buga, for academic year 2022 – 2023. Specifically, it
a. Age
b. Sex
2. What are the effects of teenage relationships to the respondents along with:
a. Personal
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b. Social
c. Emotional
d. Intellectual
performance of Senior High School students of Bugs NHS of the year 2022 – 2023. The
Benefits and negative effects of having a relationship during adolescent period will be
included in this study. Other issues wherein not related to this topic will be disregarded.
Students. The direct recipients of the output of this research are students that are
engaged in early romantic relationships. Any positive nor negative result of this study will
personality aspect of students in terms of personal, social, emotional and intellectual will
be highlighted in this study, which may give a deeper and better understanding on
Parents. This study will be very beneficial to parents especially in parenting and guiding
their child that engaged in early romantic relationship. Wherein parents will be aware
study the teachers will know on how to approach and engaged to students with early
romantic relationships.
School Administrator's. Through the awareness given by the result of this study.
School administrators can make a curriculum related to the rampant early romantic
Community. This research will enlighten the community in dealing with an issue of early
romantic relationships. This study will educate the community with regards to the pros
and cons of early engagement of the youth in romantic relationships. Furthermore, the
culture of conservation will enter in this issue and that will create variables in this study.
Future Researchers. By this research, the future researcher will easily understand and
create a study related to this topic. This will serve as a sample guide for them in making
DEFINITION OF TERMS
extent to which a student, teacher or institution has attained their short or long-term
acquaintances. Wikipedia
being present at a place or event. /the number of people present at a particular event,
function, or meeting.
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Classroom Activities – are activities done by student inside. the class as part of
applying or doing the practical part of. the lesson after listening to the theoretical part
and learns the norms, values, behavior, and social skills appropriate to his or her social
PDA – Public display of affection are acts of physical intimacy in the view of others.
What is an acceptable display of affection varying with respect to culture and context.
Wikipedia
the capacity to understand, experience, express, and manage emotions and to develop
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person” when they enter adolescence. According to the CEPS data, 42.7% of middle
school students have admitted that had or having crushes on their friends (Jin & Yang,
2021). We demonstrate in this study that more than 13.1% of eighth graders have ever
been in a romantic relationship. Furman & Shaffer (2003) indicate that adolescent
inextricably linked to adolescents’ self-concept and self-worth and have a further impact
on adolescents’ individual development when peer and family relationships are involved
Academic performance
After entering the secondary education, adolescents are facing significant academic
changes such as academic difficulty. They must adopt a high-level learning strategy and
invest sufficient time and efforts in learning in order to achieve academic success
academic performance at Secondary School Certificate level (Ahamed et al., 2017), the
and academic performance (Hallfors et al., 2005; Li et al., 2019; Neemann et al., 1995).
Giordano et al. (2006) examine the consequences of romantic relationships using data
from the National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent Health and discover that adolescents
who engaged in romantic behavior too early are more likely to engage in risky behaviors
and have sign engagement (Zimmer-Gembeck et al., 2001). Orpinas et al. (2013) also
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find a ficantly lower academic performance. Time spent with partners might decrease
academic investment and divert focus away from learning. Additionally, within the 16-
emotional changes, which can impair teenagers’ academic similar result that teenagers
who dated throughout secondary school had worse academic achievements and higher
drop-out rates. Moreover, romantic breakups might alter individual’s self-perception and
have a detrimental effect on their academic performance (Field et al., 2012). Hallfors et
adolescent romance increased the likelihood of early sexual behaviors and violent
partner’s characteristics.
majority of teenagers are in the early stages of interpersonal relationships, they are
incapable of making commitments to care for one another (Connolly & McIsaac, 2009).
The negative impact may well exceed any potential benefit. It is thus hypothesized:
academic performance.
