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Amer. J . Orthopsychiat. 58(3), July 1988

CHILD CUSTODY MEDIATION:


An Int e rdiscipIinary Synthesis

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Elizabeth J. Koopman, Ph.D., and E. Joan Hunt, Ph.D.

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The high divorce rate and increasing number of children affected by divorce

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have paralleled major changes both in divorce law and in the ways in which
social conflicts are resolved. Principles of contemporary law and conflict
resolution are joined with the findings of research on child development in
families of divorce in a conceptual synthesis relevant to the practice of child
custody mediation.

L awyers, judges, teachers, clergy, and


mental health workers, along with the
general populace in America today, are
phy and procedure with regard to marital
dissolution (Freed & Walker, 1988; Kolko,
1985; Krause, 1986; Weitzman, 1985; Wey-
aware of the high divorce rates in our coun- rauch & Karz, 1983). While some have
try and are increasingly concerned about taken the position that these changes have
the concomitant distress suffered by chil- themselves been major contributors to the
dren of divorce and their parents (Felner & increased divorce rates (Krause, 1986; Van-
Terre. 1987: Gardner, 1976: Wallerstein ton, 1977), most scholars in the field have
& Kelly, 1980; Weitzman, 1985). There has concluded that much more complex com-
been a conscientious search for ways to help binations of personal and societal factors
minimize the intensity and duration of the have contributed to those increases in the
pain and disequilibrium of this common fa- post-World War I1 years. The latter have
milial crisis (Cantor & Drake, 1983; postulated that changes in the laws pertain-
Hodges, 1986; Kressel, 1985; Saposnek, ing to marriage, divorce, and child custody
1983; Wheeler, 1980). The success of this have been more reflective than determina-
effort is likely to depend on the develop- tive of-or at least have interacted with-

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ment of multidisciplinary bases of knowl- changes in societal values and behavior
edge and theory and on interdisciplinary co- (Levinger & Moles, 1979; Nadelson & Po-

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operation in inquiry and practice. This lonsky, 1984). In addition, both anecdotal
article outlines the theoretical foundations accounts and research results, such as the
for one such effort at interprofessional syn- California divorce data collected by Weitz-
thesis. man (1985), have documented detrimental
During the past two decades there have outcomes of seemingly benevolently moti-
been significant changes in legal philoso- vated legal reforms. Such findings, along

A revised \,ersion of n paper submitted to the Journal in November 1987.

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with evidence regarding a decrease of pa-
ternal involvement in the lives of children
of divorce (Furstenberg & Nord, 1985;
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contribute much to the postdivorce well-


being of families.
The purposes of this article, then, are to
Hetherington, Cox, & Cox, 1982: McCant, highlight and integrate contemporary prin-
1987; Wallerstein & Corbin, 1986) man- ciples of family law, disputlc resolution, and

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date a comprehensive examination of the postdivorce child development so as to pro-
relationship of the law to fairness and qual- vide a comprehensive framework within
ity of life for all persons experiencing di- which custody mediation goals and strate-
vorce. gies can be formulated, and both service
This paper, however, will focus on the delivery and research protocols can be es-
implications of legal and societal changes tablished.
as they apply to a potential diminution of
harm to parents and children in the divorce CHANGES IN DIVORCE LA\V
and postdivorce periods. The analysis will Although the bulk of both the statutory
take into consideration another societal phe- and case law in domestic relations resides
nomenon that has become increasingly ev- within the jurisdiction of the states, and de-
ident in the last two decades. In addition to spite the continuing variations of the laws
the evolution of legal and societal ideas among the jurisdictions, there are definite,
about marriage and divorce, the postwar identifiable, and seemingly irreversible mod-
years have also seen advances in the under- ifications in divorce law that have very im-
standing and resolution of human conflict portant implications for both divorcing par-
(Burton, 1987; Deutsch, 1973; Fisher & ents and their children (Freed & Walker,
Ury, 1981: Folberg & Taylor, 1984: Pruitt 1988; Krause, 1986; Wcitzman, 1985).
& Rubin, 1986). These changes in thinking Those reform categories of particular im-
have helped generate a now widely visible portance can be summarized as follows:
“social movement” variously labeled as “CO- I . Grounds for divorce. All states today
operative conflict resolution” or “nonad- have some form of no-fault divorce such as
versarial dispute resolution,” of which child irretrievable breakdown, incompatibility,
custody mediation is but one form. mutual consent, or living separate and apart.
Fortunately, along with these societal Yet 20 states still retain the option for
trends there is developing an increasingly spouses to file for divorce on some form of
rich and relevant data base regarding the traditional fault ground.
complex phenomena of stress and adapta- 2. Definition of “property.*’ Nonmone-
tion inherent in the process of marital sep- tary contributions such as homemaking and
aration and divorce. Thus, while trauma and child rearing are now generally considered

