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STEP Session 4 Kinaiya Sa Pagdesiplina
STEP Session 4 Kinaiya Sa Pagdesiplina
EFFECTIVE PARENTING
Session 4
WHY DO
CHILDREN /
STUDENTS /
PUPILS
MISBEHAVED?
WHY DO CHILDREN/STUDENTS/PUPILS
MISBEHAVED?
#moments of experimentation
#moments of idolization
#moments of idealization
1. Easy child
2. Slow to warm-up
3. Difficult child
How to become a positively empowered
Parents/Teacher?
Two (2) Steps
1. Courage to be imperfect. “do not be fault finder”
2. Humility
a. Confession---openness
b. Sleeps---touch the subconscious
c. Foods---mga pagkaon
d. EPW----essential powerful words
ESSENTIAL POWERFUL WORDS(EPW)
Kind words bring happy results;
Give the child more self-confidence and
help him/her behave better, try harder and
achieve more;
Communicate love and respect; and
Create an atmosphere in which problems
can be discussed openly and understandings
can be reached.
Epektibo ug Democratikong Pamaagi
{Effective Listening}
1) Reflective Listening - maminaw kanunay sa gibati(feelings) sa anak.
2) I-message - epektibong pagpadayag, show concern.
3) Exploring Alternative Solution –
“Paghatag og higayon sa bata nga mangita sa kasulbaran sa iyang
problema.”
4) Natural & logical Consequence - Natural ug makataronganon nga
sangpotanan.
5) Family Meeting.
6) Family Prayer.
Epektibo ug Democratikong Pamaagi
{Effective Listening}
Epektibo ug Democratikong Pamaagi
{Effective Listening}
“Parenting Tips”
Let your child live and experience that: YOU
SAY ‘I LOVE YOU’ TO YOUR SPOUSE!
HUG YOUR SPOUSE!
KISS YOUR SPOUSE!
CARE YOUR SPOUSE!
Oo / Dili ?
Random nga pagpa-ambitay:
Kinsa ang buot mupadayag sa iyang punto ug baroganan kabahin sa pangutana?
#Kinaiya sa pagdesiplina#
PLEASE PARENTS
“STOP CHARACTER
ASSASINATION”
Mga Disfunctional nga Pamaagi sa
disiplina:
Name calling:
Physical abuse:
Ex. “bisan pa ug pinopinohon ko ug tagud-taguron
ang imong mga bukog ug unod, di pa
Nimo mabayran ang imong utang ngari sa ako.”
Terrorizing:
Ex. “ako ang tag-iya sa akong anak, bisan unsay
buhaton ko ini wa moy labot.”
Separation:
Ex. “pahawa diha...., daghan kog trabaho..”
Corrupting:
(himu-ong dautan)
-feel
Don’ts
-trust
-fear
“Sa tanan nga ginadili ang mga anak wala nay kapilian...”
MGA POSIBLENG RESULTA
1. Magrebelde
make the child feel disliked, discouraged and give him or her a poor
to poor SELF-ESTEEM”
Preserve the Dignity of every individual
Preserve the Dignity of every individual
Ground Rule
“ITURO ANG TAMA SA BATA”
KEY:
PAKIKIPAG-USAP NG MAAYOS /
COMMUNICATE LOGICALLY
CHILD PROTECTION POLICY
(Republic Act No. 7610)
• PROHIBITED ACTS
• 1. Child abuse;
• 2. Discrimination against children;
• 3. Child Exploitation;
• 4. Violence Against Children in School;
• 5. Corporal Punishment;
• 6. Any analogous or similar acts; and
• 7. Bullying or Peer Abuse
“Consistency”
“Punto de Vista---Vision”
“Ang T A W O”
*mahal sa dios...labaw sa tanan...
*larawan sa Dios
*Iyang giluwas
*Iyang anak
*Igsoon
*Higala
*Bilihon; Sagrado; Balaan.
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