Negative emotion
disorders and negative emotions (Costello et al., 2006). Apart from the comfort and
al., 2008).
more negative emotions (Laursen, 1995), exhibit more severe depression symptoms
(Joyner & Udry, 2000), and have more frequent and extreme mood swings (Larson et
al., 1999). Vujeva & Furman (2011) find that over a five-year period, teenagers with
adolescents emotionally (Joyner & Udry, 2000). Moreover, Monroe et al. (1999) discover
that breaking up the romantic relationships was the most common reasons for
depression in adolescents, and further increase the risk of violent injury and early sexual
Since adolescents are in an emotionally sensitive period, they may suppress their
thoughts and opinions because they are afraid of losing their partners, and lead to poor
communication (Collins et al., 2009). Adolescents in love have lower life satisfactions
and higher stresses, and are also more likely to be in a sub-health mental state
Interpersonal ability
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Interpersonal skill is a critical component of adolescence development. The
partnerships are essentially more intimate, and adolescents are willing to spend more
time with their peers (Csikszentmihalyi & Larson, 1984). In order to develop social ability
in peer interaction, adolescents need to be accepted by peer groups and find the sense
of belonging.
intimacy, support, giving, and caring. In romantic relationships, adolescents can develop
others (Furman & Shaffer, 2003). Second, the ability to form romantic relationships
(Connolly & Konarski, 1994). According to Harter (2012), adolescents who had favorable
positive effect on teenagers’ general self-esteem and contributes to their sense of self-
worth, particularly in terms of appearance and peer acceptance. On the other side,
individuals may experience changes in their self-concept content and decrease in self-
concept after a breakup, which leads to emotional distress (Slotter et al., 2010). Finally,
status grading and achievement (Roscoe et al., 1987). According to Franzoi et al.
(1994), dating attractive or popular persons can help adolescents improve their social
standing within peer groups. Every female wishes to attract “beautiful, popular, mature,
and gift-giving partners” in order to demonstrate their popularity among peers (O'Sullivan
concept and thus acquire interpersonal ability. Therefore, this article proposes the third
research hypothesis:
Gunn & Peterson, 2013). Male and female adolescents have significant differences in
the way they perceive and experience romantic relationships and dating behaviors
(Shen, 2014). Even adolescents are in the same identity, they may still have different
dominant position and competitive relationship within peer groups. Peer interactions
among male adolescents are usually manifested by low level of intimate self-disclosure
and an emphasis on competitive discourse and activity (Crosnoe, 2000). The impact
from peers is the major social motivation for male adolescents, leading to interpret
Furthermore, Giordano et al. (2006) finds that the male adolescents show a stronger
Impett et al. (2006) argues that gender socializations make females more inclined to
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consider interpersonal relationships and pursue harmony with others. Therefore,
female adolescents (Simon & Barrett, 2010). Female teenagers pay more attention to
dating and when they involve in conflicts, females are more likely to spend time and
energy in fixing the relationship (Giordano et al., 2006). Considering the sexual
behaviors, Shen (2014) discovers that the relationship between self-esteem and sexual
activity is negative for both males and females, possibly because the Chinese society’s
data, Soller (2014) demonstrate that when romantic relationship goes wrong, female
adolescents have a higher risk of depression, suicidal tendencies, and suicide attempts
and are more likely to be affected by the poor relationship than male adolescents. Based
Different cultural environments have distinct social standards, and their unique
concepts under the social and cultural environment, for instance, complying with the
expectations of specific roles (such as parents, teachers, and partners) and establish
expectations (Thoits, 1991). Adolescent romance is also confined by social and cultural
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norms in different cultures (Collins et al., 2009). Asian adolescents are less likely to be
involved in romantic relationships in the past 18 months than African, Hispanic, and
white adolescents (Carver et al., 2003). Both Hispanics and African American teenagers
tend to keep their first love boyfriends secret, particularly from their families, out of worry
that the family will intervene (O’Sullivan & Meyer-Bahlburg, 2003). In the United States,
norms, this creates significant psychological pressure and can lead to emotional pain
and disorder.
social norms, and opposed by families and schools (Huang, 2003; Li et al., 2010).