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distress are recognized as modal compo- as contributions to the economic assets of
nents of divorce for both adults and chil- the marriage, and such factors as contribu-
dren, it is also being realized that long-term tions to professional degrees are increas-
debilitating consequences need not be in- ingly being recognized. Pensions of indi-
evitable (Bloom-Feshbach & Bloom-Fesh- vidual spouses are also generally considered
bach, 1987). Indeed, it is the increasingly as marital property and subject to division.
substantiated hope (Bahr, 1981; Mclsaac, 3. Property division. With the exception
1981; Pearson & Thoennes, 1984; Waller- of the one remaining “title” state (Missis-
stein, 1986) that innovative services, such sippi), in which ownership is determined
as child custody mediation, which reflect in by the name in which the property is titled,
a clinical setting the insights gained from all states have some type OF “equal” or “eq-
research and contemporary reconceptuali- uitable’’ division provisions to guide in the
zations of law and conflict resolution, can distribution of marital assets.
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4. Child cusrody. In custody law, two


trends are becoming increasingly apparent:
the decline in custodial presumptions based
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In addition, although no-fault may be de-


clining in terms of grounds for divorce, both
the fault mentality and the application of

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on the gender of the parent and an increase fault to determinations of parental fitness,
in the number of states that have some kind distribution of property, and allocation of
of joint custody law. States are increasingly spousal support are alive and well today for
using or adapting the custody guidelines of many people in many jurisdictions. None-
the Uniform Marriage and Divorce Act theless, within these reforms there also lie
(Kolko, 1985). the seeds of hope for positive changes in
5 . Child support. In almost all states both attitude and procedure. The proce-
today there exists, by statute or by case dural hope is connected to the “revolution
law, the presumption that the obligation in dispute resolution.”
for child support rests with both parents,
the court having the discretion to apportion CHANGES IN DISPUTE RESOLUTION
child support obligations according to the Nonlitigious methods of dispute resolu-
financial circumstances of the parents. tion, notably mediation, have been exten-
6. Grandparents’ rights. There has been sively used throughout history, particularly
a rapid growth in statutes pertaining to by certain religious groups such as Quak-
grandparent visitation rights. Today every ers, Jews, and Mennonites, and in certain
state has some type of provision acknowl- cultures especially in the Middle and Far
edging rights for grandparental visitation. East. In the United States, until recently,
While the above trends are very real there has traditionally been little use of me-
indeed, their outcomes, in terms of quality diation as an alternative means of resolving
of life for children, parents, and extended disputes, except in the labor-management
family members of divorce, remain un- field. The reasons for the slow develop-
clear. Some observers are concerned that ment of mediation in such sectors as the
these changes in law and philosophy may family are complex. Yet, many observers,
be causing an increase in the numbers of including former Chief Justice Warren Bur-
disputes and stimulating litigious behavior, ger, have strongly recommended modifica-
phenomena that can be detrimental to the tions of our traditional adversarial judicial
well-being of the family members (partic- proceedings. Burger (1982) specifically
ularly children) as well as to judicial mentioned divorce, child custody, and adop-
functioning (Derdeyn & Scott, 1984; tion as prime candidates for some form of
Krause, 1986). Weitzman’s (1985) obser- alternative dispute resolution.
vation, for example, was that no-fault Even though the litigious mentality en-
divorce, particularly in combination with a demic in American society has long been
fifty-fifty equal/“equitable” division of noted (Burger, 1977), it is only recently
marital assets, resulted in inequitable and that the adversarial nature of the formal ju-
unfair, often disastrous, treatment of women dicial process has been recognized as po-
and children. She concluded that, tentially damaging to the parties, especially
No-fault attempts to treat men and women equally-or to those with ongoing relationships, such as
as if they were equal-at the point of divorce. How- neighbors or divorcing families (Smith,

