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10 Work-Life Balance
Unconscious Calculations
In my work, I’m often struck by what I call “unconscious
calculations.” These are habits and behaviors we engage in based on
conclusions that aren’t made consciously or intentionally. Here are
four examples, with more to follow throughout the book:
Many are familiar with the saying that “employees don’t quit
companies, they quit bosses.” Like much conventional wisdom, this
saying certainly contains some truth. It’s easy to understand how
leaders (anyone who supervises any employees directly) would
influence whether an employee is happy or unhappy at work.
The research shows that employees actually quit their jobs for a
variety of reasons. A more accurate way to understand why
employees are unhappy at work is provided by McKinsey, whose
research shows that an employee’s relationship with management is
a top factor in their job satisfaction and the second most important
factor in employees’ overall well-being.vi [Emphasis mine.]
This underscores the point of this section: leaders
underestimate the influence they have on employees’ whole
lives, not just their lives at work. When people are stressed out
and unhappy at work, those feelings tend to infect their personal
lives. The converse is also true: when people are happy and satisfied
at work, they tend to be happier overall. Either set of feelings will
naturally impact the employee’s immediate family, so leaders impact
not only an employee’s work life but also their home life.
Impact on Families
Impacting an employee’s home life means leaders have influence
over an employee’s family. Studies show, for example, that just the
expectation that an employee might receive an email from their boss
after hours causes stress not only for the employee, but also for the
employee’s family. Imagine the situation where family members have
an expectation of a family event: a family meal, a trip, or other
opportunities to spend time together. But those plans disintegrate as
soon as the email or phone call is received that brings news of an
“issue” at work. Now the family is having dinner without Dad’s
attention, because he is tapping out emails on his phone, or now the
family is going to Disneyland without Mom, who had to work
instead. Or maybe Mom still tags along on the trip, but is waving
from the sidelines while on the phone dealing with the work
“emergency.” When I relate these scenarios in my leadership
sessions, it’s not uncommon for one or more participants in the room
to get emotional because these experiences are all too familiar. Can
you think of an example of this in your own family?