Therefore, adolescents in love face a strong conflict between self-concept and social
have a sense of self-doubt and tension in the relationship and tend to negatively
understand the conflicts in relationship (Liu et al., 2020). In addition, Liu & Li (2015) find
that the environmental pressure strengthened the invisibility of romance behavior for
adolescent, but compared with Western culture, Chinese adolescent are more affected
problems in their relationships, they are unwilling to seek help from family and school
but solve themselves. With the absence of active guidance and support, the risk of a
Respect for both oneself and others is a key characteristic of healthy relationships.
In contrast, in unhealthy relationships, one partner tries to exert control and power over
Healthy Relationships
Mutual respect. Respect means that each person values who the other is and
Trust. Partners should place trust in each other and give each other the benefit of the
doubt.
Compromise. In a dating relationship, each partner does not always get his or her way.
Each should acknowledge different points of view and be willing to give and take.
Individuality. Neither partner should have to compromise who he/she is, and his/her
identity should not be based on a partner’s. Each should continue seeing his or her
friends and doing the things he/she loves. Each should be supportive of his/her partner
miscommunication. If one person needs to sort out his or her feelings first, the other
partner should respect those wishes and wait until he or she is ready to talk.
Anger control. We all get angry, but how we express it can affect our relationships with
others. Anger can be handled in healthy ways such as taking a deep breath, counting to
Fighting fair. Everyone argues at some point, but those who are fair, stick to the
subject, and avoid insults are more likely to come up with a possible solution. Partners
should take a short break away from each other if the discussion gets too heated.
Problem solving. Dating partners can learn to solve problems and identify new
solutions by breaking a problem into small parts or by talking through the situation.
Understanding. Each partner should take time to understand what the other might be
feeling.
Self-confidence. When dating partners have confidence in themselves, it can help their
relationships with others. It shows that they are calm and comfortable enough to allow
others to express their opinions without forcing their own opinions on them.
Being a role model. By embodying what respect means, partners can inspire each other,
Healthy sexual relationship. Dating partners engage in a sexual relationship that both
are comfortable with, and neither partner feels pressured or forced to engage in sexual
Control. One dating partner makes all the decisions and tells the other what to do, what
to wear, or who to spend time with. He or she is unreasonably jealous, and/or tries to
isolate the other partner from his or her friends and family.
Hostility. One dating partner picks a fight with or antagonizes the other dating partner.
This may lead to one dating partner changing his or her behavior in order to avoid
Dishonesty. One dating partner lies to or keeps information from the other. One dating
Disrespect. One dating partner makes fun of the opinions and interests of the other
Dependence. One dating partner feels that he or she “cannot live without” the other. He
Intimidation. One dating partner tries to control aspects of the other's life by making the
other partner fearful or timid. One dating partner may attempt to keep his or her partner
Sexual violence. One dating partner pressures or forces the other into sexual activity
It is important to educate youth about the value of respect and the characteristics of
healthy and unhealthy relationships before they start to date. Youth may not be
equipped with the necessary skills to develop and maintain healthy relationships, and
may not know how to break up in an appropriate way when necessary. Maintaining open
lines of communication may help them form healthy relationships and recognize the
This study examined whether individuals with different personality types (i.e., over
questionnaire data from Dutch youths who had a romantic relationship when they were
young adults. Two age cohorts were followed, from 12 to 21 years and from 16 to 25
years, respectively. Findings showed that resilient reported higher mean levels of
friendship quality during adolescence (i.e., more support from, less negative interaction
with and less dominance from their best friend) than both over controllers and under
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controllers. Through the mean levels of friendship quality throughout adolescence,
adulthood than both over controllers and under controllers. Thus, results provide support
personality. People with different personality traits can differ in their motivations, as well
as their interactions in and perceptions of social relationships [11], [12]. For instance,
agreeable persons tend to have stronger motives for maintaining positive social
relationships and try to minimize interpersonal disputes by being less aggressive, and
therefore experience higher relationship quality [13], [14]. Additionally, people who are
low in emotional stability are more likely to interpret ambiguous relationship scenarios in
a more negative way, and to experience lower relationship quality [15]. Hence, there are
clear empirical indications that personality is indeed linked to the quality of social
relationships. However, variable-centered studies can only partially address this issue.