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ever, it ignores the structural inequality between men 1982). Currently, mediation is increasingly
and women in the larger society. Divorced women and viewed as being particularly effective in
divorced men do not have the same opportunities: the
women are more likely to face job and salary discrim-
helping parties in conflict come to a joint
ination and more likely to be restricted by custodial resolution of their disputes, especially when
responsibilities. ( p . 35) it is obvious that amicable relationships must
be sustained, as is the case with parents of
minor children.
The growing number of disputes referred
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of covert tactics and subterfuge. These au-


thors offered several other useful concepts:
1 ) Encourage the parties to deal with issues
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and settled in ways not involving litigation and interests rather than with positions. For
has given rise to new writings in the field as example, a custody mediator can change
well as to a renewal of interest in earlier phrasing such as, “What is your position in
writings. Issues such as “power,” “coop- regard to. . .?” into wording such as, “What
eration vs competition,” and “trust vs are the possible pros and cons of this option
mistrust,” addressed in both labor negotia- from the vantage point of your child’s best
tion and human relations, have become im- interest?” Parents are then far less likely to
portant for mediators working with divorc- maintain rigid positions. 2) Separate the
ing parents. In addition, the generic field of “people from the problem.” By careful
conflict resolution has provided invaluable choice of vocabulary, for instance, a cus-

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principles, especially appropriate to medi- tody mediator can focus on1 problematic sit-
ation with divorcing parents; e.g., conflict uations and deemphasize the personalities
in and of itself is not bad, it is when the of the people who may have contributed to
methods of dealing with conflict are de- a problem. Thus, the mediator’s saying,
structive to the parties involved that con- “This part of the interim agreement did not
flict is harmful (Deutsch, 1973). Thus, in work out,” sets a vastly different tone than
custody mediation, if the conflicts can be expressing the problem as: “Dad (Mom)
cooperatively resolved with an adequate de- did not keep the agreement.” 3 ) Have an
gree of satisfaction to both parents working objective standard as a basis for testing al-
toward the best interests of their children, ternatives. This may be helpful if issues of
the outcomes of the conflict can be con- child support are included in the mediation.
structive and a hostile court fight avoided. Using recognized guidelines and formulae
Another critical issue concerns conflicts over can provide an objective, disinterested stan-
values, which are the most difficult to re- dard with which to assess the adequacy and
solve (Deutsch, 1973). There are several equity of child support amounts based on
ways this concept may be evidenced in the the incomes and assets of both parents
custody mediation process. Gender-based (Henry & Schwartz, 1986).
values such as “children belong with their In addition, Fisher and LJry’s(1981) prin-
mothers” or “adolescent children should be ciples of resisting premature judgments, of
with the same-sex parent” are common searching for multiple rather than single al-
examples. Only when such value blocks are ternatives, and of avoiding the assumption
identified and addressed can the decision- of a simplistic, fixed ment,Jity have proven
making process be reframed so as to ad- to be useful guides in developing creative
dress the best interests of this child and this and individually tailored plans for the re-
family with its idiosyncratic needs and re- structured families of divorcing parents.
sources (Hunt, Koopman, Coltri, & Fav- Of particular importance at this stage of
retto, in press). development in the field of conflict resolu-
Fisher and Ury (1981) articulated some tion are the works of Pruitt and Rubin (1986)
negotiation constructs which were also ap- and Burton (1987). While building on tra-
plicable to the processes of custody medi- ditional foundations of theory and practice
ation. The concept of principled negotia- in diverse disciplines concerned with inter-
tion added an important dimension and personal conflict, their recent works have
provided custody mediators with a power- presented constructs and strategies that are
ful rationale to insist upon mediating in hon- in many ways innovative departures from
est and forthright ways and to reject the use former schools of thought. Burton (1987)
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noted the importance of moving “from the
traditional approach of power bargaining,
negotiation, and the settlement of disputes
to another approach which is problem solv-
new issues in light of this information, brainstorm to
seek alternative ways of dealing with these issues, and
sometimes even work together to evaluate these alter-
natives. (p. 26)

