The relationship between family and gen Z

I, The relationship between Gen Z and grandparents.

The relationship between gen Z and grandparents plays an important role in forming
personality, education and inheriting family values. Despite the challenges of generational
differences, this relationship often provides valuable lessons and experience. Nowadays, this
relationship is not just a meeting between two different generation, but also is an opportunity
to build understanding, respect and strength from the diversity of genreration.

With the innovation and passion of young people, they often have difficulty in trying to
understand and accept traditional standpoints of their grandparents. The traditional values of
family usually cause conflicts with freedom and creative of youth, which they want to show
out. However there are grandparents where relationships are built based on respect,
understanding and willing to accept the diversity and difference between they and their
grandchildren generation.

Meanwhile, grandparents may face to challenges in trying to understand the modern world
where their grandchild are living. Technology, entertainment culture and rapid social changes
can make grandparents feel lost and confused. However an attempt at understanding from
both sides can open great opportunities for sharing knowledge and experience. It is also the
key to build an positive atmosphere in a family.

The relationship between young people and grandparents also brings meaningful and happy moments. Family
stories, memorable lessons, and moments of celebration can connect generations together. Love and care from
grandparents can be a great source of encouragement to help young people overcome difficulties in life.

In short, the relationship between youth and grandparents is a colorful journey where
understanding, respect and positive interaction can make both generations stronger and richer
from diversity and integration.

II, The relationship between young Gen Z and parents.

1. The role of parents to gen Z

Parents play an important and profound role on the personal development process
and attiudes of each person. Parents are not only those who care for and supply
material for their children, but also the people who convey the values, social rules and
the necessary knowledge so that their children can develop comprehensively.

One of the most important roles of parents is to become a person can orient the future
for their children. Parents are responsible for building a safe environment, supporting
and encouraging their children to explore and develop their interests and passion.
They should create opportunities for children to freely explore and learn, and provide
guidance and support as needed. In this way, parents help their children develop their
independent, creative and shaped skills that they want to become.

In addition, parents also act as those who convey the value and social rules to their
children. They are teachers who teach and guide children about morality, respect,
 responsibility and right wrong. Parents should put a proper example and provide clear
guidelines on important values in life, such as kindness, respect for diversity, fairness
and care for the environment. These values will help children develop a good
individual, social consciousness and have the ability to communicate and interact well
with everyone in society.
The role of parents also includes forming the behavior and habits of children. Parents
should communicate and encourage positive acts, such as respect, hard work, self -
consciousness and patience. They also need to give clear rules and set limits to help
children understand unacceptable and disciplined behaviors when necessary. By
fulfilling this role, parents help children develop positive qualities and build the
foundation for success in life.
Moreover , parents are also the one who provides dedicated love and care for their
children. Love and care of parents are important factors in building confidence and
emotional development of their children.
2. The difference of culture and standpoint between parents and Gen Z
 The difference of culture between parents and Gen Z
 Clothing style: young people prefer wearing what clothes they like. The
clothes must be energetic, unique, swanky and comfortable such as: jeans, t-
shirt, short dress, and some clothes have exclusive designs. Meanwhile their
parents want them to wear traditional, solumn and polite clothes like: ao dai,
ao tu than,…
 Talking: Gen Z are now talking using a lot of acronym, slang, and the way
they talk are also really quick sometimes they skip unnecessary words in a
sentence. Diferrent from their children parents may talk slowlier and more
clearly.
 Musical taste: while GenZ prefer kinds ò music like: rock, r&b, ballad,… their
parents enjoy coutry music or classical music.
 The difference of standpoints between parents and Gen Z
 About life: the generation of parents just want a stable job with the normal
salary. They want to live in security and good health. Besides GenZ want to do
some thing different they choose a flexible job with high salary. They ready to
fight for justice they want and bravely speak out loud their opinions.
 About people: In parents’ mind they will want their son to have a success
career and then get married and have a baby. Same to daughter they want her
to get married before 30 years old and become a resourceful housewife after
she married. But gen Z do not follow prejudices which their parents has
thought about them. They like freedom, they like travel, they want to make
friends with more people, they do not like to get married at so young age.
They want to experience more about the world because they are young and
energetic.
3. Technology and knowledge of two generation
 Technology: Opposed to the huge knowledge about the technology of Gen Z
what their parents know about modern technology is very small. They cannot
study how to use mobile devices as quick as their children so they often meet
difficulties proficient in the use of modern equipments.
 Knowledge:
o Parents have a very profound practical knowledge they have a lot of
experience because they have experienced or have seen somewhere a
 similar thing. So they really want to teach their children the knowledge
they have.
o Gen Z are educated by their parents at very young age they are given to
classes to study the skills or talents they like such as: play the piano, do
judo, play tennis. They are also study calculating and writing very
early.Therefore, they have a much larger academic knowledge and more
talented than their parents.
4. Communicate and understand
o With parents: An important way for parents to effectively communicate with
the Z gene is to understand the digital environment they live. Children of this
generation are constantly exposed to social media platforms and online news,
so parents' learning how to use applications and this website will help family
closer together. Ask their hobbies on social networks and show interest in the
digital world they are immersed. In addition, parents also need to show trust
and respect for their children's views.

