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These sites are used to display and create of Constant Connection and Availability
personal relational identities, as well as disclosure Cell phones allow people to be in “perpetual
of personal information. In social networks, self contact” with others. This constant connection with
disclosure stands for establishment of relationship others can provide comfort and security in a
due to the trust a person gives to the other party relationship or can lead to challenges.
—----------------------------------------------------------------- New relational expectations developed as a result
of constant availability of cell phones, i.e., when
Lesson 4: Mediated Communication and Its someone do “Seen” you on Messenger, it implies a
Impact on Personal Relationships violation in your relationship with one another.
A closer look at the pace technology has
revolutionized communication says a lot about Some may think that they are not as important as
human relationships. they thought they were to that person who
“Seen”-zone them on Messenger and/or other
Technology enables us to use emails and e-cards messaging applications.
rather than waiting for snail mails and cards. As
well as with the Phone calls can be a way of Others may even use this deliberately just to show
correspondence instead of the traditional letters. small passive aggressiveness towards someone
Aside from this, technological transformation also else.
changes what can be accomplished, creating new
relational goals and norms. Shared Experience
Actual use of cell phones constitutes shared
Cell Phones and Personal Relationships technological experience. Especially when people
Cell phones have come to represent constant correspond through text messages, the engage in
connection to those who possess your number, and the use of the same technology.
how freely people give out their cell phone numbers
varies. Cell phones also enable people to engage in
shared experience even when physically
This is Liza Soberano. She gives her cell phone separated. The immediate transmission of voice,
number only to her friends and family. When at picture, sound, and video provide people with a
work, she communicates with clients and fellow sense of experiencing an event or occasion
artists through her manager. You do not have a together.
copy of her personal number. Whom she gives her
personal number establishes the personal Online Communication takes a variety of forms:
connection she would like to keep. e-mail, chat groups, message boards, and instant
Giving or denying someone access to your cell messaging. Although varied, these forms share
phone number establishes both the boundaries and apparent similarities among them.
the degree of closeness desired and expected
within the relationship. Characteristics of Online Communication
Providing another person with your cell phone 1. Lack of Nonverbal Cues
number suggests a desire for connection with that Nonverbal communication, such as vocalic and
individual and perhaps an indication of the type kinesics, is incredibly important when crafting and
ofrelationship you wish to establish. interpreting messages. Lack of these diminishes
Therefore, giving out phone numbers can be the determination of the meaning of the message.
symbolically done and can be interpreted as a Misunderstandings will more likely to occur during
meaningful action of humans you encounter. online interactions.
In some instances, the lack of nonverbal cues may As part of their study, Boase, Horrigan, Wellman,
actually be advantageous. People become less and Rainie (2006) distinguished to types of
concerned with such factors as their appearance connection in social networks: core ties which
and less distracted or troubled by the nonverbal include people with whom you have a very close
response of others. It may be more comforting that relationship with and whom you often seek
other forms of interaction and can enhance assistance from when in need and significant ties,
people’s willingness to communicate with others. though more than mere acquaintances represent a
somewhat weaker connection.
2. Asynchronous Nature
It contains slight or prolonged delay, unlike the Lesson 5: Competence and Challenges in
synchronous communication where everything is Mediated Communication
happening in real time. The people involved in
communication must alternate between sending 1. Competence and Challenges in Mediated
and receiving. This nature provides more time to Communication
consider the messages of others and to formulate
messages. Mediated Communication: technologies that
connect people who communicate without being
According to Duck and McMahan (2009) there were face to face. Nobody would downplay the
two observations between online communication challenges of communicating in face-to-face
and other forms of interaction: situations. But communicating via the Internet or
phone has its own set of issues.
1. All forms of interaction have unique benefits and
challenges. Computer-mediated Communication
2. As observed with instant messages, how online ◇ E-mail
communication is used has as much to do with its ◇ Instant messaging
quality as its actual nature. ◇ Social networking websites 4
Social Media Etiquette: What’s Safe To Share On ➢ Never post photos of others without their
Social Networks? By Scott Steinberg express permission.
Social networks - self-contained online forums ➢ Relationship or personal drama is best kept
where users can share their lives and careers and private. If you cannot resist the urge to share, do so
engage in ongoing dialogue with others in the form sparingly - and in the most vague, unspecific terms
of text, photos, videos, comments and other forms possible - for the sake of involved parties, or friends
of high-tech communication - have grown by leaps uninterested or unwilling to participate in the
and bounds over the past decade. Billions of situation. No communications should be shared
people worldwide now regularly turn to social about other individuals and those involved in
networks to provide friends and strangers alike with real-life situations without their advance permission.
snapshots and updates of their daily life and, in
turn, see what friends, family, and acquaintances ➢ As a rule of thumb, uncomfortable or revealing
are doing at any given moment. In fact, it’s fair to personal information, i.e. details of your struggles
with psychological issues or relatives’ fading health, ➢ Demanding that others share your status
should be shared sparingly, if at all, and - unless updates, projects, thoughts or ideas is
acquaintances have indicated that they’re inappropriate.
comfortable viewing this content - only with others
you know in real-life. Note that content shared ➢ Reserve confidential discussions for private
online may further be available for public viewing, message threads or, better yet, phone calls, emails
and inadvertently expose you or your family to INTIMATEor other venues where interactions aren’t
potential risk and/or embarrassment. recorded in perpetuity online.