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ing” ( p . 1 1 ) . He thus stressed the need to Certainly, part of the custody mediator’s
address “deep-rooted conflicts” which in- task is to help transform the initial presen-
volve “not merely interests of persons, tation of contending spouses into that of
groups, and nations that can be negotiated problem-solving parents and to direct their
but deep motivations, values, and needs energies into essential child-focused activ-
which cannot be compromised” (p. 3). The ities.
problems of parents in the process of di-
vorce often reflect such deep-rooted con- CHILD DEVELOPMENT
flicts which are embedded in individual’s IN THE POST-DIVORCE FAMILY
psyches. Clinical observations, research data, per-
Associate Justice Sandra Day O’Con- sonal experience, and the popular media all

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nor’s belief (1983) that judicial remedies to corroborate the fact that, for many parents,
many of our common personal and societal children, and other family members, the
disputes should be called upon only as a experience of marital dissolution is one of
last resort is congruent with Burton’s (1987) great distress, emotionally, socially, finan-
thesis regarding the nature of deep-rooted cially, and often spiritually. In addition, the
conflicts, those which involve postdivorce stage of life is frequently filled

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. . . deep feelings, values, and needs which cannot be with deep and persistent residues of anger,
settled by an order from some outside authority, such conflict, and hostility, as well as fragile
as a court. These are conflicts which may seem end- standards of living and other evidence of
less, erupting into emotional displays and even vio- individual and familial failure to thrive. Fur-
lence from time to time. ( p . 3 )
ther, divorce must be understood and dealt
Surely, the frequent occurrences of divorce- with as a long-term process that critically
related violence at courthouses, in neigh- affects multiple members of both the im-
borhoods, and in homes, plus the incidence mediate and extended families. (Hether-

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of child kidnapping, are evidence of deeply ington, 1983;Hetherington etal., 1982; Wal-
felt experiences of violation of personal val- lerstein & Kelly, 1980; Weitzman, 1985).
ues, feelings, and needs, and reflect des- Nonetheless, there has also been a growing
perate and hopeless reactions to loss. realization that this long-term failure is not
Pruitt and Rubin’s (1986) break with the only a catastrophic outcome but an unnec-
more traditional cooperation/competition/ essary one (Bloom-Feshbach & Bloom-
compromise model of negotiation, which is Fleshbach, 1987). The emergence and de-
embedded in dichotomous adversarial party velopment of the field of divorce and child
paradigms, was reflected in their “dual con- custody mediation not only reflect this re-
cern” model. This postulated the legiti- alization but, increasingly, determine its re-
macy of simultaneous concerns about the ality. In light of this constructive potential,
outcome for one’s self and for the other, a a basic purpose of the field of divorce, fam-
posture that is highly desirable for divorc- ily, and child custody mediation can be con-
ing parents and that can be translated into a strued as the creation of viable postdivorce
problem-solving, rather than contending and families, and the mediation focus can be
adversarial, mode. The problem-solving conceptualized as the mutually determined
mode is one in which creation of parental agreements that are eq-
. . two people can exchange accurate information uitable and functional for each party as the
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about their underlying interests, collectively identify family enters into a new stage of life. In
Table 1
TRADITIONAL VS EMERGING LEGAL, CONFLICT RESOLUTlOlrl.
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AND CHILD DEVELOPMENT PRINCIPLES REGARDING DIVORCING FAMILIES

CATEGORY TRADITIONAL PRINCIPLES EMERGING PRINCIPLES


Evaluative perspective Fault Needlequity
Temporal perspective Past Present and future
Temporal focus Terminal Developmental
Diagnostic perspective Aberrant Normative