Such an approach cannot unravel differences in social relationship quality for people
who are both agreeable and emotionally unstable, for instance. Since separate
Personality types.
based on Block and Block’ (1980) theory on ego-control and ego-resilience. Ego-control
refers to the tendency to contain versus express motivational impulses, and ego-
have suggested that three personality types–resilient, under controllers, and over
resilience [13], [18]. Specifically, resilient are characterized by a high level of ego-
resiliency and a medium level of ego-control. Over controllers and under controllers both
have a low level of ego-resiliency, but differ on ego-control. Over controllers have a high
level of ego-control and under controllers have a low level of ego-control [17], [18].
Several studies have revealed that these three personality types can be reliably
constructed using Big Five personality traits in adolescents [19], [20]. Resilient generally
controllers typically have relatively lower extraversion and lower emotional stability,
compared to others, yet comparable agreeableness as Resilient [17], [18], [20]. We will
adopt this personality classification to understand how individuals with these three
Relationship quality.
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Social relationships have both positive and negative features [21], [22]. On the one
intimacy, assistance, and guidance. On the other hand, relationships provide a context
for negative interactions, such as conflict and antagonism among interpersonal partners.
perceived dominance in the relationship, that is, the extent to which one is controlled
and dominated by the other [23]. Although there are other aspects of a social
relationship that are important, we focus on these three dimensions as they together
encompass both positive and negative features of a social relationship. Moreover, these
relationships in the social network [24], [25]. Therefore, in the current study, perceived
support from, negative interaction with, and perceived dominance from interpersonal
partners, are the key dimensions adopted to typify friendships over the course of
Research has shown that individuals with different personality types might have
distinct patterns of friendship quality. Resilient tend to have better quality of friendships
than both over controllers and under controllers [7], [10]. More specifically, cross-
sectional studies using adolescent samples with average ages varying from 12 to 17
years have shown that resilient perceived more support from their friends than both over
controllers and under controllers, whereas between the latter two there were no
significant differences [26], [27]. A longitudinal study examining this link among
adolescents from 13 to 16 years showed similar findings [10]. Furthermore, one study
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followed adolescents from 12 to 16 years and showed that over controllers and under
controllers were equally high in conflict frequency and hostile conflict management, and
they were both significantly higher in these two aspects than resilient [28]. Former
dominance from friends for youths with different personality types. Over controllers
experienced more coercion from their friend, and they were more likely to comply with
their best friend in conflict and be influenced by their best friend’s delinquency than
resilient [10], [28], [29]. Moreover, over controllers scored significantly lower than
resilient on social potency which describes the propensity to enjoy leadership roles and
desire to influence others [9]. For under controllers, results are less consistent: Similar to
over controllers, they experienced more coercion from their friend and were more likely
to comply with their best friend during conflict than resilient [10], [28]. They did not differ
from resilient in their tendency to influence their friend with their delinquent behavior,
however, nor in their level of social potency [9], [29]. In sum, both over controllers and
under controllers seem to perceive less support and more negative interaction in
friendships than resilient, and over controllers tend to perceive more dominance from
friends than resilient. Results are mixed as to whether under controllers differ from
resilient regarding perceived dominance from friends. All of these studies were limited to
mean levels. The current study will examine personality differences in the mean levels
of, and the developmental changes in, friendship quality among adolescents from 12 to
20 years.