Gen Z often proved diverse and opened, tending to support multinational

values and environmental awareness. Parents can open the heart to listen to
their children's opinions, and share their views in an open, non -criticism.
other important. Gen Z often wants to show independence and self -
management. Parents can create opportunities for children to participate in
decisions on issues such as family vacation, daily schedules or even family
budget management. This helps to enhance the confidence and responsibility
of the child. Parents should be willing to change their communication style to
reflect the diversity and rapid changes of the social world. Using a variety of
media such as video calls, short messages, or even memes can help create an
interesting and friendly conversation environment.

Finally, the understanding of mental health is important. Gen Z often faces

pressure from society and learning, so parents show the interest in the
psychology and mental health of their children has a positive impact.
Encourage your child to express emotions and open words when needed.
o With GenZ:
In order for children to communicate and understand their parents better, there
are some strategies they can do to build a strong relationship and become a
responsible child.

In communication, children can learn how to express their thoughts and

emotions clearly. The use of positive languages and expressing ideas clearly
helps convey the message effectively, while creating conditions for parents to
better understand them.

Listening is an important skill that children can develop. They can focus on
listening when parents share their thoughts or worries, without interrupting
and showing interest. This is not only a way to show respect but also help
them understand the perspective and emotions of their parents.

Creating opportunities for children to express independence and manage

themselves is important. Parents can encourage their children to participate in
 family decisions, ask questions about their opinions on important issues, from
family schedules to greater decisions. This helps children feel respected and
enhance confidence.

Expressing empathy and understanding with the situation and pressure that
parents are facing is a way to help them understand their parents better. They
can ask about their parents' day, share anxiety and realize their efforts in
maintaining family life. This sharing creates intimacy and special connection.

Actively responding to family activities is a good way for children to show

their love and interest. Participate in common activities, such as cooking,
watching movies, or even cleaning the house together, helping to create close
moments and strengthen family relationships.

In short, for children to communicate and understand their parents better, they
can develop positive communication skills, listen sincerely, express
independence and manage themselves, show sympathy and understanding
Know, and actively participate in family activities. These actions will build an
active family environment and support the development of children.
III, The relationship between siblings in gen Z’s family
1. The role of siblings
The family relationship in the family plays an essential role in building a comprehensive
family of harmony and stability. The importance of siblings is not only limited to the level of
interest and emotion, but also expands to other aspects of family life. The spiritual support
between siblings not only helps to share the psychological burden but also creates a sense of
security and certainty. In difficult times, the presence and support of siblings can become an
important source of encouragement, helping each member overcome the challenge.

The experiences and knowledge shared between siblings not only enrich the knowledge but
also create an academic space in the family. Learning from each other is not only a process of
transferring information, but also an opportunity for each member to develop and grow.

The relationship of siblings is a source of encouragement to develop social skills. Through

daily interaction, you learn how to share, work in groups and resolve conflicts.
2. The characteristics of siblings.
The order of birth and age difference plays an important role in the formation of siblings. The
appearance of siblings before or then can create different motivations or pressure. The eldest
child often faces responsibility and pressure from modeling for smaller siblings, while young
children often go through the protection and guidance from greater siblings. This may affect
how each member forms a perception of himself and shapes his relationship with people
around him.

The link between siblings not only creates an emotional environment, but also has a deep
influence on the personal development of each member. This influence often comes from
sharing experiences, knowledge, and mutual help in the development process. Siblings can be
companions, encouragement, and even people who challenge each other to rise and develop.
This link not only helps each member better understand themselves but also creates the
diversity and strength of the family.
Meanwhile, challenges can also come from the difference in age and order generated.
Sometimes, comparative competition or pitfall can affect the relationship of siblings, creating
stress and arduous. However, these challenges are also an opportunity to learn and develop,
when each member learns how to face the difference and maintain an emotional relationship.
3. How to build a positive relationship between siblings?
In the relationship of siblings, effective communication and listening play an important role.
The clear and respectful ideas help you to understand each other better. Communication is
not only convey the message but also to discover each other's ideas, thoughts, and emotions.
In this way, the relationship becomes close and tight.

Sharing responsibilities and creating opportunities for personal development is an important

step in strengthening the relationship of siblings. You can coordinate and support each other
in family duties, from caring to the management of learning work. This not only helps reduce
pressure on each member but also creates independence and autonomy for each person. Each
member can develop management skills and self -decide, contribute to the work of the family

Most importantly, understanding and respect for each other helps maintain a positive
relationship. Understanding the special aspects and interests of you not only increases the
connection but also helps build trust and sincerity. Respect the independence and power of
each member is the key to creating a comfortable and supportive living space.