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Process focus Punitiveheactive Problem solving/proactive
Unit of analysis Individual Family System
Role of professional authorities Prescriptive to client outcomes Facilitative of client self-determination
Procedural mode Competitive, adversarial Cooperative, cor ciliatory
Parental role expectations Separate gender-specific rights Shared nongender-linked roles
and responsibilities and responsibilities

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child custody mediation, these foci are best
understood as the creation of a post-
divorcehonmarital family within which
child growth and development can be en-
hanced (Girdner, 1986; Kelly, 1983; Koop-
man, 1987; Ricci, 1980). It is essential in
child custody mediation that the mediator
be knowledgeable about those factors which
best predict positive developmental out-
and 5 ) the level of econornic stress in the
child's residential household(s). These fac-
tors are not only conceptuidly complemen-
tary to the emerging prin'5ples of family
law and conflict resolution but can be func-
tionally integrated into the mediative deci-
sion-making process.

AN INTERDISCIPLINARY SYNTHESIS
comes for children, that such knowledge be The integration of legal, conflict resolu-
communicated to parents, that each child- tion, and child development principles out-
rearing plan reflect as much as possible the lined above produces a cohesive and useful
incorporation of these principles of child paradigm of philosophy and practice for de-
growth and development, and that mea- cision making in divorces. The concepts
sures of success in the field include consid- involved in this model would seem to com-
eration of those factors (Hunt, Koopman, prise the core of all family mediation deal-
Coltri, & Favretto. in press). ing with children and to be quite translat-
During the past decade there has been a able into mediation practices. The challenge
growing body of literature from which an to mediators and other professional family
increasing understanding of the nature of practitioners is to translate these new ways
the divorce experience can be derived (Heth- of thinking into practice so that the positive
erington et al., 1982; Hodges, 1986; Kur- potential of these reforms may be realized
dek, 1983; Wallerstein & Kelly, 1980; Weit- for the benefit of families of divorce. T A -
horn, 1987). Felner and Terre (1987). in a BLE 1 summarizes the integration of these
comprehensive compilation and analysis of complementary emerging principles.
research findings on children's adjustment As evolving knowledge, principles, and
to divorce, cited evidence supporting the practices of the fields of family law, con-

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importance of five contextual factors asso- flict resolution, and child development
ciated with the well-being of these chil- merge, there emerges a blending of thought
dren: l ) the levels of interparental conflict, and practice uniquely suited to interven-
2 ) the quality of the relationships between tions which serve to strengthen the healthy
the child and each parent, 3 ) the degree of post-divorce family. The previous dominat-
stability and change in the child's daily life, ing focus on pastfuufrs of individuals gives
4 ) the emotional well-being of the parents, way to a significant emphasis on planning
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for thefuture needs of all family members.


It is acknowledged that while the former
spousal roles of husband and wife are end-
ors are essential. Such institutions as
universities, governmental agencies, and
courts, as well as private practitioners, can
ing, there is a vital need for ongoing col- contribute to the formulation of appropriate
laborative involvement in child rearing by research questions, data collection, and the
both parents. It is acknowledged that sub- broad dissemination of results to practition-
stantive, disciplined client self-determ- ers and policy makers. At a more personal
ination is best accomplished with the assis- and individual level, each family practi-
tance of a knowledgeable and impartial third tioner, whether attorney, mediator, mental

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party and in accord with legal and societal health professional, or court officer, can set
expectations for continued responsible pa- up practice protocols that systematically in-

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rental functioning; among the criteria used clude appropriate interdisciplinary consul-
to guide the parental decision-making pro- tations. In such ways, through interdisci-
cess are the factors, such as those summa- plinary understanding and collaboration in
rized by Felner and Terre (1987), which are developing services for families in the di-
known to be important to child growth and vorce transition, there can be real hope for
development. the diminution of the damaging sequelae of
divorce and for the enhancement of func-
DISCUSSION tional familial restructuring in the post-
While it is important to understand and divorce period.

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