Personality types identified in early childhood were found to predict the quality of
romantic relationships in young adulthood [9], [30], [31]: Under controllers, compared to
emotional support and warmth (e.g., intimacy and trust, acceptance, and exchange of
personal thoughts and feelings), higher levels of conflict, and a more unequal balance of
power in the relationship. Quite surprisingly, over controllers had similarly high romantic
relationship quality as resilient in these three studies, despite the fact that over
differences between over controllers and resilient can be explained by the fact that
previous studies have assessed personality at one point in early childhood, rather than
accounting for adolescent personality and its maturation over the course of adolescence
comprehensive picture about the link between personality types and romantic
relationship quality.
expectations for later romantic relationships [6], [32], [33]. Consistent with these
theoretical ideas, several longitudinal studies have shown positive linkages between
adolescent friendships and emerging adult romantic relationships [3], [34]– [36]. These
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studies, with time intervals ranging from 4 years to 7 years, revealed significant
hostility. Specifically, individuals’ support from friends at age 15 and 17 was positively
related to support from romantic partners at age 21 [36], and more support from friends
positive conflict resolution with friends at age 16 was related to more commitment and
less hostility in young adults’ romantic relationships [34]. In sum, existing studies have
consistently provided support for the idea that friendship experiences during
in emerging adulthood.
Emerging Adulthood
No prior research has examined why adolescents with different personality types
above, previous studies have provided some evidence about the linkages between
personality types and friendship quality, although they predominately focused on early to
middle adolescents. Additionally, prior research has shown significant linkages between
quality of adolescent friendship and young adults’ romantic relationships. These linkages
forms the rationale for an indirect effect of personality types on later romantic
that there would be an indirect pathway, such that adolescent personality types were
Overall, this study aimed to test whether adolescent personality types were related
quality, adolescent personality types would indirectly predict romantic relationship quality
Adolescents’ personality was assessed annually for five years with the Quick Big
Five questionnaire [37], [38]. Thirty personality makers were used to assess five
Adolescents rated their personality on a 7-point Likert scale ranging from 1 (very untrue)
to 7 (very true). Prior research has reported adequate reliability and validity of this scale
[39]. In the current study, across Wave 1 to Wave 5, Cronbach’s alphas ranged from .80
to .87 for Extraversion, from .81 to .87 for Agreeableness, from .85 to .91 for
Conscientiousness, from .80 to .83 for Emotional stability, and from .76 to .77 for
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Openness to experience. Several studies have shown that Block and Block’s (1980)
three personality types (i.e., over controllers, under controllers, and resilient) can be
constructed directly from the Big Five dimensions [17], [18], [20]. An earlier study
constructed personality types with Latent Class Growth Analysis (LCGA; [40]) on the
original 1313 cases, including the current sample [41]. The LCGA indicated that a three-
class solution fit the data the best and the entropy was .91, which indicated a high
study’s classification of personality types (See [41] for specific scores on Big Five traits
for each personality type). In our sample, there were 120 over controllers, 78 under
controllers, and 145 resilient among the 343 participants in the younger cohort. There
were 57 over controllers, 53 under controllers, and 71 resilient among the 181
Participants’ friendship quality from 12 to 20 years (i.e., from Wave1 to Wave 5) and
romantic relationship quality during young adulthood (i.e., 21 and 25 years at Wave 6)
were assessed with Network of Relationships Inventory (NRI; [43]). This inventory
measures participants’ perceptions of support from their best friend or romantic partner,
negative interaction with their best friend or romantic partner, and perceived dominance
from their best friend or romantic partner. Support was assessed with twelve items,
including items from different subscales tapping into companionship, instrumental aid,
romantic relationship. A sample item was “How often do you turn to this person for
support with personal problems?” Negative interaction was measured with six items
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from two subscales tapping conflict and antagonism. A sample item was “How much do
you and this person get upset with or mad at each other?” Perceived dominance was
assessed with six items from two subscales tapping the extent to which adolescents
were controlled and dominated by their best friend or romantic partner. A sample item
was “How often does this person get his/her way when you two do not agree about what
point Likert scale, ranging from 1 (never) to 5 (always). The NRI has good predictive,
factorial, and construct validity (Furman, 1996). In the current study, across the five
waves, Cronbach’s alphas ranged from .91 to .93 for perceived support from best friend,
from .81 to .87 for negative interaction with best friend, and from .81 to .86 for perceived
dominance from best friend. At Wave 6, Cronbach’s alphas were .92 for perceived
support from romantic partner, 90 for negative interaction with romantic partner, and .88
RELATED STUDY
Influences Of the multiple different early and later theories of love, there are two specific
The first is a theory presented by Zick Rubin named The Theory of Liking vs. Loving.