➢ Never share intimate personal details including ➢ Be advised that conversational nuances and
birthdates, phone numbers, addresses, schools or subtle shifts in tone or personality may be lost in
hometowns online, to minimize risks of crime, translation, and that individual users may interpret
vandalism or identity theft. Never let others know messages differently: Consider how posts will be
when you’ll be away from your home, especially for read and interpreted before sending.
any given length of time, e.g. while on vacation.
➢ Poor spelling, punctuation, grammar and choice
➢ Avoid posting on social networks unless you of words can reflect equally poorly upon the
have a tight grasp over your privacy settings, and individual - proofread all communications before
are completely comfortable with the group of online sending. Shorthand, abbreviations and online slang
friends that your updates will be shared with. should be avoided if possible, and used only in the
most informal of conversations.
Tone of Voice and Attitude
➢ Professionalism is imperative - if you wouldn’t Being a Responsible User
say it in a social or work setting, don’t say it online, ➢ Understand that each social network has its own
in the most public of forums. rules of conduct, social norms and methods of
interaction. Before utilizing one, take a moment to
➢ Politeness and respect are vital: Always be step back and observe how interactions take place,
considerate of others, and treat them the way that so you can discern appropriate rules of posting,
you’d wish to be treated. sharing and behavior.
➢ Avoid bad-mouthing other users as it will ➢ Assume that everything you post online can be
negatively impact your image and casual seen by others, as even major social networks
bystanders may judge you based on these actions. have suffered privacy breaches.
➢ Maintain a positive tone and attitude: Negativity, ➢ Do not share information that online friends have
complaints and condescending messages often shared with you in confidence, i.e. quoting
reflect poorly on the poster. someone’s private tweet to you.
➢ Bragging and self-aggrandizing statements ➢ Log out of all your social networks when finished
should be avoided, and making them may cause using them, and when you are using a computer or
you to lose friends and followers. mobile device that isn’t yours.
➢ Since social networks are shared venues ➢ Realize that everything posted online lives on
enjoyed in mixed company, always avoid using the Internet permanently, and may be available for
vulgar language and making derogatory remarks. “ public viewing. “ 23
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➢ Never forget: Despite their seemingly intimacy,
social networks are among the most public of
spaces - it’s important to conduct yourself on them answer right away, writing a letter won’t be much
as you would in any shared setting. help .
➢ You reserve the exclusive right, and it is wholly Control- This pertains to the control you and the
appropriate, to decline friend requests from speaker have. You might put a lot of effort in writing
strangers. a letter and the recipient may just scan it or worse -
not read it atall.
➢ Privacy and personal comfort are paramount: At In face -to -face communication you have
no point should you feel compelled to respond to command on the listener’s attention . Use of
messages or queries from people you don’t know. speaking skills to sustain that attention!
➢ Before posting on others’ profiles or walls, or Personal Quality- Personal meetings are
tagging them in your own posts, consider how your especially important in some cultures, where failure
actions and/or statements may be perceived, and if to visit someone in person is an insult. When
they may potentially cast friends in a negative light people don’ts how up for meeting (intentionally/
and/or embarrass them. unintentionally suggest to others that they are too
important or too busy or too apathetic to be present
➢ Use privacy settings to limit who can view your
posts and shares. Qualities of Face -to -face Communication
WRITTEN COMMUNICATION
E -mails Do’s and Don’ts ❖ Don’t ramble in business-related emails. Keep
your messages clear and brief as possible.
Don’t use email: ❖ Use separate messages when you need to
communicate about more than one issue.
For off -the -record correspondence- “Delete” ❖ Only send copies of your messages to people
may only mean that a message disappears from who are likely to care about it.
your screen, and not from the server’s archives.
What is the best channel to use?
For personal messages, at least not at work.- Oral communication is best for messages that
A misaddressed message can lead to require a personal dimension, while written
embarrassment and humiliation . In addition, a user communication (with the exception of email) works
may send your private thoughts to others without best when you want to create a relatively formal
your permision . tone.
To shrink hierarchy and expedite team projects. Before you start your advocacy work, it is vital that
Email can help you reach important people and you inquire what the real issues or problems are
save time otherwise spent in meetings. and that you explore the reasons why these issues
or problems exist at the deeper social level, not just
To solicit or send information to a large number in your organization or community you belong.
of people quickly and easily.
Jumpstarting Your Advocacy
To create professional image.
Use correct spelling and grammar. Messages can Developing your message
be informal but they should never contain
inaccuracies. Your advocacy message is what you choose to say
about your issue, its solution and who you are. To
Email Etiquette develop this, you should:
❖ Always include a concise, informative heading in ✘ Know your audience
the subject field. ✘ Know your political environment or moments
✘ Keep your message simple but brief Theaters and Songs
✘ Use real life stories and quotes These are useful as the combination of
✘ Use precise, powerful language and active verbs entertainment, real life dramas, and thought
✘ Use clear facts and numbers creatively provoking information and interaction engages
✘ Adapt the message to the medium you’re going people in a way that no other media can.
to use
✘ Allow your audience to reach their own Pamphlets, comic books, photos
conclusions These are cheap, and will likely attract an
✘ Encourage audiences to take action audience, depending on literacy levels. Challenge:
✘ Present a possible solution make the content and design educate and
entertain.
Delivering Your Message
Press Release
This aims to attract journalists to cover an
upcoming event or one that has just occurred.