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INTRODUCTION
Ground rules
● Honesty - We will be open and honest in this forum
● Non-Judgemental - There will be no judgment from us and we ask that you
also don’t judge one another
● Openness - There isn’t just one right answer or one way to do things – we
welcome different points of view
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STATISTICAL DATA (NUMBERS DON’T LIE)
Rationale:
● Teachers are unaware of the health issues that young people face.
Objectives:
Materials:
● Statistical data powerpoint
Procedure:
Discussion Questions:
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DAISY SAIS
Rationale:
● Teachers often refuse to acknowledge that students are having sex. Using
stories is a good way to get them engaged with the issues and to empathize
with the characters.
Objectives:
Materials:
● Stories (A and B), manila paper, markers.
Procedure:
1. Divide participants into 4 groups. Give each group a copy of one of the stories
and a sheet of manila paper and a marker.
2. Instruct the participants to answer the discussion questions and write up a
summary of answers on their manila paper.
3. After 10 minutes, each group will present their work.
STORIES
“Daisy-sais” (A)
Nakilala niya si Dave sa isang text clan. Naging madalas ang pagpapalitan nila ng
mga text messages, nagkaroon ng mutual understanding at talagang nagustuhan
na nila ang isa’t-isa.
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Simula noon, madalas na silang magkita,magkasama at naging sobrang close.
Nararamdaman ni Joanna na unti-unti nang nahuhulog ang loob niya kay Dave.
Isang gabi, pumasyal si Dave kina Joanna, nagkataong wala sa bahay ang mga
magulang niya. Walang anu-ano ay bigla na lang siyang niyakap at hinalikan ni
Dave habang sinasabi ang salitang “mahal na mahal kita Joanna”. Dumating sa
yugto na niyaya siya ni Dave na magtalik na sila. Hindi malaman ni Joanna kung
ano ang gagawin niya sa pagkakataon na iyon. Sobrang naguguluhan na siya kung
papayag ba siya sa gustong mangyari ni Dave. Sa huli, nanaig ang pangungulit ni
Dave at nagtalik nga sila.
Discussion Questions:
“Daisy-sais” (B)
Si Denise ay 16 years old. Mula siya sa isang mahirap na pamilya na may malalim
na pananampalataya sa kanilang relihiyon. Lumaki siya sa paniniwala na dapat
ikasal muna bago makipagtalik. Maging ang kaniyang mga magulang ay paulit-ulit
siyang pinaaalalahanan patungkol dito. Personally, naniniwala din siya na
mahalagang gumamit ng proteksiyon kung sakali na hindi na maiwasang
makipagtalik upang maiwasan ang hindi planadong pagbubuntis at pagkahawa sa
mga sakit na nakukuha sa pakikipagtalik kagaya ng HIV – na natutunan niya sa
kanilang klase sa MAPEH.
Two months ago, nakilala niya si Jerome sa isang text clan. Naging madalas ang
pagpapalitan nila ng mga text messages, at gusto talaga nila ang bawat isa. Simula
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noon, madalas na silang magkita at magkasama, at masasabing sobrang close na
nila sa isa’t-isa. Nararamdaman ni Denise na unti-unti nang nahuhulog ang loob
niya kay Jerome. Isang gabi, pumunta si Jerome kina Denise dahil wala sa bahay
ang mga magulang niya. Walang anu-ano ay bigla na lang niyakap ni Jerome si
Denise at sinabi na mahal siya nito at gusto niyang magtalik na sila. Hindi malaman
ni Denise kung ano ang gagawin niya sa pagkakataon na iyon nang biglang
naalala niya ang mga pinag-aralan nila sa MAPEH patungkol sa paggamit ng
proteksiyon. Sa huli, pumayag siyang makipagtalik KUNG gagamit sila ng condom.
Discussion Questions:
Important Take-aways:
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● When engaging with students, it’s best to establish a friendly and
non-judgmental attitude.
● Empathize with students and try to put yourself in their situations. Showing
empathy builds trust.
● Students are not always going to believe or do the same things that you
believe or would like them to do. While you may not approve of their
behaviors, it is important to equip them with the information they need to
protect themselves if or when they engage in risky behavior.
● There are issues that we might find hard to solve. In some cases, you can
refer them to other agencies or NGOs. For example, if you know your
students are sexually active, you can refer them to Ugat ng Kalusugan in
order to access contraceptive and HIV counseling.
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ADOLESCENT SEXUAL AND REPRODUCTIVE
HEALTH: VALUES CLARIFICATION EXERCISE
Objectives:
● Teachers clarify and explore their personal attitudes and values towards
Comprehensive Sexuality Education (CSE).
Materials:
● Meta cards, masking tape, markers
Procedure:
1. World cafe format - teachers walk around the room to the colored cards
posted around the venue and post AGREE OR DISAGREE using the same
color meta card under each statement.
❖ Talking to teens about sex makes them want to have sex. (Yellow)
❖ Abstinence-only programs should be taught in schools. (Blue)
❖ Sex Education corrupts the innocence of young people. (Green)
❖ Discussing contraceptives encourages young people to use them.
(Pink)
2. Facilitate discussion.
3. Let teachers lead the discussion. Fill in any gaps, correct misconceptions at
the end.
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Frequently Raised Topics:
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them safe when they become sexually active. Without information, young
people are less able to make responsible choices.
❖ The effects of RH education are as follows: First, RH programs can help teens
remain abstinent by giving them accurate information about their own
bodies, raising their awareness of sexually transmitted infections, and helping
them build the skills to resist peer pressure. Second, among the youth that
have had sex, information and access to contraceptives helps keep young
people safe from HIV, other STIs, and unwanted pregnancy. Research shows
that giving information on sexual health and/or providing young people with
RH services does not make them more likely to have sex.
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have sex before you get married, you are going to die”, is not effective. Young
people will simply tune it out when it is no longer something they agree with
or believe in.
❖ Comprehensive Sex Ed teaches teenagers properly what sex is, and what it
may lead to. Studies actually show that its main purpose is to delay sex.
Instead of simply trying it out and learning on their own, teenagers will have
background knowledge on the subject. The implementation of teaching sex
ed can lead to so many positive outcomes for the country such as decrease
in teenage pregnancy, proper family and future planning, and the lessening
of teenagers dropping out of school because they cannot support both their
education and their baby.
❖ If teenagers do not receive proper education about sex, they will have no
knowledge about subjects like the possible health risks – STIs (chlamydia,
gonorrhea, HIV and AIDS, and Syphilis) – and will have no idea how to prevent
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getting them. They will not know what to do if they accidentally hurt their
partner, and will be unaware of any irregularities in their body that their
sexual activity may be causing them. Having no education about sex will not
stop teenagers from having sex, it will just stop them from staying safe.
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ACTION PLAN - BE AN ALLY
Objectives:
● Teachers develop a concrete plan on how to address reproductive health
issues in their respective schools
Materials:
● Manila paper, markers
Procedure:
Teachers should think about these points in order to incorporate our teachings:
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CONCLUSION
In the face of numerous challenges that Filipino adolescents face every
day—discrimination, gender-based violence, harmful gender stereotypes—they must
be equipped with the life skills and assets to help them make the best decisions for
themselves and their community. When adolescents choose to have sex, they have
a right to access not just information but also inclusive adolescent sexual and
reproductive health (ASRH) services.
At the end of the day, when an adolescent, especially a girl, knows her rights, is
empowered to choose, and is heard, she can improve not only her life but also the
life of her immediate and future families. So, maybe it’s time to have this discussion
with them?
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