In his theory, to define romantic love, Rubin concludes that attachment, caring, and
intimacy are the three main principles that are key to the difference of liking one person
and loving them. Rubin states that if a person simply enjoys another's presence and
spending time with them, that person only likes the other. However, if a person shares a
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strong desire for intimacy and contact, as well as cares equally about the other's needs
and their own, the person loves the other. [5] In Sternberg's theory, one of his main
using it to help define the difference between compassionate and passionate love.
The second, presented by John Lee, is the color wheel model of love. In his theory,
using the analogy of primary colors to love, Lee defines the three different styles of love:
Eros, Ludos, and Storge. Most importantly within his theory, he concludes that these
three primary styles, like the making of complementary colors, can be combined to make
secondary forms of love. [6] In Sternberg's theory, he presents, like Lee, that through the
combination of his three main principles, different forms of love are created.
single bundle of positive feelings. In the Thomsonian model, love is a mixture of multiple
feeling that, when brought together, produce the feeling. The Thurstonian model is the
closest to the triangular theory of love, and dictates that love is made up of equal parts
that are more easily understood on their own than as a whole. In this model, the various
factors are equal in their contribution to the feeling, and could be disconnected from
each other and with the actions they produce so as to form seven different kinds of love
experiences (nonlove is not represented). The size of the triangle functions to represent
the "amount" of love—the bigger the triangle, the greater the love. Each corner has its
own type of love and provides different combinations to create different types of love
and labels for them. The shape of the triangle functions to represent the "style" of love,
Non-love: The absence of any of the three types of love. No connection. Indifferent to
relationship.
considered "puppy love" or relationships that have not become serious yet. [11]
Romantic relationships often start out as infatuated love and become romantic love as
love may deteriorate into empty love. In an arranged marriage, the spouses' relationship
may begin as empty love and develop into another form, indicating "how empty love
need not be the terminal state of a long-term relationship ... [but] the beginning rather
deep affection and commitment remain. The love ideally shared between family
members is a form of companionate love, as is the love between close friends who have
Fatuous love can be exemplified by a whirlwind courtship and marriage—it has points of
passion and commitment but no intimacy. An example of this is "love at first sight”. [11]
which people strive towards. Of the seven varieties of love, consummate love is
theorized to be that love associated with the "perfect couple". According to Sternberg,
these couples will continue to have great sex fifteen years or more into the relationship,
they cannot imagine themselves happier over the long-term with anyone else, they
overcome their few difficulties gracefully, and each delight in the relationship with one
other. [14] However, Sternberg cautions that maintaining a consummate love may be
even harder than achieving it. He stresses the importance of translating the components
of love into action. "Without expression," he warns, "even the greatest of loves can
die."[15] Thus, consummate love may not be permanent. [citation needed] If passion is
lost over time, it may change into companionate love. Consummate love is the most
satisfying kind of adult relation because it combines all pieces of the triangle into this
one type of love. It is the ideal kind of relationship. These kinds of relationships can be
found over long periods of time or idealistic relationships found in movies. [11]
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Sternberg's triangular theory of love provides a strong foundation for his later theory
of love, entitled Love as a Story. [16] In this theory, he explains that the large numbers
of unique and different love stories convey different ways of how love is understood. He
believes, over time, this exposure helps a person determine what love is or what it
should be to them. These two theories create Sternberg's duplex theory of love. [17]
"Personal relationships that have the greatest longevity and satisfaction are those in
during which relationships and social competence become increasingly central identity
( Collins and Laursen, (2000), Furman and Buhrmester, (1985), Zarret and Eccles,
including less frequent conflict and greater peer-rated friendship attachment, even after
controlling for several confounds including earlier relationship quality, income, and
emotions may guide interactions with others at the same time relationships become
invest in their close relationships so that they can rely on strong social support in future
2001, Lyubomirsky et al., 2005). This theory further suggests a likely link of adolescent
affect to long-term outcomes. Not only do those with negative affect lack the drive to
build social connections, but their existing relationships may suffer due to the potential
neglect and negativity as well. Negative affect may decrease the likelihood of forming
relationships with positive qualities and may result in lower relationship satisfaction. On
the other hand, positive affect encourages individuals to invest in their relationships,
Importantly, negative and positive affect appear linked to different aspects of relationship
quality and are considered to be separate affective dimensions, rather than opposite
ends of a general affect trait (Diener and Emmons, 1984, Huppert and Whittington,
2003).
