Dating (older) women

Why she is dating you in the first place:

- Older women are past their peek at 18-21
- They want to feel beautiful, youthful, loved and appreciated again
- They want to have fun
- You successfully impressed them and made them curious, intrigued

Things you MUST ALWAYS keep in mind:

- Be youthful (energic) but still mature
- Don’t be immature, silly
- STRONG eye contact
- Listen to her actively and ask intriguing, partly also flirty questions
- Be a gentleman  pay attention to details and show her that you are present
and not distracted
- Be direct and confident with your intentions  show her through teasing and
eye teasing your attraction
- Don’t EVER make her feel like she’s your mom or older sister  be based

Things you must do:

- Be youthful (energetic)
- Be mature
- ALWAYS strong eye contact
- Be active and flirty in the conversation
- Be a gentleman  open doors, pull the chair, guide her  YOU MUST OWN
THESE ACTIONS, CONFIDENCE IS CRUCIAL
- Be direct and confident with your attraction

Things NOT to do:

- Don’t be immature and silly

- Don’t waste time
- Don’t make her feel like she’s your mom or older sister
- Don’t try to play any stupid, childish (mind) games
What to say if she brings up the age gap:

- Im Ausweis steht ein Alter, aber hier ist es ein anderes Alter
- Ich stehe auf Frauen mit Substanz und Klasse
- Ich stehe auf sanfte und fügsame Frauen

Green flags that it is on:

- She compliments you in any possible way

- She primps for you (this means that the makes herself look better for you, e.g.
putting lip stick on whilst at the rest room)
- She touches you often

Flirting lines:

- Du lässt dieses Kleid fantastisch aussehen

- Ich weiß noch nicht genau, was es ist, aber etwas an dir gefällt mir
- Wenn du weiter so redest, werde ich dich versohlen müssen
- Was werde ich mit dir machen

How to pass shit-tests:

To pass every shit-test you must hold your frame of confidence and non-
reactiveness. That is going to destroy the frame she is trying to view you
through. After that slowly change the subject, as you don’t want to be caught
in it.

What to do if you did a mistake:

It is crucial to not make a big deal out of it, don’t bring it up, simply continue
smoothly. If you feel that you are now in worse position, don’t try to safe the
situation by constantly thinking about how good it was before. NEVER think
about how it was, think about how it is going NOW. Be happy with your set
every time and never overthink something said or done.