Romantic relationship success during young adulthood has been defined in many
ways. For the purposes of this study, we focus on specific relationship characteristics
Overwhelmingly, the most cited negative romantic quality is hostile conflict. In a married
sample, negative affect was significantly related to poor conflict management strategies
(Krokoff, 1987). Gottman (1994) found that stable, high quality marriages, are
Negative affect was related to individual’s recalled amount of conflict in past romantic
relationships as well (Berry & Willingham, 1997). Prior research on close friendships has
negative conflict and are also better able to manage conflict when it arises, while those
with greater negative affect tend to report more frequent conflict and poor coping
its association with attachment behaviors (Banse, 2004, Cobb et al., 2001, Creasey et
al., 1999, Li and Chan, 2012). Attachment behaviors along two dimensions (anxiety and
avoidance) have been identified, with low levels on both dimensions representing secure
attachment (Brennan, Clark, & Shaver, 1998). Insecure attachment behaviors have
been associated with fewer positive emotions, greater negative emotions, difficulties
regulating affect and managing conflict, and poorer relationship quality (Collins and
Read, 1990, Kobak and Sceery, 1988, Meyer et al., 2015). Specifically, attachment
theory posits that secure attachment is associated with healthy affect regulation
(Mikulincer, Shaver, & Pereg, 2003). Indeed, working models of attachment contain
affective components (Collins & Read, 1994) and experimental studies have linked
primed insecure attachment styles to negative affect whereas primed secure attachment
styles were linked to greater positive affect (Rowe & Carnelley, 2003).
Affect and emotion regulation have also been strongly tied to attachment
behaviors that impact friend and romantic relationships during adolescence and into
adulthood (Cassidy, 1994). Thus, affect during adolescence may play a critical role in
developing attachment behaviors that are likely to impact later relationship outcomes.
Importantly, prior research has indicated that individuals may be unreliable in reporting
complex, cognitive processes such as attachment processes (Main and Goldwyn, 1985,
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Nisbett and Wilson, 1977) highlighting the need to include partner’s perceptions as well.
Affect is likely to be linked to insecure attachment behaviors, but the role of affect in
predicting such behaviors over time has not been fully explored.
Finally, affect is likely linked to young adult romantic competence given the
centrality of affect in the experience of close relationships. Affect likely contributes to the
romantic abilities (i.e., romantic competence) is linked to greater well-being and more
satisfied relationships (Montgomery, 2005, Reis et al., 2000). Yet, whether affect
been directly assessed. Relatedly, romantic competence has been proposed as a factor
driving relationship satisfaction (Davila et al., 2017, Davis and Oathout, 1987). There is
Specifically, those with high positive affect are more likely to report higher relationship
satisfaction, while those with negative affect report lower satisfaction (Drydal et al.,
2011, Dush and Amato, 2005, Love and Holder, 2015). While there is burgeoning
evidence suggesting that affect may predict future relationship satisfaction (i.e.,
Luhmann et al., 2013), most studies are limited to adult populations and often times,
earlier affect, before one enters a relationship, is likely to influence eventual satisfaction,
Taken together, prior research suggests that affect likely facilitates relationship
distress while managing one’s own, ability to maintain a relationship through conflict
To date, the notion that affect might ultimately predict better relationship functioning in
the longer term has received scant empirical attention despite its concurrent link to
relationship functioning across the lifespan. If affect is in fact a driver of later relationship
Based on the overall hypothesis of the reviewed Related literature and study
Effect is commonly the result of such situation that might greatly affect to one’s
individual by any means. This study is mainly focused on the effects of teenage
Specifically, to determine the causes on how and why these students were being
This study might be discovered the positive nor negative effect of engaging in
early romantic relationships. In determining the data for this study the researcher is
This study will employ’s a systematic approach. Where, the figure 1 illustrated the
conceptual framework which divided into three (3) parts; this is the input, output and
process.
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THEORETICAL FRAMEWORK
This study dealt with the “Effects of teenage relationship to their personality
Sternberg.
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Figure 2:
The triangular theory of love is a theory of love developed by Robert Sternberg. In the
decision/commitment component."[1]
The three components, labeled on the vertices of a triangle, interact with each
bondedness in loving relationships," passion refers to "the drives that lead to romance,
relationships" and decision/commitment means different things in the short and long
term. In the short-term, it refers to "the decision that one loves a certain other", and in
Passion
something [3].
A strong feeling (such as anger) that causes people to act in a dangerous way.
Intimacy
This tends to strengthen the tight bond that is shared between those two individuals.
Additionally, having a sense of intimacy helps create the feeling of being at ease with
one another, in the sense that the two parties are mutual in their feelings.
Commitment
Unlike the other two blocks, commitment involves a conscious decision to stick with
one another. The decision to remain committed is mainly determined by the level of
satisfaction that a partner derives from the relationship. There are three ways to define
commitment:
The attitude of someone who works very hard to do or support something. [3]
"The amount of love one experiences depends on the absolute strength of these three
components, and the type of love one experiences depends on their strengths relative to
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each other."[4] Different stages and types of love can be explained as different
combinations of these three elements; for example, the relative emphasis of each
based on a single element is less likely to survive than one based on two or three
elements.
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CHAPTER III
METHODOLOGY
conducting the study which includes the research design, population of the study,
research instrument and its development establishing its validity and reliability, data
RESEARCH DESIGN
This study was made by the means of qualitative methods of researcher. The
researcher attempted to get the answers to the aforementioned problem and to justify
and satisfy the objectives of the study. Likewise, it also attempted to know the different
This study was a qualitative research so that the descriptive research design will
apply to this study. A descriptive research design will used to described characteristics
of a certain population or phenomenon. It does not answer how / when / why the
study aims to show the effects of teenage relationships to their personality aspects.
The respondent of the study is composed of the Senior High school of Buga
National High School. One of the vital processes to keep this study successful. All of
these participants was selected through survey questionnaire checklist. This sampling
RESEARCH INSTRUMENT
made by researchers.
personality aspects of Senior High School students of Buga by the result of data
gathered.
All gathered data and information will analyze to determine its validity of
The researchers used checklist to get the percentage of the respondents and
questions appropriate for the study and all doing necessary modification to the chosen
returned. Thus, their corresponding answer to the question are kept in accordance with
The date gathered was organized and tabulated according to the result of the
statistical treatment done. In this stage, the service of a statistical consultant was
needed.
To analyze and Interpret the data, the researcher employed the following
statistical procedure:
Will help the researcher to easily tally the date that they gathered. This percentage and
Weighted Mean. This tool was used to provide answer to the questions. The formula is:
Where:
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WM = weighted mean
X = number of respondents
N = number of cases